visaseetharaman

@visaseetharaman (232)

Age 70

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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if you could do a job that you really want, what would it be?

nikramos @nikramos (698) • Philippines 20 Sep 10

presently i'm an accountant and working with numbers can get really tiring besides the fact that it can get really boring. if i have the chance to do another job, i want to be a broadcast journalist, like tv personalities who do...

jobs we want to do

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visaseetharaman I would love being a popular and famous singer.The songs sung by the reputed and well known singers always live even after their demise .Songs have the effect of soothing us when we are depressed and bring us real happiness.The melodies make us forget our...

23 Sep 10

How is your relationship with your parents?

Absinto @Absinto (2385) • Portugal 30 Aug 10

Everybody have diferent relationships with their parents. Some dont talk, other talk alot, there can be trust or not. How is/was your relationship with them? Did you trust them alot and talk to them about your life? Or did you...

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visaseetharaman I am 55 years and my dad lived till 94 and my mom who is 83 is alive .I was always pampered and petted even after I had my children who are now married .They used to dote on my children help me and my husband financially .They were amoral support to me in a...

9 Sep 10

Money is important than health?

Betty Deng @bettydeng5 (1822) • China 6 Sep 10

I can't understand why people care money more than health. I saw people who didn't care their health, even they were ill then didn't see doctor, saved money was their principle. They will be very regret when they lay down,...

health

life

money

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visaseetharaman Health is the most important while money comes only after health.whether young or old only if you are hale and hearty can you enjoy life .Always we should give priority only to health.It is true that you need money to buy the necessities of life but if you are...

8 Sep 10

Are you the kind of cook ...

marguicha @marguicha (223297) • Chile 6 Sep 10

...that leaves the kitchen in perfect order after cooking? Or do you take a break after cooking, do something else, and go cleanup after a while? I confess that much as I love to cook, I loathe to clean up the mess I leave. I...

cleaning up

cooking

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visaseetharaman I also hate to clear the mess after cooking.I always want the kitchen to be entirely clean .I will be restless till it is tidy .I have a servant maid to clear up .She comes a bit late .So I wait for her a little tensed up doubting whether she would come or not...

8 Sep 10

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busy people are happier??

Kumar1232009 @Kumar1232009 (1215) • Spain 14 Aug 10

one thing i have found out through experience is that, keeping busy and taking action help me to feel more positive and so my title is so true!! the problem of having little thing based from me is that, my mind...

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visaseetharaman It is true that when you are occupied with some thing or the other the mind does not wander to unwanted thoughts.You become involved in your work and you have no chance to think negatively or dread about the future.If you are free you start worrying before the...

3 Sep 10

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how is your relationship with your mother?

GemmaR @GemmaR (8517) 26 Aug 10

I have always had a really good relationship with my mother, but I know of some of my friends who's relationships we're so good with theirs. My Mum and I always see each other and communicate via text message when we're not...

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visaseetharaman I am 56 years and my mother 84 years old.We have been until today very fond of each other.My mother has helped me in a terrible way both financially and mentally.Even now she is so wonderful to my children who are married .She is ever loving and...

27 Aug 10

Do you think the world is a cruel or a lovely place to live in ?

wildlittlefan @wildlittlefan (4680) • Hong Kong 16 Aug 10

I am not sure how do you feel living in this world?Sometimes,I think it is lovely place to live with but sometimes it is just a painful world to stay in.I think we can enjoy the nature of this world and it is just so beautiful.But...

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visaseetharaman Yes the world is a wonderful place when we are happy but when we face any kind of a difficulty the world becomes a cruel destination .It is true that we admire nature and everything else as long as we have no problem with our health .Once we fall sick or our...

24 Aug 10

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Conversation W/my Favorite Grandson

ANTIQUELADY @ANTIQUELADY (36440) • United States 17 Aug 10

My grandson GOD LOVE HIM absolutely tickles the fire out of me. As most of u know i'm very fond of him. He stayed w/me awhile sat. & the conversations we have are really something, lol. He found out last week he's going to be a...

ryan

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visaseetharaman I also have a two year old grandson and my husband and myself just dote on him.Everything he does draws our admiration.Recently we celebrated his b'day in a grand manner.The card was from us that is grand parents .My daughter compered the day .She elaborated...

24 Aug 10

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How do you make your own luck?

bounce58 @bounce58 (17387) • Canada 13 Aug 10

I just met a person who said that he didn't believe in bad luck or good luck. He said that he makes his own luck. Personally I thought he was just all talk. I tried to ask him if he makes his own luck, how does he make it? He...

luck

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visaseetharaman I profoundly believe that Lady Luck plays an important part in everyone's life .I speak from the experience of my life .Although we that is my husband and myself worked after great disasters in life we have not succeeded .We have been having great mishaps...

14 Aug 10

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‘Enjoying life’-- What is 'your' definition of this word?

kalav56 @kalav56 (11464) • India 10 Aug 10

I have heard these words being used by many friends and this set me thinking. Some people feel they ‘enjoy life’ if they go out to expensive restaurants , indulge in their favorite items and pass their time. Some people feel...

enjoy

hang out with friends

hobby

movies

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visaseetharaman Enjoying life varies with different age and mentalities as well. The various ways of finding enjoyment as mentioned by you is absolutely true .A child's enjoyment is colourful things and noisy things but a young student's enjoyment is different -maybe going...

