65462011sandra

@65462011sandra (22)

South Africa • Age 59

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Is it worth fighting if....?

screwdriver @screwdriver (643) • Philippines 12 Jun 12

Is it worth fighting if the person you've been with for over 12 years cheated on you? And all you can think of is that you love that person and your world only revolves around that man you love? A friend of mine who is married...

love

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65462011sandra This is a difficult situation, I am also married twelve years now, and I will probably be so devastated if it should happen to me. But at the same time, one must always pull yourself together for your children's sake. Remember our children is a gift from God...

13 Jun 12

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His friend is a one-upper!!!

courtknee525 @courtknee525 (3742) • United States 27 Feb 12

Yesterday I went to the beach with my boyfriend and one of his good friends. I've hung out with both of them before and I have to say, his friend can sort of get on my nerves. He tends to act like he's the best at everything and I...

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65462011sandra Maybe, he is very insecure and needs to feel accepted all the time. Maybe your boyfriend should talk to him about it, in a nice and decent manner by telling him he has a problem. Confront him, and maybe he will realise it and then maybe the next time he will...

28 Feb 12

My husband has chosen to die...

mysticmaggie @mysticmaggie (2498) • United States 9 Feb 12

After being ill from a stroke, heart problems, and failing kidneys, my husband has opted for hospice care so that he can die at home. He refused kidney dialysis, stints and pacemaker for his heart, and at one point, a feeding tube...

dying and death

hospice

losing a spouse

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65462011sandra He is probably to beautiful for this world, that is why he is needed up in heaven. I remember all my most beautiful family would pass on, and I questioned God once, and he reminded me that to be absent in our physical bodies is to be present with the Lord. He...

10 Feb 12

My Nerves Have Gotten The Best of Me...

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85288) • Valdosta, Georgia 30 Jan 12

I am getting so frustrated with still not hearing if my husband's workers comp will be going through. We have no gas for my husband to even get to therapy on Wednesday so guess we will be skipping that. Were still stuck in this...

stress

vent

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65462011sandra You know that the Word of God says that we need to give thanks in everything, not only when things are good, but even in our most critical times. Maybe start by thanking him for your situation, tell Him you know where you are at and what you are going thru,...

1 Feb 12

Does he love her while still wondering about his ex?

karin27 @karin27 (141) • South Africa 23 Jan 12

I know a friend that has a girl and they have been dating for over a year, but i catch him from time to time still checking up on his ex on facebook, He claims he is only snooping, but not to sure what to think, Does he stil have...

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65462011sandra She needs to talk to him about it, let him know that its not normal still to be checking his ex out after nine months of dating her. He really needs to forget the past, and close that chapter of his life, because the past can haunt you if you do not move on,...

25 Jan 12

friendship vs money

devildate06 @devildate06 (28) 18 Jan 12

I belive that friends are always a helping hand.And from my believe i always tried to be helpful to my friends. But it's really painful when you help someone and in return they break the friendship. One of my long time friend...

friends

money

relation

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65462011sandra It's so sad, but yet it is very true, if you want to keep your friendships, never borrow money, electrical appliances' or anything of worth, because the reality of the matter is, you going to lose your friendships, if something happens to your goodies or they...

20 Jan 12

When People ask personal Questions - How do you react or handle it?

kiran8 @kiran8 (15348) • Mangalore, India 15 Nov 11

It can be quite embarrassing or uncomfortable or down right annoying when some people ask very personal questions about us.The other day I was already late and in a rush, when my neighbor stopped me and wanted to know who had...

annoying

people ask personal questions

react

uncomfortable

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65462011sandra Human nature, very curious, but in essence I think nosy people are just very annoying. Maybe she finds your life exciting compares to her's and wants to know all the gorry details about your life, maybe she get's motivated. Always change the topic and revert...

16 Nov 11

Has the bad economy made you do things you never thought you'd have to?

moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 28 Oct 11

has the bad economy made you get creative and do things you would have never thought you would do to make money? a documentary recently was talking about how people are reverting to doing "adult" entertainment to make money to...

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65462011sandra I agree wholeheartedly with you, I believe work cannot kill you. So if you need extra money, do the part time job, cooking, baking, working at Mcdonalds, waitressing, If that's what it takes to keep the bills paid anything extra as long as it don't go against...

30 Oct 11

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Wew I finally got a job!

