whittenk

@whittenk (20)

United States • Age 44

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Never give up without a fight....

buggles64 @buggles64 (2709) • United States 15 Mar 09

A good friend is hard to find. Have you heard this phrase..."a good friend should never give up without a fight?" If you friend is constantly judging you and your actions, is keeping you from doing things you really enjoy, would...

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whittenk Well first of all a true friend won't constantly belittle you..i find its not how many friend we have but the quality of the friendship i do have... I have had friends in the past that i will admit at times i think about and miss but, i had to cut the...

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What makes a friend a 'good' one?

stowawaygirl @stowawaygirl (32) 15 Mar 09

I'm interested to hear everybody's tick boxes :).

friends

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whittenk Atrue friend is one that is human and can make mistakes but own up to them....can be honset , loyal, attentive when needed, someone who knows when to back off when its that time and always be there to the best of thier ability when they can ...and most...

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how do you react if someone criticize you?

marketing07 @marketing07 (6266) • South Korea 15 Mar 09

when i give birth to my daughter some of my husband friends criticize her..i feel unhappy i told them because she is still a baby..of course im hurt by that comment so i refuse to meet them..last saturday it was a wedding of one...

criticize

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whittenk I t alot of negative comments about my 6 year old daughter and truthfully, it does hurt, there will come a time i can't always be there to defend her..my husbands side of the family is not a loveing side and my side is...so my daughter wants to be friends with...

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Have you found yourself to be sleeping at odd hours?

snowneo @snowneo (116) • Canada 15 Mar 09

Have you found yourself to be taking more naps lately? Or Staying up longer then you usually do? I dont know, I have been having such wierd sleeping patterns lately, some nights I will be up until 4am, while others I will crash...

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whittenk There are nights i stay up until 4 am klnowing i have to get up with the kids at 6am..then i will be wide awake with them and crash for a nap around 1pm...thewn i can crash at 9pm and wake up at 3am...my sleeping patterns are all wrong!

15 Mar 09

who would you call first?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 13 Mar 09

If you make an amazing achievement, such as winning an honorable award, or something that make you happy. Who will be the first person you call to share your happiness? I would call my significant other first.

award

happy

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whittenk It depends on the sintuation...i would either call my husband or my best friend, then my mom....probably in that order to:)

13 Mar 09

The best junk food for you... HAMBURGERS OR HOT DOGS?

manya_pearl @manya_pearl (1901) • Singapore 12 Mar 09

Which one your prefer? Hamburgers or hot dog? For me i choose harmburgers... especially mcdonalds' burger. Hehe... the taste is good compare to other burgers... If im hungry with burger, i will go to mcdonalds and pick one. I...

burgers

hamburgers

hotdogs

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whittenk Hamburgers! They are so more fullfilling and juicy! While hotdogs are good to, but i only seem to go for them when we are cooking at the park.

13 Mar 09

Do you Pray?

nuridch @nuridch (94) • India 3 Mar 09

According to a recent research, publiched inthe latest edition of the Reader's Digest, A person who pray stay alive 7 years more than a non-praying person. The pray is basically not related to religion, whatsoever it may be. It is...

live longer

pray

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whittenk I do pray-for myself and loved ones. Not to live longer, i do not believe that, I think everyone has a certain time they are meant to go and no matter what we pray will not change that. One should pray for themselves.

13 Mar 09

Just a wife

Maya2008 @Maya2008 (37) • Egypt 11 Mar 09

I'm experiencing a strange stage in my life right now when I'm being just a wife and a mother as i dropped from work cause my working hours were not suitable for me to provide the required care for my baby. I feel really strange,...

mother

no money

work

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whittenk I know where you are comming from, i once worked to but had to quit due to haveing 4 children and can't afford daycare. There are diffenatly days that i feel so worthless, like what am I really providing for my kids, but truthfully, it will pass...you will...

13 Mar 09

Best Scents

Angel3yes @Angel3yes (455) • United States 12 Mar 09

I love burning scented candles but most of them don't have much scent or the scent seems to wear off within a half hour of burning it. Can anyone recommend some really good smelling candles (that don't cost a fortune) and actually...

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whittenk I am a candle freak and to be honest while the most expensive ones are prettier to look at, i found that the cheaper ones you can get at a local walmart store stay smelling strong, i have had one for a couple years now and i do not even have to light it, i can...

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Oversensitive child

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 12 Mar 09

I had a question to ask where it pertains to a child being too sensitive. You might even say hypersensitive. I have a five year old boy that is pretty much what I would call in the range of "normal" for his age. He loves to play,...

hypersensitivity

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whittenk I have a child that is like that....actually my daughter who is 6 is total opposite and she can handle her own, but my son who is 7, is a normal child, loves to skateboard , be with his friends, but man he can cry alot when someone says something mean to him....

