leahn011

@leahn011 (58)

Philippines • Age 41

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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Who is your enemy?

rubyroy @rubyroy (824) • India 24 Sep 12

How will you define an enemy? Is he the one who cause you harm with ill will? Or is he the one who will deals with ulterior motive to harm you? Or one who would openly point out your fault in front of others to degrade you by...

enemy

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leahn011 Enemy for me is that the one who pushes me down and belittle me in front of many people behind my back. Also being traitor is an enemy for me too.

24 Sep 12

Having in a bad relationship or not having a man at all?

ofzhernandez @ofzhernandez (278) • Philippines 24 Sep 12

While I am searching in the web about men lies I suddenly found this question on one of the writings their. It just that it really struck me. Because I am once in a broken relationship with my first husband which ended last almost...

broken relationship

love

men

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leahn011 It depends. If I have a kid on my first husband, to be honest I never look another man instead I look after my kids to grow but if I don't have any kid from my first husband at all, maybe that's the time I'll look the right man for me. Being inlove for the...

24 Sep 12

How do you bond with your kid?

donsky14 @donsky14 (5947) • Philippines 21 Sep 12

Its the weekend and its my day off from work as well. Its that day of the week where I can bond with my kid for the whole day. His still two years old, so our ways of bonding would be watching his favorite cartoons....

bond with the kid

rest day

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leahn011 I am working mom here in the City my daughter stayed with the care of my parents. It's hard to bond with daughter unless I'm going to file a vacation leave. Last August I just filed a 5-days vacation leave, I spent my leave to my 2 1/2 years old daughter by...

24 Sep 12

Popular Baby Names in Your Country..

Jshean20 @Jshean20 (14348) • Canada 22 Sep 12

I think it's always interesting to hear of the latest "trends" or way of life based on living in different parts of the world. Having said this, I'm curious to know these days what are some commonly used baby names in your country...

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leahn011 Long time ago most popular baby names in my country. Baby Girl: Maria, Francisca, Juanita.. For Baby boys: Juan, Pedro, Bruno. Today, due to modernization, For Baby girls: Mae, Ella, Lalaine. On the other hand, for Baby boys: Earl, Albert, Paulo

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Making good decisions needs skill or instinct?

besweet @besweet (9859) • Ireland 23 Sep 12

We're called to take decisions every day and we always decide what we think it's better for us. I used to take all my decisions based on instinct, I was 100% sure for what I wanted and all my choices we driven from my instinct and...

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leahn011 In making decisions in life I can't say I can go through my instinct because sometimes it may slip but it may based it through experience because it was a lesson on how you handle obstacles and challenges in life. Through experience you became strong to face...

24 Sep 12

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Free time

biztech101 @biztech101 (78) • Malaysia 20 Sep 12

what do you actually do during your free time..?? For me, social networks, internet,games, movies, musics, MyLot are my companion during these time.. Even though I'll get a headache after seating in front of the laptop after...

free time

internet

laptops

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leahn011 I know this is ridiculous but I spent my free time sleeping / watching movies at home and sometimes surfing the net. Also I prefer to stay at home than to go out somewhere.

24 Sep 12

Do you eat rice? Do you drink water?

nicanorr @nicanorr (1789) • Philippines 21 Sep 12

Do you eat rice and drink water day in day out, year in year out? What is it in rice that for the rest of our lives we valued it without "somo" (dislike). It's like water, seldom will it be absent on the table. We use both almost...

day in day out

why drink water

why eat rice

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leahn011 Water is the most basic needs of our body. On the other hand rice, most basic needs most people particularly Asians. I eat rice twice a day because is an excellent food to help keep my body healthy and excellent source of carbohydrates. Also I drink 8 glasses...

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are you willing to exchange your health for money?

jobfindonline @jobfindonline (1744) 22 Sep 12

most of you would surely say no but I have noticed that some people are doing this unknowingly. they work hard to earn more money but their own health suffer in the end. when they get sick, they used their wealth to save their...

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leahn011 I agree, people work but suffer in the end. To become rich, we work hard unknowingly our health may suffer due to we abuse ourselves in working. We're only human that have limitations in our body cycle but we don't have any choice to limit our limitations if...

23 Sep 12

Are you afraid of loneliness?

Nezavisima Deskata @nezavisima (7408) • Bulgaria 22 Sep 12

personally I'm scared of being alone and just thinking that some day you can be alone I feel so scared that you can not describe. I can not stay alone even for a minute. I love people like to talk, and if left alone will...

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leahn011 I am not scared of being alone. I prefer of being alone, it's quiet and I can do whatever I wanted to do freely at home. On other hand, I'm not that sensitive on people who are noisy. I'm not that talkative but I am more on listening. Also love to mingle with...

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understanding your partner.

alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 22 Sep 12

understanding your partner is one of the most importan things in a relationship I was with a guy that wouldn't understand me at all. I had an exam session so I had to study pretty much the whole day. we would see each other at...

