Lingling89

@Lingling89 (88)

Philippines • Age 35

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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"Are you a light traveler?"

Shavkat @Shavkat (139933) • Philippines 13 Sep 12

If you were going to travel, do you travel with heavy luggage? I am correlating with an idiom expression, bringing the cabinet in a bulky traveling bag. It is acceptable to bring a big size luggage, going for a vacation overseas...

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Lingling89 Before when I was in college, I was really a paranoid kid on what to bring when I travel. I always see to it that I have everything. I always think of all the possibilities of what events may happen. Maybe I should bring gowns, or swim wears, and all those...

13 Sep 12

Is there a time that you were being offended when somebody tend to correct you?

Metatronik @Metatronik (6199) • Pasay, Philippines 12 Sep 12

Accept the fact that there are some people who are having this pride or ego projecting that they already knew what to do. They are not exactly the know it all people but then there are times that being corrected by other people...

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Lingling89 Yes, I have been to similar situations before. Well, correcting someone depends on your approach towards saying it to them. Sometimes, the tone of voice can be insulting or the usage of inappropriate words are not good to hear. When I'm also in a bad mood or I...

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Yehey!!Got my first job

iamJB7 @iamJB7 (122) • Philippines 13 Sep 12

After months of searching for a job, finally I've got my first job. Tomorrow will be my first day of work and I don't know what to do. Should I wait for the instruction? or should I be the one to ask question. The manager did...

ask

instruction

job

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Lingling89 Congratulations! Good for you that you had finally gotten a job. I'm still crossing my fingers now because I just went through two examinations where I am applying. I'm hoping to get in and get some good job too. I can see that you are really excited with that...

13 Sep 12

Do you have a lot of foreign friends?

fatlex06 @fatlex06 (895) • Philippines 13 Sep 12

I read an article where they had a survey of how many foreigners had friendship with Americans. And it was upsetting that some people tend not to have any friendship. I have one Korean friend and few Japanese friends but no...

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Lingling89 I, too, don't have foreign friends. I haven't made well or interacted too much with them although there are many exchange students during my college days. I had a few good ones but we don't talk that much. It is really exciting to have friends with the other...

13 Sep 12

how many recreations you needed to make yourself happy - or CONTENTMENT

missjahn @missjahn (4574) • Philippines 12 Sep 12

i can hear lots of complains that one person is bored even he is facing with his laptop and surfing on the net. and one while having luxuriously unwinding in the hotel or resorts. so i asked, what kind of recreations these men...

complains about life

contentment

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Lingling89 It depends on one's perspective of contentment and happiness. We have all different levels of how we satisfy our needs and wants in our lives. Though you got a point when you said that we should appreciate what we have. It is not wrong to aim higher, as it is...

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How far must you travel to experience new things?

41Combedale @41CombedaleRoad (5952) • Greece 13 Sep 12

Now that fares are so high and money is so short people are beginning to look closer to home for their holidays. Why spend a lot of time, money and energy travelling abroad when there are lots of adventures waiting for you in your...

local history

local interests

my home

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Lingling89 It depends on the person I think what his perspective is. For me and my family, we always enjoy traveling around. Last Christmas, we were able to visit Hong Kong for a few days. It was exciting to see a foreign country too that has different cultures with you....

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When somebody steps on your toes at work, is it time to move on?

bounce58 @bounce58 (17387) • Canada 13 Sep 12

I’ve been in this job of mine for just over a year. A few months ago, we hired a new guy who’s more experienced than I am (and I bet paid even more than I am!). Although we don’t exactly have the same job...

jobs

stepping on toes

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Lingling89 Your situation is a bit tough to decide. They should have had certain specific roles for each jobs. Moving on to another job depends on how you assess the connection between yourself and your job. Do you love it? If not, you can find a more satisfying and...

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Real life love story that's gonna make you go crazy

night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 13 Sep 12

Okay guys, I had and uncle and aunt who passed away recently. They married 30-40 years ago and it was love marriage, they could not have kids. But there love was strong enough to hold them together. My auntie always said to my...

love story

surprising love story

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Lingling89 That is really such a romantic love story that happened to them. I'm very touched hearing those things happen in real life. Looks like they really had loved each other throughout the years even though it's quite unfortunate to have no kids. I think it must...

13 Sep 12

Do you like in being social?

Rohitt03011979 @Rohitt03011979 (249) • India 12 Sep 12

As it has been said that man is a social animal and cannot leave alone.yet there are many people who enjoy solitude.ya i too require but very seldom.i m a true social animal.hahaha......i enjoy to be with my family,my friends and...

social

solitude

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Lingling89 Yes, I agree with you on your point. I also love to interact more with people everywhere. Back in my high school days, I was a very little shy duckling around the corner. But when I went to college then up to now, I had boost my self-confidence. I always make...

12 Sep 12

Do you have Christmas Break at Work?

Metatronik @Metatronik (6199) • Pasay, Philippines 12 Sep 12

I was informed here by an officemate that we have our Christmas Break just like what the school is doing. Like after Christmas party then we are going to have the Christmas break from December 23 to January 2 or it depends as well...

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Lingling89 I think everyone deserves to have a Christmas break. Christmas is a very well celebrated occasion for most of us. Almost in every country, Christmas is very special where we see those colorful and bright lights everywhere, where we anticipate gifts from our...

