sbucu57

@sbucu57 (55)

Philippines • Age 56

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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Call Center

Edylinerabago01 @Edylinerabago01 (19) • Philippines 5 Jun 12

It's fun talking to different people everyday. From it you learn continuously. But there comes a time that you get tired, stressed, pressured of those customers or even the people around you. However, at the end of the day, I make...

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sbucu57 I have been working in the same call center company for more than five years and what you said was true. The nature of the job maybe taxing but not only that you get to learn but help other people as well, including the ones who declined to be help. You also...

24 Jul 12

Singing

Edylinerabago01 @Edylinerabago01 (19) • Philippines 22 May 12

I love singing. I sing when I feel in love, happy, sad, stressed, pressured, angry etc. I sing a song depending on my mood. I love to sing love songs. I even joined an amateur singing contest to share my talent. I sing in special...

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sbucu57 Good for you ! Just continue expressing your gift , just be mindful if there are already people taking some rest or if somebody asked to tone down your voice. In my case, I have been singing ever since I can remember that one person once told me I had a...

24 Jul 12

Anyone tried serenading or have been serenaded?

sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 21 Jul 12

This is gonna be our activity as a group tomorrow. My group in Church, I mean. One of our members' granma will be celebrating her 86th birthday and we are gonna serenade her! This is my first time to do this. And I am excited...

activity

serenade

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sbucu57 I had the rare experience of having my favorite song being played in the background when my would be boyfriend was starting to befriend me over the phone. I believed he asked a friend who plays the keyboard and knew the song "Just The Way You Are" by Billy...

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How do you respond to gossipmongers?

sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 6 Jul 12

What they say often pierce us. Ruins us. And, worse, it hinders the beginning of our friendship with other people. I don't know why there are people who simply can't contain their mouths. They can't help but advertise their filthy...

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sbucu57 Sadly there will always be people who enjoy making life miserable for others. These are negative people who are not worth one's time . It would be best to shy away from them and have as very few contact or none at all . Besides this world will still continue...

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Earning A Living By Spreading Gossip

sbucu57 @sbucu57 (55) • Philippines 24 Jul 12

Why do people like gossip? It is because just like charity, it starts from the home ? I came from a family where we were not allowed even to watch gossip shows of movie and television personalities because my dad strongly...

gossip

neighborhood

truth

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Do you access your husband's email or social website accounts?

jureathome @jureathome (5361) • Philippines 18 Jul 12

My husband and I share passwords, not intentionally trading it, but there was one situation before that I had to let him access my online banking account so I gave him my user log in info. Similarly, he had to let me get into his...

husband

password

wife

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sbucu57 I cannot see anything wrong in visiting the sites your husband went to, but sharing the same passwords, though not intentionally trading so you can check on him now and then because something happened in the past, though not a major one gives a little bit of a...

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How is success measured in today's society?

chasecalice @chasecalice (190) • Philippines 18 Jul 12

One of my friends told me that her friend is very successful. She has a good job, a nice and luxurious house, and lots of money in the bank. So, I ask myself, are material things the basis of success? I don't know exactly but I...

material possession

success

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sbucu57 People vary from all walks of life , thus one's definition of success is different from every individual. A lot of people still define success in terms of acquisition. Having a high paying job, money in the bank, a business, a house and lot, a car of his own....

18 Jul 12

Being Jobless

YoghurtGal @flapiz (23153) • United Kingdom 18 Jul 12

I graduated from college last April and I took my board exam last June30-July 1. Now I'm awaiting for the results at home. While experiencing some alone time at home I remembered how eager I was to graduate and leave school. Now I...

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sbucu57 Congratulation for finishing your studies and here's wishing you pass the board exams. Welcome to the real world as well.Now you have to hunt for job opportunities that will at least augment your earnings from your loading and accessories business as...

18 Jul 12

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On being a national artist...

bingskee @bingskee (5234) • Philippines 13 Jul 12

I am not aware of the criteria for a national artist award in the Philippines. I have to admit that the recently deceased comedian, 'Dolphy', is a likely candidate. I discovered that Filipinos have different views on why an...

comedy

dolphy

filipino

national artist award

philippines

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sbucu57 I am not also aware of the criteria in choosing a National Artist in our country. But I think Dolphy deserves to be one of them. He is one of those gifted artists who was very good with his craft . The fact that he was a womanizer had nothing to do with his...

18 Jul 12

That awkward moment...

astreadido @astreadido (608) • Philippines 17 Jul 12

Perhaps life is just so full of those awkward moments. Small silly times where you just want to shut your brain off whenever you suddenly remembers it. Like spilling your heart out on your friend not noticing the topic of your...

awkward moments

embarrassing moments

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sbucu57 I had so many awkward moments that I still remember until this day. I always look back on them fondly, because they really did add color to a boring day. Those silly moments touched that child in us that we thought we had lost when we started becoming...

