tessa9

@tessa9 (1085)

Philippines • Age 34

Joined myLot 14 years ago

just trying to make sense of it all

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tessa9's Responses

Why do people judge others by their appearance?

tinetine161992 @tinetine161992 (431) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

There are people who judge others by their looks or appearance. People judge of what they see and what others looks. Why do we act like that? Even me sometimes i act that way, i judge them of what they look not knowing who really...

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tessa9 I think that is totally normal and I see nothing wrong with it. I mean we all do that. I think it is already innate in us to do so. People from thousand of years ago judge each other to see if the other people is trustworthy or not. It the same as now but...

29 Oct 12

Not Letting Rudeness Get to Me

megamatt @megamatt (14292) • United States 29 Oct 12

I'm sure like I have, you have encountered your fair share of rude and inconsiderate people in your life. At one point, I wanted to yell at them or worse, but I came to the realization, if they're going to be rude, that's their...

manners

people

rudeness

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tessa9 I am very sensitive and I always have been. I was bullied when I was little. They said that I walk weird because I sway my hips too much. I had a couple of ads when I was little and girls would taunt me about that. I had ans still have more guy friends than...

29 Oct 12

Nanny killed two children

shylade @shylade (3132) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

I have read from a blog today about a nanny's fatal stabbing of the two children she's taking care of. I feel goosebumps reading through it. You can read the full story here...

death

mother

nanny

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tessa9 I saw the news on the TV a couple of days ago. it was absolutely terrible. i did not really pay attention to the details because I was feeling bad that days and I did not want to feel even worst. But from what I remember, the crime was totally pointless. It...

29 Oct 12

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Side effect of sodas

wfhchristiner @wfhchristiner (352) • Canada 28 Oct 12

Some people drink soda like water. It becomes the most popular drinks consumed by people these days. Some of the negative side effects of soda: - Sugar content, too much fructose corn syrup that can make people overweight -...

health

soda

soft drink

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tessa9 I use to like sodas a lot. I think it was just the norm that when you eat out with friends or anyone really, you either order water, juice, soda or wine and me and my friends always use to order soda. I did not drink soda for a few months, not that I planned...

29 Oct 12

Do you use your laptop daily?

xorticanz @xorticanz (377) • India 29 Oct 12

Its a question this generation says yes mostly. In fact the laptop costs have come down low that all can afford it. To make things easier there are net books too. I have two laptops by the way. One for official purpose and other...

laptop

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tessa9 I use my laptop daily. I use it before I get out of bed and before I go to sleep unless I am reading a book. I have a graphic and fashion business online so I constantly check my emails or design new things. I value promptness so I always try to respond as...

29 Oct 12

Made the best breaded porkchops

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 29 Oct 12

I don't normally eat a lot of meat, a few weeks back I bought a big pack of porkchop pack (about 6 - 8 in the pack) on clearance. I breaded them with shake and bake, and boy I ate 2 earlier and now the other 2. I still have a...

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tessa9 I love eating meat. I always wanted to become a vegetarian but I couldn't because I love meat too much. I tried only eating fish instead of meat before but I did not work. I always have trouble cooking pork chop though. My problem is that when I cook it,...

29 Oct 12

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sem break is a nice break for the students to breath and relax for awhile-agree?

missjahn @missjahn (4574) • Philippines 22 Oct 12

whoo! just happy that finished the first sem of this final year of mine. i am sure all of the students are happy to have this moment in their lives. at least, we can relax from the school activities and for the projects being...

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tessa9 Semester breaks are he times that a student look most forward too, at least I did when I was still in school. Me and my friends always go to the beach afterwards. We often go to each of our houses for a week or so. After all the partying, we will spend the...

22 Oct 12

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When you are unhappy,what should you do?

libertywave @libertywave (61) • China 22 Oct 12

Everyone has a period of time when he is unhappy.Acording a survey,most of people could communicate with their good friends to talk.They do think it can release anguish.However,somebody who hold the view that everything should...

unhappy happy sports disguss

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tessa9 I do agree that there are times when we feel unhappy. What I do to cheer me up is to do the things that I like. It may sound weird but when I'm bored, I brush my teeth lol. After brushing my teeth I feel sort of invigorated and I'll be ready to do my chores....

22 Oct 12

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American Idol and X factor

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 16 Oct 12

American Idol was not the first in the Idol series, the English American idol was. Simon Cowell was a judge on both shows. However, some contestants on American Idol was that they just wanted their five minutes of fame. They did...

american idol

x factor

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tessa9 I like American Idol for a very long time. It is mostly because of Simon really. The season that I really watched every episode was when David Archuleta was on. I just think he is absolutely adorable. I stopped watching American Idol when Simon left and when...

17 Oct 12

I think its easier to do MyLot when you're happy

ztuberi @ztuberi (395) • Philippines 16 Oct 12

I cant do mylotting when I'm not in good mood. I just can make responses. I think I cant even advise to other people's problem. And there is no good money. When you're happy, you are eager to respond to all discussions because...

good mood good response

mylot

mylotting

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tessa9 I agree. When I feel down, I won't even attempt to log in in mylot. I just don't think that I will make much sense specially for those people who really are looking for genuine advices.

