kendria21

@kendria21 (20)

United States • Age 40

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My Mother hates my Man...

kendria21 @kendria21 (20) • United States 19 Aug 10

So my mother hates my man. It's not that they have had bad blood or have had any altercations, it's just that she feels that he cannot match my worth. I make a considerably good amount of money where I work and my mother believes...

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So the car is paid off... now what???

kendria21 @kendria21 (20) • United States 19 Aug 10

Ever wonder where that extra 300-500 dollars goes when you are done paying off your car? I am in that situation right now. I finished paying off my car back in June and I haven't been able to tell where that car payment money is...

car paid

expenses

money

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Does Love Pay the Bills?

kendria21 @kendria21 (20) • United States 19 Aug 10

Ever heard the saying "Love don't pay the bills"? Well, I find myself asking myself this question all the time. My reason for asking is because I have a boyfriend that I've been dating for about 3 years and in these 3 years, he...

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Could you imagine a life without friends?

rappeter13 @rappeter13 (8608) • Romania 19 Aug 10

How that would be? Do you think that you could be happy all alone, without any type of friends? I would definitely could not bear not to have friends. It is true that there are periods of time when I prefer being alone, but not...

friends

time

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kendria21 I think I could definitely live without friends. I only have one true friend and I talk to her about once every 2 to 3 months and I'm perfectly fine with that. I think friendship is truly overrated in terms of finding that one true BFF, but associates come and...

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well i told you not to trust me

gnomeland @gnomeland (421) 19 Aug 10

why is it that when people show their true colours or tell us that they can't be trusted do we feel shocked when the thing they warned us about happens? after all they were honest with us to start with so why did we think 'this...

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kendria21 That's stange... I have never heard of anyone admitting that they can't be trusted. Where are these people living, because if anyone told me that they couldn't be trusted, there is no way I'm placing my trust in them.... that's crazy...

19 Aug 10

do you lend your friend money if he/she asks of you?

genevy04 @genevy04 (793) • Philippines 19 Aug 10

I have a problem..Well, it's not really a big problem. but I do have a friend, actually she's just a new friend, a mother of my kid's classmate, and she often asks if I can lend her some amount of money because of some...

friends

money matters

people

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kendria21 I don't think you were wrong at all for not lending to this woman. You owe her nothing and if she is constantly coming to you with lame excuses for borrowing, then she is obviously not in need. I think she only asks you because she knows you will help. Many...

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How soon should one go shopping?

Linda4ualways @Linda4ualways (2282) • United States 19 Aug 10

If your having a baby when do you start shopping. I did not buy anything till I was 6 months in. I thought it was bad luck to shop too early. A girl I went to school with had shopped till she dropped for her baby. Then about 5...

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kendria21 I have heard of instances like this too many times. I think these things only mean something if you believe in them. Growing up in a house where mom was always superstitious, I couldn't help but adopt some of these folktales (as I used to call them)... I have...

19 Aug 10

Would you still communicate with your ex though you have a new and better lover?

ShenniLy @ShenniLy (45) • Philippines 18 Aug 10

I have a 7-year boyfriend now and we are planning to get married 2 years from now. Just last year, my ex-bf (for almost a year)and I met in a disco bar accidentally. I was with my girl friends and my bf was at his evening work. My...

long time bf or gf

lover

texting

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kendria21 My belief is that an ex is an ex for a reason and him trying to get back in your life is just a sign that he doesn't want you to be happy. If you've been with your current mate for 7 years now, there is no reason to give the ex the number unless you still want...

19 Aug 10

What stoping you to be successful?

soleya @soleya (1100) • Latvia 18 Aug 10

I think that there are a lot of people who want or once wanted to make his own business and become entrepreneur. But never did. I wanted to start three small businesses in my life, but my husband said it was a stupid idea and I...

business

succes

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kendria21 I think a lot of us want to become entrepreneurs, but don't have the knowledge, skills, or the connects to get the ball rolling in the right direction. I have always wanted to own my own business, but never really knew what type of business I would eventually...

18 Aug 10

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to nap or not to nap?

virlomi_on_the_bridg @virlomi_on_the_bridg (1) • United States 16 Aug 10

My son will be three years old in November. We have been fighting with him on going to bed every night for the past 2 weeks! It's getting ridiculous! I thought about cutting out his nap but just can't bring myself to do it. About...

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kendria21 Hello, I know all too well what you are going through. My daughter is now 5 years old and sometimes still needs a nap from time to time. She just has so much energy sometimes and just needs to nap it off (in my opinion). I too, have the same problems at...

