shutong

@shutong (42)

China • Age 35

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Would you have stopped her from walking out?

JenInTN @JenInTN (27514) • United States 11 Mar 11

Times are very busy at work righy now...7 days a week can take a toll on anyone.Emotions have the potential of getting the best of us and yesturday...a girl that works under me started to walk out!!! When I realized..I chased her...

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shutong From this I can tell you are real a kind person and u have done the right thing to retrive some mistakes the little girl may make. But there is one thing should be paid attention to--why would she walked out? Does she have any problems that she can't tell...

19 Mar 11

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I'm Starting To Like MyLot

YoghurtGal @flapiz (23272) • United Kingdom 17 Mar 11

Hi guys. I just started myLot yesterday and my sole purpose of joining was just for earning. But as i start searching the discussions i find out things that i can relate to. I am then able to express my opinions and it feels...

friend

learning

newbie

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shutong Hi,flapiz,welcome! This is quite a facinating website! For me,I can have a discussion with people all around the world and see what they are concerning about how they considering the same issue from quite a different way. Hope u will like i too!

19 Mar 11

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How much time do you spend on yourself every day?

devijay78 @devijay78 (1573) • India 19 Mar 11

The time I spend on the computer clicking ads and being active on mylot is the only time I have for myself. The rest is used for household chores, cooking, dropping and picking up my daughter from school, taking care of her,...

me time

relaxation

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shutong Oh,miserable. I can't imagine living such kind of life without any time for ourselves. I think try to spare some time to do what we like is what life tends to be .Lucky for me,I haven't graduated from collge to face so many daily routines. Why don't u drop...

19 Mar 11

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Did you join in KolotiBablo ?

hieuhanh @hieuhanh (96) • Vietnam 10 Mar 11

I read that this is a true website . But when I register , I can't not sign in , It just say that "No user such" .... I really want to do in this , but I don't find out anyone to ask . Can you help me , myLotter ? And do you...

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shutong I don't know what kind of website it is ,maybe a web where u can earn money .But literrally I am not quite in favor of this kind of thing,you know eran online--it can't be big money,besides it is not as real as that u work hard in real life.

12 Mar 11

Does Firefox slow your computer ?? I need help

beachdune @beachdune (907) • India 5 Jan 11

Well , IE starts in 3 seconds whereas Opera starts in a second . But thats not happening with Firefox . Wow, its taking more than 30 grand seconds just to start up and show the home page and start responding . But I have no other...

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shutong I have been using Firefox for nearly a year without any problem. As the problem u mentioned ,yeah,I admit it is a little slower on the condition that too many addons are installed. On the whole ,I think it is a pretty good browser for its stability,safty and...

17 Jan 11

Is it really worth hosting a major sporting events???

ashutoshs8 @ashutoshs8 (373) • India 23 Sep 10

India is going to host Common wealth games on Oct. 02. but it becomes a big embarrassment for the country because of shifting of dates. India was hoping itself for comparing itself with china for hosting games but its shifting...

is it really worth hosting a major sporting events

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shutong Hi,ashutoshs8 I am from China and I think u are very clear about what the government will do as well as the releventing stake .That is very good.This kind of big elevents which wastes money and man power are called as 'face' project.In my opinion,there is...

24 Sep 10

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Does my mother love me? Do I love my mother?

vjenkins86 @vjenkins86 (1478) • United States 16 Aug 10

I know for a fact that my mom loves me and I love my mom. Our relationship is a combination of parent/child, friends, confidantes and mentor/student. However, there are two incidents that made me wonder how other people see their...

love your mother

mother

relationship

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shutong Love is meant to be felt,rather than to be speculated and calculated.Love is emotional rather than rational.The love of mother is the greatest in terms of all species on earth.The effort to bring a child up is beyond our imagination.Besides mothers are...

16 Aug 10

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Can you tell what's the difference between LOVE and LIKE?

elleb0418 @elleb0418 (1107) • Philippines 9 Jul 10

Can you share here the difference between LOVE and LIKE? Sometimes we tend to say if you like the person you love that person. Share whats on your mind here my fellow mylotters...Thanks!

feelings

love

tell

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shutong "I like that people" means he/she share common interests with me or I'd like to make friends with him/her.But love is more than that.It is a holy expression,which means you have crush on sb and want to get right into the very relationship.That is only my point...

11 Jul 10

Love versus Career

hanagi @hanagi (390) • Philippines 11 Jul 10

I was watching the television ago when they have a debate on will you sacrifice your career for your love or sacrifice your love over career. If your love one really loves you he/she must not give you limitations in whatever you...

career over love

love or sacrifiec

love vs career

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shutong In this kind of situation,the first step maybe a long time of heart-heart discuss and hope for her/his understanding.If it dosen't work,then it is your turn to make a decisive decision.The sad thing is there is no compromise between.The only thing you should...

