veejay19

@veejay19 (3589)

India • Age 79

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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so sad

jonastabuena @jonastabuena (2307) • Philippines 1 May 13

I feel very very sad, after 3 days of comma my ex boss has passed away this morning, all his vital organs has stop functioning the doctor has no use than to remove the life support apparatus he is a good man, this is very sad.

life

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veejay19 Very sorry to hear about your ex-boss's passing away. It is very rare for a person who has been in a coma to once again to come back to consciousness and regain full health. Since the patient's organs and vital functions had stopped working it was virtually...

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Today I was unable to work in mylot

Professor2010 @Professor2010 (20162) • India 29 Apr 13

Since 9am IST, I am trying to work in my lot, but it gives this error message, This webpage is not available The webpage at http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2767386.aspx might be temporarily down or it may have...

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veejay19 Profsaheb namaskar. No, i have not faced any such problem at all.The site is working perfectly. The site on your computer must have started functioning otherwise you would not have posted this discussion. It must have been a temporary breakdown of your...

30 Apr 13

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I Don't Understand This...

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85288) • Valdosta, Georgia 26 Apr 13

I was just talking with some of my friends and the guy is going through some health issues and he told his wife that he will be really mad if he dies and she decides to be with someone else... He said he would haunt her forever if...

death

love

unfair

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veejay19 When you are dead then everything in this life is over. Your family, your possessions, your friends,relatives,job, everything is past tense.Nothing remains. Not a trace of your physical body remains except your memories with those living. So it doesn't matter...

27 Apr 13

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Naps

Amber @AmbiePam (93739) • United States 24 Apr 13

Oh, naps. I do so love them. I don't sleep well at night, but I rarely nap. So when I do get a nap I'm happy. The weirdest place I've taken a nap was at the dentist when I was having a root canal. I asked it if was okay, and the...

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veejay19 I have been taking naps since the last 30 years and that too only in the afternoon, after lunch. This started in 1983 when i went to Muscat,Oman, where i went for a job. It is a practice in Gulf states to sleep after lunch for a couple of hours and then once...

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the bed is spacious but it feels empty

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 21 Apr 13

My husband left last Friday for his hometown and i know he will just be back this coming friday i am not really used to have him away. but i did text him that the bed is very big for me now and i could roll...

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veejay19 hi Jaz, how are you? I have been away from mylot for a long time but have resumed today. Looks like you love your hubby very much and can't bear being separated from him for long. But you have your kids with you. Of course its much more comforting to have the...

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which religion for my kid?

bryanwmc @bryanwmc (1051) • Malaysia 3 Apr 13

here is a dilemma .. my wife is a free thinker , no religion not spirituality , as for me , i am on the fence still although leaning more on towards christianity except i still have some issues. but mainly ,my worry is my 12 year...

religion

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veejay19 Your 12 year old is still in the developing stage of mind and needs careful nurturing. It is good that you and your family members are exposing her to all faiths.Don't force her to follow one particular faith. She is still immature and kids her age keep...

3 Apr 13

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Oftentimes, the word I LOVE YOU is used for deception.

raynejasper @raynejasper (2322) • Philippines 3 Apr 13

hi fellows. He said, I Love You, but what he really meant was i like your body. I don't know if how long will it take for me to recover. Right now, when I hear the words I LOVE YOU, i just think of how much pain...

love

relationships

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veejay19 Very true my friend. Human love is like that fickle and concentrated only on the form and not on the heart. It is always the body that attracts,the face,looks the figure etc. Initially the heart responds but soon the feelings of love are replaced with lust and...

3 Apr 13

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How do you pick the books that you read?

Porcospino @Porcospino (31366) • Denmark 25 Feb 13

Do you read books that your friends have recommended? Do you read reviews? Do you search the database of the library or the bookshop? Do you visit the library or the bookshop in person and browse the shelves? Do you find books in...

books

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veejay19 Once upon a time i was a voracious and avid reader since my childhood. My tastes started changing as i grew up to adulthood. Now i am a senior citizen approaching my 70's in 3 years time and my reading habits have dwindled as time passed. I have a goodly...

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Type of transportation

Porcospino @Porcospino (31366) • Denmark 16 Feb 13

When I was living in Scotland I worked in a nursing home where there were a lot of international employees. My coworkers were from Finland, Germany, Switzerland, Hungary, Japan and Poland. One day we were told that two new...

choices

transportation

travel

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veejay19 Whenever people have to travel they first look for the cheapest way to travel, fares that fit into their budget. Nowadays with everything becoming expensive people are very choosy when they have to spend on traveling. Of course comfort is also very necessary...

16 Feb 13

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Spiritual Discourses ...Appealing To The Eyes,Pleasing To The Ears

sukumar794 @sukumar794 (5040) • Thiruvananthapuram, India 8 Feb 13

The many sessions of spiritual discourses in several parts of the country attract large gathering of interested people.However does those vociferous talk help in transforming individuals to perform good deeds all the time in their...

noble talks

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veejay19 Spiritual discourses,especially on prominent Spiritual TV channels have become very popular. Hundreds of people attend such discourses, many of which are telecast live. This has no doubt given awareness to spirituality to the general public.Nowadays we find...

