tlb0822

@tlb0822 (1410)

United States • Age 37

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Should i go or should i not go?

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 24 May 11

I am debating right now if i should go or not. A week ago, my cousin on facebook invited me to her wedding. She invited me thru facebook event, its like she created this event of her wedding and invited people there including me...

wedding

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tlb0822 I think you should go even if the invitation was a bit informal. It could be possible that they couldn't afford to send invitiations out to everybody they needed to, or had invitations made up and ran out so they thought the best way to let everyone know was...

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Relationship dilemma

carolscash @carolscash (9492) • United States 25 May 11

I am in a commited relationship right now with a man that I have been with for over 16 years, but my heart yearns for someone else. I am still close to the other person but he is currently with someone else. He has told me in the...

life

relationships

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tlb0822 I think that we have one life to live, and that you should live it to the fullest. Whether it be doing things, loving, building relationships, you name it. So I think you should pursue this old flame that is still burning. Just think clearly about this...

25 May 11

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When again, you said I love you?

indahfth @indahfth (11161) • Indonesia 24 May 11

I heard the song, sung by a singer. Song lyrics like this. When again, you said I love you. I love you, who like the first. The song, like voicing my heart. My husband never says I love you anymore. I really wanted, my...

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tlb0822 A lot of times in life, we get caught up with everything around us. To often we forget about the affections that we need from one another. Maybe all you and your husband need is a break away from everything so you can take that time to reconnect. I know...

25 May 11

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How many of you call maids to clean your home?

Michelle @infatuatedbby (94914) • United States 24 May 11

How many of you call maids or cleaning services to clean your home?? I am home for summer so I help out my parents cleaning the house. I know there are maids and cleaning services but they are costly! Cleaning the house isn't...

cleaning

home

mads

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tlb0822 I am a stay-at-home mom of 2 little girls, so I do all my own cleaning. There are days that I wish I had a maid service, lol. I think though if we have any more children that I will hire a maid service for the first 2 months after having the baby since it was...

25 May 11

A Question About Facebook

bostonphil @bostonphil (4459) • United States 25 May 11

I have had a facebook page for about three years. I check my facebook page several times a day. Very recently, like the past week, I have had to log in every time I go to facebook. I am talking several times a day. Each time I log...

facebook

facebook page

logging in

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tlb0822 I think that it may just be happening this week, because its been happening to me all week long. I have kept checking that stupid box of keep me logged in, and it doesn't work, so maybe facebook is just having a glitch.

25 May 11

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I want to save life...but i can't save mine ..Redcross declined me!

Jane @jaiho2009 (39141) • Philippines 25 May 11

Being the Philippine National Red Cross’s long-time partner in blood donation our charity institution is considered as top blood donor for several years already. I am so eager to donate blood since i already resigned from my...

blood count too low

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tlb0822 I haven't been able to donate blood because my iron is usually low. I've tried over the years when I as able to (not pregnant) and they said my iron was low. I give credit to those who do give blood faithfully, because it is a big help. Needles don't really...

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Are actors and professional Athletes paid too much for their work?

lou_is @lou_is (665) • India 25 May 11

I say yes for this because i know that they have their tallent because of that they are in such position. But it is not mean that they are everything and we should pay more to them. They just entertain us and they work to get the...

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tlb0822 I agree. That a lot of actors/actresses/athletes are paid high amounts. It is a lot of money. I think that yes it is great to have a talent and to share it with people, but getting paid like that is a little bit outrageous. Then when they do have all that...

25 May 11

When was the last time you received flowers/roses?

jasmin_niza @jasmin_niza (362) • Philippines 23 May 11

The last time i received a bouquet of flowers is on October 2009. It was from my husband who is my boyfriend that time. The flowers he gave me were actually expensive because he bought it from a well known shop. I was really...

flowers

relationship

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tlb0822 The first time & most recent time I have ever recieved flowers from my husband was for mother's day. It was a great surprise because we usually do not have the money to get things like that. So when he came home after his shift and had the flowers I as...

25 May 11

do you still have close friends after you got married and had kids?

Lexus656 @Lexus656 (672) • United States 22 May 11

After me and my husband got together and had children it seems like we lost all our close friends. We have a ton of friends but not really any that we call over for bbqs or to hangout. I think a lot of it has to do with the kids....

friends family kids children new old silver gold c

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tlb0822 We did lose a lot of our close friends after having our first child. It seems now that we have a few friends but they all have children also. We now have two children, and we more or less only socialalize with our family members and a few friens when ever we...

22 May 11

Has Criminal Minds passed its prime?

DoriLentrich @DoriLentrich (1016) • United States 13 May 11

I've watched Criminal Minds for a long time now. I enjoy the show, but lately have found that the episodes are becoming a bit stale. While I hate it when this happens, long running shows do have this problem. In the beginning,...

