mulanmatu

@mulanmatu (68)

Philippines • Age 41

Joined myLot 17 years ago

Mulan here. Hello.

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the best places to hook up with someone

yuseff @yuseff (125) • Philippines 10 Jun 07

the clubs and raves are great spots to meet someone, yes? but churches and libraries are where the serious people who go for nice dates are found. these girls and boys maybe nice daters. but has alot to over under the sheets. if...

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mulanmatu yyea boy! i must say anywhere in the dark. (-:

10 Jun 07

Do you sleep to much or to little?

eachen2002 @eachen2002 (889) • United States 6 Jun 07

I know I sleep too much.I've been called lazy by my family.I try to get myself going in the morning but it's hard sometimes.I have to get people to call me to wake me up sometimes.

do you sleep to much or to little

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mulanmatu I think I sleep too much. Bad. I don't like it. But if I sleep too little, i feel uneasy the whole day. I think that more of this has to do with one's expectations and dispositions.

9 Jun 07

Do you go to second hand stores?

camar_lyn @camar_lyn (1028) • Singapore 9 Jun 07

I recently went to a second hand store out of curiosity. To my pleasant surprise, they do have a few good buys. Like a good just serviced APRICA pram, which would cost me $550, i bought it for $16!! That's a steal to me. They...

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mulanmatu It depends. When one can afford well, a distaste for this second hand goods is not uncommon. But when one can't the second hand stores, are treasure troves. As for me, I'm in the latter.

9 Jun 07

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Would you stay with a man who hits you?

mycharm88 @mycharm88 (2288) • Philippines 7 Jun 07

Would stay with your boyfriend even if he hits you? This happens to one of my friends. She's beautiful and a very good friend of mine. I just knew this lately for she's been hiding the bruises on her legs and arms. I noticed it...

battered girlfriend

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mulanmatu A guy who hits a woman doesnt deserved to be loved. To be honest, if this would happen to me, I would hit him back. I might even kill him. He has no right to do that. Any woman is not a property and is not inferior to any man. A man who batters a wife deserve...

9 Jun 07

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I have started a new J O B!!

kynni204 @kynni204 (2031) • United States 8 Jun 07

Can you remember your first day of work? I have not worked a full time job in 6 years. I've been a stay at- home- mom. How do you make that transition? It feels so strange. I didn't realize how out of touch I was. I interviewed...

new job

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mulanmatu Good. But you're still in the rat race, dear. You still chose the well-travelled road rather than create a new road. At the end of it all, I hope you will be fine.

9 Jun 07

Believers in choice, Do you consider yourselves pro-choice or pro abortion?

cyntrow @cyntrow (8523) • United States 3 Jun 07

I consider myself pro choice. I wish like hell that abortions didn't happen, but I understand why they do. I believe in a woman's right to choose what to do with her body. I believe that pregnancy is not something that all women...

abortion

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mulanmatu It depends. Pro-choice. Pro-choice before conception (use contraceptives, manage you reproductive life) but once the baby is conceived, you have no right to choose. You should let the pregnancy continue. It's like accepting the responsibilities of a behavior...

4 Jun 07

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Is there any atheistic?

missak @missak (3311) • Spain 15 Apr 07

I'll convert them!! at least I'll give you good arguments

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mulanmatu I like discussions on these topic. And I wish I have the privelege of time to follow the debate between Missak and Chiangboy. Well for one, I have realized that Christianity is not my "thing." Second, upon realization of that I became an atheist, then, an...

4 Jun 07

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Is it racist to be against illegal immigration?

gewcew23 @gewcew23 (8007) • United States 3 Jun 07

I am 100% against illegal immigration, because it is illegal. Also, it hurts my country. I am a proud American, my family tree goes back many generations in this country. My family for the most part started in Germany and came to...

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mulanmatu This is how I see it. That is coming from a country who sees America as a land of "greener pastures" where everyone sees coming to America as having realized the "American dream." That is, coming from a country whose work ethic is different from laidback work...

3 Jun 07

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Would you let your spouse bully you into having a baby?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 2 Jun 07

My cousin really wants to have a baby with her husband. But, he keeps claiming that he's not ready. They've been married for ten years, so I have no idea what he's waiting for. Both are in their early thirties. She says...

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mulanmatu In that case, since my biological age is not getting any younger and I'm a woman, I will really have to persuade him. If he still doesnt agree, I think I have enough basis for annulment. I mean, you see, couples should reach a compromise. No trickery. Just...

3 Jun 07

peso getting stronger! good or bad?

teleios @teleios (737) • Philippines 3 Jun 07

it irks me sometimes when we hear reports of the peso getting stronger against the dollar, to hear others say that it will be bad news for those working abroad. i say, we focus on what is good for our country. it is true that the...

dollar rate

peso

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mulanmatu Are all of us here Filipinos? WHooo! Well, im proud that pesos is strengthening. I may not be a fan of GMA,but, at least, she did good, in a way, for the economy. And ask ourselves, it was during Erap's time that the value of peso started to fluctute really...

3 Jun 07

Do you remember your dreams after you wake up?

eachen2002 @eachen2002 (889) • United States 2 Jun 07

I used to remember my dreams but as I have gotten older.I don't seem to remember them anymore or don't concentrate on them as much I suppose.

do you remember your dreams after you wake up

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mulanmatu For a year I have never recalled a dream. That was when I was in a stressful situation in an unfamiliar place. Now, when I was able to get back to the life I am used to, I am now able to get my dreams back.

3 Jun 07

The Worst Date Ever?

breepeace @breepeace (3014) • Canada 1 Jun 07

A lot of my friends have regaled me with their dating horror stories. A friend told me about a date his younger sister went on with a guy she'd just met who told her he wanted to surprise her by taking her for the best pasta in...

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mulanmatu A guy who invited me to a Valentines Fair. Bought the ticket for me. Then, minutes before the date, he texted that he would be late. He was late indeed. Drunk. And with his officemates. In his orange t-shirt and rough behavior. He is a lawyer, I expected him...

2 Jun 07

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Watching Television - A Waste Of Time ??????

sukumar794 @sukumar794 (5040) • Thiruvananthapuram, India 1 Jun 07

Television - it's the window to the world. Seeing is believing ... to that effect TV is much better than newspapers . Some people believe that watchiong TV is a sheer waste of time. But watching TV programs which are informative...

tv viewing

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mulanmatu It depends on the information that one CHOOSES to see. We cannot do away with the television. Otherwise, I can imagine gross differences in people located in different nations. The televion hels in enculturation and in levelling off of the people who watches...

2 Jun 07

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What's Your Favorite Color? Does It Represent Your Personality?

maryannemax @maryannemax (12156) • Sweden 1 Jun 07

i had this friend who had been to bad events in her life. i noticed she loves to wear black tops. being curious about it, i asked why she loves black. she said that it represents her life... how difficult and sad her life is....

color

favorite color

personality

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mulanmatu Black was my favorite color before but nowadays, im trying to switch from dull to colorful. I don't know. Maybe, this is also part of a change in my inner self. From the old, introspective self to a self that is more grounded and real.

2 Jun 07