susu22

@susu22 (24)

United States • Age 77

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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My Mother gets worried in this situation....

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 4 Mar 08

First let me explain a bit about the situation. I have noticed since last year my mother wants to get me married. I have no relationship and so my parents want an arranged marriage for me. I am not very keen on marriage. Now if...

worried

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susu22 do you still live at home?either way just assure them that when the time is right for you and you meet that special person someday you will consider marriage.at least that may shut them up and you can have a happy day.susu22

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Has it been harder for you to find disscussions to respond too.

libertarianfreedom21 @libertarianfreedom21 (3198) • United States 3 Mar 08

Sometimes its real hard for me to find a discussion that i really want to respond too. Then i will make my own discussions and noone responds to them. I dont know if i start them at the wrong time or what. Oh well that doesnt...

discussions

juicy

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susu22 just keep trying.todays topics are whats in to discuss.i have ran into the problem at times but practice makes perfect.what would you like to talk about.enter your interet in your profil and others will respon to you.susu22

4 Mar 08

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Some Advice needed

mollyrose @mollyrose (414) • United States 3 Mar 08

Ok so a few weeks ago I filed for child support and the hearing is around the beginning of April. Now the intake officer at the courthouse and the lawyer reprenting me said I don't need to go but everyone else says I should. My...

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susu22 your lawers advice is what i would go by.you write to your attorney a letter.tell your attorney how much support you want.the judges will make the decision.they usually grat 30%of the fathers wages or go by how much income the father is making make sure you...

4 Mar 08

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I'm Confused

zased65 @zased65 (4) • Indonesia 31 Jan 08

I'm a man who was about to be married...i had a problem with my girl's mother about kind of pets that we'll have when we were married...i wanna take my dog as the pets, but on the other hand, my girl's mother doesn't like to have...

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susu22 you and wife to be need to stick together.it is your happy life,you cannot please everyone so please yourselvs and make your decisions together.if no likes what you two agree on well that is their problem.the 2 of you will have enough problems in life and you...

4 Mar 08

How is your relationship with your mother-in-law?

youless @youless (112507) • Guangzhou, China 14 Jun 07

Here usually people will think that the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law have a tough time and it's not easy for them to get on well with each other. Actually my mother-in-law comes from a small village. She doesn't have a...

mom

mother

relationship

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susu22 i agre,my mother in law is also very loving and kind.i do not have much problems with her,it is her controlling daughter and husband who i find is part orf her promple.they contol her and make her decisions for her and plan all her time.they get on my...

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How do you feel about your Mother In Law ?

Carmetaf @Carmetaf (309) • United States 3 Mar 08

Mine has always bothered me. She smokes too much, goes into WAY too much personal detail about her health problems. (She'll discuss Bowel movements over Pie), And just the other day she says "I hate to be too personal, but are you...

family

in laws

mother in law

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susu22 mother in laws sometimes are concerned and ask personal guestions when they should not.if i do not want to answer my mother in law,i just change change the subject.talk about her favorite memories or foods.sometimes they do not know what to talk about.she...

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elderly inlaws need to go to assisted living but refuse

lolalolacherrycola @lolalolacherrycola (899) • United States 3 Mar 08

My elderly inlaws, both in their 80's, are no longer able to handle their home and daily living needs. My father in law is in the hospital and my mother in law is not able to care for him once he gets discharged. The hospital is...

assisted living

caring for parents

elderly

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susu22 boy do i have experience in this topic.the do ctor has to say he has to go to the nursing home.the doctor has the final say.if the doctor orders it then he will have to go.if he refuses to go then take the doctors order to the power of attorney and have the...

4 Mar 08

Do You Run Out Of Sympathy

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 3 Mar 08

Firstly I make NO apologies if this makes me sound heartless but I got word today that my ex tried to commit suicide, I felt nothing, no compassion, no sympathy NOTHING, do you know what, it sounds terrible but I am sorry he...

suicide

sympathy

threats

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susu22 you have began a new life,so be happy.you are entitled to feel the way you want toand people who are sucidal need professional help.it is up to them to get it,and is not your problem or yopur responsibility.you have a rigt to enjoy your day,your life and your...

4 Mar 08

When you said slow you meant SLOW

vicki2876 @vicki2876 (5636) • Canada 3 Mar 08

I bought a slow cooker or crock pot the other day along with other kitchen gadgets and I made a veggie soup in it. I had it on low for 10 hours and still it wasn't quite done. I thought it would be a cool thing to get and I could...

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susu22 i love my slow cooker.what a life savor and time savor for me.if you want your meat or stew to cook faster pput it on high for a few hours and then turn it down on low.i have to thaw out my meat first.susu22

4 Mar 08

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Whick do you grab?

Fishmomma @Fishmomma (11377) • United States 3 Mar 08

I have a large bowl of different kinds of fruit in my kitchen now. My favorite to grab is a banana, but I grab an apple when I'm going for a walk. Do you have one fruit you usually grab or does it change depending on your mood?...

