golden87

@golden87 (95)

United States • Age 59

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Any ideas on preventing diaper rash?

GuateMom @GuateMom (1411) • Canada 8 Mar 07

My son gets the worst diaper rashes and they don´t go away for ages. They start off like a regular rash and eventually form sores that must really hurt. I´ve tried letting him run around without a diaper, using only water to wash...

diaper rash

prevention

treatment

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golden87 I always changed my kid's diapers really often to prevent diaper rash. It really made a difference in often they got diaper rash. And, I always caked on the Desitin, whether they had diaper rash or not. Their butts were white the first three years of their...

9 Mar 07

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Do you let your children have friends sleep over?

patgalca @patgalca (18392) • Orangeville, Ontario 9 Mar 07

Do you like it when a friend sleeps over? Today is the beginning of March break for my children. The first night and my 10yo daughter was already asking to have a friend sleep over. I don't really like having kids sleep over....

children

home invasion

sleep overs

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golden87 Hi, I actually hate sleep overs. I feel it gives the kids an excuse to act silly and obnoxious. They stay up way too late, and they are loud, rude and inconsiderate. Then the next day they are useless because they are tired and crabby. My rule is 2 sleep overs...

9 Mar 07

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Baby switching in a local hospital....

fieryfrost @fieryfrost (316) • Philippines 8 Mar 07

I was really alarmed when I was watching the news yesterday when they reported that there was a local hospital here in the Philippines who "accidentally" switched babies. Baby 2 was given to parents 1, they already left the...

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golden87 I know when I gave birth to my kids, they had features that I could recognize. Like the one came out with a scratch on his face. The other one was really big. I also had the baby's in the room with me for the majority of my stay. But I have heard of parents...

9 Mar 07

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Sunday Dinner In The Crockpot

villageanne @villageanne (8553) • United States 17 Feb 07

Sunday's at our home is a day of attending church and of rest. We try to renew ourselves Spiritually and try to not break the sabbath. I try to make something simple for dinner. We have church for three hours. It is not over till...

crockpot cooking

potato soup

sunday dinner

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golden87 Sounds yummy. I'll try your recipe. I try to use my crockpot at least once per week. I love it. Sometimes if I am low on time, I'll even use the Stouffer's crockpot meals in a bag. They are pretty good.

18 Feb 07

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are you happy being a stay at home mum?

michelledarcy @michelledarcy (5220) 16 Feb 07

Do any other stay at home mums find it difficult to be completely fulfilled with just being a mum? I know its the right thing to do for my children and i can see that they are benefitting from me being there. However I feel that...

children

mum

stay at home

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golden87 I love being home with my kids. When they were young, I worked part-time, about 10 hours per week. Now that they are older and in school, I work about 25 hours per week. I still feel they need me at home when they get home from school and at night. I'll...

16 Feb 07

Why Oh Why did I watch the NEWS?????

AskAlly @AskAlly (3625) • Canada 3 Feb 07

Livng where we do is so isolated from tne rest of the world. We are pretty much self sufficient here since we made many changes over the years to run our ranch in the most enviromentally efficient way. Solar power, wind power,...

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golden87 I NEVER watch the news. It is the scariest TV show out there. When I don't things people always say to me, "Don't you ever watch the news?" and my response is "No, I don't." I figure, why bring myself down if I don't have to. If something does happen in my...

4 Feb 07

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My new resolution about the BEST REPLY!

Zebrochka @Zebrochka (333) • Brazil 3 Feb 07

Dear all, have you noticed that most of the people don't rate the replies that they get in their discussions? And most probably that rating would give more points to the ones who reply, right? Sometimes it is difficult to rate...

best reply

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golden87 I like it the idea. I think I'll do the same.

4 Feb 07

The first poem I ever wrote about my special son

weemam @weemam (13372) 2 Feb 07

My son was born with Cerebral Palsy almost 27 years ago, we were told he would not live and if he did he would be a vegetable, well as some of you on the site already know, He is a good looking 6 ft tall handsome guy and has his...

cerebral palsy

special people

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golden87 Congratulations on defying the medical community. It looks like you did a great job raising your son to be a successful contributing citizen. You must be very strong yourself. Your poem was beautiful.

3 Feb 07

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Is love enough?

bicklelady @bicklelady (1404) • United States 2 Feb 07

I have been married for 15 years. He is a great father and he provides by paying the bills. I have worked all my life and paid for my own car. Well the company I work for retired and I lost my job. My hubby makes up to 25.00 an...

is love enough bicklelady

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golden87 My husband and I share everything. I wouldn't care at all if he went through my wallet, and I know he wouldn't care if I went through his. Neither of us have anything to hide. We are both on the same page as far as the spending goes. The kids always come...

