Eden Goldie

@WillowHolmes (46)

Age 33

Joined myLot 9 years ago

A passion for the finer things in life, I work in legal and accounting and love trying new things!

Eden Goldie's Responses

Feeling lonely this evening

Kevin @kevin1877uk (36988) 24 Oct 15

Feeling lonely this evening It’s not easy being on your own after a relationship, back to being single and being on your own. When I’ve been single before it’s taken me time, but I’ve been ok. I guess, given time I will be okay...

relationship

lonely

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Eden Goldie People can feel lonely both in and out of relationships, but it's better than being unhappy with someone. Hope your week brightens up :)

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Still away from my goal

fufurinha @fufurinha (11930) • Portugal 13 Oct 15

As some of you may know, I have already reached the 10 dollars (on the 2nd of October) and I have set my goal to reach 20 dollars by the end of this month. Unfortunately, today is the 13th and I still need to earn more 7...

goal

dollars

money

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Eden Goldie I have been here for about a month but not in it to earn anything, just like reading and writing a little haha. Hope you reach your target, remember not to stress about it or you'll forget to enjoy the experience of interacting. Best of luck :)

13 Oct 15

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Do you have tinnitus better known as ringing in the ears?

WendySpickerman @WendySpickerman (983) • United States 13 Oct 15

Did you know tinnitus is so common doctors call it the norm? That constant ringing, hissing, buzzing sound can be very difficult for people to not only manage, but survive with. Tinnitus can often lead to depression and thoughts...

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Eden Goldie I get it every couple of days due to my bruxism (clenching of the jaw) and find it extremely annoying when I notice it. Hope it doesn't get any worse, and that you find some kind of relief :)

13 Oct 15

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Should I start dating

Kevin @kevin1877uk (36988) 13 Oct 15

Should I start dating If you have read back through me posts you know that it’s not too long ago since I had relationship break up from my partner. We both lived in different counties, long story so I won’t go on. I’m often...

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Eden Goldie If you feel ready to then yes, of course start dating and meeting new people. There's no need to feel embarrassed or insecure about groups, dating sites etc because they're full of like-minded individuals. Aim to go at a pace you're comfortable with but be...

13 Oct 15

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Working With Music In The Background

wiLLmaH @wiLLmaH (8802) • Singapore, Singapore 8 Oct 15

Our office always have a mellow music to cut off the unnerving silence or the sounds when we tap our keyboards or the clicking mouse. You? Do you prefer to work in total silence or with some music to somewhat lighten up the...

working place

feelings

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Eden Goldie It depends what profession, but personally I find the simplest of noises distracting and somewhat annoying. Be it the typing of another, background conversations or music: it all drives me insane! haha

9 Oct 15

would you like your children to learn martial arts?

alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 9 Oct 15

what do you think about this matter? would martial arts be useful?

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Eden Goldie I went to Karate classes when I started to get bullied in case it became physical and I needed to know self defence...but luckily it wasn't necessary as I am not sure how well a "high kick" would have gone down in a "she started it" debate haha. I think it is...

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marriage and pregnancy

alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 9 Oct 15

what do you think is the order? marriage first and pregnancy after or it doesn't really matter?

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Eden Goldie There doesn't seem to be an order any more, the majority of young couples with children aren't yet married, and a lot of them don't even seem to be together any more. I don't personally have a preference, but I am marrying my partner next year and we don't...

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do you remember your first love?

alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 7 Oct 15

I'm curious if you remember your first love. feel free to share if you would like

first love

relationship

love

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Eden Goldie Well, I am 24 and have been with my first and only love since we were 20, and are due to get married next year. Growing up there were infatuations that I mistook for love, and I used to say "is this it?"...but it is SO true that when you find it you know. :)

7 Oct 15

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How many cup (s) of coffee do you drink every day?

Kevin @excellence7 (3655) • Mauritius 27 Aug 15

I lately turned out to be a regular coffee drinker. I wonder how and why but I'm just loving it. I drink around 3 to 4 cups of coffee daily. I put myself into question and wondered whether it's right to do so and moreover I was...

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Eden Goldie I don't drink coffee unless it is from Costa (or similar) and even then it has to be a latte with sugar-free syrup. I've never really been a coffee lover but it is great for metabolism, and such a comforting social activity.

27 Aug 15

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I love my bf but...

jessyu @jessyu (131) • Chengdu, China 26 Aug 15

I have a bf and he loves me very much. Before I met him, he used to run his own business but he got broke and is now having a large amount of debt. What's worse, he now is jobless and has to pay for the house loan every month. He...

