misslovelyfiles

@misslovelyfiles (250)

United States • Age 42

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Why do some battered wives stay? domestic violence #2

manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 2 Nov 09

This is an offshoot of my earlier discussion on domestic violence #1. It is mind boggling why a man can beat his wife whom he says he loves. What is even more mind boggling is why do some battered wives stay? I used to live in the...

battered wives

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misslovelyfiles The abuse starts way before the hitting starts. The guy or girl basically verbally and emotionally abused the person, then comes the beatings; by the time the beating began the person who is verbally abused and emotionally abused perception of love is so...

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Is it true that after getting married after few years..there comes distance ....

rorisricha @rorisricha (732) • India 2 Nov 09

After few years of there married life,having kids will there come distance between wife and husband....does there love for each other become less...why?Do they quarrel more with each other than before...who never used to quarrel.....

life

relationship

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misslovelyfiles I've been married for two years this December will make it two years. I can say that some couples forget that they have to communicate and still get to know the other person , because things change over time, and in order for a couple to grow together they...

2 Nov 09

How do I get across to her that I don't want to be involved?

rosepedal64 @rosepedal64 (4188) • United States 21 Sep 09

Hello mylotters. I have a family problem that I really need some help with. My youngest son is in a relationship with this girl. She is very nice and pretty. Me and her have made a good friendship since they have been...

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misslovelyfiles Wow! that seems like you have a major problem is the here. I think you need to talk to your son about the situation just let him know that he has to talk to her and communicate and workout their issues. As for the girl you need to tell her that with being her...

22 Sep 09

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Do you get mad at yourself everytime you make a mistake?

Sheri @tuckersheri (1327) • United States 19 Sep 09

I do get mad at myself everyone j make a mistake. I know noones perfect but sometimes I wish I was. I feel like I am always messing up. I get so mad at myself for some of the mistakes I make. When I make mistakes I wish I could...

mistakes

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misslovelyfiles I know how you feel! I get really upset at myself to when I make a mistake. My husband just sees it as a simple mistake for me to learn from but, I still get made at myself. I do learn from them and like you I forgive myself, but I still hate when I make...

20 Sep 09

Do you get nervous speaking in front of big crowds?

Sheri @tuckersheri (1327) • United States 19 Sep 09

I get very nervous speaking in front of big crowds. Sometimes I choke or I studer. I don't mean to it is just a natural reaction. I wish I could be more confindent and not do those things. I care too much about what people think...

crowds

nervous

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misslovelyfiles Am the same way. I get super nervous to talk to people the only difference is that some how in the middle of my speech or whatever i just go with the flow. I'm not going to lie it takes some hard work to get over that fear, because it still happens to me , ut...

20 Sep 09

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I'm back to mylot..

purplehyacinth @purplehyacinth (575) • Philippines 18 Sep 09

Yes I'm back. It has been more or less a year when I stopped mylotting. Let's just say I got frustrated trying to find ways online and didn't succeed. So I stopped all my online earning opportunities. I'm just grateful that mylot...

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misslovelyfiles I completely understand how you feel. I join many of these site and so far I haven't had any real luck , because I start them and like you I don't keep them up. There are so many sites and some times the pay is so little it's kinda hard for me to find the time...

18 Sep 09

Newbies Section: what do you think?

red_amethyst @red_amethyst (3518) • Philippines 18 Sep 09

I was just thinking, do you think it would be good if there is a newbies section here wherein the new members can introduce themselves and the old members can greet and welcome them? Other forums have this section on their board....

newbies

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misslovelyfiles I think it could be a good idea. this way newbies can get to know each other. Also it would be awesome if we could have a section that people can give each other tips on how to make money here on mylots, because a lot of new people always ask that; how to make...

18 Sep 09

Do you keep your pictures with your lover in your wallet?

mermaidivy @mermaidivy (15395) • United States 17 Sep 09

I like to keep the pictures of my family and my dogs in my wallet and my sister likes to do that also. There is a machine that is very popular in my home country which is called "sticker picture machine", we can take pictures by...

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misslovelyfiles Yes, I keep a picture of my love ones in my wallet. I have a picture of me and my husband together at the fair, my stepson, my mother and pics of me and my when we were kids. I really like having pictures of my love one in my wallet, because when am far away...

18 Sep 09

Desperate friends - Are they friends?

kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 16 Sep 09

Friends are important - yeah, that's true. However, these people may just be taking advantage of you. I've had colleagues coming to me begging for help: "Please, damsel in distress!" or [i]"Thanks for your help, I love...

desperate friends

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misslovelyfiles I don't think those type of people are friends. I think that they only consider you when it benefits them, and when everything is good with them they simply forget about you and may even forget you even help them at all.

16 Sep 09

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Should age stop you from reaching your dream or goal?

ibuemma @ibuemma (2953) • United States 15 Sep 09

When we are young we always have these dreams that "one day" or "someday" i will be a doctor or actress/actor or even millionaire. As time go by, usually those dreams one by one just 'died' and become a fairy tale. How many of...

dream

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misslovelyfiles I don't think you are never to old to reach for your goal and dreams, it's just life can be really hard and people can e depressing. I know for me it's people who discourage me a lot, but I feel that you just have to be determined on your goal and just do...

