thedataminer

@thedataminer (515)

United States • Age 66

Joined myLot 16 years ago

Ask not what ye can do only for thyself but ask what ye can do for each other!

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depressed no, tired of hearing depressed.

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 3 Feb 13

I know its a real malady but sometimes when I read here discussion after discussion about how awful life is blah blah blah I feel like yelling this have You a job or are you out of work? you have a job? thats good is it not? Do...

be grateful for all we d ol have not depressed fo

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thedataminer People with clinical depression well it's has to do with chemicals, or something, not working right in your brain. And also the food we buy at the grocery store is actually not healthy, or good, for people to eat. And from my understanding not getting enough...

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when relationship ends...

graysky @graysky (132) • Philippines 26 Nov 12

i have a friend who just broke up with his boyfriend because of him having other girlfriends.prior to that,they planned to be together in the future as husband and wife.my friend being a single mother,introduced him to all her...

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thedataminer I'm not sure about telling your loved one everything at least not until you've been together for some time. Or then if you hide something and then tell them they might think they can't trust you since you waited so long to tell them. This is kind of a hard...

27 Nov 12

I asked for the truth but he won't respond..

jadoixa @jadoixa (1166) • Philippines 27 Nov 12

when you asked someone about the truth and they just ignore you or won't respond, does it mean it is true? i am confuse, he is not telling and refuse to talk about it? have you experience anything like this?

the truth

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thedataminer No it doesn't necessarily mean it's true. If your love interest is hurting you and keeps hurting you, you should probably leave the relationship. Two people in a relationship should love and respect each other. I wasted many years with a man who didn't love me...

27 Nov 12

i hate him

ungu89 @ungu89 (1999) • Malaysia 27 Nov 12

u just know him a couple of month, he ask me to be serious in our relation. make a step forward from just a friend to more serious . after a few week, i just feel not right. something is wrong with him. so, i search more...

heart broken

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thedataminer There's this TV show called "Tough Love" where this matchmaker finds a romantic interest for a group of women. One time on the show he told one, or all, that you have to try dating different men to find the right one for you. I don't know about waiting because...

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This is not true!

blue65packer @blue65packer (11826) • United States 27 Nov 12

Yesterday I was talking to a friend at work. He said in all households men are scared of their wives and the wives pay all the bills! That is so not true! I know there are woman who are scared of the man! Usually because the man...

both should pay the bills

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thedataminer Yes but it could also be the other way around. In allot of cases the woman is the one who runs up the debt by shopping for clothes, shoes etc. This is something that goes both ways. It isn't good to live beyond your means because eventually your credit will...

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If your partner cheated on you, would you take them back?

RescueLady @bizness (866) • United States 27 Nov 12

No! I had that happen to me at a very young age. My husband cheated on me when I was pregnant. I found out. I tried to make it work but just couldn't. So we split up and I got a divorce. Now, I gave him the second chance but...

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thedataminer I guess it all depends but seems to me that if a man really loves you he wouldn't cheat on you. And if the woman doesn't really love her man and isn't fulfilling certain needs then I think the man might cheat. I don't really know. But in this day and age it's...

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Wondering what would happen to my posts on social networks when i die

Nnaemeka @mydanods (6513) • Nigeria 24 Nov 12

I wonder how important the information that facebook has on our postings, comments etc will be when one is dead? Although social networking and facebook is part of our shared experiences and what heritage we can bequeath to our...

afterlife

facebook

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thedataminer You will not be living then so you won't be worrying about it. But after a certain amount of time these social sites noticing your not logging in anymore will end your account and everything will probably be deleted. I don't know for sure. Why are you thinking...

24 Nov 12

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I Doubt You have Any Reason To Say Awesome

robspeakman @robspeakman (1700) 24 Nov 12

Ask yourself - have you ever done anything Awesome? I only ask because the word seems to be being used a lot over recent years. I was educated, so I know that awesome means something that inspires AWE. Sunrise on a clear...

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thedataminer I wish I could say this. Probably the 2 most awesome things was having my 2 sons which both are grown now. When I had some extra money I gave a few dollars to homeless people. A couple times I gave $5 like once to a man who was stranded. If I had allot of...

24 Nov 12

Have you ever doing good things? How is your feel?

margies @margies (128) • Indonesia 24 Nov 12

have u ever do good things for others? how do you feel after u doing that? for myself,my heart will be happy, indeed we can be useful for others , maybe it may not help them much, but you will satisfied and more happy in your...

good things

happy

respect

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thedataminer I think I might volunteer my time to help like maybe at an animal shelter. But I haven't volunteered since I've had many problems with having migraine headaches and other health problems. Plus I have someone I look after. I think volunteers are great and are...

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Why do you have Twitter and Facebook Account

sriroshan @sriroshan (2585) • India 24 Nov 12

I knew almost every here must be having their facebook and Twitter Account. Some may be having it to promote their online business other may be just to have a contact, chat with their friends. My question is why do you have your...

