Monistyle

@Monistyle (50)

United States • Age 48

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Should Pot be legalized?

fyrescryer @fyrescryer (912) • United States 30 Nov 06

What do you think should Pot be legalized and government Taxed? I myself do not smoke it however i used to and in my opinion pot is safer than alcohol, no one ever got in a car and sped down the road at 100 miles an hour when...

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Monistyle In ways I think that they should for medical reasons, But on the other hand I do feel like it would bring down society.. Alot of ppl are weaker than others and don't know when to stop. I don't believe that drinking is good at all. Just because god does give...

6 Dec 06

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who does the cleaning in your household????

mummy2jake @mummy2jake (399) • Australia 4 Dec 06

Hi, im just curious as to who does all the cleaning at your house???My fi fiance works, while i stay at home & look after our nearly 1year old son, so obviously im usually the one doing the cleaning. Although some times hell...

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Monistyle Well when I wake in the morning, I make sure all the dishes are in the dishwasher, and turn it on. Take trash from bathrooms, and put in kitchen and take all trash outside, then i get dressed, and put all dirty clothes in the washroom, get the kids to school,...

6 Dec 06

Why are young mother looked down upon???

mummy2jake @mummy2jake (399) • Australia 6 Dec 06

I am 21, going on 22 in 6weeks & we have a beautiful nearly 1 year old bubba boy. I do my best to give our son the best start to life i can. Yet whenever im out, etc, people look at me like im some young mother, who probably had a...

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Monistyle Younger mothers at any generation are looked down upon. Specially from older ppl, cause they know it's going to be a struggle for you and your family to make ends meet. And I am only 30 when i see younger girls, having a child or pregnant, i just feel like...

6 Dec 06

Is physical contact important in your marriage?

anatildes @anatildes (18) 6 Dec 06

I been try to decide: when you are married for a few years and your partner RARELY touches you, give a “nice” kiss or he(she) looking for dates just once a month or every 2 months, sometimes goes for 3 months… even if you tried...

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Monistyle Change the spice, do something that you don't normally do... Be a dare devil.. Physical contact is a key to your relationship. Yes there are many keys, but this one is important too. If you don't get a response, then there is a problem. I don't believe that...

6 Dec 06

Were you teased as a child?

ffnstuff @ffnstuff (411) • United States 5 Dec 06

I was listening to the radio about kids being teased and bullied. They were talking about different methods of handling it and it got me thinking about when I was a kid. I had big thick glasses and was constantly teased. I...

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Monistyle I think that every child one way or another was picked on in school, but students like you and i got several years of teasing. I did everything i was suppose to do too. There was a limit to what could be done, but its safe to say i lived in my counselors...

6 Dec 06

What age is too old to live with your parents?

suzieque @suzieque (2334) • Canada 3 Nov 06

I still live with my parents and I'm just curious what people think

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Monistyle Staying at home, for as long as the ride will go isn't showing your parents what a good job they are doing.. Move out if possible.

5 Dec 06

Legal advice

KnittingAddict @KnittingAddict (6) • United States 5 Dec 06

I need help. my mom remarried to someone who, coincidently, I dont like. My mom had convinced me that my real dad had left because he didnt love my brother and i then she asked us if we wanted the man that she remarried to be our...

legal advice

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Monistyle Your mother should have explained that. But yes when you are adopted it gave the adopted father all rights, including your last name. I here of ppl changing there names. but i have never really seen advertisement .. The only time that I believe that your...

5 Dec 06

If You Had a Teenage Daughter, and She Told You She is Pregnant...

birthlady @birthlady (5609) • United States 28 Oct 06

...would you be supportive of her having her baby? What would you do?

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Monistyle There isn't much that you can do. Be supportive or go against everything that you have been teaching her as a role model. Give her suggestions. There are choices that she can make? Not paying attention to her has nothing to do with her getting pregnant......

5 Dec 06

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Major life changes like getting up and going to bed

beautifulceiling @beautifulceiling (1300) • United States 4 Dec 06

You know, when my alarm goes off in the morning, I absolutely hate it. Sleep is the most important thing in the world. I hit the snooze button and go back to blissful sleep and then it goes off again and we do battle for a while...

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Monistyle HAHA, you sound just like me. You know what I have found that works the best. When you wake up like 30 minutes before the alarm goes off. and you lay your head back down, DONT get up and take a shower, or something that you may do when you get home from...

5 Dec 06

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What is the job of a stay at home mom?

imadriscoll @imadriscoll (2228) • United States 4 Dec 06

I'm just wondering what your idea of a stay at home mom is? What should she accomplish throughout the day and what about what dad's job is? If dad works a "normal" job does he work 40 hours outside the home and then his job is...

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Monistyle Staying at home mom, is alot of work. I can only imagine. But call me old fashion, but I feel like being at home all day with children, there isn't much that the husband should have to come home and do. I work 45 plus hours a week, and do all the above. My...

