periwinklez

@periwinklez (138)

Philippines • Age 40

Joined myLot 15 years ago

"Drop the FEAR, keep the FAITH"

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Do you think that a cell phone is a necessity?

Robyn @floridachick (603) • United States 25 Jan 12

I would like to say that I could live without one, but I really can't I mean besides the obvious reasons that if I'm out no matter where I am I could be reached, but what if something happend? like my car breaking down or some...

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periwinklez I can live without it. Hahah! That's when a few years back when cellphone was not invented yet. It's not a necessity for everyone. It depends on what lifestyle you have. You see? If you are living simply in a far flung area I mean in very remote areas, who...

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Value Meals, Do you still feel you are saving from them?

aeisle @aeisle (377) • Philippines 25 Jan 12

Most of our fastfood chains today offers a lot of value meals. Originally they were designed to save few coins or Pesos here in the Philippines. From our fastfoods today, do you still think you are really saving some of those...

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periwinklez I see myself in you. Back then I always analyse (even until now) things especially if it concerns money. I guess it's natural for a thrifty or "frugal" person like us. Hahah! Maybe you are right, those package or savers meals is just a "hoax".I don't know how...

25 Jan 12

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I am making my own day... :-)

mr_pearl @mr_pearl (5018) • India 2 Jan 12

My Dear Fellows... Through your invaluable support, with your precious suggestions and with your cheers; I made my day today... I am not sure if the expression 'make my day' conveys what I want to say.. So let me relate what I...

had a good day

thank you fellows

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periwinklez wow!nice to hear this from you friend. glad that you felt good this day (i'm quite late, kinda behind of the news here nowadays :( . Hope this continues and find something that will really interest you and aid your social life.:) Now you are not feeling...

11 Jan 12

Why can't people just be grateful?

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 8 Jan 12

I believe we are all born with the capacity for gratitude, but many times we get in our own way. Two common examples of this are pessimism and perfectionism. Pessimists and perfectionists may have things to be grateful for in...

perfectionists

pessimists

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periwinklez Because human nature is insatiable. Enough is never enough because we always find something missing. We often overlook the 90% that we have and focuses on the 10% missing. I guess pessimism and perfectionism somehow co-relate to each other and sometimes go...

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How I had gotten out of depression a year ago . . .

boyuancy @boyuancy (1708) • India 6 Jan 12

I was thinking about how I had gotten out of depression a year ago and I remembered exactly how. I thought it would be worth sharing with my myLot friends here. I know almost all of you have seen Harry Potter movies, and I...

cure

depression

emotions

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periwinklez So what did you do to develop confidence?Can you share the details here? "cause I'm one of the persons who badly needs this. Just the other day, I and my high school classmate crossed path so I had to acknowledge her. And I just can't understand why I can't...

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I am scared of my loneliness...

mr_pearl @mr_pearl (5018) • India 31 Dec 11

My Dear Fellows... Happy New Year to you and your family... Hope you had or having a great time, during the transition between 2011 to 2012... I am not having a good time and so I am seeking help again on myLot.. What I write...

loneliness

scared

solitude

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periwinklez I too often feel this when I'm riding back home or going to malls alone. Wonder why I'm alone and why other people seemed so happy with their companions. Yes I have some friends and a family but something is missing that suddenly sinks in me. I guess it's the...

4 Jan 12

The New Year has come...

mr_pearl @mr_pearl (5018) • India 31 Dec 11

My dear Fellows.. It is 20 minutes past 12 am here... Just before 20 minutes I heard fire crackers and music and cheers... I sit here alone typing on myLot, my mind full of mixture of different feelings... I feel happy for the...

2012

new year

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periwinklez Tsk..tsk..tsk....I just dunno what to say now. Encouraging words are not enough to console you now. Hope you have moved on by this time with this feeling. I'm just wondering, don't you have at least one friend to celebrate it with you? Or where is your family?...

4 Jan 12

what is the best thing to do when you're bored?

bjcelyn @bjcelyn (108) • Philippines 3 Jan 12

i am totally bored today (actually for several days of the week). I just stay at home and watch movies or do some stuffs on the internet. if not, i just watch TV or sleep or EAT A LOT., and this is bad for me. i tend to gain...

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periwinklez how i wish i have that craving too when I'm bored. I wanted to gain weight now.hahah! How bout reading? Or go to malls, ask your friend to come along? And wouldn't it be nice also if you start your day with a little exercise or walk outside and if your lucky...

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Thumb sucking

C @ShyBear88 (59347) • Sterling, Virginia 3 Jan 12

How often as a child did you suck thumb? I never sucked my thumb as a child that I remembered. I was a child that was stuck on th baby bottle for a good few years. My husband he stll kind of sucks his thumb it's his safety...

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periwinklez It's okay for children to have this habit. There's a psychological explanation or theory to this but I forgot. And this also connects to adults smoking. But with your husband's case, kinda weird and it's my first time to hear that an adult still "thumb sucks"....

