xandavon

@xandavon (102)

Philippines • Age 40

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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There is difference between love and marriage

Professor2010 @Professor2010 (20162) • India 2 Sep 10

Friends just now I received this in a mail forwarded to me, I really like this, hence sharing with you all. Love is holding hands in the street. Marriage is holding arguments in the street. Love is cuddling on a sofa. Marriage...

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xandavon Marriage is a state. Love is an emotion. In order for marriage to work, you need love. So both are different but works well together

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this is not the only country that had failed Hostage crisis

LaadieGerald @LaadieGerald (138) • Philippines 25 Aug 10

THere are other people out there saying that this is happening accross the world. so, i think it's not right for them to judge us so much about this incident. What i don't understand is that while we are mourning with the...

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xandavon But this is the only country whose president shows little sympathy to the victims, and who smiles during a press conference regarding the incident

25 Aug 10

Is this being childish?Or responsible? ( rant)

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 20 Aug 10

Is Not wanting kids being childish? Is knowing you don't want children and making sure you never have any being childish? I can see it as selfish but childish? No! It is better to make sure there is less unwanted children in this...

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xandavon It's not childish. It's how you feel. I think having a baby even if you didn't want one is childish.

21 Aug 10

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do you agree that filipinos love videoke singing??

genevy04 @genevy04 (793) • Philippines 12 Aug 10

One thing I notice about Filipinos is that they are really fond of singing, and I mean they DO LOve SINGING. Most of us really have our own little talent when it comes to music. That's why I guess many Filipinos win...

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xandavon yes we do. I won't say anyone can sing though. But we still love to sing regardless of our singing abilities.

13 Aug 10

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why did you create your mylot account?

Crazy_Poster @Crazy_Poster (751) • India 9 Aug 10

Obviously!people must have created their account in mylot for earning money. But As far as my opinion concerned it is different story! when I had created my my mylot account I didn't know that mylot is really paying for money, I...

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xandavon So I can see the dancing Spiderman

9 Aug 10

shocking!!!..........breaking news!!!

sconibear @sconibear (8016) • United States 9 Aug 10

It appears a couple of myLot celebrities have been swapping a little more than discussions around here. An anonymous source has released a photograph which shows Irishfrndly, Sconibear, and what appears to be their love...

irishfrndly

love child

sconibear

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xandavon ScandaLot!

9 Aug 10

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I need some advice.

deedee420 @deedee420 (15) • United States 8 Aug 10

Sometimes I have wierd dreams. Like if i wrote them down they would make one action packed/ crazy awesome book! But, when i wake up some of the details are gone. I dont want to just fill in space with meaningless details, i want...

dreams writing details

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xandavon Relaxation is very important for a writer. Don't write during stressed times. Try to relax first. Go out, eat something, walk along the street. That would be very helpful.

9 Aug 10

Keeping a Journal

dptstretch @dptstretch (120) • United States 8 Aug 10

I'm suprised that there are so few postings on journaling and perhaps I need to look around on the site a bit more to see if I've missed something. I would definately be interested in connecting with a few people here who keep a...

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xandavon I write about a few seconds only many times a day. That way the thoughts are not jumbled or forgotten.

9 Aug 10

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Do you believe that people with different intelligence can be close friends?

yiyun_h @yiyun_h (183) • United States 8 Aug 10

My first principle of friendship is honesty. However, at this age of life, I found many long term friendships split apart or face all kind of problems due to different IDEAS. I consider myself very open minded (of course I...

friend

friendship

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xandavon It depends on the person. Some people can't handle disagreement as easily as many. I don't think intelligence should be a factor in choosing your friends. Differing ideas is nobody's fault in the sense that it is not a fault at all. It is merely an example of...

9 Aug 10

Hearing my daughter cry on the other end of the phone

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 8 Aug 10

Earlier on today my daughter got a phone call while she was at work,it was her boyfriends mother,she told my daughter that my daughters son was at the hospital and that he was asking for her.With this she rang me in tears and told...

assulted

jaws wired

sobbing

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xandavon However upset she is, she must pull herself together. Normally patients draw strength from the people around. She must be strong for her boyfriend.

