vwilliams55

@vwilliams55 (117)

United States • Age 62

Joined myLot 16 years ago

Treat people as you want to be treated

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When You Feel EMPTY and ALONE

bhabycatch013 @bhabycatch013 (9150) • Philippines 25 Sep 11

Hi mylotters, There are moment in our life that even how blessed and happy we are we feel we are alone and empty for a reason we don't know. I don't want to be dramatic one but this pass few days even how much I tried I...

life

myself

people

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vwilliams55 I know how you feel. You are not alone in this matter. When I think of how happy I was in the pass with the situation I was in, it makes me happy but so sad. Eventually you will recover.

26 Sep 11

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i want a child....

jessicabiadora @jessicabiadora (44) • Philippines 22 Sep 11

couples of years being together but still we don't have a baby...my menstruation is irregular i think the problem is on me!!!i'm afraid my husband will leave me because of that reason...what will i do???

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vwilliams55 I hope this does not sound stupid from my own experiece, act like you don't want to get pregnant and then you just might. I even seen this happen. I remember jumping up and down to make my period come but of course it did not because I was pregnant. Just relax...

23 Sep 11

Would you want to know who the other woman is... or not?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30181) • Philippines 20 Sep 11

If say, your husband or bf cheated on you, and you found out about it? Would you rather want to know who the other woman was? Would you even bother try to look her up, and she how she looked like, what's her name, what kind of a...

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vwilliams55 No I would not want to know anything about the woman. I would be too hurt. I had been cheated on in the past and I did not ask but found out practically everything about each woman and it hurt me worst.

21 Sep 11

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When someone you have trust for stabbs you in the back.

kaitlyn_r1 @kaitlyn_r1 (42) • United States 29 Dec 09

Okay so here's the thing. My cousin did something that really hurt me, eventhough it doesn't sound like something that really would hurt someone. She comes over and wants to meet up with this guy that she met on the internet, not...

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vwilliams55 Well I can tell you from experience( I am a older person ) my sister had a situation similar to that with our cousin. It was different because there was no internet and what happend was everytime my sister got a boyfriend, my cousin tried to steal him away....

29 Dec 09

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Have you ever felt like committing SUICIDE ?

K.Rajib G. @krajibg (11922) • Guwahati, India 14 Nov 09

Life is beautiful and dreams are lovely. But in the practical life this does not happen always. Life seems to be a burden and hopes are like burned out case. This is terrible. Whatsoever is your position today - happy or sad...

life and death

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vwilliams55 Yes I have. I still think about it. Although when there are times I don't think about it and want to live forever I relized this is not a normal feeling or thinking. Just like cancer and other illness, this is a illness and not normal. God made use with the...

15 Nov 09

cheap food ideas anybody have some? plz help

easymoney75503 @easymoney75503 (1702) • United States 29 Mar 09

ok we are on a right budget and when i mean tight i mean like 30.00 a week to feed a family of 4 for 3 meals. i need ideas please. we do alot of tomato soup and add corn and green beans. we do alot of mac and cheese, ramen...

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vwilliams55 Boy do I know what you mean. My kids are always eating. Whatever I buy they feel they must eat it right away or it will disappear. I have to hide alot of groceries in my room. I go to food pantries. Coupons don't really help because the stores won't except...

29 Mar 09

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'a man never cry' do you think it is true?

jijomathew @jijomathew (519) • India 27 Mar 09

i think it is rubbish all of you who think that they are emotionless than i would like to tell them thatevery human beings cry when they feel bad and every man is happy when they are happy it is ot like that only woman do all the...

think

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vwilliams55 I believe only real men cry. As long as it is not all day and everyday, it is fine. I was met a guy who cried over everything. What a turn off. He was a wimp to me. I was married to a guy who never cried. I knew something was wrong with him when I realized...

27 Mar 09

Is childhood the most happy phase of life? Are kids the most happiest?

mimpi @mimpi1911 (25464) • India 24 Mar 09

We often say that the children are the happiest of all and that childhood is the happiest stage of our lives. And we want to relive those happy moments. But do you really think that children know what happiness is all about...

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vwilliams55 For me childhood was not happy. I would never ever want to go back to a child again. If I had to start over , I would like to be 18, which is legal. Some people had half way happy childhoods, others were abused the entire time. The fun times were with my...

25 Mar 09

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How do you move on?

buggles64 @buggles64 (2709) • United States 24 Mar 09

How do you move on when you love someone and it's apparent that they don't feel the same way about you? It's been four years since I confessed my love to the man of my dreams, and I still can't move on. I want to, but I am having...

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vwilliams55 For everyone it is different. For me I unexpectedly fell in love with someone else. It was not planned and I was not looking. Next thing I knew I was over the other person. I could tell right away because as soon as he decided he wanted to see me, I was...

25 Mar 09

make a wish

billgatexp @billgatexp (912) • United States 24 Mar 09

this discussion is for all mylotters.... make a wish in here and lets see what you wish for... I wish to be very rich and also a philantropist to carter for the poor and myself...

make a wish wish

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vwilliams55 I wish I could be the happiest person in the world. Without care in the world. This would mean so much more to me than to be depressed and rich. I don't care, I just want to be happy.

24 Mar 09

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Is it possible for love to fade???

shikimurei @shikimurei (284) • Philippines 21 Mar 09

Why are there relationships that just ends? It just goes down the drain? Why do they say that love just fades? Is it real love then if it does?

love

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vwilliams55 Real love does not fades. It changes, it gets deeper because then it is not just all about the s word. Real love is forever.

22 Mar 09

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Do You Live Every Day As If it Were Your Last?

danishcanadian @danishcanadian (28955) • Canada 21 Mar 09

A very dear friend of mine died suddenly, last week. I mean this was really really sudden. A week ago at this very moment, he was as healthy as I am right now, and two days after that he was in the hospital of a brain aneurism. On...

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vwilliams55 I try to live by treating others the way I wish they would treat me. That way if something happends, God forbid, my conscious is clear. It takes practice , but it pays off in the end.

22 Mar 09

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Do you think People can fall in love in arranged marriage?

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 12 Mar 09

It is the main question here. To my opinion, arranged marriage is something where all the stage is set for you to get married. There is necessarily nothing you can do to fall in love and then marry the person. I know many are not...

arranged

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vwilliams55 Yuck no. No arranged marriages

13 Mar 09

Love life

makeupartisteileen @makeupartisteileen (653) • Singapore 12 Mar 09

HI i'm a good listener to talk about love. i'm married but sometime i really need someone to listen my sadness ..and all about my pass ... can anyone tell me he/her love/married life ?

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vwilliams55 Hi I am a good listener too. I am not married . I don't have a boyfriend. Nothing. Plus I am at a age where you wish you were with the one you will spend the rest of your life with. I am not dating anymore because men like me for freebies or money. I do not...

12 Mar 09

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Friend wants to stay with us

ellen_mom @ellen_mom (174) • United States 11 Mar 09

My friend called and she wants to move this way (about 1500 miles from where we used to live). She wants to know can she stay with us while she and her husband get jobs and a place to stay. I really like her, but I don't like...

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vwilliams55 I would not do this at all. More than likely you will lose your friend. Your husband however has the right idea of a time limit. Watch and see how that will run out.

11 Mar 09