mannylayne

@mannylayne (49)

Canada • Age 49

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Do you think most people have too much drama going on?

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 22 Apr 10

I do know how it feels to be brokenhearted, to be stressed and to be negative. But don't you think that sometimes we just need to keep things to ourselves because of how our negativity would also affect other people? I can't...

drama

life

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mannylayne It's only drama to a person if they perceive it that way. There are people out there that thrive on misery and would be lost if their world was perfect. They often go out of their way to create drama (more often than not it is subconcious). Somehow over the...

23 Apr 10

Crying Babies...

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 22 Apr 10

Okay, here's just a thought that has been bothering me for quite a while. You see, ever since my nephew lived with us it seems that everyone around the neighborhood also has a kid or a child in their homes. Therefore, I would...

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mannylayne As with any human issue it's the nature vs nurture debate. However, I believe that pretty much everything to do with human behavior involves both. Factors involved here would be: -child's temperment -child's personality type (though this is not a huge...

23 Apr 10

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Does anyone look for ways to make extra money?

Chrissy @Java09 (3075) • United States 7 Mar 10

I always do little things to earn extra money,both online and offline.I think doing some cleaning for others is a good way to make extra.Maybe babysit,things offline I think are more realistic ways of making some extra...

make extra money

offline jobs

online job

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mannylayne I am always looking for ways to make some extra cash online. I know I'll never be a millionaire and probably won't ever make enough to do it full time, but I am trying!! I actually purchased a product from www.themoneymakingtrail.com and it is helping me...

8 Mar 10

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How to lose some extra pounds???

tuyakiki @tuyakiki (3016) • India 11 Feb 10

Hi! I am not a obese person.But still I like to lose some weight which I am gaining now a days.I do aerobics and other exercises regularly,but it is also not working.What do you do to lose weight? Please share your...

health

losing weight

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mannylayne Eat more smaller meals (5-6 at 200-300 cals) Make sure they are all balanced (protein, carbs, good fat) Add resistance training to your work outs (boosts metabolism because muscles burn fat) Cut out sugary drinks Don't undereat!! If you work out a lot but...

11 Feb 10

waking up in the middle of the night

pree70 @pree70 (525) • India 7 Feb 10

i am faced with a strange situation. for the past so many nights, i seem to wake up around 2.am daily for no reason at all. there isn't any sound or any other disturbance due to which i am awake. I simply find that my eyes open...

sleep

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mannylayne First of all, the fact that you are letting it upset you is worsening the problem - it's probably why it's hard to fall back asleep. Second, as anything changed in your life recently? Third, are you under any kind of stress that is more than...

7 Feb 10

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You want me with you? then you have to respect some rules...

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 7 Feb 10

If someone wants you in his life, do you think will accept your rules? What rules have you required that he wanted to be with you all your life? Do not lie, do not deceive you, to the way they are now, love you, respect you,...

relationship

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mannylayne I believe that there should be boundaries in relationships, not rules. Boundaries can change throughout your life depending on it's progression and there's nothing wrong with having them. Your first goal is to be a healthy, happy you. One should ALWAYS put...

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First drink in the morning

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 2 Feb 10

What is the first thing that you have to drink in the morning after you wake up? Why is it that you drink this first thing after you wake up? For me, I have to have a Pepsi first thing when I get out of bed in the morning. I...

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mannylayne The very first thing I drink is water. I have it by my bed and I drink it even before I get out of bed. This is for various reasons: 1. I'm dehydrated after a night without water/ 2. It actually soothes my body both physically and mentally 3. It's at...

2 Feb 10

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When it comes to writing, what are the things that take away your inspiration?

Mady2791 @Mady2791 (545) • United States 31 Jan 10

Sometimes, when we sit down to write there are factors like being tired, sleepy, worried, even hungry hahaha that can take away the creative side of you and things don't come out the way you wan it..I guess you don't put your...

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mannylayne The same things you have mentioned. In addition, external distraction, irritability, scattered thoughts, depression and anxiety.

