harwoodkp

@harwoodkp (285)

United States • Age 56

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Being Judged

linds22 @linds22 (34) • United States 18 May 07

I am a 22 year old mother of two small children. I am a housewife, and stay at home mom. My family is my life. I spank my two year old when neccesary and I seem to get quite a bit of negative response to this. "Why not try to put...

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harwoodkp You sound like you have a very good head on your shoulder. With the wise direction you are taking your children, they should end up growing to be very good children and adults. I do the same with my son. He has even got out of a spanking when I was too...

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Am I sick? Need your help.

mtoxales @mtoxales (374) • Canada 12 May 07

I have no control over my 5 year old son. He does not listen to me and does the complete opposite of what I ask of him. Sometimes when he wants to follow me, he just says okay but he shouts and adds silly mom or silly girl and it...

frustration

handling kids

losing patience

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harwoodkp Our son was heading right down that road. He is our only son and unfortuenetly we spoiled him. You are not a bad mom, but one that needs help to bring the child under control. I can not tell you how to do it, but you do need to be solid in your decisions. A no...

13 May 07

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How Important is Religion To You?

wachit14 @wachit14 (3595) • United States 12 May 07

This isn't about which religion is more important, but how important is it to you? Do you worship regularly and follow your religion's belief always or do you sometimes disagree with some of that belief system? Does being a...

religion spirituality family beliefs worship peopl

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harwoodkp I feel it is very important. It has given my a direction and purpose in life. This time we have here is so short and what we seem to do while we are alive , seems pointless. for instance, how many stories of people do you remember that came before you. There...

13 May 07

Do you take the money/coins found lying on the road?

mdchennai @mdchennai (2129) • India 11 May 07

Well guys, this is the usual thing that we find in our day to day life. As we are walking on the street/road, we find some coins lying on the road. When i used to be a kid, i used to keep looking at the street while walking just...

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harwoodkp Actually, yes I do keep the money. You would be suprised on how fast the money adds up. I am no one bit ashamed about it.

12 May 07

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Do you take off your shoes before entering a house?

Augustta @Augustta (1850) • Poland 9 May 07

Yes, we do that. To us, the house should be a clean and comfortable place. Wearing your shoes in the house just spreads the dirt all over the place. If we really need to wear something due to the cold weather, we will normally...

do you take off your shoes before entering a house

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harwoodkp Other than respect, it feels real good on the feet.

10 May 07

Surfjunky is a SCAM!!!!

ricknkae @ricknkae (1721) • United States 9 May 07

I got scammed .... Eventhough it is free to sign up I have lost my time Surfjunky is an auto surf program which claims they will pay you $0.45 per hour (yeah I know I should have seen it coming) The payout is fixed at $25, but...

scam

scammed

surfjunky

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harwoodkp I am glad you posted that site. I would not of wasted my time also with them if more people had gave the negative posting about surfjunky. Hopefully someday they will be forced of the internet.

9 May 07

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car seat laws

ravinskye @ravinskye (8237) • United States 4 May 07

have you ever called the police on someone breaking the car seat laws for kids? I passed a vehicle today that had a small child around 2 years old in their car seat in the front seat of their vehicle! Would you call the police?...

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harwoodkp Even if it was the best friend in the world. I would still have to turn them in. too many children have been killed this way, and that is why seat belt laws for children are so strong. Yes I would call the police!

5 May 07

Is Bottled Water Better Than Tap Water?

ester_tamisin @ester_tamisin (522) • Philippines 3 May 07

One of the price we pay for development is pollution. Nothing seem to be clean anymore including our water. Bottled water industries have thrive on the fear that even the municipal water may be contaminated. They have made...

bottled water

water

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harwoodkp that all depends where the water came from. Some companies use tap water to fill their water bottles. The one reason bottle water is usally safer is the size of water systems in a city. Being so large sometimes allows contaminates to get into the water and...

3 May 07

what to give 6 year old for snack 5 days per week when bread is not an option?

aluken @aluken (50) • Canada 30 Apr 07

I am the mother of three and have a 6 year old who is now staying at school during the lunch break. Finding healthy lunches for her is a great challenge for me and my husband. The challenge increases because we have to do this 5...

childrenmeals

healthylunchsnacks

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harwoodkp I would suggest getting a food dehydrator. You can make a lot of stuff from fruit. These are extremely healthy and most kids like them. You can make fruit leather to chips. You can even make vegatable chips.