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tlb0822 I do enjoy watching Criminal minds, but it seems that a lot of the story plots that they have been doing are just a spin off of something done before. I think that they defiantly need some fresh material. I'm not so sure about switching up the cast. I love the...

13 May 11

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Am I a failure as a mother?

masang @masang (295) • Philippines 13 May 11

My eldest daughter who is already 16 years old many times hurt my feeling as a mother. She always fights me back with bad words and insulted me. She does not respect me as her mother. Many times I cried because of her ways. I was...

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tlb0822 It is sad to here that you and your eldest do not get along. Sometimes the reason that you may not be getting along is because you to are so a like. It is probably just a phase that she is going through and she will grow out of it. It takes awhile for children...

13 May 11

Do you think watching movie is very important for your life?

wildlittlefan @wildlittlefan (4680) • Hong Kong 13 May 11

There are just so many good movies in this world and movies always reflect on the society and some value about the society. There are some people can't live without movies because they will be bored to death if you don't allow...

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tlb0822 I think it is nice to watch a movie every now and then. My husband and I like to have movie nights were we watch movies all night long. It is actually what we did last night because we just got a new surround sound system. It was just like being at the...

13 May 11

How do you deal with a telephone salesman calling during dinner?

ajk111 @ajk111 (2495) 9 May 11

This is the scurge of the 21st century! Cold calling to sell you insurance or to sell you a new mobile phone or to give you a free kitchen. All you have to do is answer a few questions!!!! How do you deal with this? I have...

nosy

strangers

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tlb0822 I hate these calls. It is always at the worst time. I really hate when they call late at night, when I get my girls to sleep and then they wake one of them up. There have been several times that they have done this. One time my daughter was sick and they...

10 May 11

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man best friend..

jingrade @jingrade (20) • Philippines 10 May 11

Dogs are indeed mans best friend, but why are there people eating dogs, its so cruel to think that dogs watched our house when we are away, they also help up chase bad guyz, dogs are used to detect ammunitions, illegal substance,...

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tlb0822 Those who eat dogs are just repulsive and disgusting. I love my dogs so much. To us they are just like family members. I couldn't imagine someone eating a dog. There are all other kinds of meats and animals out there, why on earth eat a dog. Ugh. Kind of makes...

10 May 11

Who often says I LOVE YOU ?

jasmin_niza @jasmin_niza (362) • Philippines 10 May 11

My husband never fails to say "I love you" to me. Everyday when he sends me text messages, he always ends the conversation with I love you... And before we go to sleep he would kiss me and say I love you ... And ofcourse i never...

i love you

relationship

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tlb0822 My husband always tells me he loves me. When he use to work daylight shifts, and left before I got up he would still kiss my cheek and whisper I love you to me. We often say I love you to each other just randomly throughout the day. I love it so much, and I...

10 May 11

Wow! prices are that high!!

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 10 May 11

June is near and that is school time again here in our country and now May, is the time for me to prepare for the kids school and buy their necessities.. So last night i was budgeting and i had 3000 pesos on hand for their...

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tlb0822 Prices are getting outrageously high. It amazes me how people are getting by. I know that we have had to cut back on a lot recently to save money. It seems like every year things go up and up and up, and yet the paychecks remain the same. I really wonder how...

10 May 11

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Do you have a dream Job??

dont_pick_your_nose @dont_pick_your_nose (2279) • Australia 9 May 11

Do you have a dream Job that you are building your career around, right now? What is your dream Job and qualifications, steps you need to take to get there... Or is your dream Job something that is quite unrealistic, just...

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tlb0822 I am living my dream job right now. It sounds a little bit corny but my dream job was to be a stay at home mom. And that is exactly what I am. I am a stay at home mom and I take care of my 2 beautiful girls, while my husband works. We have been very fortunate...

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Parenthood Adjustments ...

babyEj @babyEj (1522) • Philippines 9 May 11

I am dealing with a long time issue in our becoming parents. When I had given birth to my only son my husband always given moral support but not in rearing our son. I remembered when I got a 12 hours job my mind was always at home...

parenthood

worries

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tlb0822 I think that all men sort of go through this. Some men take naturally to being a parent, and for others it takes a little bit. My friends husband is the same way. She thinks that he is being insensitve because he doesn't like holding the baby or being alone...

9 May 11

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Pounds gained during pregnancy

jasmin_niza @jasmin_niza (362) • Philippines 4 May 11

I'm just curious how many pounds you gained during pregnancy. I am now on my 30th week and i gained almost 20 pounds, but according to my OB, it's still normal.

mom

pregnancy

weight

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tlb0822 During my 2nd pregnancy I gained about 25lbs. Luckily after I had her I have lost 31 lbs. They usually say that pregnant women should gain between 20-30 lbs depending on your body type.

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