harwennah_18

@harwennah_18 (37)

Philippines • Age 42

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When people disagree with your discussion badly, do you let go or give back.

ketybhagat @ketybhagat (4123) • India 7 Jan 09

Ive started a certain discussion in which somebody does not like me or my discussion and disagrees with me strongly, but with language I would not like to use, like you make me sick, or puke etc. I usually tend to ignore such...

disagree

discussion

harsh words

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harwennah_18 I would definitely get mad but I would do the same as you. I'll just ignore them and still go on with mylotting. We don't have control over other peoples' mind, so you have to lengthen your patience to people who don't know the word RESPECT.

8 Jan 09

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What is the perfect age difference between two siblings??

GAGAN187 @GAGAN187 (287) • India 8 Jan 09

If you were to have 2 children only and money wasnt an issue .how far apart you have your children?? what is the perfect age difference between two siblings??

perfect age difference siblings

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harwennah_18 For me I want their age gap to be 3 to 4 years so that taking care of them both won't be that difficult.

8 Jan 09

do you cook food that you dont like to eat?

bombshell @bombshell (11256) • Germany 8 Jan 09

i am cooking chicken for lunch even i dont eat it.just for my hubby and little girl.my husband said i should not do that to make it fair but in my case its not fair right? do you cooked food that you dont like to eat?...

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harwennah_18 Honestly, I'm very choosy especially when it comes to the food I eat but it's okay with me to cook food I don't like to eat. It happens to me most of the time. My mother mostly requested me to cook for her and I don't like to eat those coz it's always veggies....

8 Jan 09

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child & mother relationship

bamrahkirti @bamrahkirti (1821) • India 7 Jan 09

I started working when my son was 4 months old.I had faced a very bad time during my pregnency and i wanted to give myself space and freedom .As i started working ,i became financially indepenent,more communicative and relaxed,but...

child

mother

quality time

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harwennah_18 It is natural that you'll feel guilty especially there are people commenting about your relationship with your son but don't feel bad about it, anyway you still have the chance to make it up with your kid. Just think of something that you and your son will...

7 Jan 09

Does the kind of music you listen to depend on your mood?

shreed_14 @shreed_14 (460) • India 7 Jan 09

I have noticed lately that whenever I am happy I usually choose to listen to loud music and happy and fun-filled songs.On the other hand if I am sad or depressed or feeling low about something I automatically choose to listen to...

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harwennah_18 Yes, whenever I play songs at home it always depend on my mood and on the occasions also. If it's Christmas season, I barely listen to the songs I usually play coz I only want to listen to Christmas songs and on Sundays I like to listen to Christian songs.

7 Jan 09

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Aging or coping with birthdays

mojcica @mojcica (1511) • Slovenia 18 Dec 08

Everyone has a birthday...obviously LOL How do you like that day? Are you sad, thinking about aging, are you happy and celabrating the day you were born, do you just ignore it, ...? Yesterday it was my birthday, turning the...

birthday

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harwennah_18 I'm always excited everytime my birthday comes. Since I was a kid, my parents are planning for a birthday party for me that's why until now although I'm already 26 I'm still looking forward to celebrate for my birthday.

18 Dec 08

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i don't do charity...why?

legend4u @legend4u (1019) • India 17 Dec 08

i am a person that don't believe in giving out the well earned money by me to someone else for free. Everyone have their own capabilities and if they try to their best anyone can attain anything . the only situation where i make...

charity

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harwennah_18 Well for me doing charity is a good thing but I do choose whom I will give charity. Like for example, the children beggar on the streets, like in your country, there are also street children here in our country. Bothering people walking along the streets,...

18 Dec 08

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Do you miss your school or college days!!!!!!!!!!!!

apsara60 @apsara60 (6610) • Israel 17 Dec 08

Hi friends.......most of us here are adults now, married and settled and busy with our day to day life. But do you sometimes miss your school days. Those heavy school bags, books & notebooks, geometry boxes, small tiffin box,...

miss those days

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harwennah_18 Yes, I do miss my school days, especially when I got to see those students carrying their heavy school bags and books. I miss also my friends way back. Although there are things that I want to forget during my school days.

18 Dec 08

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How many kids do you want to have?

Unah08 @Unah08 (671) • Philippines 15 Dec 08

I thought before that I am a kid/baby-lover, cause I'm really fond of them especially when their cute and cuddly, they surely never fail to make me smile and remove all my worries away when I see a baby or a little child. But...

