xiaohunmeihua

@xiaohunmeihua (209)

China • Age 32

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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It is a waste to set low temperature

youless @youless (112496) • Guangzhou, China 4 May 12

Today on my way home, I passed by a department store. Wow, it was so cold inside since they set low temperature. I really think this is a big waste since it is not necessary. It is also not good for the health since there is a big...

waste

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xiaohunmeihua Hi youless! What you have mentioned there has not reach the utmost point as I see. I have experienced so many times that some guys actually set the air-conditioner at a quite low temp while openning the windows and doors thoroughly though the temprature...

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what makes life confusing?

manisan_ako @manisan_ako (43) • Philippines 19 Mar 12

sometimes, you're in a situation that you don't have any idea on what to do. you can't even determine if things are sign for you to give up, or just a test to see if you can hold on for long...

life

what makes life confusing

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xiaohunmeihua I think the most confusing thing in life is the case I can not decide on what to choose when there are a few options. I may at a loss if the direction is not clear and I would feel frustrated on that account.It is really a great suffering. On the contrary as...

20 Mar 12

It's hard to find a job.

vrianna @vrianna (185) • Philippines 15 Mar 12

I'm 29 years old. I reached second year in college major in Computer Programming but I didn't finish it. I started working as a cashier in different malls in Metro Manila. Now that I'm 29 years old I don't have a regular job yet....

call center

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xiaohunmeihua It is also the case for us. I have come to my third year in the university and for college graduates the salary of the first year is just about 2000 RMB and it is hard to survive even in a modest city in my country. So a lot of classmates of mine have decided...

16 Mar 12

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Evaluating Teachers

cearn25 @cearn25 (3456) • Philippines 25 Jan 12

In our school every semester, we have to evaluate the teachers. When I was first year and second year, we evaluate them through paper only but now it is done online. I just couldn't see any relevance of evaluating them because...

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xiaohunmeihua As a college student I have to evaluate our teachers every semester every year as you said. As far as my thought I will just take it seriously when it comes to the teachers I like, that is to say in my deep heart I want to show my appreciation to them through...

25 Jan 12

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Cancer at 3 years old.

samd87 @samd87 (327) 21 Jan 12

A friend of mine has a little she who has cancer. She is only 3 years old and is suffering from one of the rarest cancers you can get. When it was first found, the doctors explained that she would have very high dose chemotherapy...

illness

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xiaohunmeihua I can understand your feeling.Even as a medical student I really cannot bare these cruel things because I do not dare to face with them...Why would the God leave so many sufferings to human beings to let us fear and in desperate because we have nothing to do...

21 Jan 12

Life

Taher Abdelaziz Abdelwahab @taheraa (1545) • Giza, Egypt 21 Jan 12

Life does not give your desire except those whom work and try hard for it. Is that correct or there are an exception.

life

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xiaohunmeihua Sometimes on the way of trying hard for our desire we finally cannot get what we want but as the proverb goes if the God close the door he would open a window, we may acquire something else instead even though we have no hope for it. That does not mean one...

21 Jan 12

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Quiet sleep

Taher Abdelaziz Abdelwahab @taheraa (1545) • Giza, Egypt 21 Jan 12

There are many of the things that can affect your sleep, stress to grief to simple changes in your daily. What things that affect your quiet sleep?

life

sleep

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xiaohunmeihua I will never get a quite sleep in the evening once I face with an important thing the other day or or get a good nap in the noon if the coming afernoon has been arranged with something need to be treated seriously. The more I want to fall asleep to save energy...

21 Jan 12

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What do you do when people don't listen to you?

squallming @squallming (1775) • Malaysia 19 Jan 12

Another difficult thing to do in life. At times, you wish others to listen, to do what is good for them. Problem is, they just don't listen. They either ignore what you say or argue with you. So as the discussion subject says,...

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xiaohunmeihua At this time I would mostly keep silent and just listen what others' are saying because I do not want to do idle work and I need this time to review my point based on their point. I think the best way to make others listen to me is to say nothing until others...

20 Jan 12

are you always ready to listen to other people's problem?

eynj_17 @eynj_17 (33) • Philippines 19 Jan 12

do you always listen to other people's problem when they need to listen to people. do you listen?

listen

people

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xiaohunmeihua I will listen to others' problems so long as other people want to pour out their troubles to me. I regard it as a sign that other people trust in me and I am very happy to enjoy the feeling. And I will try to comfort them within my ability. I am also so lucky...

20 Jan 12

To be Overconfident is a Good Thing?????

azfarali @azfarali (25) 20 Jan 12

I have many people how are so much overconfident about themselves even if they are not that much fine with their lives. So what u think?????

overcofidence

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xiaohunmeihua I think today a large portion of people are confident enough and some of them are overconfident as you said. Confident is good but I do think over-confident is another thing. Few "celebrities" here in China are famous for their confidence or to say it in other...

20 Jan 12

What do you think about romance books without happy endings?

geekemgirl @geekemgirl (270) • United States 18 Jan 12

I read a variety of genres and am open to any type of ending. But, when I read a romance novel, I only want a happy ending. I get quite annoyed when there isn't a Happy Ever After (HEA). I think to myself, how dare the book be...

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xiaohunmeihua Most of us like a happy ending and that is human nature. But to be honest I feel the story with a sad or not so good a ending do more impressive sometimes and such a story touch me more. Though I do not like it, I was somehow touched by it. Of course I like...

18 Jan 12

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What? They're a School Drop Out But Why They're A Millionaires?

craziestqueenever @craziestqueenever (1819) • Philippines 17 Jan 12

As I was watching the news on the television,they featured the people who are Millionaires that is below 30 years old and those who were drop out from school.The first one they featured was the founder of Facebook, the next one...

millionaires

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xiaohunmeihua I think when a person becomes successful, the first thing most of us including me myself will pay attention to the things not so relavant with his success such as the school records or so. So we would be curious about the reality. Yeah maybe the currrent...

17 Jan 12

What things discourage you in my lot?

befrindwithme26 @befrindwithme26 (5805) • Philippines 17 Jan 12

I don't mean that this is not good site,but absolutely true and paying site.. What i am saying is that what things discourage you i my lot?And give me the example.? share just wanted to know it and i'll response you about mine...

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xiaohunmeihua Beside few people comment on the discussion I started,the thing discourages me most is my rate in mylot dropped so much because one of my discussion was deleted and for a long time it won't go up again! The feeling is really terrible that others do not approve...

17 Jan 12

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Birthday Traditions

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 16 Jan 12

What sort of traditions do you have in your family when celebrating someone's birthday? Today is my youngest son's birthday. He is 4 years old. We are not having any celebrations today. We already celebrated his birthday on...

celebrating birthdays

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xiaohunmeihua One of the tradition of our birthday is to eat noodles. And the noodles is called "Long-life" noodle and we place the best wishes. I know the most famous "Long-life" noodle is like the width of a hair and a bowl of noodle is made of just one noodle. This kind...

17 Jan 12

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