dettedeguzman

@dettedeguzman (85)

Philippines • Age 52

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How many times you got lost your love?

ernestman @ernestman (306) • Philippines 24 Sep 07

Some people says they had lost thrice but some says, five times. You? Are you successful of your relation?

first kiss

first love

lips to lips

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dettedeguzman The beauty of falling in love is that you need not count the number of times you will fall in love. Others fall in love for a short time and some fall in love only once in their life time. I guess, it has something to do with the personality of the individual....

9 Feb 09

Naked? or Clothes on?

miraclefreebies @miraclefreebies (3043) • United States 9 Feb 09

I know this is a touchy topic, but since when did that stop me? OK, that would be NEVER! This sounds too weird, so try not to laugh at me or frown up. I was just sitting here thinking about what my body look like with no...

clothes

naked

off

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dettedeguzman I can say that I am a bit disappointed with the way my body looks now that I have given birth to 6 kids especially when I look into the mirror without my clothes on. It's like feeling so ugly every time I try to put on my old clothes. My waist line used to...

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How can we keep the child alive?

TLChimes @TLChimes (4822) • United States 8 Feb 09

It seems that most people think that childhood is fading fast due to family style changes and technology. If this is the case, how do we keep the child with in alive and well. Not only for the children but for ourselves. What...

child inside

childhood

personal growth

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dettedeguzman You know what, there were times when I wish that I never grew up. I like to ponder on my childhood memories now that I am an adult. It is so nice to realize that a child's life is far better than the adults'. It is so funny because when I was a child, I always...

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How to love your spouse forever and make your spouse love you forever ?

siongkai @siongkai (3) • Malaysia 8 Feb 09

I had wondered, and wondered ....... for more than 5 years after my first marriage was broken. Unable to get any way to ensure myself to be able to do that and thus scared to fall in love just to found out that it will end in the...

my love

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dettedeguzman You know what, I heard a friend telling me that she is so lucky for finding a partner like her husband. She said that she can die any minute now because she has already found her perfect soul mate. I asked her If there really is such a thing as a soul mate....

8 Feb 09

Kindergarten for children

Zhu Huifen @zhuhuifen46 (3483) • China 7 Feb 09

We send our children to kindergarten to satisfy several goals. To start learning, to have their own society, and leave ourselves free time? Parents have different criteria for selecting kindergartens. Among location...

kindergarten

parenting

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dettedeguzman I would like to share with you my experience with my kids and my never ending quest for a good school. I tried putting my kids to a middle class school, semi-private school and high end school. I can say that you ought to prepare ahead of time so that you can...

8 Feb 09

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Do you believe in Luck?

Sherry12 @Sherry12 (2472) • United States 11 Jan 09

It seems some people are lucky and others aren't. Do you believe this to be true? Or, is it that the people we think are lucky, work harder and seem lucky? I've been trying to figure out if there really is such a thing as luck. I...

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dettedeguzman I agree with you about people being born quite lucky. Some are so lucky to be born rich and blessed with all the material things in this world. Others are born with innate talents. I guess, fate has something to do with all these.If you think you are unlucky,...

8 Feb 09

I'm having this tendency to shout when I'm angry, any tips to control it?

marisriel @marisriel (1156) • Philippines 25 Jan 09

I think it's my temper and maybe psychologically, I think that shouting makes my audience understand me better. But I don't think it's correct or proper because I think I am getting scandalous sometimes. Sometimes I also do this...

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dettedeguzman You know what? We are on the same boat. I shout at my kids when I am angry especially when I am teaching them their lessons. But when I am dealing with other kids and people I am not like that. I can completely control my temper and shouting. The bad side of...

26 Jan 09

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Help! My daughter is too afraid of people

marisriel @marisriel (1156) • Philippines 21 Jan 09

I'm having a problem with my two year old daughter. He hates to see or she's too afraid to see new faces in our house. Whenever there is a new face, say a visiting friend or a relative who had just visited us in our house, my...

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dettedeguzman Are you or your husband the introvert type? Some psychologist would say that your child's attitude has something to do with genetics. It could be that you are the timid type or your husband. It could also be one of your relatives. I can suggest that you try to...

22 Jan 09

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My daughter drove for the first time to college today!

sweetpeasmom @sweetpeasmom (1325) • United States 22 Jan 09

wow she is growing up. she has her own apartment, she bought a car last week and drove it to out of town for the first time today for classes. I told her to not call me unless it is something bad and she has not called yet and it...

apartment

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dettedeguzman Good for you. You know what, I wish that here in the Philippines, we could let go of our children the way you people do in your country. We, Filipinos are very protective of our children. We want to shelter our children for as long as we can afford it. But the...

22 Jan 09

It's a Misunderstanding

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 22 Jan 09

Has anyone ever misunderstood something you said in a discussion? I'm sure it's happened to each of us at least once. It's happened to me a few times. I'll start a discussion and apparently I'm not clear enough about part...

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dettedeguzman Hi. Don't be sad when people misunderstand you. We are using the most powerful means of communication here which is written communication. People who are confused can easily go back and reread what you have written. If they didn't get what you mean on the...

