Chikazz12

@Chikazz12 (35)

Philippines • Age 38

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My Insecurity is Killing Me

yzakia @yzakia (65) • Philippines 27 May 12

I got sleepless nights since the day i knew that "the girl who's behind me is taking over". I mean, my ex-bf's present gf whom is just a simple girl who lived uptown and has no knowledge about fashion is now a MODEL/BEAUTYQUEEN!...

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Chikazz12 I know this feeling! I can relate girl. But as always, the biggest rival that we have is ourselves. So we just have to work hard to improve and eventually we will realize that we have accomplished a lot. :)

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DISCIPLINE, does it really neds to be provided by own parents?

zip12ph @zip12ph (179) • Philippines 27 May 12

Just having lunch today when suddenly i heard a commotion coming from our neighbor's house, out of curiosity, I've overheard the reason of it, Its due to the scolding of a child by her aunt which the child's mother doesn't like,...

family

life

love

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Chikazz12 I'm not yet a parent but one of my friends have the same problem. My friend's sister won't allow her to scold her son even though the child committed some mistakes. And it end up in a bit of commotion to both of them. For me, it's okay to discipline my child...

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Board exam results... so tensed!!!

Kalebtheman @Kalebtheman (530) • India 27 May 12

My board exam resulta will be out tommorow at 11 am . and i am so damn tensed . math is the one i am really tensed bout.. i made some silly careless mistakes... i hope i get really good marks because my dad has promised me to buy...

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Chikazz12 I hope you'll get good marks. Just stay positive and also pray. Good luck. :)

27 May 12

where's my teddy bear?

mario_stevens @mario_stevens (6971) • Malaysia 27 May 12

teddy bear, safety blanket, favorite pillow, He-Man figurine... call it what you want to, but we all had it at some point in our younger days. that one item that we always held on to tightly when we curl up to sleep at night. for...

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Chikazz12 I don't like stuff toys ever since so I cant remember hugging my teddy bears. But like you said, I do have a fave pillow when I was young and I love holding and hugging it everywhere. it's been a long time since I last saw it. I believe my mom already gave it...

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Do you hold on to resentment?

bjc66bjc @bjc66bjc (6730) • United States 27 May 12

There are so many of us and I did say us, that just won't let negativity go...we hold on to stuff forever..I don't know if its nature but it just hard to let go sometimes. I try remember this quote by Iyanla Vansant and often...

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Chikazz12 I also find it hard to let go of things. But its not that I cant forgive, maybe its just not easy to forget. I do have a lot of resentment with my life and sometimes I do wish to turn back time, but of course that's impossible.

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Are you a shy person?

jricky1 @jricky1 (6800) • China 27 May 12

It is really not good that i feel shy before boys and i just can not control that.I suppose it is maybe the reason that i haven't too much experience hanging out with boys and a introvert person to some extent.Actually i'm quite a...

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Chikazz12 I'm also like you. I usually don't hang out with boys and also very introvert. But I love going out with my girl buddies. They would sometimes say I'm the clown of the group.

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What is the meaning of life for you?

eagle65325 @eagle65325 (232) • Indonesia 26 May 12

What is the meaning of life for you?

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Chikazz12 I've been asking this question also this past few days. Sometimes i'm feeling depress because of this. Right now, the only answer I can think about is just doing the best you can at the present moment. Enjoy life.

26 May 12

I'm a bit talkative when I'm drunk. And you??

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1149) • Philippines 20 May 12

Alcohol changes people behavior. Some are rude and wild while others are just calm and quiet. IN my case, I am a bit talkative when I'm drunk. I don't feel shy but I always take care of myself. I am still observant though. One...

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Chikazz12 I love walking in zigzag 'coz that's the proof that i'm drunk. I've never really experienced being totally drunk since i can still remember what i'm doing. I also don't puke, i really don't know why. I'm more of the silent drinker. I just tend to watch...

24 May 12

I like to work part time only, Why?

Bebs08 @Bebs08 (10681) • United States 23 May 12

Why I like to work part time only? well, so that I still have time to be in the house doing my own stuff. I don't need to be in a hurry every morning to go to work. I don't have stress to deal with home work and a job. What about...

work part time

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Chikazz12 I would also like to work part time only. It's just that I haven't found one that will give me enough pay to survive. If possible i would also like to have my own business at home so that I can stay with my family.

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houses Vs business

spencari @spencari (265) • Indonesia 29 Dec 10

if you have enough money to purchase, which would you to choose, would you explain your reason

house and money

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Chikazz12 I think i'll go the house since it will be great help for securing the future of my family. Having a business will be a great risk and does not mean immediate success. I can just work hard again and have a business of my own in the future. :)

24 May 12

My sister is becoming a bigger problem

lady Di @lady1993 (27224) • Philippines 23 May 12

and she still asks for money.. and people around her are still tolerating her..It is quite annoying that the people around her are complaining but still attend to her needs.. they give her money when she asks and she just sends...

