xiaozhao0723

@xiaozhao0723 (25)

China • Age 83

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Are you behind on something?

snowcat46 @snowcat46 (2322) • United States 5 Mar 09

I'm behind, so behind... My hubby is getting perturbed that I haven't finished boxing up the old utility bills and check stubs. You know, from 2008. Little does he know, 2007 is mixed in with them too!! He'd really be bent if he...

clutter

procrastination

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xiaozhao0723 Try to plan things in advance.I guess taking note might also be help. Don't give yourself much stress.Relax.There is no big deal.

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What did you had for lunch today?

dropofrain @dropofrain (1167) • India 5 Mar 09

What did you had for lunch today? Was it a special lunch or the routine one? Did you had something special today with some one special or a regular lunch? Do you take lunch everyday or sometimes only? What is your lunch consisting...

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xiaozhao0723 I usually have lunch at the company's canteen. But i have to order the take-out these days because the kitchener who has an operation this week ask for several days' off. It becomes a torturing thing for me to decide what to order every day. I wish our...

6 Mar 09

Do you hesitate to put your picture up on the internet?

nikky28 @nikky28 (1572) • India 5 Mar 09

I am a little uncomfortable when it comes to putting a picture on the internet. It has nothing to do with the way I look and I look pretty good lol. I am more concerned about security. What about you? Are you okay with the idea of...

internet

photo

picture

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xiaozhao0723 I won't put my photo on the internet.The reason is simply:I don't want to let other people know who i am and how i look like.I come here to exchange ideas and thoughts, not to look for a partner.So it would be no necessary to put up pictures.

5 Mar 09

Help needed finding books!!!

gdesjardin @gdesjardin (1918) • United States 3 Mar 09

I have a friend that recently has become ill, so she can no longer work. She is on an extremely limited budget while she waits for her disabled to be approved. Due to her poor health, the only thing she can really do is...

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xiaozhao0723 i feel sorry for your friend. I don't know how to be help.

4 Mar 09

Would you let go?

mhuy2x @mhuy2x (47) • Philippines 25 Feb 09

If your other half will tell you that he or she needs some time off alone, would you let go of her or him? Why and why not?

relationship

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xiaozhao0723 yup,i will let them go. I firmly believe that everyone needs space of their own even in a relationship. We have a saying here:Distance produces the sense of beauty between people.I guess it has some points here.

4 Mar 09

relationship 50/50

ahsn12k4 @ahsn12k4 (83) • Canada 3 Mar 09

Can you imagine what is happening to my life. There is this girl who likes me also another guy. But when i ask her to choose one of us. she says that she will suicide if i break with her and yes, she did try. she's blackmailing me...

blackmailer

girlfriend

relationship

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xiaozhao0723 I have to say i am not agree with what you proposed.It looks like revenge to get another gf.What is more,this might make things more comlicated and one more innocent girl would hurt.

4 Mar 09

Alone

Xylocopa @Xylocopa (12) • Bangladesh 7 Aug 08

Im working a prestigious company.I hold a high position and enough money to live comfortablely in a flat with my mother.Im not married.I don't find anyone who could be a good life partner.I feel time is running short for me.can...

alone

single

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xiaozhao0723 I believe someone is waiting for you out there.Engage in more activities like friend's birth party ,wedding and things like that.The more people you know the more chances you get.Wish you find your MR./Miss Right early.

4 Mar 09

are you having enough sleep everyday????

lalola24 @lalola24 (130) • United States 3 Mar 09

this is my number one problem.....i am only having 4 and 1/2 hours of sleep everyday...i wanted to have some more but i ust cant....no matter how ive tried..the thing is i normally go to sleep at around 12 midnight then woke up at...

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xiaozhao0723 Is there anying on your mind?I usually get good sleep but when sth bad come up I would not be able to sleep well.Just clean those things that make you upset from mind.Drinking a bottle of milk before going to sleep.I hope this would help. If you always wake...

4 Mar 09

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what do you do when the one your love one won't help himself lose some weight

rocko5150 @rocko5150 (62) • United States 4 Mar 09

I have a boyfriend who i love, but i fear for his health due to him gaining more and more weight. I don't want to be mean or hurtful but he needs to lose some weight but he has to want to and has to try cause i can't change him. I...

love ones health

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xiaozhao0723 Don't worry too much dear.Until he realizes his gaining weight has become a problem he won't do anything.Just help him to find out these inconvenicences. Doing more walking when you hang out with him.Take outdoor actvities like climbing ,swimming and so on...

4 Mar 09

Is it bad to look for a job for a 17 year old like me?

knyn23 @knyn23 (71) • Philippines 3 Mar 09

My mom won't let me have part time job or something. She says I don't need to go to work, we're not that rich, about above average. My Dad says, He doesn't want me working until he can't go to work anymore. Is it bad to look...

job

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xiaozhao0723 It is not a bad thing for you.Try to talk with your parents to find out the true reason behind this.Earning working experience before you could live by yourself gives you an advantage in getting a handsome salary. For some parents,their kid's study is the...

