vanny

@vandana7 (100282)

India • Age 65

Joined myLot 15 years ago

I love babies..hope you too like kids.

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My nephew has a week to live.

Judy Story @jstory07 (139697) • Roseburg, Oregon 6 Nov

My nephew is only 42 years old. He is a middle child and never got into any trouble. He is the last one that I would expect to get into any trouble. He never did. Now I guess he started drinking five years ago. Than he...

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vanny Oh so this is the nephew you were mentioning in the other posts...I am so sorry...I did not know he was so sick. Yes, I will pray...please let us know how he is now.

16 Nov

Crazy Days

Jo Ann @akalinus (43196) • United States 15 Nov

I have been trying to walk at least a few days a week. I try to make it interesting by looking for things along the way. I found nothing of interest, feathers, a losing lotto ticket, and a metal handle for something. Yesterday,...

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vanny I sure get mad on those "crazy days?" and they seem to come in as a group. LOL I buy groceries...and regular stuff, like eggs and bananas for which I do have to walk a tad. And Dad's medicines. I guess, weekly twice or thrice...I am walking...some...not...

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Suddenly it feels like winter

Xavier Bage @franxav (13836) • India 16 Nov

Usually winter sets in the middle of November in this part of India. But till last Sunday it was hot. However, the weather has been changing gradually and today it definitely feels like winter has started. I had to wear a...

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vanny Where exactly are you in India because in Hyderabad, winter is arriving slowly.

16 Nov

A Night Out with the Wifey

Jim Bauer @porwest (90823) • United States 16 Nov

Wifey and I rarely go out, so last night was the exception with the only aside being we went out last week as well when we met up with my sister and brother-in-law at a local bar and restaurant called Charlie's Place. I told her...

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vanny Its time your wife physically abused you. You deserve only that. LOL Ok...$63 dollar with tip for one night out...phew...that is huge for two. East or west, India is the best. I think we could have as much in just 1/5th of what you spent.

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Animals Get Less Social as They Age

Shavkat @Shavkat (139933) • Philippines 15 Nov

Research had claimed that animals tend to be like us. As the years go by, aging cannot be held back. I am not generalizing that all people will be less social as they grow older. Some prefer to spend at home, and others do...

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vanny Honestly, I like my own company. I love music, and I pray a lot nowadays. There is a reason for it. I was always a believer but not a routine follower....so....belief is there, implanted in the brain, but the files came up rarely. The last three years have...

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The Property of a Lady Movie (1961)

celticeagle @celticeagle (166911) • Boise, Idaho 15 Nov

I found a James Bond movie I hadn't seen on YouTube a while back. It had Sean Connery and Gina Lollobrigida in it. It was not as well done or as fantastic as the more recent Bond movies have been. It was more like a melodrama and...

james bond

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vanny Honestly, I don't like these action movies...they maybe money spinners, but too much of gadget usage ...and unbelievable stuff...I feel I am not made to understand such stuff, be it batman, spiderman, superman, or James Bond. LOL

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Lots Better Looking

Eva James @wolfgirl569 (106226) • Marion, Ohio 11 Nov

That is what is left. Most of that big pile was scrap metal and it's now gone. I have my vacuum box in here yet and can stuff a lot of the other stuff into it. I might get that done this coming weekend. Then they will pick it up...

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vanny Eva, I kinda envy you. LOL. I am cooped up in a small apartment, which does not excite me...I mean, it does not motivate me to do anything. There is plenty I can do, but I just won't move myself...oh for what...that kind. Open space like that is such a...

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How It Looks Now

Eva James @wolfgirl569 (106226) • Marion, Ohio 15 Nov

This is the 2 walls that I will be hanging the curtains on. I do have that small book case cleaned off now and plan to get all of the pictures down tonight. I might even get a curtain or 2 hung up before I go to bed. I will be...

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vanny Hmmm....why do you want to hang curtains on the wall....what is the object. I think if the ceiling is painted white or light yellow, the room will look much brighter. I always feel clothes are a headache....plan laundry and all that lol...pulling down the...

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11/16/24 - Update On My Husband

LindaOH @LindaOHio (178568) • United States 16 Nov

I still have been unable to get in touch with my husband. I will see him on Sunday; and I will make sure his phone is on ring. There's been no one at the nurses' station all week either. I will be finding out if it's OK with...

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vanny Hang in Linda...tough times don't last...I am sure something better is on its way...just hang in there. We are all praying every morning for you.

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Rising from the Ashes: How Would You Face Life's Unrelenting Blows?

RUBESH @Manasha (2755) • Pondicherry, India 16 Nov

Yes, I feel disheartened and heartbroken after a series of issues have engulfed me. A majority of these problems have struck me with heavy blows I never expected—one after another. Financial struggles (running low), being...

life blows

mishaps and mayhems

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vanny I am glad you are here....while we may not be able to offer much, we can be friends on whose shoulders you can cry on. Some may give better advise based on their experiences. As to financial struggles, don't I know them very well. Yes, it has been a tough...