13 Mar 09

Will you give your panties to your boyfriend if he asks for it/them?

modstar @modstar (9605) • Philippines 2 Mar 09

Some guys give sentimental value on personal things. Panties, could be the most personal piece of cloth a woman owns. Would you give it to your boyfriend for remembrance?

sex

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whittenk No way, i have a friend that has a pair of all of his ex panties, and he just took them without askeing or them knowing.. I would not do it willingly, then you break up and then what..?? Its just another wierd obsession some people have.

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Today is Friday 13th Is this day bad? Why is it considered bad? What is its sign

jomon003 @jomon003 (5) • India 13 Mar 09

Today Is friday 13th. Why is friday 13th considered bad by almost everyone? What is its significance?

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whittenk Friday the 13th is just another day to me....Its people out there who believe that is holds bad luck and make the day worse themselves. I live in a small town and you better believe on this day, all the young kids come out late, rasing hell. so like i said,...

13 Mar 09

Do you give when times are tough?

angela_allen @angela_allen (406) • United States 13 Mar 09

My husband and I are going through a financial rough patch. I must preface this discussion by saying we live in Egypt which has a different cost of living than the US. My husband is in the Egyptian army and gets a whopping $20...

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whittenk I go through the same thing with my husband..I feel in love with him for his generosity, but i would be lyeing if I said there were times i was in tears and so mad because he gave away our last pennies to help someone out. I would think how can he put our...

13 Mar 09

Would you want to be a housewife?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 13 Mar 09

I usually ask this question to my fiancee, cause until now she keeps on working. But with life right now that everything is to expensive or costly we need to be a double income family if we want to maintain a good standard of...

home

housewife

work

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whittenk i am a housewife now. I have worked in the past and it did feel good to get out there and work...i did not have to but it was like a break from the household. And when i got home evrynight, i would appreciate everyone so much more. But being a housewife does...

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Drive them crazy ?

christiancowboyholm @christiancowboyholm (252) • United States 12 Mar 09

Sometimes I get a mean streak. I will torment my wife just to watch her get mad.It is fun I can not help it. The other day I would wait for her to leave the room and then Yell for her to do something. Done that about 3 times and...

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whittenk Me and my husband can torment each other while we are both laughing, but the second you realize that your spouse is upset and does not like that, should be when one stops...you should never want to hurt the one you love purposly, but how ironic is it that...

12 Mar 09

Has anyone experienced a dream in which they could not wake up?

snowneo @snowneo (116) • Canada 12 Mar 09

I've been having dreams where I think that I've woken up (and it seems like I really have woken up), but when I get out of bed (in my dream) things are different, and some actually quite scary and thats when I realize that I am...

dreams

not waking

sleeping

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whittenk I can tell you that i hae had these many of times and it still scarres me to this day..its not a fun feeling...there are two esplinations...from the medical point of view, they will tell you it is something called sleep paralysis.....its nothing dangerous or...

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Does GOD really exist??

siddharthace @siddharthace (1) • India 28 Feb 09

how do we know god exists?If he does exists? how many of them are there?? after all there are so many religions in the world claiming that their god is the real god how do we know which is the real god?

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whittenk Why couldn't god exist?? It all comes down to faith..its as simple as that, we all can search our whole lives for clues on whether he is real or not, but its one of those things where we can't see him but we have to have faith in him. I strongly believe in...

12 Mar 09

Which One Would You Give Up???

Lejandro @Lejandro (1530) • United States 12 Mar 09

With harder times up ahead, which one could you live without? A computer or your Cellphone? I'm thinking of giving up my broadband connection (and probably sell my 3 year-old laptop) or my phone (yes, sell my blackberry for...

money online making

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whittenk Well if you can still be reached through landline, then i would diffenatly give up cell phones. But if you only have a cell phone and not a landline...which our computer is hooked up through cable...then i would get rid of the internet. But the question...

12 Mar 09

Married or 'attached' people - do you still do things alone??

mommyboo @mommyboo (13174) • United States 12 Mar 09

..and does your spouse/significant other have issues or make assumptions about it?? So just today a friend happened to mention that another friend of ours and her husband happened to see me at the movies by myself. Yes I went...

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whittenk I do not think there is anything wrong with going out alone. I have been married for 6 years and 80% of the time i do things alone. Not because we don't love each other or because i am looking for someone else....everyones sintuation is different. We have 5...

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