beaushell

@beaushell (339)

Philippines • Age 49

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Filipino Mylotters

5Ohmz5 @5Ohmz5 (10) 6 Oct 09

are there Filipino Mylotters here?

mylotters

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beaushell I am very much a Filipino! :) And welcome to my lot... see yah around.

9 Oct 09

Do you think love can be learned?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 18 Sep 09

I think so, because my mom and dad's marriage was arranged both of my grandparents. My mom told us that she had a boyfriend before my dad came and asked for her hands. She's deeply in love with her boyfriend, but since she's very...

learned

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beaushell I remember I have heard of that idea before, the advantage of arranged marriages. In arranged marriage both couple has not been actively involve in choosing their life partner. No pre-concieved idea of the person. No expectation either. So what is expected of...

18 Sep 09

This Weird Weather

anne25penn @anne25penn (3305) • Philippines 18 Sep 09

Am not able to breathe again. This morning up to noon, the sun was out and it was hot. Now its raining torrents and abruptly changed the temperature. I wish that the weather will either stay hot, or stay cold. Its very bad for my...

weird weather

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beaushell You are so right. Its really frustrating at times, but what can we do? I think we cannot do anything about it. We just need to be prepared to protect ourselves and our loves ones for this weird weather transitions. And I think its not only in the Philippines,...

18 Sep 09

Do you think the kids should be beaten rather than punished?

coolcat123 @coolcat123 (4387) • India 17 Sep 09

many people beat their children in anger but afterwards feel sorry for what they have done.I think punishing a child is better than beating them bcoz after getting punished the child will not repeat the same mistake again. It...

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beaushell Yes, I believe we can be creative in allowing the child to learn from their mistakes. Punishment is very agreeable for me especially if you know how to implement it and is strong enough to be consistent in what you say. Beating? I prefer spanking(it seems like...

18 Sep 09

What's the best way to you relax yourself

Ruby722 @Ruby722 (796) • China 14 Sep 09

Life is hard and complicate.We live in a high tech world and a high speed rhythm city.We always feel tired from work ,study,life details,relationship.Whatever.So what is the best way that you relax yourself .In my opinion tired of...

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beaushell My favorite way of relaxation is watching a good and inspiring movie with my husband. Movies that makes us laugh is my personal favorite. For me laughing out loud is a great way to relax and have fun. Another way is having our favorite coffee in our favorite...

15 Sep 09

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Which is your favourite Cartoon and Why?

Iriene88 @Iriene88 (5343) • Malaysia 13 Sep 09

I believe each and everyone of us has a childhood memory. Our favourite cartoon now and then. My son and I still enjoy cartoons and animation movies very much! Recently we watched Disney-Pixar latest animation movie 'UP'....

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beaushell Yes, its true cartoons bring a lot of fun to our lives. Date with my husbands was many times highlighted by us watching cartoon movies. He enjoyed watching cartoons growing up the same as I do. So we both enjoy it very much. My personal favorite is are the...

14 Sep 09

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I just lost my 17 year old cousin...

breepeace @breepeace (3014) • Canada 8 Sep 09

On August 29th, my cousin sat down on her bed, read a passage of the bible, and then shot herself through the head with her dad's handgun. She was 17 years old, beautiful, intelligent, creative, gifted and well loved. I...

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beaushell That is a very sad news. A promising life she has. I'm sorry for your lost. God grant you and your family peace and comfort in this time of grieving.

9 Sep 09

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Do you believe in demonic possession?

dvmurphy @dvmurphy (326) • United States 8 Sep 09

What are the signs of possession? Are they always noticable? Can bipolar or multipersonality disorder actually be misdiagnosed when it could be a form of possession or drugs? My daughter is 24 and the doctors say she is both...

bipolar

demonic possession

multiple personalities

occult

suicide

witch craft

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beaushell I am sorry to hear about what happened to your daughter. But I think your daughter is either demon possesed or oppressed. Her involvement with cult and not acknowledging God in her life are strongholds that can be used the demons to take hold of her life. She...

9 Sep 09

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Do you like to pick fresh fruits/berries/vegetables when they are in season?

DCLehnsherr @DCLehnsherr (1037) 8 Sep 09

Hi mylotters, I have finally cleared some comments and so am allowed to start a new discussion ~ Celebrates ~ Since the picture I wanted to add to this is easy to edit I decided to make this first, that and it is most...

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beaushell One of the happy memories I had with both my parents was tending a small garden. My father growing up as a farmer never loose the opportunity to plant vegetables and fruits even living in a suburban area. He would choose an idle land, ask permission from the...

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What is the most stupid way you have been injured?

Amber @AmbiePam (93898) • United States 8 Sep 09

Last night I was going to boil some noodles, but the pot was too small to just put the noodles in the boiling water. So I decided to break them in half. When I did, somehow a couple of the halved noodles punctured my skin. I...

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beaushell The most weirdest injury I ever had was biting the inside of my cheek with my teeth (of course). I just find it weird because whenever I tried, it seem impossible for my teeth to reach and much more bite in a really strong way the inside of my cheek. I don't...

9 Sep 09

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What do you think of a girl who date or accept a man because of pity not love?

