nita04

@nita04 (268)

Philippines • Age 66

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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I just want to be quiet and warm

Aiana Martins de Almeida Dutra @Aiana18 (698) • Belo Horizonte, Brazil 24 Jun 22

Good evening everyone. It's almost 6:34 pm here. It seems like it's later because it's already quite dark. It's cold and I don't feel like going out today. My husband still hasn't come home from work and I hope he doesn't insist...

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nita04 There are times that we feel that way. Just find a comfortable nook and do something which you like most until you doze off.

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Do you soak your feet in warm water?

Simone @Janet357 (75646) 1 Feb 19

Well I am doing this right now because my feet are so cold and a bit itchy because they had been wet for hours. Soaking them in warm water with salt gives comfort to me. It removes the itchiness and i feel great. Do you also do...

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nita04 Yes, especially now that the weather is cold.

1 Feb 19

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Is Your Marriage In Accordance With God's Design?

Morning Girl @salonga (27775) • Philippines 25 Jan 16

God’s perfect design for marital relationship is for the husband to love his wife while the wife is to submit to her husband. I believe a wife in her normal mind will find no problem submitting to her husband who loves her so...

husband and wife

marital relationship

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nita04 That is supposed to be a perfect marital relationship. But most of the time husbands took this for granted and thinks that their wives are their properties and they can do anything even to the point of humiliating them. Women can be submissive only if they...

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Do you prefer to be single or married?

extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 19 Mar 13

which one do you prefer? to be single and have life of your choice? or to share your life with your partner? if you prefer to be married then what is your success and experience of married life?

married

single

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nita04 I prefer married life because I don't want to be alone in my later years. Though married is not all bed of roses but still you are assured of someone growing old together. You have someone to share with your success.

20 Mar 13

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Not enough money to pay

AkamaruKei @AkamaruKei (5219) • Malaysia 19 Mar 13

Yesterday i want to buy new cellphone. My friend promote some phone to me. He buy that cellphone early than me. He say that phone is cheap and tell me the price. So i just take enough money and then when the seller count all the...

life

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nita04 Akamarukei, you don't have to be embarrassed because it was not intentionally done. Anyway you were able to pay that phone, that means you really have the money but you were just misinformed about the price.

20 Mar 13

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I have made some changes in my life...

bjc66bjc @bjc66bjc (6730) • United States 7 Mar 13

I know for a fact that I am overweight...The first thimg that I changed was to stop taking the meds the doctors gave me for my back,Lycria..I found out its a steriod and I just don't want it..besides I don't eat a lot but I was...

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nita04 bjc66bjc,nice to hear that and I am praying for your success. As for me I have been in a yoyo situation. But still I won't give up. Good luck!

11 Mar 13

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would you like to tell your family problems or personal problems to others?

jobfindonline @jobfindonline (1744) 9 Mar 13

my answer is NO, I don't want. Family problems or anything too personal problems must not be shared to others. What's the purpose of telling it? Could other people help us? Even if they have a sincere will to help but in the end...

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nita04 jobfindonlIine, that was also my stand before. There are some who knew what we've been through with my family and I am always requested to share my life, but I always say "My life is not for public consumption". But lately, I realize that by sharing, it could...

10 Mar 13

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Finding bestfriend

shela21 @shela21 (68) • Philippines 27 Feb 13

I have lots of friends but until now i still dont know who is my bestfriends.most of the time i am thinking how can i find a bestfriend. I know there is no category.I heard that bestfriend is our worst enemies i dont think if that...

bestfriend

category

true

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nita04 shela21, you can find your bestfriend in the lowest moment of your life.

28 Feb 13

Have you realized that you need to put yourself first?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 25 Feb 13

Have you ever reached a point in your life where you realized that you need to start putting yourself, and your children first? Whether you were just dating someone or if you were married? I have for the longest time hoped that my...

first

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nita04 Dominique25, I understand what you are feeling because I am in the same situation as you are but before you make some drastic decision, please think twice, seek an advice, try to talk to him and most of all pray.

26 Feb 13

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My situation makes me lost...

Sarahliuliwen @Sarahliuliwen (300) • China 19 Feb 13

Well when I think of my situations now, it's like I'm stuck between the past and future. I cannot get back to the past, nor can I see a clear picture of the future. As a student that is to graduate in a few months, I'm facing...

lost

situation

stuck

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nita04 Sarahliuliwen, being confused is normal especially if you have aimed to achieve something good for your future. Just take it one day at a time then try to savor your daily achievements, for all you know you are already up there, receiving the laurels of your...

19 Feb 13

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What will be their reaction after shouting this out..... :)

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 4 Feb 13

A pleasant day Fellow Mylotters, I do always gives my full understanding to all of my friends. Whether they are online nor offline, my acceptance for them is incomprehensible. But, there is just a thought came across my...

