michael74

@michael74 (122)

Singapore • Age 50

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Have you ever asked yourself why do you believe in your God?

claudioangione @claudioangione (127) • Italy 26 Nov 09

It is a question which I would like to find a solution to. When I ask myself why I believe in God, I never find any answer... Have you ever asked yourself the same thing? Do you think humans must have someone more powerful than...

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michael74 hello claudioangione, Do i believe in GOD? a very big YES! If not for him i'll wont be here. no ones here. He is the source of everything. Humans MUST believe that there is a divine creator whom all good things come from. We came from HIM and we will...

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Is it possible to fall in love more than Once?

srija12 @srija12 (211) • India 26 Nov 09

Really I've seen some people have fallen in love with more than one people. Just want to know ur opinion about falling in love in more than one person.Is it really possible? What is ur opinion?

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michael74 Falling in love with more than one person is normal BUT NOT AT THE SAME TIME! We are not limited to falling in love with a single person in our lifetime. But it doesn't mean that you could fall in love anytime you want specially if you have an existing...

26 Nov 09

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Will the world end in 2012?

morcu5 @morcu5 (20) • United States 25 Nov 09

With all this talk of the world ending in December 2012, I just wanted to know everyone's opinion on the topic. The mayans have predicted the end on December 21, 2012, and the famed prophesiser of many of the disasterous events of...

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michael74 hello morcu5 for me, 2012 or no 2012, a great disastrous event will come. maybe tomorrow, a week after a year after, a decade or a century even another 5000 years. but it will come. And it may come sooner because of our negligence. watch the...

26 Nov 09

What is Your Attitude towards Cyber Love?

getbrowser @getbrowser (1708) • China 18 Nov 09

Some people hold the idea that the cyber love is as pretty as the fascinating dream in which we are unwilling to wake up. But on the other hand, some others say cyber love is so virtual that it is impossible to win the lover's...

cyber love

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michael74 getbrowser, Honestly, i don't think we should even spend our time on such thing, It's totally a waste! I dont say dont make friends in the net it's good but to find cyber love? i dont think so. The cyber space i would say is probably one of the best...

18 Nov 09

How would you tell your partner that you don't love him/her anymore?

mielshare @mielshare (265) • Philippines 18 Nov 09

I have this friend and he asked me this question and from then on, I keep on thinking how but I can't figure out what way he should do. He's been with his girlfriend for quite a long time. My friend said that he is getting...

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michael74 mielshare, It's a hard thing to do but if you have to say what you have to say. prolonging a cold relationship which will also lead to break up with only cause more pain. better do it now. BUT... ask your friend to think fro himself is it really worth it...

18 Nov 09

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My Boyfriend's Friend

Alize997 @Alize997 (190) • United States 18 Nov 09

I have a boyfriend that I've been in a relationship with for about a year. I love him alot, but I can't stand his friend. He even knows his friend is a jerk. My boyfriend has mentioned to me recently that his friend isn't going...

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michael74 hello alize997, Hmmmmm.. Now why would the set up be like that? There might be some reason why he must always be with his friend(maybe a valid one or an invalid one) But regardless if it acceptable or not, on my opinion you must talk to your bf about...

18 Nov 09

Are you tired of seeing discussions about the end of the world in 2012??????????

rjvb26 @rjvb26 (2518) • Philippines 17 Nov 09

Me... i.... am..... tired.... We do not know what will happen tomorrow and even that year, and i also do not believe that the world will come to an end on 2012. What important right now is that, we do what we need to do, let's...

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michael74 Hello, 2012 or no 2012, i guess the facts are already there. I'm not saying it's the end of the world but i can see that if we dont act and do our part, what expert says that we will feel the worst effects in the next 50 years could really come. I feel...

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Let love go if the boy hurts you so much

Betty Deng @bettydeng5 (1822) • China 14 Nov 09

I will let love go if the boy hurts me so much, because love don't permit hurt, if hurt somebody, love won't exsit. I think it's best choice to let love go if a boy hurts me. If you, what will you do? Let love go?

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michael74 Hello bettydeng5, Hurt in what term? Being in love doesn't guarantee a life of always happiness. I believe that sometimes we must feel pain to learn and grow. Check yourself first, maybe just maybe you contributed something to that feeling of hurt. Maybe...

14 Nov 09

What are the best 5 things that makes a relationship perfect?

yagomateos @yagomateos (2) 13 Nov 09

I have been nearly seven years in a relation with my girlfriend and i believe that this are the most important things: Trust Equality Respect Love(of course) Loyalty

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michael74 hi yagomateos, First i'm happy that you've been with your gf for 7 years( not all could reach that) Regarding your topic, I dont believe that there is such a thing as a perfect relationship but i do believe that we're trying to make it one and we try...

