ShadowofHope2010

@ShadowofHope2010 (173)

United States • Age 50

Joined myLot 15 years ago

Live life for the present and most impt of all, the future!!!

ShadowofHope2010's Responses

betrayal

setsuna26 @setsuna26 (2751) • Philippines 5 Jun 10

Theres this girl who recently became close to me... we talked for hours until the morning comes, we never ran out of topics to share, we are even "friends with benefits" at night...Then just when im about to fall for her she told...

betrayal

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ShadowofHope2010 I think the right thing to do is maybe forget her. After all, she did betray you, and left yo for someone else. There's someone better out there for you; this girl was just using you. You should find someone else, distract yourself. After all, she didn't...

5 Jun 10

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Parental Jealousy

elfbwillow @elfbwillow (307) 2 Jun 10

On opening this discussion I want to point out firstly that there is no parental jealousy at all within our little family though recently I have come across a few different situations in which I have seen this happen. When I...

children

jealousy

parents

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ShadowofHope2010 This is a very good question, elbwillow. First of all, I think that these mothers have always wanted to be the best, and don't like it when someone else is better than them, even if it's their own daughter. These kinds of people are immature, insecure, and...

3 Jun 10

How do you save money

lologirl2021 (Holly) @lologirl2021 (5542) • United States 1 Jun 10

What are your best ways on saving money? I am always looking for ways to save money. I am a mypoints.com fanatic and love going on there to buy things online with coupons codes then if you print out coupons there you get points...

life

money

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ShadowofHope2010 Well, I would definitely register for mypoints.com if I had any money to spend online! Currently, I am looking for a full-time job, and that has been some kind og challenge for me, as I have n job experience since I've been a housemom since the birth of my...

2 Jun 10

If someone threatened to kill themselves every time

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 1 Jun 10

you wanted to end the relationship would you stay with them as the chances of them killing themselves are very high.I told my friend if that the partner can say they are going to kill themselves but that do not mean that they...

kill themselves

partners

staying with a person

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ShadowofHope2010 Whoa, this sounds like a very abusive relationship. Tell your friend that he is only trying to manipulate her, and she shouldn't fall into that trap. If she really wants to get away from him ,she needs to contact the authorities, and let them know what is...

2 Jun 10

would you throw him out?

cher913 @cher913 (25782) • Canada 1 Jun 10

the story about the dude that is 30 something in florida who called 911 when his mom took away his beer struck a cord with hubby and i. we currently have a border who is 24, married and has a kid (his wife threw him out), has...

border

fed up

lazy

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ShadowofHope2010 I would feel bad for throwing him out. But his wife DID throw him out for a reason, you know. So the best thing to do is get you and your hubby to communicate with the boarder. Don't nag either; you should only have to tell him once, like a warning. I would...

2 Jun 10

Oooopsie! Are we not allowed to mention our earnings here?

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9546) • Philippines 1 Jun 10

Just now I went over the discussions I have started to read the responses I got and I found out that the most recent discussion I had regarding my earning here got deleted. Why? Am I missing anything? Are we not supposed to...

earnings

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ShadowofHope2010 You know, I actually am not sure, but I do think that MyLot wants to keep earnings secret. Because, really, they don't tell anyone how they determine your earnings, or how much you get per discussion. all I know is, it takes a lot of time to get up to another...

2 Jun 10

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How can I get rid of fleas in my house?

roxxtime @roxxtime (299) • United States 29 May 10

I have one animal, a cat, who somehow got fleas. He is a completely indoor cat. I know have fleas all over in my house. I vaccuum regularly and have been using flea spray but they don't seem to be leaving. My cat has been treated...

bugs

fleas

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ShadowofHope2010 Hi, roxxtime. This is a tough situation in which you have to be very thorough in all you do. First, make sure the fleas are off your cat. Wash him everyday with flea shampoo. You might even need 2 bottles, because you have to work a rich lather in his coat...

30 May 10

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What is it going to take to get these people off my back?

Loverbear @Loverbear (4918) • United States 30 May 10

As you all well know, I have had problems with the neighbors and the sewing machine that I borrowed. They are accusing me of "stealing" the sewing machine and selling it on ebay. They also claim that the sewing machine that I...

horrible neighbors

neighbors from the bowels of he11

old neighbors with nothing better to do

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ShadowofHope2010 Loverbear, You're only falling in to their trap! They want to harm you in some way and you're letting them do that. you should act like they don't exist at all. I know they embarrassed you at the barbecue, and the right thing to do was leave without a word....

30 May 10

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Are you comfortable working with a desktop or laptop?

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 29 May 10

I might be different from the majority of people here, I would rather work with a desktop rather than a laptop when I was at work, Or I would do something seriously important. It is not that I can't work with a laptop computer,...

desktop

laptop

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ShadowofHope2010 It depends on where I am and what I'm doing. I have both a laptop and a desktop, and use my desktop mostly when I'm at home. Sometimes I use my laptop while in bed sick. I use my laptop when I'm traveling, or when I go out for lunch some place. It works either...

