shahalashamo

@shahalashamo (166)

China • Age 37

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The lessons I have learned in life

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 18 Jan 10

1. Have high ambitions and work hard to achieve them-don't bother too much about the results for results will come tomorrow if not today. 2. Realize the importance of time and utilize it optimally. 3. Try to cultivate self...

i learned

lessons

life

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shahalashamo what you have said is right,I need learn it.I believe that you will lead a happy life with this lessons.

19 Jan 10

What is life anyway?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 19 Jan 10

How do you define life? Life means joy for some: Its a gift to some. Is it blessing? bliss? happiness? love? dream? endless challenges? struggles? Fear? What is life anyway according to you? To me Life is a continuous...

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shahalashamo I donot know what is life,but i surely know i will be happy,fullfill my value and help my surrounding people getting happy in my life.

19 Jan 10

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Have you ever had a car accident?

magic9 @magic9 (980) • China 17 Jan 10

This topic may not pleasing but I still want to ask that if you have ever had a car accident. I had a car crash this afternoon. I was sitting beside my boss and we were listening to smooth music. Suddenly she began to tap the...

car crash

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shahalashamo I am lucky,I haven't had an accident.Now the number of the car in the city become more and more,so it is very easy to have a crash.Many times I went to work by public transportation i see a crash taken place at the road.Of cource it is not very serious.

18 Jan 10

Do you do excercise/sports everyday or at least once a week?

asanlee @asanlee (408) • Indonesia 15 Jan 10

Although I know that do exercise/ sports is important for our health, but I seldom do it. I always have many excuses or just lazy to do so. Many people, not aware until they are sick or diagnosed have some diseases, then just...

health

life

sports

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shahalashamo I almost do sports once a week.I surely believe that doing sports is useful to our health.Maybe you still feel you are at good state even if you do not do any sports,but i believe that you may be at subhealthy state.So i suggest you doing some sports as long...

16 Jan 10

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made in china!!!

prepzter23 @prepzter23 (131) • Philippines 14 Jan 10

We know that almost all the products that arte cheap and but low in quality are came from china.Is it the secret of there booming industry to make huge quantities of products but low in qualities?My father said that if you have...

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shahalashamo I believe that not every chinese product is low-quality.I surely believe that the chinese product is cheaper than many of other countries product.Because there are many cheap labor forces.

14 Jan 10

.. is it right to compliment your mate often ?

sanjana_aslam @sanjana_aslam (4187) • Malaysia 13 Jan 10

my husband was angry with me for "thanking" him for everything that he has been doing for me for the past 3 weeks. well since i broke my leg i was unable to do almost everything .. he cooked me breakfast +lunch before going...

compliments

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shahalashamo I think it's not a right or wrong problem.Your husband donot like you thank him,it is not wrong,because he is your husband,he should do it.If you want to express thanks to him,you can express it in another way.Such as doing something you can do for him.

13 Jan 10

do you select work what you want?

bingchen @bingchen (1119) • China 5 Jan 10

i find that it is not easy to find my favorite work,i only work for life's expense and have not ability to what i want,sometimes i feel helpless to do like that,even i am bored at my job,i hope that i can do what i want,so i can...

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shahalashamo yes,finding a favorite job is difficult,but you still have the opportunity to get it as long as you work it hard.Now i think my current job is my favorite job,although it is not perfect,but i am sytisfying.

11 Jan 10

marry at tomorrow.

bingchen @bingchen (1119) • China 10 Jan 10

i would register with my boyfriend tomorrow and become real couple.we decide that we could not prepare my wedding and invite our family to be together and share the dinner.i dont know the meaning about marriage.because i dont care...

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shahalashamo Oh,that's a good thing.Congratulations to you.You should trust your husband,you will lead a happy life.As you have informed that marriage cannot limit what you want to do,I also agree with you,but sometimes you have to consider for your husband.Wish you have...

11 Jan 10

I will not give up!

megamatt @megamatt (14292) • United States 11 Jan 10

Have you ever had a project in school or even work, that no matter how frustrating it seemed, you were determined to complete it? No matter how many hours you burned in your life, you were determined to see it through and...

stubborn

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shahalashamo You are determined,I think it is a good character for you.Everything is the same,as long as you stack to it,it will get well done.I also want to stack to it,but sometimes i cannot control myself well.sometimes i was determind to complete it no matter how...

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how do you pass during staying at home??

bingchen @bingchen (1119) • China 7 Jan 10

i have stay at home for 1 month.i feel abored at my life.i often use computer to waste my time or i go out of my home and go climbing and go shopping,this life make me sad.i hope that i can start to work again.but the spring...

