scooter1024

@scooter1024 (1243)

United States • Age 53

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How to get over a break up ?

esteria @esteria (396) • India 8 Nov 12

I was in a 2 year long relationship with a girl. We had even planned like the kids name and stuff. Then I came abroad for further studies and within 2 months our long distance attempt has crumbled. She officially broke up with me...

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scooter1024 Breakups are hard to deal with. Surround yourself with friends and family. Give yourself time. I always found i had a process to go through to get past it. I had my feeling of hurt and then later it became anger at why the breakup took place. After I allowed...

9 Nov 12

Does Fighting Strengthen A Relationship?

Bluebell18 @Bluebell18 (636) • United States 29 Oct 12

When my boyfriend and I started our relationship over a year ago, we made a promise not to fight (although that was a lie in itself) Due to hardships in our lives, we find ourselves arguing over the smallest detail late into the...

fighting

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scooter1024 Stress can cause alot of problems in relationships. Find time to talk about the stress you both have in your lives and find a way to lessen it. Every relationship has its ups and downs. I have never heard of any not having an argument at least once in awhile....

9 Nov 12

Scary Lump

habibti320 @habibti320 (925) • United States 8 Nov 12

Not too many giggles, please! Ladies, I was just shaving my underarm area and discovered something quite scary! I felt a rather painful lump underneath the skin of my underarm (towards the chest area). We have all heard about the...

cancer

examination

health

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scooter1024 It's very possible it could be a cyst or swollen lymphnode. Also it could be even more serious like breast cancer. The only way to know for sure is to get a doctor to look at it. If it is something serious maybe you can check on services offered to help pay...

9 Nov 12

Do you think that increase the cigarette's price is a good method?

youless @youless (112561) • Guangzhou, China 8 Nov 12

Sometimes the government will increase the price of the cigarette so that smoking rate will be dropping. Do you think this is a good method? I don't think it works very efficiently. I think it is better to have more public...

smoking

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scooter1024 I feel if a person wants to smoke they are going to smoke no matter how costly cigarettes become. They have made it very hard for the smokers to continue to smoke by not allowing them to smoke in public places. People just find other ways around it. When your...

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hiphop dance

tinatins03 @tinatins03 (12) • Philippines 5 Oct 11

I love dancing. I used to dance during programs ever since I was a kid. I wanted to know some new dance step of Hiphop.Can you teach me how? or any idea?

hiphop

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scooter1024 I don't know alot of dances but I do go to youtube.com and watch the videos. They actually have instructional videos that can teach you the steps. Just type in the song name and instrucions and you should find some. Good Luck.

5 Oct 11

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One of those days

gk655321 @gk655321 (236) 25 Sep 11

For the past few weeks it's been a non stop one of those days where nothing goes right and I've been genuinely depressed. However, I know this is just one of those low points and I don't really mind it all that much. I was...

stress depression life

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scooter1024 Personally I feel if it goes on for a few months then it's time to see a doctor. I myself have been having one of those days this weekend. It just dont seem to want to end. I have alot of stress in my life because of all my responsibilities but I don't feel I...

25 Sep 11

Are you a tidy person or do you like to keep things a bit messy?

MarappleStiffy @marapplestiffy (2182) • Philippines 7 May 11

I don't mean messy like not cleaning up or having the garbage sitting there but messy like putting your books on the floor, magazine atop the coffee table, clothes hang carelessly on the hangers, make-up all strewn up...and the...

you

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scooter1024 I am not a real tidy person. I grew up in a house where it looked lived in and thats how I am now. It's nice to have a nice clean house with everything in its place but then you just dont feel as free to relax. My clothes may not always get hung up right away....

25 Sep 11

Have you dated someone you met online? How was it?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 6 Nov 10

So to all those who have been chatting or spending time online... have you met them in person, actually set a date for a movie perhaps?? how did it go?

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scooter1024 I actually have met and dated 3 men I met online. Things were good for awhile but didn't last. Meeting online works great for lots of people just wasnt right for me.

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what would make you dump your partner?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 6 Aug 11

no relationship is perfect. when one is in a relationship... the stress, the worries is actually as much as the fun, the love, and the sweetness. in any case... when you are in a relationship... what would make you want to...

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scooter1024 I would definately have to say if he cheated on me. I have had past experience with this and its hard to ever forget what they have done. If you truely love the person then you can work out anything if both parties are willing to try. Sometimes even if they...

7 Aug 11

How long do you think a couple should be together before they get married?