3 Mar 09

Should I quit my current job, please suggest?

dropofrain @dropofrain (1167) • India 3 Mar 09

Should I quit my current job? I am a bit confused at this point of time as to what should I do? I am struggling with my career at this point of time. I do not like my job and want to quit the same but with the current scenario of...

job

recession

time

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xiaozhao0723 I know it is hard for one to do jobs they don;t like.I have been there before.I was in a state-own company and earned hansome salary at that time.But i was unhappy.Every morning i open my eyes and said to myself :another miserable day is begin.Work takes up...

3 Mar 09

do u like to travel by train or bus?

gangulydada7 @gangulydada7 (67) • India 3 Mar 09

hi friends my latest travel was to Madurai to attend my friend's sister's marriage. i went to Madurai by train i really enjoyed my travel by train along with my friends. according to me travel by train is far more better than the...

travel

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xiaozhao0723 I would say train is a good option for going travel.It is safer than plane and quicker than bus.I visited my friend in another province by railway last year.There i met an American who speaks very good Chinese.We talked all the way until he got his...

3 Mar 09

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Does Hell Exist?

imaginelove @imaginelove (181) • United States 3 Mar 09

Do you think Hell is real? or do you think it's a fantasy? Like make believe? Or do you deny it cause your scared of it? What are your thoughts on Hell. When you think of the word Hell, what comes to your mind? Does it scare...

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xiaozhao0723 People who believes in God would also accept the conception of Hell.It is two sides of one coin.I often have difficulty in falling to sleep when i think about where am i after death.I couldn't breathe and move.I have no idea about what is going on in this...

3 Mar 09

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For the sake of my children

dorisday1971 @dorisday1971 (5657) • Philippines 3 Mar 09

This is the common reason why battered wives can’t go out of their marriage. These women would do everything for the sake of the children. They want their children to grow with an family even if these wives suffer too much to the...

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xiaozhao0723 The main reason why a woman stays in relationship with an abusive husband is finance.She don't have confidence in raising up a child by herself.I feel sorry for these women.When violence takes place in a family both the mother and child suffer.If a mother...

3 Mar 09

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How many active friends do you have in Mylot?

ivan2000bd @ivan2000bd (1009) • Sweden 3 Mar 09

Friendsip has a big meaning for me. i cant live with out friends. since from the begaining i had made a lot of friends. some of them denyed my friendship at that time. but after few days they invited me for friendship. they showed...

active friends

how many

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xiaozhao0723 Hi..I am a new comer here so i don't have much friends in mylot. Friends also means a lot to me.When i have troubles or unhappy things i would turn to them.When i have good news,i always share with them.I am looking forward to making friend here.

3 Mar 09

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Giving money to the Homeless

sandymay48 @sandymay48 (2030) • Canada 2 Mar 09

Hi everyone..I was driving through town the other day , watching the number of homeless people on the streets and people panhandling for money. I know for a fact that not all the people are homeless. There are some perfectly...

do you give money to the homeless

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xiaozhao0723 i am quite agree with you here.We have the same situation in my city.Some people are young and healthy,they can find a job simply as washing dishes or street cleaning.But they don't.I don't pity these people.They ask for money while doing no contribution to...

3 Mar 09

I hate you!!!

miamilady @miamilady (4910) • United States 2 Mar 09

Do your children ever say this to you? If they do, how do you react? Does it hurt your feelings? Anger you? Is it a sign of disrespect, in your opinion, or are they just expressing their anger and frustration? I have heard...

anger

disrespect

feelings

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xiaozhao0723 I don't have child myself.But we all used to be a child.I believe they just want to vent their anger when they saying so.That is ,they want to let you know they are very angry about the things you do.But do not take it to heart.Children are just children,they...

3 Mar 09

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This city's pollution is taking its toll on me.

coolmailraj @coolmailraj (2459) • India 2 Mar 09

Now as I am in one of the most densely populated and polluted city world over, Delhi, the atmosphere here is taking its toll on me. I have caught cold after some 3 or 4 years and I am feeling spent at the same time. I guess I...

pollution

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xiaozhao0723 It seems that the only clean place is outer space.Haha,just kidding.If that is true,it would be our tragedy.It impressed me in the movie WALLE that the earth is so full of rubbish that only a robot can survive there.So let's start the environment-protection...

3 Mar 09

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Given once chance to go back in time...

ahgong @ahgong (10064) • Singapore 2 Mar 09

Any where in your past, which year will you go back to? Why would you want to go back to that time? What would you do differently if you had the chance to go back with the knowledge of what you are having now? For me, I would...

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xiaozhao0723 If I can go back to my past,i wish it would be the time when i was born.Then everything is complete different from now.I would spend more time on study and even learn 3-4 other languages.I know i can still chase this dream now,but i have missed the best time...

3 Mar 09

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Given once chance to go back in time...

ahgong @ahgong (10064) • Singapore 2 Mar 09

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xiaozhao0723 Hi,dear.If you want to be a lawyer you can start it now.You know there is an National Judicial Exam every September.I know there are a lot of people who are not law major take this exam.If you pass it,you can ignite your dream of being a lawyer.Go for it.Just...

3 Mar 09

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