18 Jul 12

I love my nosy neighbor....

missybear @missybear (11391) • United States 29 Apr 12

Most people get annoyed when their neighbor always watches and knows everything about everybody but "I LOVE MY NOSY NEIGHBOR". When the kids run up and down the stairs she opens her door and yells at them, when people stand in...

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sbucu57 I used to have a neighbor who's frame and looks can kill you. Just like your nosy neighbor, he always has eyes for odd looking suspicious people. My kids and I felt so secured just having him around . I may not be a friendly neighbor due to the demands of my...

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What are the first things that I need to buy before getting birth?

chasecalice @chasecalice (190) • Philippines 18 Jul 12

I am now 25 weeks or six month pregnant. I haven't bought anything yet because I don't know what are the important things that I need to get first. Can you give me some ideas?

baby things

having a baby

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sbucu57 The first things you need to buy are baby clothes, diapers be it cloth or disposable ones, cotton,alcohol, baby oil, baby soap, all dermatologically tested and mild enough for new borns. A receiving blanket, towel, a crib and mobile, a lullaby sort of musical...

18 Jul 12

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On Friends Who Borrow Money - The Final Part

Raine38 @Raine38 (12389) • United States 18 Jul 12

If you have responded to my first post of the same title as above (http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2679697.aspx), well I think that tonight she finally got the message that I cannot lend her the amount of money that she needed...

borrowing money

friends

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sbucu57 You should not be Raine38. It only showed what kind of person she was. If she was your real friend, she would understand. Besides when you are borrowing money, no matter how much there will always be two answers , yes or no. And you just have to live if the...

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crap. woke up late!

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 17 Jul 12

Normally i do not have problems waking up in the morning. Honestly! No matter what time i wake up, i always wake up early. I would often wake up at 5 in the morning, my body clock is just used to it. But i do not know what...

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sbucu57 You are very lucky jazel as you have your mom to help you. It is such a blessing to wake up and food is already on the table. Perhaps there are really days that you cannot help but wake up late and that your body just yearned a little bit more time to...

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What is the three best things you like about your father?

bingskee @bingskee (5234) • Philippines 15 Jun 12

I have to say I was a Papa's girl but I did not take advantage on the kindness. My father is an intelligent man who was extremely kind that he does not even notice that he was being taken advantage of by other people. To wrap...

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sbucu57 Hell again Bing ! I am also proud to say I had always been a Daddy's girl until now. He had lots of good qualities and allow me to share some of them. 1.My dad loves to tell stories. He is an avid story teller and told us stories about his childhood, his...

17 Jul 12

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How do you cope with life's struggles?

bingskee @bingskee (5234) • Philippines 25 Jan 12

It's been quite a while, mylot peeps. A lot of things happened. I was not active the past days (I cannot even remember if it's been a month since I last visited MyLot). First, the holidays, and the holiday vacations, of...

love and support to the sick

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sbucu57 I know that this comment is 6 months late but I cannot help to share some of my experiences and hope it will help a bit. There was a year when my mom was in and out of the hospital, almost every month. That was almost four years ago. It was such a trying...

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Helping A Friend Who Doesn't Wanna Help Him/Herself

Raine38 @Raine38 (12389) • United States 17 Jul 12

My good friend since college is in a domestically-violent marriage. Her husband would hit her. No matter who started the argument or what it is even about, she always end up with bruises. It breaks your heart every time you pick...

domestic violence

friend

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sbucu57 How long can you bear just listening to your friend without her accepting any suggestions, even help in return ? How long can she bear having her face and body bruised, her heart scarred ? How long can you keep silent until you get tired of the unending,...

17 Jul 12

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I have been disowned!! :(

krupar5 @krupar5 (287) • United States 10 Jul 12

My mother and I have always had a very rocky relationship. Ever since I was younger we have argued and I have always felt that she really never cared for me. I was not abused or anything like that, but she always finds a way to...

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sbucu57 You did your part in asking forgiveness from your mom not just once. Perhaps it would be best not to be in contact with her except during special occasions. The people that we love usually hurt us the most. You mom sadly is still hurting, so better give her...

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Do you take diet pills to lose weight?

velentina @velentina (891) • Mauritius 16 Jul 12

I have grown a little fat since I went through a surgery. I tried a lot of methods to get my normal weight but was unable to succeed. I even tried diet pills which was a lost of money and time. I exercise, go for walk or jogging,...

lose

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sbucu57 Diet pills for me will not help one loose weight as there are side effects that go with it. My suggestion is if you are really focused on loosing weight to keep track on it. Have a notebook on how often you eat, what you eat, how often you exercise.Then try...

17 Jul 12