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shahalashamo Hi,bingchen,I am sad to listen this.Maybe you have nothing to do without job.You have informed that you will work untill the spring is coming.So you should take a good time and do what you want to do at this time.If you feel lonely,you can find a friend and...

7 Jan 10

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do you have habit of writing diary?

bingchen @bingchen (1119) • China 3 Jan 10

i have this habit to write diary.although i am busy at my life and work,but i like to write what happen that day and my feeling,because i find that the life could not perfect and even exist unfair and make me sad,i hope that i can...

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shahalashamo When i am a student,i almost wrote a diary every one week.I expressed my feeling through word,If i am at bad mood,after writing a diary my mood become clear out gradually.But now occausionally i will write a diary but not often.I think writing diary is a good...

6 Jan 10

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Choose less intelligent girl

bhanusb @bhanusb (5709) • India 5 Jan 10

Hi guys, when you want to marry choose a girl who is less intelligent than you. If your wife is more intelligent than she will always try to dominate over you. Your life will become hell. So it is better to marry a girl who is a...

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shahalashamo Maybe it is your personal ideal.I believe that even if your girlfriend is more intelligent than you she may not dominate your relationship.She will use her intelligence to help improving your relationship.

6 Jan 10

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Do you eat breakfast?

taraelocin @taraelocin (1138) 2 Jan 10

'Breakfast like a king, have dinner like a pauper!' - that's what my grandmother used to say. And she is right, you know? Breakfast is the most important meal to set you up for the day. But that doesn't change that I just can't...

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shahalashamo yes,i eat breakfast very often,one one hand,if i have not eat breakfast,i will be hungry in the morning.one the other hand,eating breakfast is good for our healthy.So i think eating breakfast is a good habit.

2 Jan 10

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What are your wishes or goals for 2010?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 1 Jan 10

I wish to make big money in 2010. I want to take care of my health I want to take part in religious activities. I want to learn keyboard. I want to write more. How about you?

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shahalashamo I wish I can do with everything well,and get along with everyone well.In addition,i am looking forward some changes in my life,I need read more books and spend more time on working.

2 Jan 10

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what are you doing for the first day of new year?

bingchen @bingchen (1119) • China 2 Jan 10

i find that the new year is coming,i want to make relax,so i decide to go shopping to buy what i want,at the same time i want to go climbing with my husband and share fresh air from mountain,but i could not use computer...

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shahalashamo today is the third day of 2010,I still standing at home.on the first day of 2010,morning i wake up very late,after lunch,i went out for shopping with my family,there were so many people in the market.

2 Jan 10

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how to warm in the weather?

bingchen @bingchen (1119) • China 2 Jan 10

i find that this winter is too cold,although i wear thick cloths and make me keep warm,but i could not feel warm and still feel cold,especally my hands and toes always cold and make me uncomfortable,so i often stay at home and...

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shahalashamo I think some actions may help you keep your body warm.For example,you take a bag fulled of hot water at your hand for long time,your hand will become warm.Or wearing gloves is also helpful.In addition,if you want to keep your whole body warm,I think doing...

2 Jan 10

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Do you really want to be rich?

magic9 @magic9 (980) • China 30 Dec 09

Do you really want to be rich? ? ? I am asking this question is because I don't think most people do! many people, yes, desire to get more money, but only very few really really want to be rich. why? because the majority of...

getting rich

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shahalashamo I think most of people want to be rich.If you are rich,you needn't fear the money,you can afford to what you want to buy.However,It is just a thinking.Not everyone can make it come true.As you said that Most of people do nothing about it,it is a day...

31 Dec 09

sometimes giving up is good way

bingchen @bingchen (1119) • China 29 Dec 09

one of my friends have decide to end up her love and start new life,i find that what her do is beyond i think,because her always quarrel with her boyfriend,but at last they continue to recover their relation,this thing often...

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shahalashamo yes,most of time we need stick to it,but sometimes we need give it up.Such as bad love,if somebody always hurt you,I think giving up is a good choice.The life is belongs to ourselves.If it indeed make me feel no good I think it's very necessary to kick it.

30 Dec 09

I Hate New Year's Eve - so there!

cynthiann @cynthiann (18602) • Jamaica 29 Dec 09

I really do. As a child, New Year wasn't so bad The whole idea of getting old isn't fraught with anxiety. Nor is there any of that wretched imperative to have fun. If we were still awake, we would open the front door and kick out...

festivities

peole

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shahalashamo I still like New Year's Eve even if i am a teenager.Because at new year's eve I can have a good dinner together with my family.What's more,the new year's atmosphere is very busy.I like it.

30 Dec 09

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