Lotus

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~Isolation~

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85288) • Valdosta, Georgia 14 Aug

Hey y'all! Sorry I got busy with things offline for a bit. But I'm back now. :) The next part to my series is the Isolation. This is where the narcissist convinces you of the need to be alone together. Not only do they do that...

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Lotus I read that narcissists can have types.. And narcissists can have enablers or flying monkeys. As a result, more trauma is experienced by the victims.

30 Aug

Creating habit for my kids

MasGion @MasGion (1832) • Malang, Indonesia 18 Jan 23

to creating habit for children is not an easy thing, but it must be started as early as possible. I have 3 kids; 8, 6 and 4 years old. To create habit for them I make schedule list and make a deal what should to do. In the deal,...

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Lotus That's amazing..

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Graduation ceremony

MasGion @MasGion (1832) • Malang, Indonesia 23 Jun 23

This day is Saturday. Weekend is time for my family. And this day my son graduate from his kindergarten school and will continue to higher level in elementary school. In same time, his little brother will join to...

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Lotus I have a 2-year old niece..I teach her alphabet sounds last night with corresponding words for each sound.Next time I will read a book on her to expose her in language.

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Can YOU live without a PARTNER in LIFE?

Shavkat @Shavkat (140119) • Philippines 9 Apr

Some people think that their lives are incomplete. I do respect that because they are into this kind of relationship. Some singles out there accepted the fact that life is fine without any partners. I am one of them. I can still...

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Lotus I can live without a partner..I came to deal with difficult people before and I am really afraid of being able to meet another one.. But I am not closing my door too..

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What are you reading?

MARILYN @Marilynda1225 (83109) • United States 24 Jan

I spent the afternoon curled up with my book. It was a good distraction especially since it's lighthearted and funny. One of my favorite authors is Janet Evanovich and the book I'm reading is Dirty Thirty. It's the 30th book in...

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Lotus After reading Just your type and Please Understand me II, I read Building blocks of personality type. Those books are interesting because they make me understand person can be so different when it comes to temperament...Building blocks of personality type...

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Approximately How Many Books Do You Have?

MARILYN @Marilynda1225 (83109) • United States 15 Mar

I like to think of myself as an avid reader. I have two bookshelves full of books. One is in my bedroom and the other is in the living room. The total for both bookshelves is maybe around 50 physical books. I also have a Kindle...

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Lotus I don't have the total count of my books.. But like you I am also an avid reader

16 Mar

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I will undergo a surgery soon..

Sanjeev @sjvg1976 (41290) • Delhi, India 18 Dec 23

Its been a long time I have been here. Its been difficult time I am going through. Lots of things are going on. Kids are studying harder for their tenth grade and most of my time goes in assisting...

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Lotus Wish you a smooth surgery

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what's the secret to a successful marriage?

kunking @kunking (1118) • China 16 Dec 08

hi,guys! Ocassionally i learned from a magazine how to gain a successful marriage. i've got married though tend to do in recent years..the article said the secret to a successful marriage is love and respect, that means wife...

successful marriage

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29 Dec

Back after 10 years....

kunking @kunking (1118) • China 29 Dec

can't believe mylot is still existed .... it has been 10 more years passed since i came here

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Lotus Welcome back....

29 Dec

My Theory on Homosexuality

Nykkee @Nykkee (2522) • Canada 17 Sep 07

First of all before I say anything else let me say this. I do not intend to offend anyone with this, I am not really for or against homosexuality what people do is thier own business, if you are offended in anyway I am sorry, this...

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Lotus I can't understand why gender becomes an issue in our society...Human personality is really complex..And having a good personality is really someone's good asset...Personality is more important than gender... And the issue faced by the world is actually...

9 Dec 23

What are your favourite hobbies?

dagda24 @dagda24 (366) 21 Aug 08

What are your favourite hobbies? Why do you like them? Do you get time to spend doing them or not?

hobbies

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Lotus I read books and at times I try cooking some menus.

13 Oct 23

What is your biggest fear?

Jatin jaiswal @Jatin024 (68) 29 Sep 23

Fear is common feeling in human and fear can spread person to person. Some fears are unknown. It's important to acknowledge and address our fears to overcome them. Losing loved ones is my biggest fear. What is yours

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Lotus My biggest fear at this moment would be to meet another narcissist again...

30 Sep 23

Working or Retired or Something in Between?

LindaOH @LindaOHio (181721) • United States 29 Sep 23

I lost my job as an Accounting Office Manager on Christmas Eve 2009. The company I had worked for for 15 years went bankrupt so that they could be bought out by another company. There I was, 61 years old, with no job prospects....

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Lotus I am still working and I have been in the teaching profession for 10 years already.

30 Sep 23

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Why are Jehovah Witnesses still recruiting?

whywiki @whywiki (6066) • Canada 19 Aug 07

I was enjoying a peaceful day at home when a couple women came knocking on my door. They were JW's and were there to save me from I don't know what but I am an Atheist and turned them away. Next day there is a vanful of them about...

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Lotus I have this crush who is Jevoha's witness...He's straight...But I am gay but I found out JW be that homophobic.

26 Jun 23

Peace and quiet.

Fiacre Banks @xFiacre (13152) • Ireland 14 May 23

I went yesterday to have a look at the house I’m trying to buy, and photographed it from a kilometre away. It’s the white one on top of the tree-covered hill. There are no trees in front of it so the view of the sea is...

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Lotus For mental health, focus, and general stress reduction, finding peace and quiet can be helpful.

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Short stories: Goals, ambitions, and dreams, are not as important as our spiritual mission, and purpose, are in our life

Steve Marshall @innertalks (22088) • Australia 18 Mar 23

The spiritual master, Sri Arton Zerploski, was giving a talk to his students about whether we should have worldly goals, ambitions, or dreams, for our own lives, or not. He said that we should never waste our time and...

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Lotus But it seems currently religions divide people and even families....

18 Mar 23

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What do you think?

Fans jisoo @Sooyaa (36) 28 Feb 23

hi everyone, I'm relaxing and walking in the city, sometimes I like the city but I miss the village, I don't have many different friends in the city in the village, it's just that if I live in the village I have to be mentally...

hallo everyone city village

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Lotus I prefer to live in a village and see the beautiful nature around.

4 Mar 23

Introvert or ekstrovert?

Fans jisoo @Sooyaa (36) 28 Feb 23

an introvert is a person who doesn't like small talk, I focus more on myself and do important things, I sometimes want to be like other people to be extroverted but it turns out that it's not easy and very draining, I don't like...

hallo everyone introvert ekstrovert

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Lotus I am introvert...But at times, I try to be sociable by interacting with others...

4 Mar 23

What is a simple life to you?

Gemini0611 @Gemini0611 (49) • Philippines 13 May 07

A simple life for me?....Living in the hub of the city waking up in the morning, preparing healthy breakfast for my son, tv's on watching music video on MTV, having a cup of coffee and a toasted bread with butter This is...

healthy breakfast

living it simple

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Lotus We can consider Abraham Maslow Hierarchy of needs.Having my basic daily needs especially the physiological needs met is a simple life to me..In addition, it's about having an environment in which you feel safe emotionally...It's about continuously learning to...

4 Mar 23

garden of happiness

titin kartina @Jinbuyeon22 (65) • Indonesia 6 Jan 23

Gardening makes me happy. the garden that I planted, grew big and healthy. the garden that I grow is vegetables. thanks to gardening every day you can cook fresh vegetables # picture is mine

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Lotus That's great that you grow your own food ...

7 Jan 23