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harwennah_18 I only want to have one kid but my husband wanted two or three. I just want to have one coz I found it very hard to be a pregnant woman especially when the time comes that you have to give birth. I'm on my 7th month of pregnancy right now and honestly I can't...

16 Dec 08

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will you forgive your friend if he/she betrays you?

jismol @jismol (71) • India 15 Dec 08

I had this very dear close friend of mine & she betrayed me at the time when i needed her the most. The pain & anger that i felt at that time is undescribable. But i have moved on & so did she. After a couple of years we met each...

formal

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harwennah_18 How'd you know that she betrayed you? Have you spoken to her about that? I don't know really what happened to both of you, but are you 100% sure that she betrayed you? Or maybe you'd just misunderstood her or the situation. I do have many friends and I give...

16 Dec 08

Would you work for a friend?

joerhonda @joerhonda (476) • United States 15 Dec 08

Yesterday I was offered a job managing a Dunkin Donuts store for my best friend. I accepted the job and should start in a week or so. I'm so excited to be getting back to work! I have never managed a store before and I'm a little...

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harwennah_18 Yes, definitely. We have to separate business from our personal life. It doesn't mean that we're working for a friend our friendship will be affected. Don't think negatively. If she's a real friend, then I don't think that little problem in your work would...

16 Dec 08

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What is your weather like in your area?

bfarrier1 @bfarrier1 (2082) • United States 14 Dec 08

We have Rain,Freezing rain,Sleet,Ice and Snow coming are way in the next two days.My question is do you help your Elderly neighbors when there is bad weather.I have elderly on both sides of me so I always check on them,put down...

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harwennah_18 We live in a tropical country. We have hot or summer seasons, rainy season, cold season and southwest monsoon. We also suffer from storms and everytime it happens, the government and the citizens in our country are joining hand in hand in helping the victims,...

15 Dec 08

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Need relationship advice...should I break up with him?

chasingsunlight @chasingsunlight (261) • United States 14 Dec 08

Here's the situation, I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and we have talked about long-term things (like living together when i finish school in May). Now, when i met him, he was 1) Very active (crew team, gym, ice...

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harwennah_18 Maybe you should talk to him and ask him for a space first. Give him time to think and realize his mistakes. I'm not saying you have to give him up easily just like that coz you already have said that he's not that kind of person when you first met him. Maybe...

15 Dec 08

If you can choose between your first relationship?

Kysweetgal @Kysweetgal (123) • United States 13 Dec 08

If you could choose between your first relationship the one you are in now, or any other relationship. Which one would you say was the best relationship you were in? For me I would have to say the one I am in now. He helps me...

relationships

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harwennah_18 I would definitely choose my present relationship. He's far different from my previous relationship. They say that all men are "polygamous", but I don't believe it now. I know there are girls out there that might disapprove with me but it's true. Maybe you...

14 Dec 08

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Breakfast

vanonas @vanonas (949) • United States 13 Dec 08

Do you skip it? Or do you listen to the health experts who say it's the most important meal of the day and that you shouldn't skip it? When I was in high school I would skip breakfast all the time. I had class at 7:30 and eating...

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harwennah_18 Before when I was studying I used to skip my breakfast coz I woke up 30 minutes before my classes starts, that's why I have no time to eat breakfast. It's bad to skip meal not only breakfast coz you might get sick. That's what happened to me before, I got...

14 Dec 08

Do you listen to music while studying or reading?

sixclix @sixclix (677) • Philippines 13 Dec 08

When I was in law school, I couldn't concentrate on studying when music was playing in the background. I couldn't get any of what I was reading in my head. What gets in my head, however, is the song that plays over and over again...

headphones

listen to music

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harwennah_18 Nope, I found it annoying if I hear noise while I study although the music is good. I also can't concentrate especially when I'm memorizing. But when I'm only reading it's ok if there's music playing.

14 Dec 08

Do you remember your appointments or do you set an alarm on your mobile?

mercuryman3a @mercuryman3a (2477) • India 13 Dec 08

I am very forgetful. I often forget an appointment.Once the management committee meeting of a school was scheduled at 4 PM. i organised every thing as the secretary and fixed up with the Chairman that we would start sharp at 4 PM....

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harwennah_18 I'm not that forgetful so I'm not used to setting an alarm. But there are times that I forgot that I had appointments. I only use my mobile alarm if I have to wake up early in the morning coz that's my very big problem since I was a kid. It's really hard for...

14 Dec 08