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Wife gaslighting ...

RUBESH @Manasha (2755) • Pondicherry, India 16 Nov

Dealing with a wife who consistently belittles, criticizes, and behaves in an emotionally damaging way can be incredibly difficult. What is the possible approach to responding or reacting in such a situation: Do you react...

wife is a knife

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vanny 1. The two maybe mismatch...they should part ways 2. The attitude / behavior of husband maybe such that others maybe polite not to criticize but in general the behavior is unusual and non conforming. For example a person tends to interfere in others...

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Harry and Squatters' Rights

Judy Evans @JudyEv (339930) • Rockingham, Australia 13 Nov

The photo is mine, showing a shack which housed an Australian hermit at one time. Last night, we watched Hampstead on Netflix. Until the end I hadn’t realised the film was based on the real life story of Harry Hallowes...

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vanny We had horrific exoduses in our country during my lifetime. One was Kashmir exodus. The Kashmiri Pandits were targeted. One Girija Tikku was brutally cut in wooden saw mill with the machine. In the second instance, there was genocide against the Sikh...

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11/14/24 - Update On My Husband

LindaOH @LindaOHio (178568) • United States 14 Nov

My husband hasn't called in several days...probably because of thee sundowners. I called the nurses' station around dinner time and asked them to have my husband call me back. He called and said he was eating dinner and would...

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vanny I don't like it at all, when family is not in contact. It stinks of physical abuse..

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The blame game starts.

Judy Story @jstory07 (139697) • Roseburg, Oregon 13 Nov

We were called at 4AM this morning my nephew is gone. There will be a service on Saturday. My sister in law said everyone is blaming his wife. You can not stop anyone from doing bad habits if they do not want to stop. Why...

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vanny I thought you all had something like FICO scores...how did they allow two loans? How about downsizing....is that possible...

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11/13/24 - Update On My Husband

LindaOH @LindaOHio (178568) • United States 13 Nov

Have called for 5 nights straight and my husband did not answer his cell phone. He left it on; so I am able to call him. He's probably not answering because of the sundowners or because his phone needs to be charged....or both....

rehab

physical therapy

nursing homes

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vanny 5 nights no response is quite bad....can someone look him up on the way to some place? I agree, he needs to be moved. Hope you find right facility. Praying for you...hugs Linda.

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My nephew is the same.

Judy Story @jstory07 (139697) • Roseburg, Oregon 12 Nov

I did find out that since covid he was hurting for money and his business partner sold the two trucks that he owned. So my nephew sold his two trucks since he needed money. Than no trucks so they decided to rent a u-haul to use....

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vanny I thought everybody worked in the US. How many kids, and how old are they...and yes, it is a nasty situation....still selling the truck and equipment, paying the house dues to keep the house might be a better choice...thereafter, both can take up small or big...

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The start of our Paris trip

Fleur @Fleura (30388) • United Kingdom 11 Nov

The train tickets were all arranged. The accommodation was booked. On the day of travel we actually managed to leave the house in time - something of a miracle for us, although it was helped by having booked a taxi to pick us up –...

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vanny You are in England, and Paris is in France and there is that Channel in between with sharks I presume....you all have buses plying across? Ok...second question...they don't serve you lunch? You have to carry it? Does it remain fresh? How many hours from...

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11/11/24 - Update On My Husband

LindaOH @LindaOHio (178568) • United States 11 Nov

I visited my husband yesterday. He seemed fine and only had a minute of confusion; so it looks like he has sundowners. His care is terrible. He still hasn't had a shower (he's been there 3 weeks); and he was lying on a soiled...

rehab

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vanny We are praying of course. Physiotherapy is extremely important. In the last visit, the neurologist had some test done for dad's whole body....he found there was acute problem with his legs...so he wanted dad to take B complex injections for a week. It is not...

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Good Morning 11/10

snowy @snowy22315 (180674) • United States 10 Nov

Now that was startling! I put the TV on this AM, although I am not watching anything..so it is defaulting to photos for the screen saver. All of a sudden I see a picture of myself in my Halloween outfit. Now, I see a sheep I took...

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vanny That is pretty dangerous...access to your Amazon photos. Did you give them permission to use it with impunity?

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11/8/24 - Update On My Husband

LindaOH @LindaOHio (178568) • United States 8 Nov

Got a call from the social worker. I guess the insurance company is making noises about my husband's stay in the facility. She says they may ask for his discharge today. I spoke with my husband; and he said he's not strong...

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vanny The healthcare system everywhere seems to be a mess. I used to think your country is better. But .... well, we do have assisted living facilities out here...can you consider moving out to such facilities if you all have them? We have old age homes, which if...

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