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Chikazz12 Maybe you can talk to who's giving her money to stop tolerating your sister. If she already have a new work then she can support herself. It will be a lot of trouble if she keeps depending on other people. Leaving her alone to tend on her own needs will be a...

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Am i right?

cairalyssa @cairalyssa (1402) • Malaysia 23 May 12

thinking of just stay at home, earn from my lap top is totally the best thing to do so i cantake care of my daughter by my own.. And that is what im doing for the past 2 years, But having to fight for my child custody, i applied...

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Chikazz12 i hope you win this one since i believe it would be the best for your daughter. i see that you can provide good guidance for her since you're doing the best you can. i hope the court will see that for your advantage. fight friend! :)

23 May 12

leaving or staying?

mluvko2_24 @mluvko2_24 (7) 23 May 12

i'm a single parent with a dauther,,,my sister offered me to go abroad,,,,to find a job,,but im having second thouht abaout leaving my dauther,,, i grow up with my gradmother who take care of us beacuse of the same situation,,and...

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Chikazz12 You can try working abroad for 2 to 3 years. And if good fortune comes, maybe you can bring your daughter with you in the future. There's a lot of modern way of communicating now so I believe you can always find ways to talk to your daughter. I grew up far...

23 May 12

Do you save money at home?

34momma @34momma (13882) • United States 22 May 12

The day after I got married, I went out and purchased a bank in the shape of a very large crayon. Every evening we put our change in it. We are saving for a nice vacation next year. We would love to go on a nice honeymoon. Do...

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Chikazz12 We actually have a lot of coin banks at home. My mom loves them. I have 2 and I believe my mom has 3. I never got to full my coin banks since I usually get some money there if I want to buy something. :)

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Would you ever consider getting a second job?

34momma @34momma (13882) • United States 22 May 12

My husband and I were talking and getting a second job came up. We are currently looking to move and want to save money to do so. Although we both work and have our own Herbalife business and it's going well. We just think getting...

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Chikazz12 I'm currently looking for a job right now but after I find a regular work, I am also planning to look for a second job or any part time works. I believe that we should exert all efforts we have while we are young since we never know until when can we work....

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Don't eat at midnight

bhanusb @bhanusb (5709) • India 22 May 12

We know that food with fat helps a person to become over weighted. But recently a study says, at midnight if a person eats food with less calories also can become fatty. Eating at night watching movies or browsing internet is the...

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Chikazz12 There's the reason it's hard for me to lose weight! I love eating during night especially in front of my pc since it's stimulates my brain. Will try to lessen my eating habits since i'm trying hard to lose some pounds. thanks for the info. :)

23 May 12

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Do you like trying out foreign foods?

betterdays @BetterDays4Me (3777) • Philippines 23 May 12

There are a lot of Filipino foods that I enjoyed eating, and I became used to them because they are often served in my native country. But I also enjoy trying out new tastes...new types of food from foreign countries. There are...

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Chikazz12 I've tried different food like Thai, Italian, Japanese and Chinese but I never got used to their taste. :) Their just really different from ours. I guess I just really love Filipino food. But I love burgers! I guess that will count. :)

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positive mind and successful life

prashu @prashu228 (37524) • India 22 May 12

hello friends, I heard many times , that if we think positive, positive things will happen ..I never believed in it , until i experienced it. I now strongly believe that, positive mind is very important to be successful in...

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Chikazz12 I haven't really experience the power of positive thinking but I do believe in it. Besides it's better to be optimistic since it will make your life lighter. I'm experiencing a bit of depression right now but I'm staying positive regarding stuffs in my life....

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how can we overcome stress in our life

prashu @prashu228 (37524) • India 22 May 12

hi , stress is one problem which is faced by us in our daily life. In the olden days people were not like us, they used to enjoy their life , and have a balanced life , they were very healthy , without stress/ or less stress...

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Chikazz12 One documentary that I watched said that people before were easily contented with their life so they experienced less stress. Modern people tends to worry about everything even for things that are not happening yet. Honestly, I'm one of those. Since graduating...

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Knowing That You Might Not Like the Answer

megamatt @megamatt (14291) • United States 22 May 12

There are some questions that will be asked of people, that the answer might not be something to our liking, because it uncovers a betrayal or a wrong. But in the end, we have to know. We might not want to know but we have to be...

deep mysteries

hard questions

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Chikazz12 Knowing the truth is always been the best answer. I had an experience before that I opt not to know the truth and it became my biggest mistake today. I know it's scary asking those difficult questions but it's also scary living without knowing. Once the truth...

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