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Eden Goldie Laziness and a lack of ambition is one of the least attractive traits in a person, but it IS something that can be changed. Give him 3 Months to get a job, during which you'll support him as usual, and if he doesn't have one then move out and tell him you...

27 Aug 15

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For you, how should be a ideal life partner.?

Bleeding Heart @barood4money (376) • India 26 Aug 15

For me a ideal life partner should be caring, should understand me, love me. Should stay quiet for atleast one hour. Don't ask for costly shopping. Should not blackmail emotionally...

lifestyle

love

relationship

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Eden Goldie Loyalty is definitely one of the key character traits, not just when it comes to monogamy but also support and kindness. Someone that doesn't sweat the small stuff, and who I can spend time with doing separate things and still have the best time just because...

27 Aug 15

What is the success key for a good relationship?

Bleeding Heart @barood4money (376) • India 24 Aug 15

I believe that Trust, Understanding and Love are the most important key factors for a good relationship. If there is lack of any one of this factors in the relationship then the relation will not stay for long. What do you think...

love

relationship

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Eden Goldie Accepting that it isn't always going to be kissing in the rain, butterflies and laughter. The most simple of long term relationships take work, and there will always be something you could get annoyed about, but think about the good things. Don't let yourself...

24 Aug 15

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My GF Who is Living with Cancer and I Plan

cynthiann @cynthiann (18602) • Jamaica 2 Apr 13

to go out tonight. We have both been a bit depressed, especially as another friend of ours has developed secondaries and we thought that she was clear. My GD has stage 4 cancer and it is in her lymph nodes and in her adrenal...

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Eden Goldie Such a beautiful evening that will be cherished by you both, I'm sure. Keep her warm and make sure she isn't standing for too long and goes home to sleep when she needs...but as far as food goes then go crazy. Have the best time

24 Aug 15

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Why Don't they Divorce?

cynthiann @cynthiann (18602) • Jamaica 22 Apr 13

I have some friends who over the years, have often wished that they could have divorced their husbands but for many reasons were too scared or afraid to do so. You probably know people like this too. I wished that my parents...

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Eden Goldie This is such a sensitive subject for so many, but I admire your curiosity and have also wondered similar things. For example, I lived next door to a married couple for over a year and almost every day we would hear them arguing. They were violent towards each...

24 Aug 15

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Monday , Oh Monday !

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90721) • Philippines 24 Aug 15

Today is Monday and it's late afternoon already . I have done lots of paper works today and i was so happy it didn't stressed me . I feel light the whole day despite the loads of paper works . Maybe it's because of the long...

monday

challenging

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Eden Goldie I hope you're week remains as pleasant, my Monday was spent in bed until 6pm as I wasn't feeling great. Tomorrow is another day though :)

24 Aug 15

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I am having a tough time on something....

Rosekitty @Rosekitty (19368) • San Marcos, Texas 24 Aug 15

I wrote a message to my kids to water the cat and feed the bird seeds.. Well that just got them in giggles but i was gone so didn't know about it till i got home...Hence they have been ribbing me about it since.. Of course i...

birds and cats

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Eden Goldie Well if their baby pictures are even half as bad as some of mine (sat in the bath with at least 17 layers of puppy fat) then I'd save that punishment for something much more deserving. Laugh along and make it a running trend every time you ask them to do it,...

24 Aug 15

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If you can only have one choice of food that you can eat, what would it be?

Karlie @superkarlie (44) • Netherlands 23 Aug 15

There are lots of diets for losing weight and eating mono meal is one of it. With that, I came up with the question " If I can only have one kind of food for a month, what could it be?" I think, Ham Pizza for a month sounds...

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Eden Goldie Well if we were living in a dream world and it meant I wouldn't put on weight, I would choose my Nana's homemade macaroni cheese. However, realistically I would choose Mexican salad wraps, they have the protein, iron, healthy carbs and fats...as well as the...

23 Aug 15

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What time of day/night do you go to sleep?

Kevin @kevin1877uk (36988) 22 Aug 15

What time of day/night do you go to sleep? I’m currently out of sync, there is a lot going on in my life, plenty of thinking to be had which doesn’t help with sleep. I’m not the best person for sleep. In the UK I’m hopeless at...

sleep

night time

bedtime

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Eden Goldie If I'm working I am absolutely useless at staying up passed 9pm (also UK), even on the weekends, but I start my new job in a couple of weeks so have some time off and my sleeping pattern is out the window! Unfortunately, staying up until 4am means I don't...

23 Aug 15

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