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Why you still have no boyfriend or girlfriend?

flower21 @flower21 (765) • Philippines 11 Sep 12

Did you happen, somebody ask you this and you could not reply immediately. The way it is ask includes a little bit of teasing and in worst situation mix with insulting remarks. Some could reply to it with ease and some would not...

no boyfriend

no girlfriend

no lack n finding love

not yet found love

zero love

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Lingling89 One would depend how to handle answering this question. I think it also depends on the tone of how this question is delivered to a person. It could be in a kind and curious way or it could be somewhat like threatening and insulting one. There may be alot of...

12 Sep 12

When Someone Ask You - Facebook or Twitter?

Proud Dad of Twins :) @primeaque86 (8108) • Philippines 12 Sep 12

What's yours? If someone asked you to choose only one of these two giants in the web - facebook or twitter? If you will ask me the same too, I will choose facebook, because it's more intimate for me. I have...

social networks

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Lingling89 That's a hard one especially I am very active on both facebook and twitter. But maybe I will choose facebook. You are correct to point that it has more real valuable friends in facebooks and that I communicate with everyone usually with them. Whereas for...

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PSY Gangnam Style

Winike @Winike (65) • Hungary 12 Sep 12

What do you think of Gangnam Style? Im 18 , and in my generation It's really popular. Everyone like gangnam this and gangnam that! What About Your Generation or Your Opinion?

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Lingling89 Yes, it is really popular these days. I didn't even expect it to be that popular that it was featured on Ellen's show and letting Britney Spears dance that song. The song is very amusing and has a jolly melody. The dance steps are very funny and hilarious....

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Disappointment in life how do you face it? :(

RSantos026 @RSantos026 (288) • Philippines 12 Sep 12

As a college student I'm dreaming to be in DL Dean's list . But I should not have lower grades than 2.5 depending on laude grades required. In my midterm I'm very happy because my lowest grade is 2.25 for on my major subjects...

disappointment

regrets

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Lingling89 Failure. That's part of your college life. It's not always win-win for life, there's also lose-lose part. It is always how you deal with it and how you perceive them. The solution? Well, I have two: Prayer and Optimism. First, Prayer is always the first. God...

12 Sep 12

Scary movies: Something old and something new

barbiesacol88 @barbiesacol88 (202) • Philippines 12 Sep 12

I love watching scary movies. It's enjoyable to watch it especially with my cousins. we turn off the lights and turn on the tv and scream to our heart's content. But now, we were having a contest on who gets to bring the most...

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Lingling89 Me too, I like watching scary movies but I prefer watching them with a company. I'm a bit of being scared and imagining things in an instant. Plus, watching with someone is more fun to watch too. I also like screaming and covering my eyes as something goes...

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What do you want me to call you? Honey?...

Shavkat @Shavkat (139933) • Philippines 12 Sep 12

Let me share this topic with a BIG SMILE. Most of us, we call our partner or ex-partner with endearing name. You know what I mean. What are the common endearing names? Hmmm... Honey, sweety, sweet, babe, babes, baby, dear, honey...

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Lingling89 I like having endearment names with my partner. It makes me feel secure that he's mind and I'm his. It's also sweet to hear every time he calls me. Right now, my guy right now calls me "mommy" and I call him "daddy". I don't really remember how this came but I...

12 Sep 12

What's the reason for you to raise a cat at home?

youless @youless (112481) • Guangzhou, China 11 Sep 12

In fact I like to have a cat at home. But I have to work in daytime, so basically my parents have to help me to take care of it if we had a cat. I am not sure whether they will be happy to it and therefore I haven't bought a cat...

cat

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Lingling89 We don't have any cats at home but my family always prefer dogs for protection with the house. I like cats especially those cute ones, my cousin have two cute cats and I like them because they are so playful. Sometimes, when I'm in my cousin's house, I would...

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Calling in to a Call Centre..Have you Ever Enjoyed the Hold Music??

Jshean20 @Jshean20 (14348) • Canada 11 Sep 12

I work at a call centre and one of the biggest complaints I hear on a daily basis is how much people hate the music that they had to listen to before reaching me. I often have to wonder why we don't offer customers a certain genre...

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Lingling89 It's okay but sometimes, maybe the fact that listening to it longer than expected makes it irritating. I had encountered before an article if people prefer being on hold with or without music. The result displayed that most of them doesn't agree with the music...

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always help the poor people

zeonstar @zeonstar (54) • India 11 Sep 12

in this world many people are very rich but most are very poor ,even they unable to earn for a single time food in a day. they need food for their life ,one day i saw a poor old man about age around 75y,he was finding the food in...

zeonstar

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Lingling89 Yes, i would agree with you. Though there are sometimes exceptions for me..I'm more into helping people who are "obviously" helplessly poor. For example, I give whenever I see an old man in the streets who cannot walk and striving to get to it day by day. It...

12 Sep 12

Do you still send call and text messages your exes?

flower21 @flower21 (765) • Philippines 11 Sep 12

Yes, if they are still my friends and when we separate we made agreement to still made contact with each other. especially when we do not hurt each other too much by breaking up. We would act as normal even though their times the...

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Lingling89 Yes,most of my exes are my friends today though we don't talk really alot for we have our own lives right now. It's much better to see that you can still be friends with them. Withholding communication with them is like planting a grudge when it's much better...

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