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leahn011 I agree.. Understanding is one of the most important in relationship. In order to manage your schedule to your studies and time with your partner, you need to divide your time in studying and time to your partner. Maybe this hard to do on you but you need...

23 Sep 12

Is friendship your priority or your fiance?

educatorstudent @educatorstudent (43) • Philippines 22 Sep 12

Hey everyone! I'm just wondering have you encounter anything about choosing between your friends or your fiance, a boyfriend or husband? Which is the most important thing for you? Your friendship with your friends or your love for...

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leahn011 I was disappointed to your friends, if they're really friends they must know their limitations and have widen their understandings. Not to the point you need to choose between them and your fiance. I am glad you've done the right thing, someday they will...

23 Sep 12

Married for the wrong reason?

blue65packer @blue65packer (11826) • United States 22 Sep 12

I know a couple at the college I work at who started dating like a year ago. Both are 20 years old. Like a month ago they got engaged. Lot of people thought it was to soon. Some thoought they would wait at least 2 years until they...

something is going on

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leahn011 Whatever their reason is, sounds really fishy. But if you really wanted to know the reason is, ask your friend in person and whatever her reasons let it be and just respect it. Have a great day!

23 Sep 12

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when your lover accuse you

adhyz82 @adhyz82 (36249) • Indonesia 22 Sep 12

what do you think when your lover accuse you that you have another man or girl?? what do you think when she or he maybe do it because she or he needs your attention because you are so busy with your life, your problem, your...

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leahn011 Giving attention to your wo/man may cause to misunderstanding and also accusation. If I were you, I'll prove to my man that all he thought to me was wrong and I'll do my best to give him attention, love and care. Always remember, If you don't there are many...

23 Sep 12

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My husband is on vacation and I am jealous

kemak28 @kemak28 (724) • United States 22 Sep 12

So my husband goes on a football trip every year with his friends for a few days. This year they went to Arizona. No girls allowed...its just a guys trip so I am at home by myself with our baby girl. I know I shouldn't be mad or...

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leahn011 Being alone at home doing daily chores everyday makes us bored. To encounter that boredom, you may go shopping or go somewhere with your daughter. You don't have to get mad / jealous if you were left behind with your husband, just widen your understanding to...

23 Sep 12

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Love : A Pious Thread

iritsharma @iritsharma (67) • India 23 Sep 12

Love is a pious thread which binds the heart of two lovers closely. But this thread weakens at the time when we induce condition in our love.

love

relationship

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leahn011 Love only binds on a couple love and trust each other but that can be weakens if your love struggles so much pain. Both of you should know how to handle every challenges you may encounter in your relationship. Understanding and have patience were the key to...

23 Sep 12

Long distance relationship...a stupidity?

kokomo @kokomo (1867) • Philippines 23 Sep 12

Hi guys, it is my first time to create a topic about a relationship and I want to discuss this one. Hope you could share your thoughts about this one... My boss invited me together with my office mates to have a dinner one...

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leahn011 Hello! I've been in a long distance relationship before, at first, it was hard on both of us and not sure if it will last forever or not but we believe and trust each other. We've been open on every day's we've been through. We talk sometimes but texts all...

23 Sep 12

i feel most of the relationships here are quite complicated

natliegleb @natliegleb (5175) • India 23 Sep 12

it takes so much time to repair when it gets damaged and most of them are complex and so volatile.i hate like these kind of relationships.hope we have a strong and healthy relationship between each other forever

relatnka

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leahn011 Most relationship are quiet complicated but it depends on how couple will handle it to make their relationship's healthy. In a relationship, may problems and misunderstanding may encounter as long both of them are good listener, understand each other's...

23 Sep 12

Big age gaps between couples

melissa14344 @melissa14344 (211) • Philippines 23 Sep 12

Hi! I had been thinking lately about my stand in couples with big age gaps. For me, Its No. I watched from the news before that a girl got married to a man who is old enough to be his grandfather. And I was confused and...

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leahn011 Age gap doesn't matter when love's attack. All it matters is they love each other sincerely but their opponent in their relationship are people around them that can destroy their love relationship. They must be strong enough to face all challenges they may...

23 Sep 12

Contented or ambitious

blinjk @blinjk (617) • United States 23 Sep 12

Are you a kind of person who is contented with the things you have a person who wants more and so ambitious?Being contented is good because there are things that we do not get in life but we should also try to work hard so that we...

ambitions

contentment

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leahn011 Every individual is ambitious and always searching for something to make his/her contentment in life. I can't say I was already contented on what I have right now but seems there's still missing in my life. To find that missing part, I must have patience...

23 Sep 12

Too expensive to study abroad

edsss17 @edsss17 (4394) • Philippines 21 Sep 12

Hi everyone! :) I'm thinking of extending my studies abroad. Just a thought, anyway! I am searching around the internet and I found out that it's very expensive to support yourself if you study abroad, the school and living...

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leahn011 Hi edsss It's very costly in studying abroad. If I were you continue your studies in your country and find a job after graduation to gain experience and money. Then you may reach any country you want :)

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