30 Apr 07

Would u date outside your race?

kynni204 @kynni204 (2031) • United States 27 Apr 07

Is this prohibited in your culture. Would you be sentenced to death. Have you ever been attracted to someone outside your race. What would your parents say? Would your family disown you, never speak to you again? Would you respect...

dating other nationality

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harwoodkp even when i was single, it would not of mattered. But for me it is not as much of a problem. i am of mixed races. I was open to the one that I would grow old with and have a family. I am pretty sure most of my family would not of cared and accepted who ever I...

28 Apr 07

no matter how I try to be nice here on mylot

Hazel Funcion @Zelmarq (12585) • Cebu City, Philippines 26 Apr 07

people still rate me negatively. I have been trying my very best to be as polite and as friendly as I could be but my best was not good enough. I got a negative rating again , now Im down to 9. Well, who ever you are, I know...

dropped

mylot rating

negative

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harwoodkp I would not worry about that. Some people never seem to forgive. Just do your best and Move forward.

26 Apr 07

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Infertility Hurts

roseyrose @roseyrose (9) • United States 25 Apr 07

Hi, I am suffering with infertility. ppl who got married after us are either pregnant or have a child. When someone call us for baby shower or tell me that they are preg I feel so depressed and sad that I am not able to create a...

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harwoodkp I know exactly how you feel. The only difference is my wife had 12 miscarriages in 3 years. We saw babies from a lot of couples. It was finally after 3 years before my wife finally had our son. I dont know what answers you are going to recieve. But here are...

26 Apr 07

Changing the Pillow cover and bed linen

navtech @navtech (1773) • India 22 Apr 07

Of course, I agree Pillow and bed covers should be changed but not in every alternate 3 days. My wife always changes them every alternate 3 days. I feel she is just wasting soap, electricity, water and extra 2 hours labour, every...

bed linen

changing pillow bed covers

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harwoodkp I unerstand that problem with mites being in the bed, but I like you dont think it needs to be every 3 days. Here is some advice. This makes your wife happy. A happy wife means you will be happy. A unhappy wife means that you will be unhappy. Let me ask you...

22 Apr 07

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Why shouldnt others step up and take partial blame?

Ravenladyj @Ravenladyj (22902) • United States 21 Apr 07

There is a great thread goin on here about whether or not the bullies are partially to blame for what Cho Seung-Hui did at V-Tech......Some ppl think he is SOLELY to blame, others (including myself), think that there are others to...

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harwoodkp I understand what you are saying about bullies and abuse. I was one of those quite kids that was picked on at school. I could of used that as an excuse and tried to hurt a lot of others, or even took my own life. I realized on early that even though we are a...

22 Apr 07

Kids and Relatives

Calais @Calais (10893) • Australia 20 Apr 07

I was at a social gathering a couple of weeks ago and noticed this lady, she was actually getting on my nerves. To cut it short, she was demanding to her kids to call (i presume their uncle) the guy uncle John. They would call him...

aunty

family

uncle

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harwoodkp Most kids will do that if they start it right away. If they dont see relatives a lot then they dont feel as comfortable. If she wants them to call him uncle john, then she needs to take them to see uncle john alot. and not just at family gatherings.

21 Apr 07

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How do you choose?

Trace86 @Trace86 (5030) • United States 20 Apr 07

I need to choose a new doctor, I haven't had one in about 4 years. What are the most important things/qualities should I look for in my new doctor?

choosing

doctor

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harwoodkp The number one thing that you should look at is, Does the doctor take time to listen to you. The next thing is, does he tell you what is happening, even if you dont want to hear it. The last thing is he or she should not be offended if you get a second...

20 Apr 07

Best first finger foods?

4cuteboys @4cuteboys (4099) • United States 20 Apr 07

My infant and I went to a nutritionist the other day. She said since he's 6 months, he should now be starting solids at least 2 times a day and finger foods. She kinda made me feel bad for not having done the finger foods yet, so...

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harwoodkp I would suggest cherrios. It is a small simple food with a lot of differenet vitamsins. M son realy enjoyed this food in he first year.

20 Apr 07

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