16 Sep 09

is ok for you to share your toothbrush to your partner?

amyson @amyson (3498) • Philippines 15 Sep 09

well for me i have done it already.i forgot to bring my toothbrush when were in field.my bf let me use his toothbrush for the first time,i thought in my mind its his personal belongings i do not really use personal belongins of...

toothbrush

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misslovelyfiles Well as a married couple I love my hubby to death, and sometime we use the same toothbrush, but that is only if I forget to pack toothbrush for the both of us. It's really not safe to use someone else toothbrush even if it's ur bf or spouse, because germs...

16 Sep 09

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Education In Schools

ashley1171 @ashley1171 (109) • United States 4 Sep 09

I am absolutely outraged by the parents who called my school is "concern" over Obama's address being shown at school. My mom is pulling me out of school, so I can watch it, instead of vice versa. Obama is going to help better...

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misslovelyfiles I think some parent think that he is going to influence their child politically, and I think that may scare some parents. I personally think that they are over reacting. He is simply going to encourage kids to stay in school, do the right things and listen to...

5 Sep 09

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I can NOT believe this!!! Can You!!??!?!?

LilyoftheThorns @LilyoftheThorns (12918) • United States 4 Sep 09

So, this morning as I was trying to fall asleep I had my radio on, and my station started giving some news stories... A woman had her 2 year old daughter with her, and the baby was crying (big whoop right?)...well, this man...

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misslovelyfiles I was so shocked when I read your post, he just walked up and smack her baby! If I was the mother by the time he said I can shut her up to me; I would have already have my guard up, and let him know it's not his place to make my child shut up. I guess maybe...

5 Sep 09

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Strange people! Why did he order a lot but eat none?

langleben @langleben (42) • China 4 Sep 09

I was totally astonished! Yesterday my sister and I went to our favorite restaurant. While we were ordering, a young man came in and sat next desk to us. He seemed to be a manager and wear good suits. He ordered eight expensive...

dating

food

people

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misslovelyfiles It could be that he had a big appetite and thought he was going to be very hungry, but when he say all the food he got full and just left. That was one idea, or maybe he is just wasteful some people are like that; they order a whole lot of food and simply...

5 Sep 09

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Do you always want a sauce?

red_amethyst @red_amethyst (3518) • Philippines 2 Sep 09

When eating whether in a restaurant or at home, do you always want a sauce? I know of a person who would always want a fish sauce for his meal at home. Like, when the viand is Afritada or Sinigang, he want to have a fish sauce on...

sauce

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misslovelyfiles I'm a sauce person most defiantly. I put BBQ sauce on my sandwiches, then I have to have either ranch or blue cheese for my buffalo chicken wings and strips. I have to have honey mustard and honey for my whopper, for the chicken tender sandwich I have to have...

2 Sep 09

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Does anyone like Rush Limbaugh?

Carson11 @Carson11 (332) • United States 31 Aug 09

I do. He is my hero. His views match more than the 23 million that listen to his show everyday. Many are unable to listen to him because of work or other reasons. There are millions of people that don't listen now because what we...

rush is my hero

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misslovelyfiles I don't particularly like him, from the few times I've heard his show some of his ideas are a bit screwy and out of touch, but that's me. Also, it is true some may share his ideas, but other may listen to him , because they may love to hate him and they just...

1 Sep 09

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Do you find trying to make money online frustrating?

Craig747 @Craig747 (488) 19 Aug 09

I find trying to make money online is very frustrating. Firstly, you put lots of effort into trying to earn money yet you end up earning very little. If you want to actually earn a worthwhile amount then it takes so much time that...

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misslovelyfiles I totally agree with you. There are so many methods out their to learning how to make money then everyone have so many strategies on how to make money on one particular site and all the site has so many rules or large amount of amounts you have to reach before...

19 Aug 09

myLot discussions - Is the detail or subject most important when you answer?

DCLehnsherr @DCLehnsherr (1037) 19 Aug 09

I hope that subject makes sense, there is a word limit and I am not all that great at condensing my ideas! But the long version, in case the above is as confusing as I think it is, is this: When you are looking for...

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misslovelyfiles Before I respond to the topic. I look at the subject if it interest me then I read what the person who posted the topic wrote and then I write a response. However it's the subject heading that makes me want to respond to a top, and then what the person is...

19 Aug 09

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Ending Discussions With People Who Insist You (and your partner) Need Children

danishcanadian @danishcanadian (28953) • Canada 19 Jun 09

A few nights ago the guy I was seeing before I met my husband, found me on Yahoo Messenger, and started a chat. He works in town, and I ran into him by accident one day, so he knew that I was married. He also knew about the age...

childfree

childless

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misslovelyfiles Well am married and I want children just not right know we have to settle first. People ask me all the time when our we going to have children and we just tell them when we get settled I personally would like kids when am 28 or 29. I don't like it when people...

20 Jun 09