bigfelah

@bigfelah (73)

New Zealand • Age 52

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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bigfelah's Discussions

Referral links - is it stigma or are people just mean spirited?

bigfelah @bigfelah (73) • New Zealand 5 Mar 07

I am truely amazed at how so many people are put off by referral links. Are'nt you? Oh sure it means your in their downline, but is'nt it who's in yours that is more important? I've heard of how people always remove the members...

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Debt - demon or necessary evil?

bigfelah @bigfelah (73) • New Zealand 5 Mar 07

We have maxed out 1 creditcard and have an overdraft, together combined total $5000.00. These are our only debt other than the mortgage. We acquired the debt due to my staying home with the bub and we only have the 1 income....

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Is it ok just to post reponses and not start discussions???

bigfelah @bigfelah (73) • New Zealand 4 Mar 07

Hi all. Im still a newbie and have notice that the content of the discussions that I start are very personal. I must of thought why not post discussions regarding problems I am having difficulty resolving or understanding. I'm not...

starting a discussion

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Relationships, when they go south - waaaaahhhh!

bigfelah @bigfelah (73) • New Zealand 4 Mar 07

My partner of many years has just told me that everything is wrong for him at the moment. He has 2 children from a previous relationship who reside with their mom while I have 3 who reside with us. Together we share an additional...

Traffic To My Webpage - How to increase it?

bigfelah @bigfelah (73) • New Zealand 3 Mar 07

I have a webpage where I list my links to the sites I use to generate extra income. I have advertised and listed it with search engines that allow be to do this for free. My web counter tells me I have no hits! I am now conceding...

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1 person

Don't you sometimes wish you could go back and edit what you just posted?

bigfelah @bigfelah (73) • New Zealand 3 Mar 07

After Ive finished starting a discussion or posting a response I at times wish I could go back and edit it. I mean I usually proof read before I finish but sometimes you miss things. For me its mainly spelling or grammatical...

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3 people

Recycled or Secondhand Clothing - Whats your view?

bigfelah @bigfelah (73) • New Zealand 3 Mar 07

Do you or do you not use them? Why? Why not?

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Recycled or second hand clothing -Whats your view?

bigfelah @bigfelah (73) • New Zealand 3 Mar 07

Do you or do you not buy or use them? Why? Ive got alot to say on this topic so please share your views.

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Multiple marriages whats the stats?

bigfelah @bigfelah (73) • New Zealand 3 Mar 07

Hi all. Im in my second marriage after an abusive first. My second one is not going so well. Don't get me wrong, I worship my hubby and 100% do not wish ours to end but we are having issues with both sets of stepchildren. My...

Stepchildren and their Impact on Relationships

bigfelah @bigfelah (73) • New Zealand 3 Mar 07

I am in a relationship with a man who I have loved for 3 years. We use to have an unshakeable love for one another but for the last few months our relationship has been on the rocks. And I can't fully comprehend the dramatic...

children

relationship problems

stepchildren

stepfamilies

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School Lunches. Who has trouble with this?

bigfelah @bigfelah (73) • New Zealand 3 Mar 07

I have 3 children 7-11yrs old who I have trouble with regarding school lunches. If I buy items in our household shopping to make them lunches with they usually don't last in the pantry. Worse, the kids have individual tastes and...

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Do you think this happens? Has it happened to you?

bigfelah @bigfelah (73) • New Zealand 2 Mar 07

Im still using dialup as I can't justify the extra expense of switching to broadband just now. When the monopoly on broadband became unbundled in our country I noticed a dramatic slowing of my connection. I started to think that...

internet service provider

slow connection

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How Do I make More Money from MyLot??

bigfelah @bigfelah (73) • New Zealand 1 Mar 07

Hi all. I am a newbie and would like advice from the big money earners (or anybody really) about how to make the most money possible from mylot. I enjoy the discussions and will have completed my website by tomorrow to hopefully...

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2 people

Anti Smacking Law - What is your view?

bigfelah @bigfelah (73) • New Zealand 28 Feb 07

New Zealanders are facing a review of our anti-smacking law. Specifically a politician would like the part which says "parents may use reasonable and appropriate force where the child is engaging in actions endangering themselves...

antismacking law

children

discipline

discipline for children

smacking

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Cook Islands. Have you been there?

bigfelah @bigfelah (73) • New Zealand 28 Feb 07

Has anyone visited my homeland in the Cook Islands? I havent been back for years myself. Which island did you visit? How was your stay? How did you find the local people to be? I'd be very interested in hearing any feedback you...

Is it Ok for my partner to be disatisfied with my role as Stay at home mom?

bigfelah @bigfelah (73) • New Zealand 28 Feb 07

We have 4 kids at home with the youngest being 8mnths old. I use to be an operations manager but now am a full time mom. My partner treats me differently because of the financial strain he says although we are by no means paupers....

relationship problems

stay at home parent

unhappy man

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No Stretchmarks for Pregnant Women If You Don't Want Them

bigfelah @bigfelah (73) • New Zealand 28 Feb 07

Here's a free tip to all pregnant women or those contemplating having children regarding stretchmarks. You may know this already but its definitely worth putting into practise. Stretchmarks are caused simply from your skin being...

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homeworkmadeez

bigfelah @bigfelah (73) • New Zealand 28 Feb 07

I signed up with this working from home opportunity which in theory sounded ok. I mean Im not adverse to trying to making some extra income though a little investment and some hard work. But I have had nothing but difficulty...

homeworkmadeez

stuffing envelopes

work from home

Now Now Settle Down Everybody lol

bigfelah @bigfelah (73) • New Zealand 28 Feb 07

A lot of people are betting on whether or not booth and bones will get together. Many are predicting yes but settle down folks, really. The reality is that the execs know that this would spell the end of the show. Just like...

bones

booth

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2 people