31 Jan 10

What do you say if your mother is marrying a man you know is after her money?

free_man @free_man (7330) • United States 31 Jan 10

My husbands mother married a man that has been known to marry women for their money and we know it. Sevearl of his ex wives have died shortly after they were married. And their money went to him. He isn't anything special matter...

think he is killing her

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mannylayne Your mother is going to do what she wants - it's her path to choose. Definitely tell her how you feel about it, that you don't approve of the marraige and why but that no matter what, she's your mom and you will always be there for her. Make sure you get...

31 Jan 10

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Do u have the habit of leaving ur children in your car while you're somewhere?

moneymakingtoday @moneymakingtoday (4061) • Philippines 31 Jan 10

With nobody to leave the children while parents go out to run an errand, they bring their children along with them. Sometimes from fetching children from school, I see children waiting for their parents in their own vehicles....

children

children in the vehicles

children left alone

childrend made to wait

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mannylayne My daughter is 10 now. If I need to go into a place like 7-11, I give her the option to come in or stay in the car. However, if I go anywhere that I can't see her, she comes with me.

31 Jan 10

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Do you argue with your spouse much?

puppynut @puppynut (370) • New Zealand 31 Jan 10

I have been married for just two months now and I am expecting our first child. We weren't planning to get pregnant straight away but here we are. Over the past month we have argued quite a lot. I think we are just settling into...

arguing

counselling

marriage

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mannylayne Check your motives. What are you arguing about? Are you saying what you are really feeling to each other. Are you projecting your feelings on to your spouse and vice versa? Are you taking on the feelings, emotions and actions of your spouse when they are not...

31 Jan 10

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Do you listen to the music you don't understand?

abee1020 @abee1020 (116) • Philippines 31 Jan 10

I love listening to latin music eventhough I can't understand it. I love the beat and my ears love them!. I also listen to japanese and korean love songs.. am I that weird or you people doing the same thing?

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mannylayne NO you're not weird. I'm the same way. I listen to music for more than just the lyrics - like the beat, the tempo, tone, pitch, etc...

31 Jan 10

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Do you listen to the music you don't understand?

abee1020 @abee1020 (116) • Philippines 31 Jan 10

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mannylayne No, you're not weird. I am the same way. Music is more than just lyrics. Like you say, the beat, the tone, the pitch - all of that stuff. It really comes down to whatever moves you.

31 Jan 10

What Household Chore Do You Dislike The Most?

Cherryd41 @Cherryd41 (1119) • United States 31 Jan 10

HI Mylotters Just wondering what type of household chore that you most dislike doing? For me its The Bathroom The Dishes I don't mind laundry or vacuuming I'll even dust (although it can be a pain as well sometimes...

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mannylayne Definitely vaccuming. Fortunately we built our new house with all hard floors! I went out and got an industrial dry mop/sweeper which makes sweeping soooo much more fun. I also don't mind sweeping like I do vaccuming.

31 Jan 10

Should I throw away all the pictures of my ex?

ainee82 @ainee82 (618) • Philippines 30 Jan 10

P and I were together for 4 years. I've always thought that we'll end up settling down together. I thought that we were very compatible. I felt that everything fell into place. Then we broke up. You see for 4 years, we only...

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mannylayne It sounds to me like you already know the answer. If you want other opinions, my opinion is that you do what feels right to you, end of sentence.

30 Jan 10

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do you always fix your bed every morning???......

acie_21 @acie_21 (5633) • Philippines 29 Jan 10

hi mylotters.. do you do this always?? or is this a habit to you already?? fixing your bed after waking up early in the morning or taking a nap... or you don't fix them at all.. or just leave it messy the whole day.. are you...

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mannylayne The only time I do it SOMEWHAT is when I need to straighten the blankets. I have never really thought of it as a high priority on my list of the important things in life. My hubby and I are the only ones who see it. It's not like we invite people over to come...

29 Jan 10

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