ButterflyBear

@ButterflyBear (39)

United States • Age 63

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Okay Confession Time: How Many Of You Are Guilty Of...?????

pyewacket @pyewacket (43903) • United States 1 Sep 09

......sneaking food in a movie theater? This discussion was inspired by another one when a mylotter was discussing a movie she recently saw. I have to admit I haven't been to see a movie in a movie theater in ages. Number one,...

food at movie theaters

movies

munchie crunchies

sneaking in food

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ButterflyBear Without any guilt, most definitely. It is not only expensive to get into the movies but, it is even more expensive to buy snacks there. Most times, it cost me more for snacks in a movie theater then it does to get in. We have snuck in lunch...Subway, Kentucky...

17 Sep 09

Another Legendary Performer Dies: Mary Travers Of Peter, Paul and Mary

pyewacket @pyewacket (43903) • United States 17 Sep 09

Oh no! I think too many people have died this year. Only days ago, many of our hearts were broken when we heard of the passing of Patrick Swayze, who fought a valiant fight against his pancreatic cancer, but lost. Now another...

another performer dies

mary travers

paul and mary

peter

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ButterflyBear I hadn't heard that yet. Thanks for sharing this information Pye. I remember them both. Such very, very sad news. We have lost a lot of very good people this year. May they all RIP.

17 Sep 09

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what kind of pet or pets do u have?

Liz @dasiejanie (590) • United States 17 Jun 09

would love to hear about the pets mylotters have, do they have speciel talents? Any one with unique pets please Tell us all about your babies their names and everything, funny stories would b great!

pets funny

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ButterflyBear I have quite a few pets. Teddy Bear, Tucker Bear and Koda Bear are Yorkies. They are mom, dad and son. Perry is a Papillon. Bodie is an Australian Cattle Dog (Blue Heeler). There is Swat, a Calico cat. Spirit and Blue Belly are Parakeets and then there is...

17 Jun 09

my son sprays insecticide on our puppy

chylle1006 @chylle1006 (8) • Philippines 16 Mar 09

i have a six year old son who is naughty at times.One day i discovered that he sprayed our household insecticide to our puppy.I just discovered this because i saw a vomitus in our floor then i asked him about it ,my son told me...

insecticide

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ButterflyBear First of all, why does a six year old even have access to insecticide? Just to give you a heads up on this one, that is considered child abuse in this day and age. Second of all, do you realize what kind of damage it could do to your six year old son should he...

17 Mar 09

Another sickly kitten :(

Shawna718 @Shawna718 (132) • United States 7 Jan 09

I took in another sickly kitten yesterday. People down the road from me let their female cat have litter after litter this past summer. Now the babies are starving and freezing. It breaks my heart. I don't know what I am going to...

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ButterflyBear You are a wonderful person to take in yet another cat that needs shelter. I wish there were more people like you rather then those who turn their heads not realizing what a kind heart can do for an animal all alone. Your neighbor really needs to do...

9 Jan 09

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Heads Up: Barbara Walters Special With Patrick Swayze

pyewacket @pyewacket (43903) • United States 7 Jan 09

I'm not much of a TV watcher at all, but Wednesday, February 7, on ABC at 10 p.m. there will be a Barbara Walters Special where she will interview Patrick Swayze. If you're a Patrick Swayze fan then you may have been aware...

actor with cancer

barbara walters special

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ButterflyBear I am sorry that I missed this interview. I knew nothing about it and heard nothing about it. Although not a big one, I am a fan of Patrick Swayze. I have liked so many of his movies but one of my all time favorites is The Outsiders which I think was one of his...

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does a spouse have a right to some privacy from the other spouse?

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85146) • Shingle Springs, California 17 Dec 08

I'm thinking counseling sessions here. You go to a counselor and talk for an hour, you know it's important to the SO to know what's going on with you so you give him the highlights, but he thinks he's entitled to know every little...

counseling

privacy

spouse

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ButterflyBear I don't think there is a right here as each feels differently about the situation therefore making it right in their eyes. I do however feel that if needed a person is entitled to whatever privacy they are needing at the time and I also believe that the other...

17 Dec 08

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Have you finished your Christmas shopping yet?

joerhonda @joerhonda (476) • United States 17 Dec 08

Well Christmas is almost upon us and I have yet to finish my Christmas shopping! I say every year I am going to get it done early! Maybe even pick things up throughout the year, but do I....nope! So here I am again, picking things...

christmas

shopping

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ButterflyBear I remember years ago when I actually said and did get all of my Christmas shopping done by October. Those years though are long gone. I cannot remember when the last time was that I did not have to run amuck at the last minute getting Christmas presents that I...