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nita04 We have always to bear in mind that friendship has no barrier. If in case you will divulge your secret to a person, that is where you can figure out whether he or she is your true friend by the way they accept you. If in case they accept you as you are then...

5 Feb 13

How Bad Is It?

STOUTjodee @STOUTjodee (3573) • United States 3 Oct 12

I've been seeing lately a lot of discussions are depressing. It's almost like Facebook, people air their problems and people have lost hope. I wonder really how bad their lives are? Do they have a roof over their head, do they...

hard times

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nita04 It takes guts to share ones life, be it good or bad, sharing one's depressing moment is a positive approach of trying to reach out, holding on and hoping that everything will turn out fine. Advises from people from all walks of life whether your acquaintance...

4 Oct 12

Can you Keep working If your boss not watching you??

Tushavi @Tushavi (2077) • Karachi, Pakistan 2 Sep 12

hi to all well, I don't Know about the other countries, But in our country peoples want to earn easy Money & Free Money, Means If you hired someone & you stop watching he/she is also stop working, But asks you for salary, So...

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nita04 Tushavi, Yes, because I am the kind of person who is more productive when nobody is watching. If you work because your boss or anybody is watching you, the output is not good because you are just pretending that you are working and that is cheating. Have a...

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What kind of music you love to hear?

uolyram @uolyram (266) • Philippines 22 Aug 12

I am a music lover and i love to hear country songs. Now a days music are sometimes not quite good to listen. The wordings are almost repeating until it ends up. Some music are very irritating to the ears. I prefer the love songs...

country song

irritating

love song

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nita04 I am not really choosy when it comes to music because when I work I don't usually listen to music, I don't want distraction, it is after my chores that I turn on to music.

22 Aug 12

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help me, i am thinking of quitting my job

katrinapaz @katrinapaz (2436) • Philippines 20 Aug 12

hi there friends! i was on vacation from work for about 2 weeks and when it was time to go back to work i found myself to weak to do it. i had fun with my vacation by just being in the house, mylotting a lot, sleeping on time and...

thinking of quitting job

tired of working

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nita04 Yes, everybody I think feels the same when they go on vacation. That is a normal feeling. What with those freedom of doing things your way, but you have to consider that if your married or whatever status you are in, we need to work to support our needs and...

20 Aug 12

Magic of Mylot

csabaholcz @csabaholcz (843) • Hungary 9 Aug 12

Interesting. In real life or even on most social sites people doesn't like strangers. What gives Mylot this special essence? The rules? Or people are simply a bit more polite here? I always get so friendly replies from people I...

friends

mylot

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nita04 csabaholcz, remember the saying "What you reap is what you sow". I have observed that most people who joined social sites are trying to be friendly and considerate. Like myself, I always put it in my head that I am interacting with people of different...

10 Aug 12

Have you had to decide whether to separate from your partner?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 6 Aug 12

Have you had to decide whether to separate from your partner/spouse for a time or to end the relationship. Right now so much is going on. My husband is trying to buy a business and move to a new area. So I've got to decide whether...

separate

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nita04 Dominique, if it only concerns you and your husband I would advise you to go because might be you could find a job there to support yourself and still your marriage intact, since you said that he is not giving you money, but with your child, I think you could...

7 Aug 12

I paint my house by my self

Zhizho @Zhizho (1350) • Indonesia 1 Aug 12

Hi. I want changing the atmosphere of my house. So I replace the property and paint my house. For a few day, difficult to get some person who can help painting my house. So I do it own. Fortunately, when I was girl, I love to help...

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nita04 Hi! Zhizho, that's good of you. You are hitting a lot of birds in one stone. First, you can save, because you won't be paying anymore the painter, Second, you can express fully what you like in your house. Third, you can share to the world that we can be in a...

2 Aug 12

Is it possible to live with no debt?

squallming @squallming (1775) • Malaysia 1 Aug 12

The cost of living today is so high. There are also many financial institutions which provide credit cards and other credit services. Many have been living with debt and they work everyday just to pay it. Some even committed...

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nita04 Squallming, it is possible to live a life without debt, especially if you are single. You just stay in your budget and learn to say no to unnecessary things. Never buy on impulse. Differentiate between need and want. "Be contented with what you have," as the...

1 Aug 12

Wearing Deoterant on a Daily Basis

Jshean20 @Jshean20 (14348) • Canada 29 Jul 12

I know that different countries and cultures can have a different way of going about things in their daily routines, including hygene habits. So I ask you is it common for you and the people around you to wear deoterant under your...

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nita04 You maybe surprised but in our family we never use deodorant, taking a bath twice a day is enough to stay fresh, but when my daughter got married, her husband was so surprised because he never saw any deodorant and he uses one. That was when deodorant started...

30 Jul 12

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