5 Dec 06

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What have you done wrong as a parent?

imadriscoll @imadriscoll (2228) • United States 4 Dec 06

Does it seem to you that the biggest critics of you as a parent is other parents? There are so many things that people have pointed out that I have done "wrong" with my children. I breastfed one, but not the other two. I had a...

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Monistyle Only you know your children the best. There isn't anyone else that does more than you. Don't let ppl tell you what to do, or what you should do. And don't lead them to believe that you want there opinon. Opinons are like A Holes, everyone has one. I started...

5 Dec 06

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Can this relation be saved???

Veenaa @Veenaa (2) • Pakistan 5 Dec 06

I am engaged with a guy for four years. Its totally arranged by my parents and i dont know the guy before engagement. After engagement i expect that he talks to me but he didnt and i also dont initiate as i think that man should...

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Monistyle Sometimes men are very not good with relations. You are good company, it isn't improper for you to start conversation, or engage with a meeting, dinner, dancing, etc. If you want to get to know this man that you are suppose to marry, you better start to get to...

5 Dec 06

How do I deal with this?

BellasmamaTiff @BellasmamaTiff (2544) • United States 5 Dec 06

My 19 month old has recently started to get up two or three times during the night just screaming at the top of her lungs. I go to her and hug her and give her a drink, I lay her down and tell her I love her and good night. I do...

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Monistyle First of all, you should make a doctors appt. She may be having GAS which is causing her to wake up and scream... for HOURS. Second, I know by any means PATIENCE is the key. Take a deep breath, walk outside and compose yourself. Once you get frustrated and...

5 Dec 06

Parents: how to handle the problem with my mother

lyloo14 @lyloo14 (128) • France 5 Dec 06

I've had a hard time getting pregnant because of a sickness and many surgeries. I lost my first baby when I was 5 monthes pregnant, and a second one a 2 month pregnancy. All this time and before also, even with living far away, my...

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Monistyle There isn't anything that you may have said that you just don't remember? Maybe you lead her to believe that you didn't need her help. What has your dad said upon trying to talk to her? I can't see your mom willing to help all this time, to just fall through...

5 Dec 06

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Remember when the lady said she found a finger in her chili at wendys??

fyrescryer @fyrescryer (912) • United States 30 Nov 06

How many of you stopped eating there after you heard that, and then resumed eating there again when you found out it was a hoax???

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Monistyle I would have to say, If ANY of the places that I eat at Had a RUMOR like that I wouldn't eat there either. But on this one, I DONT LIKE WENDYS so It really didn't matter to me or not.. We have a place here fast food, best burgers around. We call it the roach...

4 Dec 06

problem between my sister

cassandradab @cassandradab (400) • South Korea 10 Apr 09

i having a big problem with my sister lately, she is in philippines and i am here in korea but the problem is, she has a business related in korean surplus like bags,shoes, curtains,and other more. but my problem is this, she keep...

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Monistyle i having a big problem with my sister lately, she is in philippines and i am here in korea but the problem is, she has a business related in korean surplus like bags,shoes, curtains,and other more. but my problem is this, she keep sending her payment in my...

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At what age do you start to let go

Bunny2 @Bunny2 (2102) • Australia 1 Dec 06

My twins are 16 (will be 17 in January) and don't want to join us for all the Christmas and new year functions this year. I know I am rather old fashioned and want them still to be there and my husband agrees. Are we being...

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Monistyle 19 New Years Eve, cut loose, but give a time to be home, where you can enjoy the night also... they are still living with you, so it's your rules, but yes at 19 my parents let me invite a friend over, and we drank also... I didn't mind being around.

2 Dec 06

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where to find the best flipflops

plb9201 @plb9201 (140) • United States 10 Apr 09

hi how are you i was just wandering if you ladies can tell me where i can find a good pair of flipflops. mine are wore out on the bottem write me back please

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Monistyle hi how are you i was just wandering if you ladies can tell me where i can find a good pair of flipflops. mine are wore out on the bottem write me back please

10 Apr 09

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Reasons NOT to have children

nancygibson @nancygibson (3736) • France 2 Dec 06

Not everyone wants children, and I woudl also argue that in todays world where there are so many more people than te planet can properly support, its right that not everyone has kids. (I'm not saying its wrong to have kids, just...

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Monistyle I believe that you are right. Everyone has a right rather or not to have children. And I think that you are right on the money by saying that you are giving a gift to the planet by not having a child. My husband says, it was never this hot, ever in this...

2 Dec 06

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Should People have to take a test to own a pet?

canadabis1 @canadabis1 (1952) • Canada 2 Dec 06

Why do they allow anybody to have pets? Animals are neglected and abused everyday and nuthin is done to prevent this! Should there b a background check?...if there was...maybe animals would b happier...my old neighbor lived in a...

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Monistyle Well if we are talking about ppl that you wouldn't trust your kids with, well then don't give them a animal... PPL are cruel. But I have Breed dogs, and had ppl beg for a dog, and 3 weeks later, they don't have them... There are 3 dogs next door that have...

2 Dec 06

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