Fallingleaves

@Fallingleaves (229)

United States • Age 60

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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has anyone met someone online and hooked up to live happily ever after?

paule4129 @paule4129 (968) • United States 26 Apr 07

i wonder if im waistin time or just not lookin in the right places ,dating sites suck you into payin money and you have no idea if it will work,any testimonials will do or confidence building cause im new at this game and im tired...

dating wohs

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Fallingleaves I am not a drunk.

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In what case do you give someone a negative rating

coolcatzz @coolcatzz (1587) • Canada 25 Feb 07

I'd like to hear everyone's opinions on this. I have no problem going through and rating responses and I know when I should give someone a + which is pretty obvious. My question is when do YOU give someone a negative rating. For...

discussions

negative

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Fallingleaves I have given negative ratings to posts that are off-topic, dont offer input, rude and disrespectful. I dont think a negative rating should be given for yes or no questions. If you asked for their opinion, that would be different.

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r copmuters r able to rule humanity

ashar_khan @ashar_khan (6) • India 23 Feb 07

how many of u have seen the movie matrix the stotry of the movie was that one day computers will b so advance that they will start rulling human they will take control of human and make human kind their slave how many of u...

r copmuters r able to rule humanity

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Fallingleaves I'd have to say computers already rule the world. Computers are everywhere even moreso with the developing nanotechnology. But, you are speaking of artificial intelligence where a computer doesnt need human programming and computers can 'learn' by absorbing...

23 Feb 07

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ways in disciplining

vanities @vanities (11395) • Davao, Philippines 22 Feb 07

i believe on using the rod to children who are hard headed and extremes behavior..but some countries have passed laws regarding this ways of disciplining children...which in return children dont feel or not afraid with their...

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Fallingleaves I am from the U.S. and yes, punishment as you describe is not legal. When children act as you describe, who's fault is that? And why are those who are at fault beating the child? I know first hand that raising children is not easy but abuse and violence does...

23 Feb 07

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How will I train my son to sleep in his own bed?

oiixdaii @oiixdaii (1059) • Philippines 18 Feb 07

Up to now, my son still sleeps with us everyday. We just bought his own bed. How do we tell my son to sleep in his own bed?

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Fallingleaves I had the same situation with my daughter. She did not want to sleep in her own room but I told her it was time for her to be a big girl and besides, all her stuff was in her room. Helping her decorate and personalize helped a lot along with a soft night...

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What advice should I give my son?

oiixdaii @oiixdaii (1059) • Philippines 18 Feb 07

My son told me that he is being bullied at school. What advice should I give him?

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Fallingleaves I think the best way to deal with a bully is to take a stand and let them know in no uncertain terms will you accept or submit to their behavior. My daughter complained about a bully and each time I told her to stand up to this other child until - she had...

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advice

zugedanit @zugedanit (1958) • Philippines 18 Feb 07

I've written a lot of articles for magazines, but never anything as substantial as the half of a book I'm co-authoring with a colleague. I know my question is pretty broad, but I'm hoping for stuff of the "I wish I had known /...

advice

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Fallingleaves There were a few times when I was younger and said, I wished I had done whatever it was at the time. So, to avoid the feeling of regret, I just went and did whatever it was I wanted. For good or bad, I still felt good by living/learning from the decision I...

18 Feb 07

What are the ways to entertain a new born baby?

oiixdaii @oiixdaii (1059) • Philippines 18 Feb 07

Have you ever had a baby? What are the ways that you did to entertain your new born child?

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Fallingleaves With my infants, I would sing to them and read books. Going for walks or rides to visit relatives.

18 Feb 07

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Why do good people suffer?

albert2412 @albert2412 (1782) • United States 18 Feb 07

Why is it that the good people in life have to suffer and the bad people seem to have everything? You have seen it, regardless of what country you live in. Do you think that there is a reason why does not God help us?

bad people

good people

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Fallingleaves That is a really good question/discussion. I am more interested in doing good for others than material gain. Really in the end walking the good path is more than having everything. The good path is not necessarily easy but keeping faith at the forefront makes...

18 Feb 07

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The flower that blooms in adversity is the most rare and beautiful of all...

