zim1fW

@zim1fW (285)

Philippines • Age 54

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I am soo fed up

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 2 May 10

I can drive but the dr has told me that i am not fit to drive at the moment so i have a people carrier on my drive that is mine and is full of fuel and i am unable to drive it.I am having to rely on other people to drive me places...

people carrier

relying on others

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zim1fW i'm wondering how in bad shape are you to be told by the dr that you are not fit to drive. if you think you can do so safely, why not have a second or third medical opinion about your condition. sometimes, physical fitness can be a matter of opinion, unless...

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How do you expand your vocabulary?

Curlann @annierose (21583) • Philippines 23 Apr 10

I expand my vocabulary through reading. I love to read books, magazines, newspapers and anything which has written text on it. Even labels of shampoos, soaps, bottles, signboards, anything. Because of that, I become...

expanding vocabulary

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zim1fW Get yourself a small notebook and make it your vocabulary-building notebook. Then depending on how much you can take, set the number of words you will learn to speak and write each day--10? 20? 30? Start looking for words you still do not know in your regular...

23 Apr 10

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im confuse help me please, i need a serious advice

mje631977 @mje631977 (29) • South Korea 22 Apr 10

I have a boyfriend right now but im confuse because my first love told me that he wants me back in his life, after so many years crying over him, and wondering if i will be ever be seeing him again, but now that my life is okay...

confused

relationship

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zim1fW Missing is not the same as loving. That simply reminds you of the good things in the past. Moreover, time tends to render better the bad memories of the past. The reason you missed him could be the unclosed wound, and the much acts of love you did but...

23 Apr 10

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share your tip to make people stop attached you.....help

anitarei321 @anitarei321 (548) • Japan 22 Apr 10

Is too much if i said people always get around me trying to be friend,too kind too helpful,too much in everything and is make me tired of it in other side i am happy cause people always nice and care in other side some time i need...

attach

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zim1fW Friends normally want to keep in touch with friends. And if they are your friends, you should feel lucky to have them around. But if you need privay, you have to tell them frankly but with sensitivity. It could be as simple as this: "Thanks, guys from...

23 Apr 10

How can we control jealousy ?

alinka @alinka (184) • Greece 23 Apr 10

How fast jealousy can make us loose control?How can love transform into thoughts of revenge and hate?What can we do when we found out that the partner is cheating?Unfortunately there is no classic solution for this.It remains two...

jealousy advice

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zim1fW Jealousy is a helpless attempt for control of other people. And that's basically where your difficulty lies. Control tends to suffocate people, badly enough they want to get out of your way. Contrary to what you believe, jealousy can be eliminated...

23 Apr 10

Do you Prefer to live in City or by Countryside...??

arunmails @arunmails (3011) • India 23 Apr 10

[b]Hi Friends, If you were given a chance to live in two places City or Countryside... which place you will choose...?? City - will have more rush - no peace - but easy availability of what we need at any...

city

countryside

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zim1fW I prefer to live in the countryside, provided that basic public facilities are available--water, electricity, garbage disposal, etc. The calm atmosphere there allows me much time to think things through and not simply rush through things often without thinking...

23 Apr 10

How do you feel about family?

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 23 Apr 10

If we trust in a universe that has a higher purpose for everything, then we must believe that family members are in our lives for a good reason. These reasons may be easy to see and appreciate with some, but for others it may...

difficult

reason

tied

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zim1fW Our family is our closest community in this world, who can and have helped us survive in this world. As we grow older this close community expands into friendships outside the bloodline. But like any community, effective communication cannot be...

23 Apr 10

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Do you able to sing whole national anthem of your country..?

siliguri @siliguri (4241) • India 23 Apr 10

There are many persons who can't sing their national anthem which is very shameful.A persons should able to sing national anthem..It is one kind of respect towards their country..where we live..about me..I can sing whole one in...

country

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zim1fW Yes. Singing our national anthem, which I learned since grade school, comes naturally to me even with eyes closed, and even when someone is singing another song beside me. Singing it is already in my bones, I believe.

23 Apr 10

New issue against Villar

TheAdvocate @TheAdvocate (2392) • Philippines 23 Apr 10

This time Erap is the one to bring it up. Erap accused Villar of using his influence to twist stock market rules. Villar sought the release from escrow of about billions of shares of Vista Land & Lifescapes, Inc. so that they...

erap

philippine politics

villar

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zim1fW Well, let correct a few of your understanding on the issue first. It was not SEC's rule but that of the Philippine Stock Exchange (PSE) which handled the initial public offering (IPO). That lockup period protects the smaller investors from a majority...