9 Feb 13

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Focusing On Actions...Not On The Outcome Or Results

sukumar794 @sukumar794 (5040) • Thiruvananthapuram, India 4 Feb 13

One of the most important doctrines of spiritual thinking and order is to focus firmly on one's own deeds and not on the fruits of labor. When result is awaited anxiously ,restlessness sets in thereby disturbing the entire mental...

leaving things to happen as it should

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veejay19 This is exactly what Lord Krishna advised his disciple Arjun on the battlefield of Kurukshetra just before the war between the Kauravs and Pandavs. Do your duty and leave the fruits of your actions to themselves. You are a soldier and your duty is to fight and...

5 Feb 13

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Rearrangement of Life Patterns

sukumar794 @sukumar794 (5040) • Thiruvananthapuram, India 18 Jan 13

As love for oneself gain prominence all of us begin to recognize and honor our body and rearrange life patterns. Close regard and concern for the dear ones start losing when one engage in self-love beyond limits. Most...

loving oneself

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veejay19 There is a difference between self-love and love of the Self. The first is worldly in nature and brings about vanity,selfishness and narcissism.Man places his concerns above everything and disregards every other thing including family, friends, relatives...

19 Jan 13

Is God really having a Hard Time Controlling His Children????

bird123 @bird123 (10643) • United States 18 Jan 13

People think God places all these rules on us, then sends the holy books in an attempt to convince us to follow His ways. Is that really what is happening?? Is this really God doing this?? Is God, who is capable of creating...

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veejay19 You have created a very good post and i congratulate you for it. Yes, God gave mankind free will to do as he chooses. He has placed both choices before us, good and evil, and given us the freedom to walk on whatever path we wish to follow. Those who choose...

19 Jan 13

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Do We Really Need Relationships?

sukumar794 @sukumar794 (5040) • Thiruvananthapuram, India 17 Jan 13

In reality all relationships point to a certain degree of commitment. We are sometimes trapped by personal affinities. Most human beings are related to one another with levels of variations and contextual parameters. Love and...

commitments

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veejay19 Relationships first begin in the family sphere. The child recognizes its parents and forms a bond with them. After that with its brethren, brother and sister and as it grows up with friends and relatives. As it becomes an adult the sphere widens with marriage,...

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Healing One's Own Life

sukumar794 @sukumar794 (5040) • Thiruvananthapuram, India 16 Jan 13

Loving oneself is the key to formulating the life one desires most. When self love and acceptance of the self are gained life would reach its pinnacle of glory and fame. Exercises of the body,mind,emotions,spirits etc increase...

rejuvenation of self

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veejay19 Meditation is the key to discover oneself and who one really is. There is a lower self, our ego ridden one and a higher Self that connects us with the Divine. Only dealing with the ego self cannot give us that unconditional love which gives us true happiness....

17 Jan 13

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His ex-girlfriend is having a party and he isn't invited

Porcospino @Porcospino (31366) • Denmark 15 Jan 13

One of my friends and his girlfriend broke up some months ago. In February his ex-girlfriend is having a big birthday party, but she didn't invite my friend. My friend is very disappointed and he thinks that she should have...

party

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veejay19 Disappointments are part and parcel of life and one should take them in ones stride. There is no point in moping and thinking about what has gone.Your friend`s ex is a sensible girl and she has done the right thing in not inviting her ex for her birthday...

17 Jan 13

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suspicious announcement by Catalyst Clicks.

DoctorDidi @DoctorDidi (7018) • India 11 Jan 13

I joined Catalyst Clicks,a PTC site, a few months ago and luckily some amount has already accumulated in my account. On January, 8 when I logged in the site, I found an announcement by the site which urges every member to deposit...

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veejay19 Didi, i had told you long ago not to dabble in any PTC sites as they are a complete waste of time. I am not at all surprised at what you have written about this site. This is just a ploy to get money from members and after they have got a sufficiently big...

11 Jan 13

your thoughts on Uniform

Yogesh Shinde @GajaGamini (1065) • India 1 Jan 13

School or office Uniforms Do you remember in school we use to wear uniform and I think most of us would still wear it in their offices and on their professional field. I remember in my school I used to wear a dark cream color...

uniform

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veejay19 My schooldays ended 50 years back. In those days Matriculation or SSC was in the 11th standard or class. Till the 9th standard we had a uniform of navy blue shorts and a white shirt. However for the 10th and 11th class we switched over to white shirt and full...

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Funeral on Holiday Season (the worst thing anyone ever wish to attend)

Jane @jaiho2009 (39141) • Philippines 27 Dec 12

Sunday, December 23, 2012 My 20 years old niece died I was on a 3 days out of town convention when I received the news. The worst unexpected news anyone wants to hear on this Holiday Season. Today Thursday,...

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veejay19 hello little sister of mine, i have been away from mylot for a very long time as i have been busy with something else. I am extremely sorry to hear of the tragic death of your niece at such a young age.Her whole life was in front of her and she had not yet...

27 Dec 12

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i am hurt.

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 3 Dec 12

yes i am hurt. My daughter started writing in her journal which i encouraged her much. Yesterday afternoon, i was asking her to do a task which she did not do right away. I had to scold her because i am quite the disciplinarian...

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veejay19 I sympathize with you. However your husband is right in his observation. Children in adolescent stage and in pre-teen stage tend to become very sensitive and take offense for the slightest reason. In my country there are numerous cases of children committing...

4 Dec 12

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