30 May 10

In Relationship With A Non-Christian

Kikotay @Kikotay (74) • Malaysia 30 May 10

I need some advice. I've been dating a non-christian for 'bout 3 years now. 2+ years in our relationship, bible study taught me that dating a non-christian is a no-no. The group that I bible study with encouraged me to break up...

advice

christian

relationship

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ShadowofHope2010 The best thing to do her is to communicate. Never mind the people from your church, it's common sense that they would tell you to end it. But they're not the ones who fell in love with your boyfriend. Why is he non-Christian? Is he in some different religion...

30 May 10

What is your antivirus software?

carrine @carrine (2743) • Philippines 29 May 10

do you believe that even if you installed the most expensive antivirus software you installed still your pc got infected? yes it is, still your pc got infected. why? because antivirus software is just a software, it really depends...

antivirus software

computer

virus

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ShadowofHope2010 the best is Norton. they always scan your computer and any website ur about to go to onto. it works fast and well. hope this helps! =)

30 May 10

I want to loose weight but cannot afford pills, gyms, or exersice equiptment....

tickle_monster06 @tickle_monster06 (75) • United States 29 May 10

I want to seriously loose weight, I am and have not been happy with my figure since I had my son almost four years ago. I am about 50 pounds over where I would like to be. I cannot afford diet pills as I am having a financial...

diet

exersice

overweight

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ShadowofHope2010 As much as people say it can't be done- it can! Eat on a hunter-gatherer diet. Nothing packaged, because these have lots of carbs. Low carbs means lots of weight loss. Eat things like veggies, nuts, and berries. (Only berries)You can eat any kind of meat you...

30 May 10

Catholic Church excommunicates saintly sister for approving abortion.

coffeechat @coffeechat (1961) • New Zealand 29 May 10

The full news items is available here http://tinyurl.com/2u78snm [i]Sister Margaret McBride of Phoenix, Ariz., was excommunicated from the Catholic Church after approving an abortion that saved a woman’s life. The...

abortion

catholic church

excommunication

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ShadowofHope2010 No religion is perfect. I think that if it would've ended hr life, she did the right thing. But, then again, she should've been more careful. But each religion DOES have there own ideology, and they have to stick to it, or everyone else will try to find loop...

30 May 10

Scent marking

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85146) • Shingle Springs, California 29 May 10

My Dad has this remark he loves to make when the cat rubs against him. He says, "I used to think the cats liked me, but now I have learned that they are just marking me as their property." True, but look at it this way, Dad....

cats

dad and his humor

scent marking

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ShadowofHope2010 How funny! My cat always waits for me to come out of my room in the morning. I usually go into the kitchen, and he'll come around to rub up on my leg. I love him but this can be so annoying sometimes!!!! I try to push him away (he's been shedding lately) and...

30 May 10

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How often you vacuum your carpet floor?

shan0822 @shan0822 (433) • United States 8 Feb 10

My hometomn is china, in there, seems no one use carpet floos as friends I know. We just use hard wood floor. But here in American, carpet floor seems so common, every house use it. I have no experience how to clean the carpet...

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ShadowofHope2010 I agree, I come from Panama and only the rich had carpet. Now, in America, everyone has carpet. I don't see the big deal, I loathe it. It gets dirty way to easily and flattens over time. I vacuum my carpet every 3 days, and I bought a steam cleaner to clean it...

30 May 10

permanent straightening of hair.... any advices?

shonali @shonali (1286) • India 10 Dec 08

i am thinking of getting my long wavy hair straightened permanently..... i am so fed up of my waves..... and every person i meet tells me that i have awesome hair and would look really good if they are straight..... i had gone to...

permanent hair straightening

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ShadowofHope2010 Well, this is something you have to be very careful with. You have to be careful with who you choose to get your hair done with. In some cities, permanently straightening hair is not available. It is called JAPANESE THERMAL STRAIGHTENING and it is more...

30 May 10

Have you ever ate fetus soup?

Sheri @tuckersheri (1327) • United States 28 May 10

I have never ate fetus soup. I never will and I do not have the desire to eat it. It's so gross to even think about eating not to meantion inhumane. Fetus soup is was a invented recepie invented by the Chinese. They belive this...

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ShadowofHope2010 I totally agree. This is inhumane. This is what we call CANNIBALISM. Eating any kind of human, full developed or not, is truly disgusting. I simply can't comprehend how anyone can eat a baby or anything like that at all. But it is their culture, and not ours...

29 May 10

Would I be out of line to do something like this?

handsomeitaliano @handsomeitaliano (1050) • United States 28 May 10

My wife and I just got married and we've been together for 3 years. We both have individual savings accounts where we each have a good amount. She wants to open a joint savings account that will be separate from my savings and her...

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ShadowofHope2010 Since you say that your relationship is perfectly fine, you should ask your wife. In my opinion, it'd be the best thing to do to avoid any future conflict. Maybe she prefers to keep her own money and you keep your and you get a joint savings account, you never...

29 May 10

communicate with your ex?

braiym3 @braiym3 (135) • Philippines 28 May 10

Do you think is it OK to communicate with your ex after a long time? I admit there are times I think of him and wishing that we still have communications. Its not because I do still love him but because I miss him and i want him...

boyfriend

love

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ShadowofHope2010 It really depends on how you broke up with him and whether or not he still wants to communicate with you. If you just grew apart or something, you should definitely contact him because maybe he misses you too just as much as you miss him. If you broke up...

29 May 10

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