Azaerus @Azaerus (820) • Philippines 14 Nov 10

From what I have observed, couples of today are such in a hurry to get married.Some have only been together for a couple of months some even weeks, although some marriage are also brought up just because of unexpected pregnancies....

couples

marriage

relationships

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scooter1024 The length of the marriage has nothing to do with how long the dating process took. I have a cousin that dated his wife only 3 months before getting married and they have been married for over 20 years now. My first marriage lasted only 8 years and we dated 9...

14 Nov 10

Can you sleep with lights turn on?

mayrah @mayrah (1144) • United States 12 Nov 10

Most people I know cannot sleep with light turn on but actually it's all in the mind, we can sleep even with light turn on, It's just that we were used to sleep without and our mind was set that we can't sleep with light turn...

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scooter1024 I am one of those people who can sleep anytime anywhere. It doesn't matter if its dark or light, day or night. I can sleep in a vehicle, sitting on a couch, or even playing on the computer. I see nothing wrong with this but I do feel a person gets better rest...

12 Nov 10

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Your realationsship

NicoZieg @NicoZieg (591) • Denmark 10 Nov 10

How long has your longest relationship lasted. Do you think your current relationship it will last forever? My relationship has lasted for 10 month now, but I going really bad, so I don't know how long we will stay together....

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scooter1024 My longest relationship lasted 8 years. We got divorced about 11 years ago. My husband and I have been married for 1 year and I am hoping it lasts forever. Everyone wants that one true love to spend their life with. I really hope this one is mine.

11 Nov 10

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Demon Kitty

alaskanray @alaskanray (4636) • United States 11 Nov 10

Our latest invasion is from a beautiful female that keeps barging into our home. She has beautiful markings and long soft fur. I suspect she has a home but she keeps coming in through my open windows or door. She is not friendly,...

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scooter1024 Cats don't like vinegar. I spray white distilled vinegar in places I don't want my cats going. They stop real quick and go the other way. Try spraying your window sills and door way with it. I hope this works. If not just start spraying the cat with water. It...

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HOUSE HUSBAND... is it alright?

vangie26 @vangie26 (445) • Philippines 30 Oct 10

What can you say in relationship wherein the husband is in the one who is in the house and the wife is the one providing? Is it already accepted in your society? I know some. Other reason why husband is not working is...

husbands at home

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scooter1024 In our house my husband is the one at home. He isn't able to work so he takes care of the children and helps around the house. There are a lot of households like this now days. I think its fine as long as the wife isn't expected to do everything when she gets...

11 Nov 10

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How much is too much?

free_man @free_man (7330) • United States 11 Nov 10

How can he expect her to pay for him a vehicle when he has never paid her back for all the money he has gotten from her? Mom got him and his ex wife out of jail after they fought! She gave them money and told him to pay her back...

how much is too much

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scooter1024 You tell the person that they have to let them grow up someday. If they keep giving out the money they never will. The guy and gal may get mad and hate her for awhile but will thank her in the end. It needs to be pointed out to her that when she dies who's...

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Snake Surprise...

twoey68 @twoey68 (13627) • United States 19 Oct 10

Ok, there are a few things in life that I can’t stand…bugs, bees, mice, rats, roaches, snakes, spiders…pretty much everything creepy. You can imagine my surprise then when a few weeks ago Hubby goes to the kitchen and starts...

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scooter1024 I am deathly afraid of snakes. I had an experience in a house I used to live in years ago. I seen a shirt laying on the ground outside and I picked it up and threw it on the porch. I seen something fall out of it so went to investigate and low and behold it...

10 Nov 10

middle child syndrome

kristenc @kristenc (107) • United States 19 Oct 10

Hey there! For the parents out there with more than one child, preferably 3 or more, did or does your middle child experience middle child syndrome in any way? I have a 5 year old, 2 year old and a 9 month old. And my 2 year...

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scooter1024 I have five children ranging from ages 19 down to 6. My middle child is a loner. I try to give all my children the same attention but it is hard. My middle child sometimes feel left from the other children. She does know she is loved and she has the most easy...

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Why many young people or teenagers commit suicide?

cherryntatsi @cherryntatsi (16) • Philippines 11 Oct 10

Nowadays, people who commit suicide are getting younger and younger. I even heared a news about a 10 year old boy took his own life after his mother scolded him. So, what do you think are the factors of suicide and how you can...

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scooter1024 I would say a lot of it comes from peer pressure. Kids these days are so cruel. They don't care about others feelings. It seems if they hurt someone they feel powerful. Another cause could be some kind of abuse in their lives. Maybe they don't get the love...

11 Oct 10

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