chamberd1

@chamberd1 (240)

United States • Age 50

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Boyfriend advice needed...

lyndaj70 @lyndaj70 (293) • United States 24 Nov 07

My boyfriend and I have been friends for 8 years now... for five of those he has been talking about marriage, so I have patiently waited for this. We never see each other, though we talk on the phone a lot. When someone calls...

relationships

sadness

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chamberd1 I like to be around my best freinds.

25 Nov 07

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Dp you consider Gays or Lesbians as normal humans ?

rafiquefromindia @rafiquefromindia (35) • India 13 Nov 07

Are homosexuals normal people ? Do you feel we should legalise such behaviour ?

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chamberd1 Normal, yes. Standard, no.

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set to a new goal but would be needing your help...

angel_of_charm @angel_of_charm (4134) • Philippines 10 Nov 07

alright..i am into the mind set of gaining weight as i know and like most every person i meet say i'm a hella skinny and i look malnourished and i am..i wanted to gain weight..i know its not easy but i would love to give it a...

gaining weight to better health

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chamberd1 As long as there is nothing abnormal about your situation then be yourself. You have a great oppurtunity before you and I'm not talking about MyLot. I could give you pages upon pages of advice but it won't do you any GOOD if you are already normal. Yes I said...

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since i sighed in mylot, i finally found a sense of belonging.

colourless @colourless (245) • China 11 Nov 07

i am a student in university, i really sometimes met a lot of frustration such as failure of examination, indifference of my classmates, and the unsatisfied performance at class .but the worst one is that i do have many female...

belonging

sigh in

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chamberd1 Live personal relationships are much more fulfilling. There is not a single thing you or someone else will type that can be concretely and physically verified. So I can say I can break bricks with my forehead. Should I mail them to you. No, I just found some...

11 Nov 07

Will you back for your Ex?

aowaow @aowaow (1516) • Indonesia 10 Nov 07

This one is for the Ex who had breaking you up, not you the one who did in the past time. When you are single at the current situation, your ex is single but is calling you back, and want to attach back the broken hub. Do you...

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chamberd1 Nope. I have never redated, I also don't go back to old jobs, the past is the past. You have to move on or it will be more of the same just more intense and at a faster pace.

11 Nov 07

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which bra offers the most coverage?

sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 6 Mar 07

I am not talking about demi or full cup here but that which conceals you when your body reacts to the cold and you don't want the world to know! I have tried so many bras that promise coverage and then one day I notice its not...

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chamberd1 I don't have an answer to this and am a straight male. But thank you. I myself do not take my cloathes off infront of women. I keep to decency myself. I won't make specific claims but I don't need to hide, it's just responsable.

11 Nov 07

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Why do people take decency and politeness as weakness

Bala @balasri (26537) • India 16 Oct 07

and try to dominate instead of appreciating?Mainly the new rich and the politicians.

decency

politeness

weakness

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chamberd1 Because they have never had a polite person put it on them.

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Is it really impolite?

mengchuijie @mengchuijie (324) • South Korea 11 Nov 07

I went to church this afternoon,when i met a new American friend first time, i asked him "do you have children"? He responted no, suddenly i felt significant uncomfortable,and i noticed that his mood was also not natural.so i...

american

polite

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chamberd1 You asked about his family, not his problems. You have not been descriptive enough about the whole conversation. There are giant chuncks missing. Besides I'm not sure I want to help someone ask about peoples children.

11 Nov 07

Pls. pray for my aunt...

mycharm88 @mycharm88 (2288) • Philippines 10 Nov 07

Hello everyone, i haven't been w/ mylot for 3 days since my aunt is now in a critical condition. She has aneurism and in a coma and in an intesive care unit at the hospital.. We don't wanna loose her and please we need your...

aneurism

aunt

coma

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chamberd1 I hope everything goes well. I will pray that it does.

11 Nov 07

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Duck For Dinner?? New Stragety for Thanksgiving Dinner

pyewacket @pyewacket (43903) • United States 6 Nov 07

Okay...Thanksgiving is looming up before us here in the US, and traditionally I have the turkey, sausage/apple/raisin stuffing, mashed butternut squash, and for dessert Sweet Potato Pie. Well this Thanksgiving just might be a...

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chamberd1 It's not new. People have been hhaving various assortments of food for thanksgiving as long as I can remember. Especially when you go to houses of different ethnicities. Mmm...