3 Feb 07

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What do you use/plan to use your mylot money for?

Noxmorexlies @Noxmorexlies (739) • United States 15 Jan 07

What do you use the money you earn from mylot for? I use it for stuff on ebay and internet purchases, I just leave the money in my paypal and buy things I want. I most likely will be using the mylot money for things like books...

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golden87 I take all side money, like that from get-paid-to-read-email sites, survey money, mylot money, and stash it away. I am saving up to finish my basement. I have quite a long way to go.

15 Jan 07

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What do you about this intelligent student?

swarn47 @swarn47 (1706) • India 7 Jan 07

A first grade teacher was having trouble with one of her students. The teacher asked, Boy, what is ur problem? Boy,I am too smart for the first grade. My sister is in third grade and I am smarter than her so I should be in 3rd...

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golden87 That was good, long, but good.

7 Jan 07

was Diana's death accidental?

wizard_wizpk @wizard_wizpk (27) • Germany 20 Dec 06

Many people have raised serious doubts over the sudden death of Princess Diana. many have pointed fingers at the Royal family itself. The recent report into this incident has ruled out any conspiracy in this accident and have...

british police report

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golden87 I think the accident was legit.

21 Dec 06

Living together vs Marriage.

itsjustmeb @itsjustmeb (1212) • Canada 19 Dec 06

What do you feel is more important these days? Being married and having a family, or just living in a home in a commonlaw relationship? I mean so many people are getting divorced before they flush the toilet in the morning, it's...

marriage

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golden87 I still think marriage is really important. For me, it truly shows we are committed to one another. We made a promise to stay together forever and that has to mean something. I couldn't think of spending my life without my hubby. I think if you are not at...

19 Dec 06

morality has a role to play even when a person is in isolation?

marvit79 @marvit79 (341) • Italy 11 Dec 06

If u take the position that moral behavior is the kind of behavior that will lead to a flourishing, excellent life, then morality can be meaningful in isolation. Religious hermits certainly seemed to think that their choice to...

moralitty

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golden87 Marvit, taking your concept one step farther, why does it seem in the world today that people's morals are not all that great. Sure you hear of people that are generous and kind, and help their neighbor. But how much of that kind of story is on the news...

11 Dec 06

How do you know if your children are ready to leave the home nest?

tumbleweed1990 @tumbleweed1990 (827) • United States 7 Dec 06

I have a 17 year old daughter, that will graduate high school next year, and her father and I are so scared to let her go, as we are not sure if she can make it on her own, she hasnt had a job, cause she has to study for every...

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golden87 Your topic is a good one. I too am worried that my son won't make it on his own. He is just immature. I still have to check in with him making sure he does his homework. I have to help him a lot with Math. I keep telling him, "I can't go to college with...

8 Dec 06

Do you find that the Internet has taken over your life?

kbkbooks @kbkbooks (7022) • Canada 6 Dec 06

Before I had Internet I used to read a lot. I used to have favorite authors. I used to do needlework. I loved needlepoint and embroidery. I loved to cook and I loved to write poetry. I still write a fair amount because I am...

addiction

computers

internet

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golden87 Yes, I agree. I love and need the internet because it allows me to have a great job working from home. But, yes, I spend way too much time online. I am on virtually all day.

7 Dec 06

why don't people just quit smoking?

jowecool @jowecool (7) • Philippines 7 Dec 06

i tried smoking once in high school and never did tried ever again. I hate the smoke. I hate the smell of cigarette smoke on my shirt, my hair, my breath. Don't you just get annoyed when peole cramped in a public place such as a...

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golden87 Yes, there little worse than the smell of smoke. My pet peeve is at work. No one can smoke in the building, but they light up as soon as they walk out the door. So when you walk in the door it is like walking through a smoky casino. My company has asked...

7 Dec 06

Would you report it?

juicemilk @juicemilk (2283) • Australia 6 Dec 06

I had Monday and Wednesday off from work, so another guy had to use my PC to complete my orders etc. While using it he was browsing through various adult dating sites and looking at pictures (some fairly hard core). Needless to...

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golden87 You definitley did the right thing. My company tracks things like that all of the time. I sure wouldn't want to be called in the office, and then have to say, "Oh, it wasn't me, it was so-and-so."

6 Dec 06

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How Do You Know If Your Depressed??

zoewiles @zoewiles (44) • United States 6 Dec 06

Latley I have been thinking a lot. You know random things about life in general, what im going to do today, or what i think about certain things going on in my life. I have been upset lately, my mom has just been diagnosed with...

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golden87 zoewiles, I think what you are feeling is very normal. Almost all of my days are the same. I get up, get the kids off to school, go to work, come home, help with homework which is always a battle, cook dinner, help with more homework, get the kids to bed,...

6 Dec 06