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thedataminer Internet friends seem so artificial unless you find an internet friend that you plan on meeting up with and be true friends with. I mostly use Facebook and Twitter in hopes folks will click my Youtube, blog and affiliate program links.

24 Nov 12

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Do you get annoyed when you have to wait or stay a long time for an appointment?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 24 Nov 12

I went to the bank today to open a checking account. It literally took two hours. It was awful. First the lady at the counter told me that the gentleman that would be helping me was with someone. That he can talk a lot so it would...

wait

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thedataminer The bank was having a promotion and you got $100. I bet it was worth the wait. Everybody probably dislikes waiting and gets impatient when they have to wait for more than a little while. I guess that's why patience is a virtue. I'm glad you got the $100.

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can someone advice me please

soulsearcher109 @soulsearcher109 (44) • Philippines 21 Nov 12

i been in this relationship for a quite long time with my boyfriend....we love each other much inspite of our differences....the problem is we didnt have understanding about culture...we dont have same idea of certain decision...

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thedataminer If you ever really loved him I think you would still love him. Maybe you were just with him because you were in a desperate situation. It was good of him to help support your parents. He did that thinking you loved him. And maybe you were talking yourself into...

22 Nov 12

My boyfriend put his arms in another girl's shoulder...

Aja103654 @Aja103654 (5646) • Philippines 21 Nov 12

...in my dream. Yes, that's right, I dreamed of my boyfriend being unfaithful in my dream. I believe the dream was triggered by our conversation yesterday. He reported to me that this girl has been chatting with him in...

jealous

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thedataminer This reminds me of something that was in the news not that long ago. These young teenage girls got together and picked up a 12 year old girl. I can't recall is she was 12 or 14. These evil girls tormented, tortured and finally murdered this poor young girl....

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Why is cheating to your lover rampant today?

irahness @irahness (25) • Philippines 21 Nov 12

There was a time when cheating was a crime, I mean has been seriously taken as an immoral thing. A time when mistresses, lovers, other woman/man or whatever you want to call them hide. A time when a secret affair stayed as a...

cheat

mistress

morality

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thedataminer Over the years there's been a loss of values and principles in society. There's been more dysfunction in families. Children not being parented properly and to much child abuse going on. And pet, animal abuse to. People not learning morals and right from wrong....

22 Nov 12

Calm before the storm....

ctryhnny @ctryhnny (3460) • United States 22 Nov 12

Happy Thanksgiving everyone! It's just after 7 am and I"m having my coffee and waiting to hear from my son about what time they are picking me up. I'm having dinner at his house and it's going to be noisy and hectic with my 9...

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thedataminer The change of pace will be good for you as you enjoy the fellowship of being around your kids and their grand kids. I know you are most probably back home by now. You can always just stay a couple hours and have them drive you home. Unless your talking about a...

22 Nov 12

Thanksgiving Every Day

STOUTjodee @STOUTjodee (3573) • United States 22 Nov 12

I know the history about how Thanksgiving came to be, but I think that Thanksgiving should be every day. Granted it shouldn't be a feast every day, but we should be thankful for what we have every day. Even if you think you're...

thankful

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thedataminer I'm thankful that I'm me and that I got a good brain on my shoulders. I'm thankful I can walk and have all five senses. I'm thankful for my son that lives with me, helps me and goes out for coffee/tea with me. I'm thankful for my other wonderful son. I'm...

22 Nov 12

This weekend I will be alone..

besweet @besweet (9859) • Ireland 22 Nov 12

My friends will all be away from my city and my boyfriend will be working at his 24hr shift on Saturday. This means that he will be sleeping all Sunday until late in the afternoon! I will stay at home on Saturday night, maybe it...

alone

friends out of town

lonely weekend

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thedataminer Allot of people these days do things alone. I've noticed people on their laptops at coffee shops. I use to go to the movie theater by myself. My son has went lots of times by himself. There's nothing wrong with doing things by yourself. You can do anything you...

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When will it clue in

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 18 Nov 12

This stray cat is vicious, he attacks other cats, and now trying to fight the two dogs (which are part husky labs). My Mother is just that stupid, I told her if it attacks my cat I will throw it outside, and she then will be...

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thedataminer What is the reason the cat is vicious? Are you or your mom feeding the cat? If it's hungry that might be the reason it's acting up. Why are you putting it in a cage? That might be another reason it's acting up. You ask "when will it clue in?"; do you think...

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horror nightmare

Nice07 @Nice07 (183) • India 12 Oct 12

i was prescribed desval er 250 mg, libotrip and szetalo 10 mg one tablet each at night to stop horror dream. i m taking above medicines from last 10 years. now above medicines making dreams like illusion, meeting with dead people...

depression

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thedataminer That person told you to stop taking that medicine but there's warnings on the prescription info sheet you get at the pharmacy stating you should not stop medication. Medication has to be tapered off. If you want to get very sick like food poisoned sick then...

15 Oct 12