dettedeguzman

@dettedeguzman (85)

Philippines • Age 52

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What do you do when your kid starts answering you back?

dettedeguzman @dettedeguzman (85) • Philippines 13 Feb 09

It has been my predicament for some time that my second child who is 14 and a half years old starts answering me back. He does not respect me in the true sense of the word. He does not follow my rules. Above all, he does not like...

difficult kid

kid

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What is the best on line job?

dettedeguzman @dettedeguzman (85) • Philippines 10 Feb 09

I have been looking for the best on line opportunity. I am looking for any on line job. I have a blog at http://www.dette10.blogspot.com. Those who need a virtual assistant, researcher or virtual assistant, please consider me.

on line job

Are you in favor of working mothers?

dettedeguzman @dettedeguzman (85) • Philippines 9 Feb 09

I am a full time mother for almost 17 years. I can honestly say that I wish I have a job and a career in the corporate world. But there is always this force pulling me back from taking that step. I have 6 kids. It's so hard to...

mother and child

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How many times you got lost your love?

ernestman @ernestman (306) • Philippines 24 Sep 07

Some people says they had lost thrice but some says, five times. You? Are you successful of your relation?

first kiss

first love

lips to lips

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dettedeguzman The beauty of falling in love is that you need not count the number of times you will fall in love. Others fall in love for a short time and some fall in love only once in their life time. I guess, it has something to do with the personality of the individual....

9 Feb 09

how do you feel when you are kising on the mouth?

dettedeguzman @dettedeguzman (85) • Philippines 9 Feb 09

When I was younger, I used to wonder how it feels to kiss and be kissed on the mouth? Whenever I see couples kissing lips to lips I often ask myself If they ever get yucky feeling and tasting their saliva and all. When I grew up,...

lips to lips

Naked? or Clothes on?

miraclefreebies @miraclefreebies (3043) • United States 9 Feb 09

I know this is a touchy topic, but since when did that stop me? OK, that would be NEVER! This sounds too weird, so try not to laugh at me or frown up. I was just sitting here thinking about what my body look like with no...

clothes

naked

off

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dettedeguzman I can say that I am a bit disappointed with the way my body looks now that I have given birth to 6 kids especially when I look into the mirror without my clothes on. It's like feeling so ugly every time I try to put on my old clothes. My waist line used to...

9 Feb 09

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How can we keep the child alive?

TLChimes @TLChimes (4822) • United States 8 Feb 09

It seems that most people think that childhood is fading fast due to family style changes and technology. If this is the case, how do we keep the child with in alive and well. Not only for the children but for ourselves. What...

child inside

childhood

personal growth

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dettedeguzman You know what, there were times when I wish that I never grew up. I like to ponder on my childhood memories now that I am an adult. It is so nice to realize that a child's life is far better than the adults'. It is so funny because when I was a child, I always...

8 Feb 09

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How do you define love?

dettedeguzman @dettedeguzman (85) • Philippines 8 Feb 09

Love, for me is the most wonderful feeling. It is magic when two people fall in love. It is also the most difficult situation wherein a lot of people fail. It is in this aspect wherein the learned became dumb and the rich and the...

love

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How to love your spouse forever and make your spouse love you forever ?

siongkai @siongkai (3) • Malaysia 8 Feb 09

I had wondered, and wondered ....... for more than 5 years after my first marriage was broken. Unable to get any way to ensure myself to be able to do that and thus scared to fall in love just to found out that it will end in the...

my love

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dettedeguzman You know what, I heard a friend telling me that she is so lucky for finding a partner like her husband. She said that she can die any minute now because she has already found her perfect soul mate. I asked her If there really is such a thing as a soul mate....

8 Feb 09

How do you discipline your child? Do you spank them or simply talk with them?

dettedeguzman @dettedeguzman (85) • Philippines 8 Feb 09

As a parent, I have encountered a lot of problems in disciplining my children. I tried spanking, I tried talking with them as in heart to heart talk but to no avail. I think that children of today are so hard to handle. They are...

children

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Kindergarten for children

Zhu Huifen @zhuhuifen46 (3483) • China 7 Feb 09

We send our children to kindergarten to satisfy several goals. To start learning, to have their own society, and leave ourselves free time? Parents have different criteria for selecting kindergartens. Among location...

kindergarten

parenting

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dettedeguzman I would like to share with you my experience with my kids and my never ending quest for a good school. I tried putting my kids to a middle class school, semi-private school and high end school. I can say that you ought to prepare ahead of time so that you can...

8 Feb 09

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Do you believe in Luck?

Sherry12 @Sherry12 (2472) • United States 11 Jan 09

It seems some people are lucky and others aren't. Do you believe this to be true? Or, is it that the people we think are lucky, work harder and seem lucky? I've been trying to figure out if there really is such a thing as luck. I...

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dettedeguzman I agree with you about people being born quite lucky. Some are so lucky to be born rich and blessed with all the material things in this world. Others are born with innate talents. I guess, fate has something to do with all these.If you think you are unlucky,...

8 Feb 09

I'm having this tendency to shout when I'm angry, any tips to control it?

marisriel @marisriel (1156) • Philippines 25 Jan 09

I think it's my temper and maybe psychologically, I think that shouting makes my audience understand me better. But I don't think it's correct or proper because I think I am getting scandalous sometimes. Sometimes I also do this...

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dettedeguzman You know what? We are on the same boat. I shout at my kids when I am angry especially when I am teaching them their lessons. But when I am dealing with other kids and people I am not like that. I can completely control my temper and shouting. The bad side of...

26 Jan 09

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I wish I could relive my life?

dettedeguzman @dettedeguzman (85) • Philippines 22 Jan 09

You know what, if there is a second chance of a lifetime I would certainly grab it and be the first in line. I hate waking up everyday having a heavy heart because I know that this is just another sad day for me. My partner...

calls

closed minded person

names

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dettedeguzman Thank you very much. That's what I needed most at this very moment. A friend.

22 Jan 09

I wish I could relive my life?

dettedeguzman @dettedeguzman (85) • Philippines 22 Jan 09

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Help! My daughter is too afraid of people

marisriel @marisriel (1156) • Philippines 21 Jan 09

I'm having a problem with my two year old daughter. He hates to see or she's too afraid to see new faces in our house. Whenever there is a new face, say a visiting friend or a relative who had just visited us in our house, my...

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dettedeguzman Are you or your husband the introvert type? Some psychologist would say that your child's attitude has something to do with genetics. It could be that you are the timid type or your husband. It could also be one of your relatives. I can suggest that you try to...

22 Jan 09

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