rizzaspeaks

@rizzaspeaks (391)

Philippines • Age 38

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What is Wrong with me?

echoforever @echoforever (5180) • United States 20 Feb 13

I don't actually know if there is anything wrong with me. I'm sure some things are. I just can't think of a better title. This summer My mom was diagnosed with a new kind of cancer and was told she may not live. Its been a...

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rizzaspeaks Guess I understand what you feel. My mom is bed-ridden for years now. I always pray for her to be well and live a normal life again, but it's not yet happening. I almost lose my faith but then I realize, it's a test our our faith. We are tested through the...

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Why is He Doing That??????

kprofgames @kprofgames (3091) • United States 20 Feb 13

Back in 2010 saw a person briefly and I mean briefly (was only a few months). I knew wasn't going to work out and to be honest I knew why all his past relationships didn't. In simplest terms...he's an idiot. In the last few...

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rizzaspeaks I guess it's a bait. Once you accept the package, he will have a reason to see you again. Don't you think he's some kind of a psycho or what? Just be careful, this kind of move in not worth your trust.

20 Feb 13

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i just don't think I can learn to play guitar

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 20 Feb 13

It's just too hard for me or just too time too consuming i guess that's why when i attempted to play a guitar that I gave up easily. Maybe i just lack the interest so that's why i was easily discourage. I guess all who tried...

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rizzaspeaks I agree with you that lack of interest will only bring discouragement. And adding to that, is lack of time and dedication. My interest started when I was 13, I wanted to know playing guitar just like my other classmates who had their own bands. So I learned...

20 Feb 13

What do you do when you are depressed?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 6 Feb 13

More and more people are suffering from depression and others have bouts of depression every now and then. What do you do when you are depressed? I'm starting to feel really down about all that is happening in my life. I can't...

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rizzaspeaks Guess I have been there before, it's the time when every thing never makes sense and I have no one to turn to. So, I got into a blogsite and start writing. It feels great when you write something and you can feel other people's concern on you. I had friends...

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Do you believe there is luck and bad luck?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 6 Feb 13

So, do you believe that sometimes there are people born with bad luck or are with good fortune? In chinese fengshui, your date of birth, and time signifies what fortune / kind of life awaits you. Don't you notice that sometimes...

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rizzaspeaks Well, maybe yes. There are things that are not meant for you no matter how hard you wanted them. I believe in good and bad karma as well. Yet I also believe that no matter how our stars describe who we are, we have our own choices to fulfill in life. Being...

6 Feb 13

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Can you accept to live with your husband's parents?

Jessie086 @Jessie086 (36) 17 Jan 13

I'm Chinese. I live with my husband's mother. They are many problems since my son came, she just want to control all the things even my son's education. I can't bear it. Do American live with parents?

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rizzaspeaks Guess that's the bad thing of living your in-laws' house. It happens to all, regardless of your nationality I think. I believe that marriage means new life, new family. So now that you're still living under the same roof with your in-laws, you will somehow...

19 Jan 13

So much for #Amalayer: Someone even created a song but yeah! talented.

Metatronik @Metatronik (6199) • Pasay, Philippines 19 Nov 12

While I was searching for something I have seen the site wherein a guy had created a song #Amalayer then he even made the conversation as the lyrics to the song....

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rizzaspeaks Some say it's a bad example and a bad move, but in my opinion it's creative. Mikey Bustos is an artist btw, and he has a good voice actually if you have heard him sing some classic songs in PP. They say his video is not even a thing to be proud of and you...

19 Jan 13

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Children...how were you made?

Mavic123456 @Mavic123456 (21893) • Thailand 18 Jan 13

When I was a little girl (as if I have grown tall… ) whenever I was asked what would you like to become when you grow up… I will always and very proud. “I want to be a house maid overseas”. Then people would laughed so...

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rizzaspeaks There was a time when I was a kid and my scold me, I was too proud to say "i will leave this house"..then they will all laugh and would even say "come, i'll help you pack". I used to watch movies with actors leaving and they will be begged not to leave, so...

19 Jan 13

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Stress and Anxiety

Emre1206 @Emre1206 (41) • Turkey 4 Jan 13

Everyone has a different technic to cope with stress and anxiety.I usually listen to some relaxing music such as classical of blues. What do you do when you get stressed?

anxiety

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rizzaspeaks It depends on where I am when I experience it. If I'm in the office, I just squeeze my stress ball and a 'lil surf on the internet to forget my work stress. If i'm at home, I sleep or eat or watch movies or play pc games. If I'm in public, i would hag out...

19 Jan 13

I just can’t understand a friend…..

namiya @namiya (1718) • Philippines 18 Jan 13

Every time we meet she doesn't run out of topic about her husband’s womanizing. Much as I want to empathize with her but honestly I could not but strive not to show it for I too get stressed out hearing similar stories though...