11 Jul 10

Are you happy and contented with your present life now?

jinjer168 @jinjer168 (1596) • Philippines 11 Jul 10

Im just a little curious how each and every one of us view his/her present life situation at the moment. Are you happy and contented with your present life now? Why and why not? As for me, im happy but i cannot eliminate the...

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shutong I assume you are quite content and about your life with a lovely daughter in your arms,haha.As for me,I think i am happy because the life of college is a place full of freedom and I can do whatever I like.Besides,in terms of the "the thought of achieving more...

11 Jul 10

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Have you seen your loved one in pain?

edwardjoy2000 @edwardjoy2000 (2386) • United Arab Emirates 11 Jul 10

I had seen my dad pass away in front of my eyes. He was addicted to alcohol. He was in the hospital for 20 days; his liver, kidney and pancreas were affected. I have seen him in pain. Have you seen something like this????

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shutong Year,I also have gone through this bad and unbearable experience.But it is true that everyone will die and no exception.So the only thing we can do is live our own life in a peaceful state of mind from then on and hope there is heaven on earth.

11 Jul 10

What was the best and worst thing you've done for LOVE?

hushi22 @hushi22 (4927) 9 Jul 10

During my younger years of love, i guess my first love, i was like madly in love with the guy. We had this game in school to motivate each other to study so whoever gets a bigger score in the exam will be treated for a meal. what...

love

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shutong Your first love,I think is quite romantic and interesting.It is real a good way to motive each other and no worry about love will lie waste your study.In fact I haven't got my love.Once I confession my love to a girl but she have no feeling towards me.It is...

11 Jul 10

why crab mentality?

herah07 @herah07 (48) • Philippines 11 Jul 10

i just cant accept why people wish for luck for that certain individual then reciprocate it to unluckiness after seeing things are turning good at them...just want to her your views pals. tnx

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shutong It is human nature to look for the best.We just like the happy thing to happen.There is an old thing,"Hope for the best and prepare for the worst".I think it is quite ture.

11 Jul 10

"This is not butter, this is not whole wheat bread. Wheres the salad?"

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163773) • Garden Grove, California 8 Jul 10

Did I get your attention, ? good as this is just the tip of the newcomer conversation at our table this morning. Her name is Alice but I have already named her the bit#her.She just came two days ago. Her main conversation is...

if you dont complain

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shutong From my prospect,it is not a big problem.You don't need to pay much attention to.She is just an innocent,naive girl,who haven't gone through the bitterness of life .Most of the generation are born with gold in the mouth.When she grow up,she will know the real...

11 Jul 10

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Don't you love me anymore.................???

saphrina @saphrina (31551) • South Africa 9 Jul 10

I am here every single day. 24 Hours a day. I never sleep, i always make sure you get what you want. I keep you in contact with everybody and i even let all of you have some fun here. I listen to your problems...

miss all of you

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shutong It's not long since i registered here.Actually i am not a native speaker and I hope i can practice my Englsih.The good Samaritan are expected to point out my grammar mistakes!

11 Jul 10

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We can be in love after friendship but not vice versa.

1anurag1 @1anurag1 (3576) • India 1 Jul 10

We can be in love after friendship but not vice versa. I think this is true as this is possible to go to the next stage after friendship to love. But not the vice versa. Yes after any breakoff or due to any other problem we could...

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shutong I totally agree with you.Take my experience for an example.Once I strived as much as i could to win the favor of one girl who is also one of my classmates.However,it ended in vain.I was really heartbroken and decided not to contact her anymore.She asked me why...

2 Jul 10

Confused and hurt.

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 1 Jul 10

I am sorry friends if you feel that you're sick and tired of people expressing themselves online. But I am alone and I don't have friends who could be my listening ear as of this moment. My relationship with my long-time...

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shutong I think you can try to concentrate on your work and let this tough thing aside for a while.Try to find some fun of life,you know,love is not the whole thing of our life although it is very important and always gets people crazy.In addition ,keep study and make...

2 Jul 10

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Why do people kill each other?

zel2zel @zel2zel (134) • Philippines 26 Jun 10

This sounds morbid, but we all know that people can kill each other because of money, anger, vengeance... etc. But what is the main reason for these? Is it because of our current society? or is it because there are really certain...

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shutong Killing and destroying,according to some noted psychologists,are basical human nature.It is deep down in our soul and the dark side emerges when we are irritated or affected by the outer,then the bad thing happens.Conseqently,we need to incorporate the...

27 Jun 10

which is the best site you ever surfed ?

shibilyt @shibilyt (252) • India 25 Jun 10

hi we all are using internet and surfing a lot of sites daily now let every one know which is your favourite site that you browsed till now. when it comes to me it is google google is the best ever site i knew.i use it almost...

google

search engine

websites

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shutong Ithink the best site is mylot.com and baidu.com besides sina.com.They are all good sites.

25 Jun 10