17 Oct 12

How to Forgive and Forget?

ztuberi @ztuberi (395) • Philippines 16 Oct 12

Okay. We forgive people's mistakes...but what if after forgiveness, we cannot forget? And their mistakes are in our mind. And we are always bothered that they might do it again? Why cant we just forgive and forget? So there's...

forgive and forget

forgiveness

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tessa9 I am guilty in having grudges with people. I just can't simply forgive and forget no matter how petty the situation is. I think it is one of those things that I don't like about myself. I guess you just have to remember that people make mistakes and you can...

17 Oct 12

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Younger or older

tinetine161992 @tinetine161992 (431) • Philippines 7 Oct 12

Younger or older? In relationship who you want to be with? Someone whom younger or older than you? Younger? Wild, you and free? Or older? Mature and more serious?

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tessa9 I am actually with both. I am OK to date a guy who is at most three years younger than me. I am also willing to date someone who is at most five years older than me. I don't see my self dating someone who is five years older than me at the moment. I am pretty...

8 Oct 12

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Can you live without a mobile phone?

aejey322 @aejey322 (1004) • Philippines 8 Oct 12

I did! I mean, well... I did survived. My mobile phone was accidentally dropped by my 2-year old son. And when it reached the floor, the battery jumped away from the unit as well as the cover... It was not its first...

communication

mobile phone

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tessa9 I do believe t6hat I can live without a mobile phone. I did not live without one for about two months. It was hard and very frustrating sometimes but I had to do it to prove that I can do it. I have to go look for a phone to call someone or just borrow my...

8 Oct 12

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How do you go through your holiday

nancyfancy @nancyfancy (61) • China 8 Oct 12

During this eight-days holiday,my families and I went to climb mountains.These mountains were really small that I never heard them before.But they were really steep and hard to climb.However,my four-year-old sister was so excited...

climb holiday travel

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tessa9 Our holiday pretty much starts on September because that is my birth month and five of my cousins. I have four cousins and five aunts and uncle who celebrate their birthday on October and four cousins and an aunt who celebrates in November. I have five...

8 Oct 12

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How to begin a talk with a foreigner

agmada87 @agmada87 (2) 5 Oct 12

It's my experience, when I had to seek for a foreigner. I had to have a conversation with them and recorded it, too. I had visited Jogjakarta, Indonesia , to meet a foreigner who must be English native speaker. That was the...

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tessa9 I'm biracial so I can pretty much go both ways. We were having lunch last week and an English guy approached my sister and me. He said that he is here for only a semester in school and plans to go back afterwards. So he just basically said hi then introduced...

6 Oct 12

When was the Last Time You Asked Anyone to Tell a Lie For You?

theSids @thesids (22180) • Bhubaneswar, India 6 Oct 12

Hi friends and lotters Of the many things which is common to all of us is We all have told lies. No denying on this. If you did, you would be telling a lie. Last day I was at home with parents and...

lies in life

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tessa9 I just asked my friend to lie for me this morning. I was running late in a lunch that we set up with a few of our friends. It was entirely my fault because I woke up pretty late so I ask her to vouch for me. I don't know what she told our friends but I guess...

6 Oct 12

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Borrowed books not returned to me

micha5088 @micha5088 (554) • Malaysia 6 Oct 12

I like reading books. Frequently, I discover that people who like to read books are more knowledgeable than those who don't. So, it's fascinating to meet these intelligent people who have read all kinds of books and applied the...

book worm

borrowed books not returned

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tessa9 I experienced this a lot when I was younger. I belonged to a book group and some people intentionally or unintentionally not returned some of my books. I did find some of my books in out group cabinet in the end of our year so maybe some people just forget who...

6 Oct 12

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How can you be sure religion is for real?

Wilson @wilsonburrell (207) • United States 30 Sep 12

I was brought up as a Christian, but have never been completely sure whether or not I believe it. How can you be sure what you were taught is true?

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tessa9 If you believe then any proof is sufficient. If you are not a believer then not any amount of proof will suffice. It is called faith for a reason and I see nothing wrong with that.

30 Sep 12

Punishment for cursing

Wilson @wilsonburrell (207) • United States 30 Sep 12

Should a child be punished for cursing even if they were just repeating what their parent said?

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tessa9 They should be told off and they should not say it again. I don't think should be spanked or something. There are languages that people should never say but sometimes adults slips but that does not excuse them. I think parents should stop cursing in front of...

30 Sep 12

Miliionnaire...Billionaire.....is that your target in life?

Mat_keane @Mat_keane (236) • Malaysia 25 Sep 12

i'm alway dreaming to be a richman. Every day i dreaming about it. I do many partime jobs..more online bussines in many site....but now i'm get a wonderful business..hurry up share with me friend...

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tessa9 I really don't want to be super rich but I want to be 'comfortable'. What I mean by that is I want enough money to be able to go to the places that I want to go, buy the things I want to buy an other things but not so much money that I take it for granted. I...

25 Sep 12