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what are your simple loves in life?

jahernandezrivas @jahernandezrivas (11288) • United States 13 Nov 09

Not the major loves, the simple loves..like getting mail from a stranger...

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michael74 Hi jahernandezrivas, Simple loves? first on my list is, my sons smile and kiss!second,a kiss and hug from my wife.Third would be an intimate prayer, and a lot more! why alot more? i love to live a simple life! meeting an old friend would be one also! I...

13 Nov 09

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Do you apologise?

MsTickle @MsTickle (25180) • Australia 12 Nov 09

Sometimes? Rarely? Always? Never? Accidents happen. Mistakes occur. People do things thoughtlessly without thinking of the consequences. People get hurt. Some feel that they have done something wrong. Still others get...

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michael74 I cannot answer it if i base it on Frequency, because for me, i doapologise if i know it is my fault.maybe i may not acknowledge my fault immediately but after thinking of what happen when i'm in my normal self again, and realized it was my fault, i would...

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get bored

Ifamous @ifa225 (14463) • Indonesia 13 Nov 09

I have been marry for about nine years, I feel so bored with my husband. Then a friend came, talk to me. We are getting closer after spending time talking to each other. But then I felt something different, more than just a...

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michael74 Ifa225, DONT ever step into another relationship!Remember you are bound already with your husband for life.Avoid that person or you'll be having problems in the future. Regarding what your feeling with that person, DO NOT entertain it!avoid the...

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Do you think age matters in a relationship?

shhheila @shhheila (1845) • Philippines 12 Nov 09

Do you think age matters in a relationship, especially if its the girl that is older??? what u think?

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michael74 Hello shhheila, I totally agree with all of you guys! Age really doesn't matter. LOVE is whats important in a relationship! LOVE knows no age nor gap! Love bridges everything.

12 Nov 09

How long have you been married?

rosepedal64 @rosepedal64 (4188) • United States 8 Nov 09

Hello mylot friends. I know that there is probably alot of you out there that are not married, but that is okay you can still share your relationship with me. I have been married to my current husband for almost 7 years now. I...

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michael74 hello rosepedal64, I've been married for 5 years, and i'm proud to say it's getting stronger as time pass by.We've been through rough and trying times but we get through it together. My wife is very supportive and loving. Shes my GIFT from GOD! I...

9 Nov 09

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How do you go on with life when everyting seems not right?

danitykane @danitykane (3183) • Philippines 7 Nov 09

I stumble... I fall... When can I get up and back again? There are times that seems my life is tumbling down and everything that was beautiful is turning dark and ugly. I know there are point in our lives that we feel defeated...

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michael74 Hello danitykane, These things normally happen to everybody. We're hurt, in pain, and like what you said sometimes not only once in a day or a week truth to tgh saying "when it rains,it pours" isn't it? Be strong and keep the faith! Always think that...

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why our friends are not permanent?

kush20006 @kush20006 (515) • India 7 Nov 09

why it happens that we have different friends in childhood adult life and old age why our orientation of friendship change with time

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michael74 Hi kush20006, In my opinion a few realities in life First,as we go through life, we encounter a lot of people and this people regardless of what stage you are in would definitely or in somehow may affect your likings,interests and beliefs and it is a...

7 Nov 09

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When Do You Put Up Your Christmas Tree?

rosepedal64 @rosepedal64 (4188) • United States 6 Nov 09

Hello mylotters. I know that it may be a little early to ask such a question,but with me moving all my stuff out of storage into the gargage where we moved it got me to thinking about Christmas stuff. I had the hubby to make sure...

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michael74 Hello rosepedal64, Actually I'm planning to set it up next week. Christmas for me has always been the most exciting event of the year. I love Christmas, for me it's the happiest season of the year! and i also love trimming the tree.

6 Nov 09

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How long can you focus on what you're doing?

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 5 Nov 09

Regardless the task at hand, how long can you focus on something? I have a very short focus time, I guess, it's because I can't seem to sit and do any work for the whole hour without the need for breaks, a little walking, or...

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michael74 hello laydee If you'll ask me, as long as i love what im doing, i could focus on it for several hours. But if i'll do something im really not interested to do, maybe 30 mins to an hour only I think its normal to loose focus at certain tasks and taking a...

5 Nov 09

should i tell my boyfriend

Alize997 @Alize997 (190) • United States 5 Nov 09

i have been seeing my boyfriend for about 10 months now, and were very serious. i love him alot, and he seems to love me too. we've even talked about marriage. the problem is the other day this guy i used to talk to sent me an...

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michael74 Hello alize997, Since you already confirmed that you love each other, your very serious with the relationship and willing to go to the next level(marriage), I find NO reason why you should hide things from him. If you are convinced that your bf is really...

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