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understand

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rizzaspeaks If she's asking your opinion, tell her first that you can only base your opinion on her story and not on their story and that she should not blame you if you give an advice. It is her choice to follow it or not. If she really wants an advice, tell her "if...

19 Jan 13

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We've Been Disowned!!

celticeagle @celticeagle (168126) • Boise, Idaho 16 Jan 13

Lastnight my granddaughter happened to call and I answered. She wanted to be sure that the door would be unlocked so that she and her boyfriend could come in and 'warm up'. BS they were going to spend the night. They come over and...

enabling

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rizzaspeaks I can see an ungrateful child in your story. Some kind of a prodigal child perhaps. However, I don't want to judge all of her 'coz there might be reasons why she ended up like that. I mean, generally, a person's character is not built by him/her alone. It...

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Age differences in relationships

spicymary @spicymary (558) • Romania 2 Dec 12

Do you consider that relationships with big age difference between the partners have smaller chances to work out? Do you find that romantic or sick? What is the limit you would never cross? And why? Do you think that if the...

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rizzaspeaks Well, I believe in the saying "age doesn't matter" in love. I've known people who live happily despite age difference. I guess it still depends on the personality of each partner. As long as each is willing to accept his/her partner's flaws, there is no reason...

3 Dec 12

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Blind to have a date?

Shavkat @Shavkat (140102) • Philippines 3 Dec 12

For some people, they used to have blind dates. What makes them do this? Is it that the clock is ticking for not into a relationship? Personally, I never tried one but I am not closing my door. How about you guys? Is it worth to...

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rizzaspeaks Personally, no. I don't prefer blind dates. But I don't see anything wrong with it. Guess this is just one of the ways people will go for in choosing the person to love. There are many ways of finding love, it depends on what you choose.

3 Dec 12

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Helping hand

roshigo58 @roshigo58 (4859) • Pune, India 3 Dec 12

I was traveling by a bus. At one stop my co passenger was to get down. He was getting delayed because of collecting his baggage which was a much. So the other passengers in the bus got annoyed and started talking to him to be...

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rizzaspeaks Some people are just inconsiderate. They are good in complaining and never put themselves in other people's shoes. Soon when they'll be needing the same help and consideration, they won't get one.

3 Dec 12

do you ever worry about saying the wrong things?

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9546) • Philippines 27 Nov 12

I worry about this a lot because I have the tendency to say too much and sometimes I bungle something which is supposed to be a promising deal. When I am in a situation that calls for me to say the right things, I usually lose my...

speaking

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rizzaspeaks Guess it happens with everyone regardless of field. Especially when there are butterflies in your stomach and you can't say the right words you wanted to say. Try to be more relax and confident before uttering a word and you'll be fine.

27 Nov 12

It Is So Hard...

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85288) • Valdosta, Georgia 23 Nov 12

I have been close to my grandma my entire life. She is very special to me... But lately, she has been especially mean to everyone around her. I have heard that when someone is getting close to the time of passing they get VERY...

grandma

passing away

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rizzaspeaks Just be more patient to her. It's pretty normal to grannies to act that way such that they badly need our understanding. Everyone of us will eventually get old, so maybe when our time will come, we must be even more crankier, hehe. Still, make her feel...

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vanity ?

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90721) • Philippines 24 Nov 12

I am fond of making myself look good. I put on some creams to keep wrinkles at bay and keep my skin smooth despite me being already in my middle age. I always see to it that I always dress impeccably when I go to the office. I...

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rizzaspeaks It's just proper to pamper one's self and be happy. It's one way of keeping the youthfulness outside and inside. The more you give value to beauty, the more the life would reveal it's beauty to you:)

24 Nov 12

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you don’t have to tell the boss if you can do something about it

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90721) • Philippines 24 Nov 12

As I have mentioned in one of my topics, one of the branches that my husband manages which was at our company’s mall, encountered a leak from the ceiling. It was repaired and was done. However, the next day, my...

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rizzaspeaks I don't see anything wrong with your response to his staff. They should have the initiative to report such matter to the person/department-in charge.

24 Nov 12

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Mylot, the boring killer

Devilova @Devilova (5392) • Indonesia 23 Nov 12

This year, Mylot have been the places for me to kill the boring that I have feel. Specially at the work place. For the record, my work only need about 2-3 hours from 8 hours that I have to spend in the factory. So you could...

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rizzaspeaks As much as I want to spend longer hours here in mylot, I just can't, considering the tight deadline reports. haist. Anyways, I can say the best benefit of mylotting for me is learning many things through discussions. That's the best part of being here. Even I...

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