4 Jan 12

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Resolutions.... Do You Keep A Track Of Them?

theSids @thesids (22180) • Bhubaneswar, India 19 Dec 11

Hi Lotters and Friends New year is just a few days ahead. But this is not about what your New Resolutions are! Right. So Last year in 2010 (somewhere around Christmas of 2010), I decided my only resolution...

resolutions

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periwinklez You just gave me an idea! That's so cool. You're really serious with those new year's resolution, hope i can be too. I actually wrote years ago 'bout this but i failed, big time! hahaha! So I stopped doing this "tradition" but not totally i guess. 'Cause I...

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I saw --- I added--- and went crazy about her

rahularya @rahularya (65) • India 17 Dec 11

few days back I saw a girl in one Social networking site.She was so beautiful that i cannot stop myself from adding her and now she is everything to me...but dont know how to tell her

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periwinklez Tsk! just because she looks so good makes you fall head over heels? come on? You don't know her. It's just infatuation, a mere attraction. With so much photo editing software available now, how can you be so sure that she is a SHE, perhaps she could be a HE....

21 Dec 11

No FB allowed at work. I hope they wouldn't block Mylot.

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1149) • Philippines 15 Dec 11

I'm working as a tutor online. Yet, i have a lot of spare time. I would like to spend my time on mylot since facebook is blocked and prohibited. I hate it when I a not doing anything. I get bored when I just surf the net about...

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periwinklez Same here..Apart from that all media streaming sites have been blocked. Oh well, what can we do? Since we are under the policy of our employers. I agree with you, boredom really strikes when it's all about work or when you are left with nothing to work except...

15 Dec 11

Why do they have to laugh at a loner??? :-(

mr_pearl @mr_pearl (5018) • India 2 Dec 11

My dear friends, I've my week off today. In the morning, after my breakfast I decided to treat myself with a movie. So I got ready and came here, at E Square, a famous multiplex, where I'm at and waiting for the show to start. Am...

loners n society

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periwinklez Oh my! Those people deserve whipping for being rude. hahaha! Is it a culture in your country to never go out alone? :) What's wrong with that? I go out alone most of the time, though sometimes I feel awkward or pity myself especially when eating in food chain...

13 Dec 11

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When We Meet... Will You Be The Same "You" I Knew Of?

theSids @thesids (22180) • Bhubaneswar, India 12 Dec 11

Hi Lotters and Friends Christmas Time, New Year Time.... Holiday Plans time. The Scenario: So let us think about this - You get a chance to meet a Fellow MyLotter for the very First Time in the real world. You...

meetin a mylotter

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periwinklez It happened to me several times already. It's so rampant here in our country to meet virtual friends in real life. We call it eyeball. I'm an introvert so it's hard for me to initiate a conversation or keep the conversation going and interesting. I get nervous...

13 Dec 11

Pressured to suceed?

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 5 Dec 11

Did you have the type of parents/ guardians that focused on success in Everything? Or did you have parents/ guardians who wanted you to just do your best? I saw two shows/ movies that showed how too much pressure to succeed can...

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periwinklez My parents were not hard on us or forced us to succeed and be someone we can't. They only want us to finish school because it assures them of our future. That we won't grow beggars or helpless. Being academically good is already a bonus for their hardworks and...

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What are the things you do when you are sad?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 30 Nov 11

Do you ask for your friends to be with you and you ask them to take you out to enjoy the night? do you stay at home more and just watch the television? Or do you just tend to talk about the things that made you sad with your...

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periwinklez i locked my self in my room, i'm a loner :). like you i sometimes over analyze the things that's happening or has happened. as a result i can't help but cry. so pathetic!haha! i don't regret it's part of being human, i'ts a therapy also for me to think things...

30 Nov 11

When is your Company Christmas Party?

red_amethyst @red_amethyst (3518) • Philippines 30 Nov 11

and would you attend it? I do not have work right now so I don't have any Christmas party to attend to and I must say I miss those parties. My husband is working in a good company and right now he is out to attend their...

celebrate

celebrating christmas

christmas

party

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periwinklez HI amethyst!!are you a Filipino? :) Our company's Christmas party will be on Dec. 10. I'm not really excited about it because i know i will just have to pretend and act as friendly as i can be. I'm not a sociable person and don't like to be around a crowd. I...

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Do you get emotional when listening to music?

pepai123456 @pepai123456 (879) • Philippines 26 Nov 11

There will be days that we will encounter sad moments in life like seeing our ex or watching someone leave you for no reason or you just wanna be emotional for no reason (like me haha...).When i listen to music at home i would...

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periwinklez Yeah, almost all the time. I'm a music lover i just can't imagine how to live without music. Most of my collections are mellow and love songs. So everytime i play it i can't help myself but to start reminiscing and get emotional especially when the lyrics...

27 Nov 11

Stay away from negative people!

befrindwithme26 @befrindwithme26 (5805) • Philippines 26 Nov 11

You may influence by them if you are near,and listen to what he/she says... This is not good because if you support what they have said, i am sure you are influence! You have to give advice,or correct to not do it because if...

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periwinklez It is better to stay away from such kind of people and surround yourself with positive people. But what if it happens to be your friends? Perhaps they became very negative due to some reasons. Would you leave them instead of helping them out because of this...

27 Nov 11

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