22 Jan 09

does it break your heart...

ladybug565 @ladybug565 (2216) • United States 30 Dec 08

does it break your heart to see your child cry? expecially when you cant do anything to help. I cant stand to see my daughter cry and usually when I try to talk to her it just makes it worse.

daughter

growing up

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dettedeguzman It really is heartbreaking to see your child cry. But hold yourself. If she is just throwing one of her tantrums, don't give in so easily. That will just make matters worse. But If the child is in pain, that's the time that you must attend to her and encourage...

22 Jan 09

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I had a fight with my girlfriend last night,sigh...

ktosea @ktosea (2026) • China 21 Jan 09

it's awful,now she is still mad at me and I am depressed too. Last night when we were shopping,she keeped on buying some luxuries which I can not afford,the money in my pocket have already been had plans and I don't think it's a...

fight

girlfriend

love

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dettedeguzman All I can say is talk to your girlfriend when all the high emotions have already died down. Do not fight over money matters. I think your girlfriend doesn't understand your financial situations. Show her some proofs that you are indeed in crisis. If she is...

21 Jan 09

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Things Your Parents Would Always Say

Stegeo3 @Stegeo3 (199) • United States 18 Jan 09

I'm sure a lot of us have heard phrases that our parents used excessively to a point where we were sick of it. Were there any things specifically that your parents said often while you were/are a child? If you're a parent at the...

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dettedeguzman Oh, I remember my parents keep telling me to tidy my room. I also remember my parents telling us that we, siblings, should not fight with each other. They tell us that we must love one another because we will not live together in one roof forever because there...

21 Jan 09

how do you define a open-relationship

lovesummer @lovesummer (1162) • Malaysia 21 Jan 09

my theory is like this,here being "open" is more than love,it is just one shouldnt stick to one person before he/she is settle down, cause nobody wanna miss the chance of meeting someone better than someone now she/he is having or...

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dettedeguzman My notion of an open-relationship is being able to stay out of the relationship when one of you finds a better one. Sounds risky but others prefer this type of relationship. The loser in the end is the girl. It is the girl's body which is exploited by her...

21 Jan 09

i stay in the same house with a girl, but i don`t love her. Please help me.

delkar @delkar (1712) • Romania 21 Jan 09

Let`s show you how it`s all the thing. When i broke up with my last girlfriend (a 2 yrs relation) i finded this girl. I didn`t liked her then, and i don`t like her now, but i was with her 3 months. Then we broke up, and she cried...

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dettedeguzman I think you are a very good person with a soft heart at that. Who knows, you already love your girl. If you don't care a bit about her, so what IF she cries. If you think that you can't love her the way you wanted to love someone, tell it straight to her face...

21 Jan 09

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if given a chance, would you like to be a boy?

donnakristel @donnakristel (1704) • Philippines 21 Jan 09

if i were a boy, that song made me think that if i were really a boy; what would the things i can do and enjoy. well, unlike being a girl, i can't do things like get drunk and punch people i don't like. i mean, if you are a girl,...

boy

girl

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dettedeguzman Without batting an eyelash, I would like to be a boy. Don't get it wrong. I am not a lesbian or something. I am just tired of all roles of a woman. You ought to do myriads of things. You give birth, you take care of the household, take care of the family,...

21 Jan 09

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why older girls, don`t want a relation with a younger boy?

delkar @delkar (1712) • Romania 21 Jan 09

To be honest, i want an older girl, but i don`t have chances. All of them think that i`m too young, even if i look older than them.

older girls

younger boys

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dettedeguzman You know what, age doesn't really matter in the name of love. I guess you are looking for an elder sister figure or a mother figure at that. You love to be pampered and looked after. Loving is really like that. You will get those things regardless of your...

21 Jan 09

first love..last love

monishavakil @monishavakil (1019) • India 17 Jan 09

Why does everyone say you can never forget your first love. Well people keep falling in love these days and everytime they say " oh i have never been so in love". Is it true?

love

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dettedeguzman Everyone has his own story to tell when it comes to first love. It all depends on what type of person are you. The intensity of love that is felt by a person depends on his own notion of happiness. Some are easy to please and some are not. Believe in love....

21 Jan 09

what do you think about abortion?

donnakristel @donnakristel (1704) • Philippines 13 Jan 09

culture differences, abortion is surfacing the youth nowadays. how about you? are you in favor of abortion or not?

culture

health

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dettedeguzman Abortion is tantamount to killing innocent people. If you think that you are not prepared to have a baby, use all the contraceptives available in the market but never resort to abortion. You will bear it in your conscience in this lifetime and in the after...

21 Jan 09

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Michelle Obama's Dress what did you think?

whenever123 @whenever123 (39) • United States 20 Jan 09

I was looking at pictures of the dress Michelle Obama was wearing. It was a very light yellow that looked beaded with a matching coat. I like that she stayed away from the boring navy or black, but the light yellow did remind me...

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dettedeguzman Michelle Obama is not just the First Lady of the United States. She is the First Lady of the whole world now. It is expected that she'll be wearing expensive wardrobes from day one up to the very last day of Obama's term. She is now under the public's...

21 Jan 09