9 Aug 10

public schools vs home schoolings?

keshia2007r @keshia2007r (2880) • United States 8 Aug 10

ok, which would you prefer. For me, public schooling would be best in my opinion. There are pros and cons for both. As in home schooling its, a safe environment, better meals, more attention. I can not think of anything else, but...

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xandavon Home schooling is not so bad. They can still have friends outside, it's not limited to their home.

9 Aug 10

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You like music right? but do you like musical?

ivygrey @ivygrey (550) • Philippines 6 Aug 10

Although all of us love music and all, but I know that not everyone would love a musical. I love both. Especially now that musical has been on TV series like GLEE so cool. But my brother who is a total music lover/artist doesn't...

glee

musical

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xandavon I do a lot with music. I have loved music since I was a kid But I watched Evita with Madonna and it made me very sleepy.

7 Aug 10

Should you except the mental problems of someone elses kid?

bonnie @bunnybon7 (50973) • Holiday, Florida 5 Aug 10

I was going to put this in the other discussion but felt it would make it to long. yesterday i went for a very distressing appointment but it turned out well. I was jubillent till i got home. then i was a little upset. i noticed...

mental health

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xandavon I have a mental problem myself. I have OCD. So I probably would accept. Lock your closet. Do them yourself. It is hard to force someone with ADHD. And you normally can't teach those kids not to do something. I understand your wife's(?) situation but I have...

5 Aug 10

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Being a FIlipino: what makes it...........

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33121) • Philippines 4 Aug 10

the question really is, either what is the disadvantage / advantage or what makes it hard or easy to be a Filipino... I asked this question because i have already said my part about it. most of the time (sorry) i had to...

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xandavon I think the disadvantage of being a Filipino is that there are not so many high tech medical care here in the country. People sometimes go abroad to be tended to a hospital. What about those people who have little? Needless to say they are sometimes treated...

5 Aug 10

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder

Phaedra_Scythe @Phaedra_Scythe (3325) 4 Jul 08

There have been a lot of discussions about what OCD characteristics people suffer from, but I want to ask what you do about it? Also, what on earth causes an otherwise rational person to have no control over nonsensical...

obsessive compulsive disorder

ocd

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xandavon I would also like to add that if you decide to take meds, The earlier the better. OCD is one of those mental disorders that gets worse untreated. You would soon think of other things to put your attention on and then you would have a ton of things trashing...

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The President's first pay check salary.

totallyundecided @totallyundecided (3190) • Philippines 4 Aug 10

I was kind of surprised when I saw it aired last night on the news. 63k php. Then I thought of GMA and the previous presidents. I know they are getting a lot from corruption but I know PNoy is up to something. He's also...

philippines

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xandavon I think it's very brave to let the people know how much he's paid. I believe Filipino people have been awakened these past few years and that they are a lot more clever than before. PNOY would think twice before he does something like GMA. Because the...

5 Aug 10

I was taught if you love some one set him/her free if he/she comes back...

nina_khan @nina_khan (749) • Pakistan 4 Aug 10

Hello my dear Friends tell me is it true or not?? when i was a kid i was told that if you love someone. just set him/her free and if he/she really loves you she/he will come back to you. and if not he/she is was a cheat not...

lost

love

sacrifice

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xandavon Why would I set her free when I knew she would be happier with me? haha

5 Aug 10

Do you believe that the Best Things in Life are Free?

incus99 @incus99 (1083) • Philippines 4 Aug 10

When I was younger , I didn't believe in this cliche... but when I became a very busy businessman i realized that it's really true that the best things in life are really free...I realized that the love of family is a very...

best things

free

life

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xandavon Because the one you cherish the most is the ones you cannot buy. If you can buy a family, it wouldn't be as much of an importance anymore. Same with love, friendship. So naturally it becomes the things you value the most, because you know it's not as easy...

5 Aug 10