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im a cyber-virgin

glamgrl @glamgrl (384) • Ireland 6 Jun 07

have you had any good experiences with fellow myloters?who do you recon i should crack on to or flirt with on mylot for some hot mylot flirtin'?hehe i look 26 im petite i have black hair but is dyed red,ive big boobs(which i...

cybersex

sex

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chamberd1 You can't prove any of your claims. I wouldn't be able to prove any if I were to make some, wich I have but only as examples for responces. But if you want to flirt you have to sell yourself. I don't see why you would get into believing things that are not...

11 Nov 07

Double Standards On Offensive Words...

twoey68 @twoey68 (13627) • United States 11 Nov 07

Ok, I just responded to a discussion concerning something and I want to see other ppl's views and opinions on this. Let's try to be mature about this so no wars please. The discussion is about offensive words. There's been alot...

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chamberd1 Words are not offensive - usage is. However the "n" word has taken on a life of its own. Raceism does not have to occur between two different races. It can be between members of the same race. Some politicians run on this ticket (not openly of course).

11 Nov 07

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Florida family afraid of 13 year old son

estherlou @estherlou (5015) • United States 11 Nov 07

The boy has violent outbursts. He's threatened to kill his parents. He's killed animals. He's attacked day care workers, he's attacked kids on the school bus. "He's been charged with assault twice, the first time when he was just...

child abandonment

mental health

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chamberd1 There is no man in his life. Don't give me any excuses or stories or he has a father. There is no MAN in his life. I would never put up with this behavior. There would be a plethora of punishments due. These tantrums and bullying would end real fast. He is a...

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I Think He's Depressed

girljar @girljar (287) • United States 10 Nov 07

My husband and I were separated for about six months earlier this year. I moved to Florida, and he moved here to be with me. I have always known he hates Florida. But he came here, so we could put our marriage and our family back...

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chamberd1 You should punch your husband and son in the face. hit the bridge to break the nose safelly and still give them two black eyes. Now they have something to bring tears to there eyes. I am not sympathetic to all this crying and stomach holding. My mom would...

11 Nov 07

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Why acceptance the key to change?

cornchips50 @cornchips50 (204) • Philippines 10 Nov 07

What happens when you come up against a situation in life that you aren't able to resolve and don't want to accept? It's what I call being caught between a rock and a hard place, and it is undoubtedly a difficult place to be....

acceptance

change

move on

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chamberd1 Without accepting the path you can not find the gate.

11 Nov 07

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Help!!!

cornchips50 @cornchips50 (204) • Philippines 11 Nov 07

Hi there i have 16 pending friends request now witing for my approval how can i approve these people? Teach me where to click please... Isn't it we give our referral url to non members? Why when they sign up i can not see them...

friends pending for approval

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chamberd1 I don't know. I just respond to discussions. I rarelly follow the discussion for longer than my response.

11 Nov 07

New Single Mother

mlv416 @mlv416 (6) • United States 11 Nov 07

I'm single and pregnant with my first child. The father of the child did propose, but sometimes I'm scared that we will never actually get married. MY mind is running wild with fears, such as "What if he leaves me and I'm alone...

pregnant single mom

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chamberd1 Chances are extemely likely that you don't know how to pick the right guy (a man). He probably will leave. The government will give you some of my money. Andthe chances are against any single parent (male or female) of caring fully for a family. Most of the...

11 Nov 07

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Religion is the Root of All Evil

tigertang @tigertang (1749) • Singapore 17 Oct 06

Former Governor of Minesota, Jesse "The Body" Ventura once said in the PlayBoy Interview that, "Organised Religion is a Crutch and a sham for the weakminded." Another person I spoke to once said, "Religion is the root of all evil...

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chamberd1 Both of these statements are, for the most part, true. Spirituallity is the study of the self and the "other side" and whatever that unfolds. Religion, as it mostly stands today, is bad. It can also be used as a framework for progress for the slower in this...

11 Nov 07

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What is the purpose of life?

cobradene @cobradene (1171) • India 4 Nov 07

All of us have different paths to take and most of decide by ourselves and some of us are influenced by exterior circumstances like friends, family and also the pressure of parents. But every path has it's own unique learning...

life

path

truth

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chamberd1 To be born. Most of us are strongly influenced by external influences and a minority are independant thinkers. Most people follow someoneelses list of preaproved behaviors. From those that go to church to those who listen to rap. Some level of external...

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