sjvenden27

@sjvenden27 (1840)

United States • Age 42

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Discussions (39)

sjvenden27's Discussions

How do you state your opinion without hurting another person?

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 8 Nov 12

I am overall a nice person; I try to treat others the way I would like to be treated.. I have a question though how can you state your opinion and not hurt someone in the process.. Sometimes my feelings are so strong that I tend...

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6 people

Voting today should be a priority!

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 6 Nov 12

Hi mylotters; Today is the big day for the nation to get out and vote!!! I believe every vote counts.. Your vote may be over turned by the electoral college for the presidental race.. Which I found out by other member on here...

vote

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Respect should be a given here..

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 29 Oct 12

Hi fellow mylotters; I just recieved feed back that I disagree with; ok that is one thing.. We are not always going to agree on things.. But to sit there and use your words to belittle another person is not right.. If you...

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3 people

Conflicted between memories and reality

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 26 Oct 12

Hi Mylotters; Fair warning this discussion may be jumbled up, not making a lot of sense right off the bat.. My mind is just full.. I am extremely angry, upset, hurt and confused.. Some of you know that my hubby died 7 months...

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2 people

What is going on??

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 22 Oct 12

Hi mylotters, I was just trying to go through one of my discussions and it has 15 responses.. So it should be two pages.. But the discussion is only showing the first page which has only 7 responses.. I hope this comes back...

not working

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email notifications are back!!!

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 18 Oct 12

Hi Mylotters; Just got back on for the night.. Decided to check if by chance the email notifacations where on.. To my suprise they are back! Thank you mylot for fixing the problem.. I know there were a lot of people that were...

email notifications

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Ok? or Too Much

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 18 Oct 12

I love to interact on mylot.. A lot times I end up sharing a lot so my discussion and responses are usually long. I like to add as much detail as I can.. This is great to let someone know exactly where you stand on that speific...

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3 people

Commitment

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 17 Oct 12

In life we have lots of commitments from day to day, week to week, year to year.. As time passes commitments change and priorites in turn change too.. Life experinces change or challenge the way we think and what we believe is...

4 responses

DNA testing

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 16 Oct 12

Hi Mylotters; On TV I have been seen over the past several years talk shows that are soley about who is the father of that child.. Before I really get into the meat of the discussion here is a little back ground.. I do not nor...

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A mooch or a Survior?

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 15 Oct 12

I have been paying bills since I was 14 years old.. I didnt have extra money after bills until I was 16 years old.. I am not complaining or anything like that; life is hard; and if you want to get anywhere in life you have to work...

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1 person

Ungrateful

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 13 Oct 12

I was searching for a new discussion to respond to when I found one that really upset me needless to say.. A person was complaining that no one was responding to his posts.. He had written a couple discussion talking a little bit...

rude

ungreatful

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4 people

Broken Birthday

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 8 Oct 12

I lost the man of my life six months ago, he died... Today is his birthday... I miss him so bad... As a mother I have to fix the broken birthday... when all I want to do is fall apart myself... But I know that wont accompish...

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1 person

Doctors confused and pain increasing

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 22 Jun 11

For the last three months I have been proactive with dealing with my chronic pain... In my back, hips and legs.. I see a phyiscal therapist weekly along with a regular therapist, my main doctor, and other doctors... Once common...

A child is not a pond to get what you want!!!!

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 6 Apr 10

Hi my fellow Mylotters, My ex and his family think the world revolves around them... Lets start off with his "wonderful father"... j/k Lets see here... its okay not to give a flying f#@k about your son for 6 months, and then...

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1 person

Experince versus Degree

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 8 Mar 10

Hi Mylotters, If you were looking to hire someone to help you with your business what would you say would be more important: A degree or Experience.. I am going to layout the pros and cons to both (in my opinion) and would like...

degree

experince

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Fast paced life... when is it too fast?

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 8 Mar 10

One day last week I was having a typical day with my son.. Enjoying life.. I was on the phone with my sister when all of a sudden I heard a big crash, and the electric went out.. no big deal right? If it was during the summer time...

car wreck

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Walking away starts a fight???

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 21 Nov 09

I was in touch with someone and we had a long discussion about the past... I got into a fight with someone very close to this person... During the fight both of us were very heated to say the very least... and we were both head...

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Bipolar disorders and life

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 11 Sep 09

I have not been on here in quite awhile... I guess I go through these phases where I am on here every day if not several times a day... To were I disappear for awhile... Why write about Bipolar? Well I have been diagnoses with...

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1 person

Asking versus already knowing???

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 18 Jul 09

Hi mylotters This a question that I have had for a while now... I can see both sides of the argument so I was wondering how everyone else feels about this... Now have to keep in my this is from my perceptive.. Ok you are living...

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1 person

Home alone, Yahoo!

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 17 Jul 09

Hi mylotters, Well last night my little boy was off to my ex'x house, for the next couple of weeks.. Last night I felt rather lonely.. First time in years that I have been home by myself; either had my son, my other half, other...

cleaning

home alone

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2 people