17 Aug 10

Thank you...

mai200725 @mai200725 (77) • Philippines 17 Aug 10

Do you say "Thank you" when some do you a favor, appreciates you or in any other occassions as needed? Do you think theres really a need to say this words?

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kendria21 I think "thank-yous" are necessary, this shows appreciation for a favor or something nice that was done. Saying thank you is a form of gratitude. If someone doesn't say thank you, many people take that as a form of rudeness or disrespect because when someone...

17 Aug 10

Know it alls who really know nothing.

megamatt @megamatt (14291) • United States 17 Aug 10

It just bugs me when people who really have no knowledge about a subject put themselves across as some knowing expert. They give all kinds of suggestion but while I hear the words coming from their mouth, they are really talking...

alleged experts

frustration

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kendria21 I know exactly what you mean. These "experts" swear they know everything, but when you put them to the test, they fold under pressure or just can't deliver.

17 Aug 10

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Scamsters are never stop

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 17 Aug 10

I received a phone call, and letter about me winning $10 million, because I entered some sort of contest, that I don't even know that I did in person. On the phone, someone with accent wants me to pay $600 for the processing and...

scam

winning

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kendria21 I experienced something very similar to this about a month ago. Someone called me up saying that they were calling from Washing, DC about some sweepstakes I had entered online and that I had won. He kept insisting that I give my bank account information, but...

17 Aug 10

Do you get jealous?

aurorastorm @aurorastorm (1131) • United States 17 Aug 10

I know jealousy is not a good thing, but it still sometimes gets the best of me. I have a few friends that do not have to work, stay at home moms of kids that are in school full time. They are always going to the gym, Starbucks,...

friends

jealousy

money

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kendria21 Omg... I feel the same way. I am so jealous of these moms because I wish I could be in there shoes. To actually be able to financially afford to stay home and become a soccer mom would be my dream. To not HAVE to work is something that I have been dreaming...

17 Aug 10

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What are you entitled to?

bounce58 @bounce58 (17385) • Canada 17 Aug 10

I’ve often made references here on how I disdain young people having a sense of entitlement. Some of my comments, responses, and even past discussions would indicate how I wished people would be more responsible for their...

deserve

entitlement

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kendria21 Bounce58, I am right there with ya! I too, believe that I am entitled to a little "me time" here and there along with no whining kids, nagging man, or financial stress. I wish everyday would be that simple, but I'm not always that lucky. While I don't feel...

17 Aug 10

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Is Your Life The Way You Wanted It To Be When You Were A Kid?

katie0 @katie0 (5203) • Japan 17 Aug 10

When I was a kid I was obsessed with doing the right thing, being a hero and a brave person. I don't know if it's just me but I kept persuing that my whole life and one day I remind about what I wished for, I'm the exactly image...

childhood

dream

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kendria21 Hello Katie0, I wished life could have been the way I wanted when I was growing up. I would have had all the things I wanted and then some. On the other hand, if I had everything I wanted, I would not know the true value of a hard earned dollar, nor would I...

17 Aug 10

Close friend and her relationships

lulu1220 @lulu1220 (1006) • United States 17 Aug 10

I have a friend at work that is always telling me about her relationships with other men. Most of the time I don't mind it, but sometimes it does get annoying. She starts to complain about them and tells me she wants to break up...

friend

friendship

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kendria21 Hello, I don't have a friend like that, I have a sister like that! This just drives me insane! I try to give her the advice she seeks, but she never listens to me either. At first it seems as though she is seeking advice, but then I realize she just wants...

17 Aug 10

How hard it is to be a working student?

aaronfyzeon @aaronfyzeon (1920) • Philippines 17 Aug 10

I really admire these students that is able to balance work and their studies. Usually these people are the ones working in the fast food chains for a few hours and not the regular 8-9 hours of work. It is also fun because...

being proud

working and studying at the same time

working student

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kendria21 Hello Aaronfyzeon, It's funny that you mention this, I am a student, employee, and mother of 3. I know it's pretty hard for students going to college and even trying to work part time, but to attend college, work a full time job in the corporate world, and...

17 Aug 10

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my new boyfriend is 10 year younger then me

yusyus @yusyus (9) • Hong Kong 13 Aug 10

hi, I am 33 now, and recently have a bf who is almost 10 year younger then me. I can see that we both like each other, however for the age issue, I am thinking should I give up this relationship? It just starts a week long, and we...

relationship

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kendria21 Hello Yusyus, I think that if you have found someone that you think is "for you" at this time in your life, and the feelings are mutual; then you should pursue that person. Age shouldn't be a major factor when dealing with matters of the heart. I really...

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