Dewfunk @Dewfunk (87) • Indonesia 9 Sep 09

I don't know if this question is a common thing for many of you people here, especially all the girls, but I simply asked this question because it involves someone i know very well, a close friend of mine, the girl. So this...

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beaushell I think your friend is confused. She doesn't really know what she want and what she is looking for. She is also longing for real love but just don't know how to look for it. She is also on a quest of finding that love that will swept up her feet and stick to...

9 Sep 09

Prayers Please.........

Sparks @sparkofinsanity (20471) • Regina, Saskatchewan 7 Sep 09

I've just received the news that one of our own is in crisis. Our favorite dumb blond and dizzy mylotter's beloved Rex has smashed his cheekbone and the bone around his eye socket. As I type this he is being rushed by ambulance...

lori

please pray for them

rex

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beaushell In the Bible it is written that "the prayer of the righteous is effective". I guess it does not really depend on the number of people praying. Some miracles happen while one is praying quietly. At other times even prayers that have not been ask for. God is...

7 Sep 09

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Do you remember any of your teachers?

kkanaka @kkanaka (886) • Singapore 6 Sep 09

Hi mylotters, I work in a school and we celebrated teacher's day in our school.... All the teachers also tried to remember something about their teachers and commented on it.... I also remembered about my biology teacher whom I...

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beaushell Teachers have great impact and influence on our lives. One of my favorite teacher was one of my college instructor. She was a young woman that teaches with passion and creativity. I like her style of not bringing a book or anything aside from the chalk to...

7 Sep 09

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What Cooking Mistakes Have Turned Out Delicious??

Deborah L. Alten @gtargirl (5376) • United States 6 Sep 09

I cook up an awesome batch of French fries. All the neighborhood kids come by and grab a plate. I usually feed around 7 boys and their girlfriends (if they have one). Apparently, the fresh Canola oil makes the difference as well...

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beaushell That is a fascinating result. Yep, I had quite a few of that case also. It was unbelievable that something so wrong can turn out to something you can be proud of. I was able to turn a paksiw na bangus (because a guest came and I forgot that I'm actually...

7 Sep 09

Who / what wakes you up in the morning?

Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!! @krupesh (2608) • India 6 Sep 09

Some might wake up by the sound of the alarm , some by the milkman , some by the sound of the newspaper , some by the barking of the dog. For me its my 15 months old daughter who starts crying which wakes me up.Eventhough I...

sounds

waking up

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beaushell its my husband's gentle voice and sweet persistent teasing that will wake me up every morning. I open my eyes to his smiling face and ready bear hug. Waking up every morning is such a trilling time for me. Although I really had a hard time waking up... my...

6 Sep 09

Congee;

joezon50 @joezon50 (378) • Hong Kong 5 Sep 09

Do you eat congee?Mostly old people said that once in awhile we need to have plain congee.It helps to clean also our stomach and can do good to our health too. Do you like congee too?

congee

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beaushell I love congee! Especially with as little meat as possible and some vegetables. Yet, I'm not sure the plain ones. I don't know why. I have just learned to love it. We have a local fastfood here in our place that serves congee just the way I like it! And its...

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Who is the most authoritative person in your family?

Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!! @krupesh (2608) • India 6 Sep 09

Every family has a head.Mostly heads of the families are the authoritative or commanding persons in their respective families.Who is that person in your family. My dad is the authoritative person in our family...

authoritative

commanding

family head

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beaushell Growing up in my family, I have seen both my parents as the authoritative persons in my family. They are the ones making decisions. Their words are taken seriously too. My father is usually quiet and when he speaks it is without humor. But after dying for...

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Church or Civil Wedding: Which is more "stronger" in holding the relation?

mobhomeir @mobhomeir (7558) • Philippines 6 Sep 09

Hello mylotters, getting married would not be an easy decision in your life. As what I understood this is the other half of your life that would be at risk. Why? Because if your marriage would not be successful the situation and...

church wedding

civil wedding

trial marriage

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beaushell I have been married for 6 years now. We had a Church wedding. If I will be given a chance to choose again, I will still prefer to have a church wedding. This does not guarantee a more lasting relationship, yes. The legality is the same with the civil wedding...

6 Sep 09

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" worst beating ever. I hated to do it but she had to learn."

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 6 Sep 09

What did she really learn, how to pick on younger kids, how to beat your own kids, how to teach kids to be wife beaters when they grow up? I can understand a couple of swats on the seat very ocassionally but to beat savagely just...

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beaushell Hi hatley! I don't agree on beating kids on a cruel manner at all. Beating with a purpose however is different. I experienced being beaten as a child growing up for punishment for being naughty or disobedient. My mother would be quick to explain why, and...

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Why do people get so defensive when someone disagrees with them?

jen14ed @jen14ed (865) • Philippines 6 Sep 09

Why do people get so defensive when someone disagrees with them? it is not personal can't people just accept that people have different opinion?.

defensive

opinion

people

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beaushell This is because people have this universal need to be accepted. Many people have a hard time accepting that rejection of their ideas or opinion does not mean rejecting them as a person. Those who have experience rejection many times in their lives have the...

6 Sep 09