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 19 Oct 11

Hello guys! I was so happy today thinking that tomorrow I gonna start my first day of work after a few years of being a full time mom. I'm just wondering what I'm gonna say when the manager would ask me to introduce myself in...

how to introduce yourself

manager

work

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65462011sandra I would like to wish you all of the best for your new chapter, it must be a great feeling stepping into the Corporate World again, earning your own salary once again. I am sure you going to enjoy every minute of it. 2007 is a long time ago, so many things...

20 Oct 11

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Former music lover

ayis12 @ayis12 (544) • Philippines 13 Oct 11

way back teenage life, im dying to put myself in some voice lessons. I even cried to my parents because i really really like it. But after years, i realize what was i thinking i dont even have the courage to sing in front of...

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65462011sandra Singing, singing, is beautiful, I love singing, when the cares and storms of life takes a toll on me sometimes, then I sing. It helpes me relax, and it destresses me. You should sing for yourself, it is obviously still a passion the way speak about it, but...

15 Oct 11

Did you earn more than 10 dollars here in mylot!

airkulet @airkulet (2700) • Philippines 11 Oct 11

I want some inspiration and courage, so do you earn more than 10dollars here in a month. I know that we only allowed to cash out only 10 dollar a month, but I've been thinking: what if I earn more than 10 dollar a month? So how...

earning site

mylot

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65462011sandra I am also a mylotter less than 2 weeks, still finding my way around how to earn more, currently i comment on discussions. Hoping that soon i would be able to do more.

12 Oct 11

changing of account for crediting of paypal proceeds

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90721) • Philippines 6 Oct 11

I declared my BPI Atm card at paypal for the crediting of my earnings at Mylot, and have been using it since then. However, every time a proceeds from paypal will be credited to it, I would always be charged by BPI with PhP150.00...

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65462011sandra Speaking of Paypal how do you go about opening a paypal account, because apparently they not in my country South Africa, and I don't no how my earnings at mylot will be transferred. Help me someone!

11 Oct 11

What would push you to kill someone?

JosephP @JosephP (1116) • Jamaica 10 Oct 11

Life is complicated and wild. A person can be pushed to do something that they never thought they would ever do even killing someone. Do you think you could be pushed to the point? What would cause you to do that?

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65462011sandra No, No, No! that would certainly be a snare that one would be trapped in. I cannot imagine taking another person's life. One will be haunted for the rest of your life, you will never be free or happy, that persons blood will be on your hands. I would like to...

11 Oct 11

many problems

indahfth @indahfth (11161) • Indonesia 8 Oct 11

In recent days, there are many problems that I experienced, and made ??me very tired. If the problem that I experienced, I created a discussion in myLot, maybe I could make more than 10 discussion. I am trying to resolve...

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65462011sandra Friend, the Good Book says cast your care upon Him for He careth for you, Are you weary and tired enter into Gods presence everyday, and he will renew your strenght. He created us and He knows that we will become tired and weary in this life. But He will never...

8 Oct 11

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Perfection

lampar @lampar (7584) • United States 5 Oct 11

Are you obsess with perfection in your life? Do you always expect other and yourself to do and finish a job in a perfect way or you always want to seek out for the perfect lover/girl or boy friend /wife or husband before you can...

life

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65462011sandra I think perfection is good, remember we are created in the Image of God Almighty, and He has created the Heavens and the Earth Perfect. I strive towards it everyday though it's hard. Once motive should be in whatever you do, do it well and to the best of your...

7 Oct 11

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I am working almost 18 hours a day

jaderamirez @jaderamirez (1029) • Philippines 6 Oct 11

The moment I discovered making money online my life was changed. From that time I started to wake up at 3:00 in the morning to write articles from different websites. Then at 5:30 a.m. I will get ready to report to my full time...

life has changed because of money online

life has changed because of online jobs

working online

working overtime

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65462011sandra I would like to make money online writing articles , how do I start?

6 Oct 11

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Prayers

C @ShyBear88 (59347) • Sterling, Virginia 5 Oct 11

Does prayers work for you? I know a lot of people pray to go about a lot of things from help, to guides,or just ask for forgiveness or something. I don't pray very much. I know a lot of people pray or talk to go every day...

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65462011sandra Prayer is not a religious form without power. It is effective and accurate and brings results. God watches over his Word to perform it. Prayer is the "Living" Word in your mouth. We must commit ourselves to pray and to pray correctly by approaching the throne...

6 Oct 11