23 Apr 10

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Deafness in Men is a sign of boredom?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 23 Apr 10

The expression 'fallen on deaf ears' is one which most women fondly use to describe the impasse that takes place in the relationship with their closest and dearest...the spouse or partner. Did you realize that where once he would...

deaf

unresponsive

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zim1fW Women not being heard by men does not necessarily mean that men got bored with her. Oftentimes his mind maybe very preoccupied with something important to him, and the attention that she expected may have come at the wrong time vis-a-vis his preoccupation....

23 Apr 10

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How can I be a better person? How can you be a better person?

eddyspaghetti @eddyspaghetti (1225) • United States 23 Apr 10

Everyone has sin and everyone is flawed, because no one is perfect. Many people strive for perfection but it is just an ideal and can never become a reality. Human beings are humans after all not robots. I find that I sin and...

better person

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zim1fW Sins are invitations to humility (including repentance) and spiritual growth, and better prudence in the future. If all these three are available, you will grow as a better person than you were before.

23 Apr 10

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Favorite MEAL of the day? Breakfast is most important?

Tallygirl09 @Tallygirl09 (1380) • United States 22 Apr 10

I have often read that breakfast if the most important meal of the day and usually have something quick in the morning before work. I am not a morning person by nature so breakfast is usually either cereal and milk or toast. Lunch...

breakfast

dinner

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zim1fW My most important meal is in the evening. I can usually have my fruits during supper and my family is complete too.

23 Apr 10

How often do you go out to the movies?

joedollarhuat @joedollarhuat (580) • Philippines 18 Apr 10

I personally go to the movies 1-2x a month. Depending what is showing. How often do you go to the movies?

going out

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zim1fW I have never been into a movie house for the last two years. I fully enjoyed watching movies at home with my DVD player.

19 Apr 10

How to tell that voters do not want you

laglen @laglen (19759) • United States 19 Apr 10

Carl Geary died a month ago from a heart attack as he campaigned to be selected for the small country town. Despite his sudden death he still polled over three times as many votes as his rival in the election in Tracy City,...

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zim1fW My punchline to the question is: "You will lose the election." But seriously there is no tested way to do it. Human beings are normally fickle minded and may be willing to tell you something different from what they will actually do. Even in parties with...

19 Apr 10

do you think of retirement?

ivymariejeruta @ivymariejeruta (39) 16 Apr 10

what do you think is the right retirement age? I work in an office and sometimes I think about retirement especially if my work becomes too much and my schedule is so hectic. Yet, I also think about my growing children and the...

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zim1fW I always work with retirement in mind. Save a few here; and few there. Thinking about retirement at age 60 will be too late to allow you to live a comfortable life for the rest of it. You must start setting aside money for that as early as you can.

19 Apr 10

Do you regard making money as a hobby or a life?

monkeylong @monkeylong (3139) • Guangzhou, China 6 Apr 10

Hi my friends, are you still trying your best to earn money online? May I know that how much money have you made online? Is it a very a very big sum? How do you usually comment on making money? Do you regard making money as a...

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zim1fW Money, through online activities or employment, is neither a hobby or life. It is a job. A hobby will not care how much it makes; it is not concern about what money you will use to buy food today. Life also is too big to be encompassed by money. Some people...

19 Apr 10

does the Lord Jesus have money when He was on earth?

overcomer_phoebe @overcomer_phoebe (100) • Philippines 2 Nov 09

money is the dirtiest thing on earth.does the Lord have any penny when He was on earth? give bible verse to prove your answer?

mammon

money

penny

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zim1fW Money is never dirty unless it fell in the toilet (but you can still wash it clean). What's dirty is how people use it. If you use it for good, money can do something good. If you use it for bad, it will do things bad. However, there is in money that makes...

19 Apr 10

who will I choose?

pentagan12 @pentagan12 (757) • Philippines 19 Apr 10

Our country, Philippines, will soon have national election. Until now, I still haven't decided who will I choose as a president. Almost all of them have some negative records and weaknesses. I know I can never choose a perfect...

election

philippines

president

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zim1fW What the Philippines needs today is a moral force that can dismantle the culture of corruption in the country. You should remember that no matter how successful, intelligent, or accomplished a candidate is, if he does not possess the moral strength of a...

19 Apr 10