Avichail @Avichail (694) • Indonesia 18 Feb 07

Dear my fellow myLotters, I've been reading some of your sad stories, your struggles, your hardships and please allow me to say this.. "If at the moment you are going through hard times in life, losing things you value the...

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Fallingleaves Thank you for the very nice thought. It is uplifting and gives encouragement to those who have none and to keep going even though times are hard.

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Do you believe in eternal fire of hell?

achyuta @achyuta (2851) • United States 14 Feb 07

According to me this eternal fire theory is crazy. Think about this. If a son is disobedient does a father throw him away for eternity or burn him in fire? NO. How can the all merciful Lord do that. it is all the bogus propaganda...

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Fallingleaves In our beliefs there is no evil. The language or prayers, which are sacred, have no words that describe evil. When I read the Bible, Lucifer is not the opposite nor even close to being equal to God, but rather a subject of God's that did not agree with God's...

15 Feb 07

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what you prefer

datir1 @datir1 (503) • India 4 Feb 07

what you prefer cat colour?

cat coiluo

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Fallingleaves I have one orange/white (he has white mittens and white socks), and one sable/black tiger that looks like a racoon. I got two different colored cats on purpose.

10 Feb 07

fears

ljcapps @ljcapps (1925) • United States 28 Nov 06

do you have an irrational fear? Me I fear clowns. You don't know who it is under that make-up!?

fear

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Fallingleaves I have a fear of bee's but my fear of heights is even worse.

15 Jan 07

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Is it Monday already?

Tisha @TishaMears (1026) • United States 6 Aug 18

Ugh! That's how I feel this morning. I had a fully productive weekend and I'm just not in the mindset to start off this workweek to do anything. I just wanna go back to sleep. Because I'm already behind on some of my goals, I...

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Fallingleaves Ugh! That's how I feel this morning. I had a fully productive weekend and I'm just not in the mindset to start off this workweek to do anything. I just wanna go back to sleep. Because I'm already behind on some of my goals, I should push to do something...

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If You Could...

ljcapps @ljcapps (1925) • United States 12 Jan 07

If you could live anywhere in the world, and do anything you wanted to be happy..what would you do? Me? there's a lot of places i'd like to visit, but i think i'd settle in oregon, on the ocean. And maybe open an arcade. sounds...

breathe

live

love

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Fallingleaves If I could, I would move to Germany. There are so many other countries so close and wouldnt need to travel far for diversity.

12 Jan 07

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Does God Exists? If he does is he indifferent?

Soulplay81 @Soulplay81 (8) • Philippines 11 Jan 07

An deus sit, Latin for Does God Exists? whatever you call Him, God, Allah, Buddha, Gaia, The Son of God and other's. Does he exists? Does he, are we cosmically created by higher being? if he does not then where do we come...

existentialism

god

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Fallingleaves I believe Grandfather exists and the evidence is all around us. What we perceive as harsh and cruel is naught for the laws of nature. I truly believe everything happens for a reason and we live our lives for the ultimate goal - to evolve our souls.

11 Jan 07

I just want to be alone for a while? Am I being inconsiderate

manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 11 Jan 07

to my spouse's feelings if I say this? Will you be offended if your spouse tell you, that he/she doesn't want to see anybody including you for a while? Honestly.

marriage

relationships

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Fallingleaves I assume you are thinking of a separation and take time to review your life. If there are no marital problems, then I think I would be hurt.

11 Jan 07

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Is it now within the best interests of the US for Bush and Cheney to resign?

Snooze @Snooze (610) • United States 11 Jan 07

Their ideas were bad to begin with, and have continued to get worse. The resignation of both men - would it benefit the US for them to do so?

bush cheney resign

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Fallingleaves I think they'd both have to go. If bush gets impeached (which i doubt), then cheney is prez.

11 Jan 07

Uses for Velvetta

blogyourself @blogyourself (1577) • United States 10 Jan 07

Ok, so I bought one of those huge blocks of velvetta thinking I would use all of it to make cheese dip. I used half and now we are sick of cheese dip. What else can I do with the rest of this velvetta? I have only used the...

recipe

velvetta

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Fallingleaves Mac n cheese!

10 Jan 07