10 Aug 10

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Do you enjoy "alone" time?

lacieice @lacieice (2060) • United States 4 Aug 10

I've just spent the last five hours alone. I loved it. Quiet. Peaceful. Calming. Hubby is retired, so he is always around the house. Today, he is helping our daughter with an errand, and I am loving it. I get very little alone...

alone time

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visaseetharaman I do like to be alone sometimes but not always.I try to occupy myself in reading watching television or praying .My children are all settled.Earler I loved this loneliness.But now I am sometimes feeling the loneliness.I dont know what to do .May be now and...

5 Aug 10

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cooking - a passion or a burden

nayaz1625 @nayaz1625 (131) • Mauritius 3 Aug 10

hi mylotters. cooking is an essential activity in almost all households. However, there are many reasons why people cook. many people cook because they have to take lunch or dinner. others have to cook because that is their...

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visaseetharaman Cooking is sometimes really interesting but sometimes it is boring .When you people around who relish the food you cook then maybe we get boosted up and we really feel cooking .Sometimes we are at a fix not knowing what to cook.Wed feel that someone should...

4 Aug 10

Are you proud of the organization you work for?

kalav56 @kalav56 (11464) • India 20 Jul 10

If you are working in a company or a factory or anywhere else , can you tell me whether you are proud of the company? We would be proud of our school of our family, of our parents, of our children etc and the signs are visible....

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visaseetharaman I cannot think of anyone being proud of the company or factory for which he is working in this era of money chasing .Any company which offers abetter salary the wokers would just jump to it without any second thought .He can never be grateful however much the...

20 Jul 10

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If life has rewind and forward button, would you use it?

ivygrey @ivygrey (550) • Philippines 7 Jul 10

I have seen the movie "click" again... my daughter wanted to see it for the nth time.and so If ever there is such thing like the universal remote control. Would you like to rewind and be in your past again, maybe correct your...

erase and rewind

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visaseetharaman Surely I would go for the rewind button.I always regret the umpteen mistakes I have committed.This way I can rectify the course of my life and thus attain satisfaction.Certainly we can correct the mistakes because we have the knowledge of the wrongs.

8 Jul 10

Hard work - success

Jotomy @Jotomy (6322) • India 4 Jul 10

Most of people say a man's success depends 80% on hard work, 10% on God's grace and 10% on luck. But i say people succeeds only when they hard work is blended with profound faith in god.... and luck has no meaning...... Share with...

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visaseetharaman From my life I would say that luck is needed to ahieve success.Hard work is required but along with faith and confidence in Almighty lady Luck should accompany .Otherwise we will not reach the aimed goal.My husband is a hard worker and prays to God but he...

6 Jul 10

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Do You Wake-Up Early During Weekeds?

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 2 Jul 10

Good day. A lot of people I know sleep a lot duing weekends. Wherein they will not bother to wake-up early just like they are doing during weekdays. Even, not to wake-up until they are tired of lying on to their...

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visaseetharaman I am aperson who wakes up early all the seven days of the week .I have developed this habit from childhood .I may force myself to lie down awake but not capable of sleeping after six in the morning.

4 Jul 10

How do you define Happiness??

fheroan @fheroan (615) • Philippines 2 Jul 10

Hello there mylotters... For you, what is happiness? In the dictionary, Happiness imply an active or passive state of pleasure or pleasurable satisfaction. For me, I can't really describe what is Happiness. Sometimes I'm...

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visaseetharaman Happiness is the state of mind when you are satisfied with your work ,family or your surroundings.I feel happy even with small things like the flowers blooming in the gardenor any other natural element around.Ofcourse when our kids achieve we feel ourselves at...

4 Jul 10

Are you a discussion starter or a responder?

qianyun6 @qianyun6 (2067) • China 2 Jul 10

Have been in myLot for a month, I noticed that there are two kinds of person here. Some of myLotters have discussions nearly as many as, even more than responses, while some have thousands of responses with few discussions....

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visaseetharaman I am a responder.I have never started a discussion .I enjoy responding to discussions May be one finse day I will start a discussion.

4 Jul 10

Mind wandering--“Do you resort to this ?”

kalav56 @kalav56 (11464) • India 1 Jul 10

“An idle mind is the devil’s workshop’ is an age old proverb. Today I read an interesting article that extolled the virtues of mind-wandering and said that bursts of creativity and lateral thinking can be had from people who do...

creativity

lateral thinking

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visaseetharaman I also have the habit of imagining myself in many situations and in a variety of roles.My mind also resorts to wool gathering quite often .When I read the advantage of this habit I was really thrilled.But I keep planning the future too much ahead .I will in...

3 Jul 10

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Mind wandering--“Do you resort to this ?”

kalav56 @kalav56 (11464) • India 1 Jul 10

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visaseetharaman My mind is all the time wool gathering too.But I thought it is because I plan things too much ahead .I imagine myself in so many wonderful situations and I worry of many things regarding my family's future.My friend 's husband who is a psychiatrist just...

2 Jul 10

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