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susu22 my fruit bowl has apples banana grapes and pears.i usually keep my oranges in the fride and my grapes but put them out in the fruitbowl at times.another good fruit i love is peaches an d black soft plums. susu22

4 Mar 08

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What is your favourite "Oreo" treat and how do you eat it?

CanadaGal @CanadaGal (4304) • Canada 3 Mar 08

I was getting snacks for the kids after school today, and the common choice was cookies. Not just any cookies, but "Golden Oreo" cookies. It got me to thinking about how many different kinds of Oreo cookies are out there, and how...

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susu22 yum yum i love oreos any kind.love mine with hot tea or coffee.the white ones are better for me as i have to watch my chocalate intake,even tho i love them too.i love them with ice cream milk and the white ones are not as bad for kids.susu22

4 Mar 08

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Having a capable wife means...?

youless @youless (112507) • Guangzhou, China 3 Mar 08

My husband is an IT programmer, so his computer ability is better than me quite a lot. However, sometimes I think he depends on me as I seem to be talented in this aspect. He often asks me to do many things for him. He is lazy...

capable

mean

wife

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susu22 sometimes we all feel taken for granted.it is ok to help out sometimes,show him how to fix the problem ,tell him to write it down as you have your own work and responsibilities,or only have so much time for him to dump his responsibilities on you.i feel he is...

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How would you like your wake/funeral to be held?

chicha0522 @chicha0522 (648) • Guam 3 Mar 08

I know its kind of awkward, but everyone keeps talking about how they want their weddings to go or their birthdays to turn out. What about their wake or funeral. Once I told some of my friends and my mom, I don;t want anyone to...

death

funeral

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susu22 i want my funeral prearranged,my favorite hymns sang.my loved one there,for them to know i am in heaven now with no paini am with godand i am happy.i want no sad tears and want the people to go on with their lifes,be happy ,remember me once in a while ,but do...

4 Mar 08

what do you always carry around?

tigerdragon @tigerdragon (4297) • Philippines 2 Mar 08

when you go out of your house and go somewhere, what do you always carry with you in your pockets or in your bag that you can't do without (aside from your wallets where you carry money)? as for me, i need my cellphones with me...

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susu22 i think it wise to carry your address book.email address contacts,emercency contacts,door ,car,and mail box keys.id.medicines,snacks if diabeticand snacks if you are diabetic as well as your doctors name and pnone number and by all means a comb or brush and...

4 Mar 08

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Do you agree that cellphones have effects on our brain?

nilouette @nilouette (632) • Philippines 2 Mar 08

They say cellphones are hazardous to brain because the transmitter part is close to it whenever we are having a call...

brain

cellphone

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susu22 i do not feel cell phones are hazardous as the safety commission would ban them. susu22

4 Mar 08

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Will you exchange your cellphone with someone else?

youless @youless (112507) • Guangzhou, China 3 Mar 08

Tonight I found there is something wrong with my husband's cellphone. So I have to exchange mine with his. As I can get it fixed tomorrow on the way to work. I don't mind exchange cellphones as there is no secret inside. We can...

cellphone

exchange

mobile phone

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susu22 sharing cell phone would be ok as long as you really know the person and you husband would be ok in my opoin to share with

4 Mar 08

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The Boss From Hell

dfinster @dfinster (3528) • United States 29 Feb 08

As a lot of you know I went back to school full-time after all these years. We thought we could financially get by until I finished. Christmas was very tight but with the help of some friends here at Mylot it made for a nice...

bad boss

pressure

workplace

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susu22 you have a right tobe trated with respect from your emplyer.sign up for unemployment.if you have earned enough credits.tell the unemployment office how you were treated and open up a claim.apply at temporagy services.you did the right thing ,and you will find...

1 Mar 08

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As A daughter....Do I deserve this?

Grace35 @Grace35 (136) • United States 29 Feb 08

My mother was very young when she had me and my brothers. No were not triplets, my brother came when she was 16, i came at 17 and my little brother came about the age of 22. Nice to know she took a break! I can honestly say that...

daughter

mother

pain

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susu22 i am sorry you have this pain.your mother has chose to live her life the way she choooses,which is what you must do.even tho you love her,it is time for you to be happy and enjoy your life.your mother disrespects you by stealing from you.my daughter was killed...

1 Mar 08

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old people

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 29 Feb 08

Why do so many people even use derogatory terms to define us elderly or senior citizens or old fogeys? I mean nobody stays twenty forever and now that many of us are living longer and healthier lives we do not necessarily look...

nobody will stay twenty forever

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susu22 i am very sorry this has happened to you.i do not like the way seniors are treated by the younger generation today.some of them are so disrespctful.i have heard seniors called old grandma,that old grandpa,that old fart,that old fogy,old hag .i am sick of it...

1 Mar 08

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one side love is better than both side love

btbwr0007 @btbwr0007 (86) • India 1 Mar 08

can u tell me that one side love is better than the both side love and what is advantage and disadvantage of both side? thank u in advance

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susu22 from my experiences in life,i have found it takes two peolle to be in love.i fell in love and was not loved back,and not treated with respect/are you married ?do not ever mayy some who is not in love with you.there are so many problems in life,and it takes...

1 Mar 08