17 Dec 08

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can you talk anything and everything with your partner?

kenchiprincess @kenchiprincess (5296) • Philippines 5 Dec 08

me and boyfriend are like two people who looks crazy together. we tend to talk and talk about anything and everything around us. when we just got started more than a year ago we is really seriously and now he had opened up himself...

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ButterflyBear Although I would like to and that is the way it should be, sadly I cannot talk about everything and anything with my spouse because there are certain topics that he turns around into such ugly things which have absolutely no truth to them at all....

5 Dec 08

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My favourite dog breed.

roxy101 @roxy101 (72) • South Africa 29 Nov 08

I love dogs. But my most favourite breed is Bulldogs. I have 2. And they are addorable. What is your favourite dog breed?

dog lover

pet lovers

pet owner

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ButterflyBear Gosh, this is such a hard question for me to answer but only because I love all dogs. Really, I love all animals. They are all special to me and there is not one breed, pure or mixed, that I would choose over the other or that I think is better then the other....

4 Dec 08

Do You Forward Chain Mail?

Zezloler @Zezloler (497) • United Arab Emirates 4 Dec 08

I'm sure that most of us have received a bizarre chain letter at one point with threats of bad luck unless it's forwarded to at least ten or twenty people. =P My question is pretty straightforward: Do you forward these...

chain letters

chain mail

forwarding

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ButterflyBear I used to forward chain mail but only because I am superstitious but I know how irritating it can be because I have not only experienced that irritation but I have been told such by many people. I can now pretty much recognize these types of emails and delete...

4 Dec 08

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What goes on in our little pet's minds?

sanjanaraman @sanjanaraman (237) • United Arab Emirates 4 Dec 08

Sometimes, I feel very guilty when my dog starts barking. It feels like he is trying to tell me something, but I don't understand him. After sometime, he quietly gives up and sits down. Sometimes, though, I do understand what he...

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ButterflyBear Most definitely I believe I know what my pets are thinking about and I also know what they are trying to tell me when they bark, when they whine or when they just come up to me and look at me. My pets are like my children and I am so in tune with their not...

4 Dec 08

did you have a traditional marriage or did you just go to the court house?

chantalgiardina @chantalgiardina (2523) • United States 3 Dec 08

so amny people dont believe intraditional marriages now. i mena people would rather spend less money and just go to the court house. i would love to have a big fancy traditional wedding but in my case the only person that is...

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ButterflyBear I have been married twice. My first marriage, although it was very small with just a few family members only, was a traditional one. My second marriage was done at the court house with just my husband, myself and my 4 month old son. Remember, it is not...

4 Dec 08

Walmart Worker Trampled To Death Due To Black Friday Frenzy

pyewacket @pyewacket (43903) • United States 28 Nov 08

How utterly stupid! What is with people anyway? Yes, I know that the day after Thanksgiving is called Black Tuesday and when the supposedly best sales are held, but what is wrong with people that they have to act like animals? No,...

black friday frenzy

crazy shoppers

man trampled to death

pregnant woman

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ButterflyBear I heard this on the news and in fact came to MyLot just now and was going to post it myself but decided to look to see if someone else had first. Isn't it appalling that people can be so blindsided by saving a few dollars that they cannot even see the...

4 Dec 08

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What is your wish for your daughter?

Rocketj1 @rocketj1 (6955) • United States 1 Dec 08

As a mother, what would you wish for your daughter that you missed out on in your own life? What would you like for her to do or see or experience or feel that you did not have a chance to do in your life? What things that you...

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ButterflyBear I have two daughters. One is 21, married and has a daughter of her own. My other daughter just turned 11 years old. I wish both my daughters not only a life full of happiness but a life that is fulfilling and full of experiences that they choose is best for...

2 Dec 08

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This is heartbreaking.

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 2 Dec 08

This is why I don't watch the news anymore. I just got this alert from a friend when I signed into Myspace. I found the link on a local News website and am now in tears after reading it. An 18 year old mom and her 15 year old...

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ButterflyBear It is not only heart breaking but it is also devastating. How can a human being do such a thing to a child. I am right there beside you not being able to understand how not a single sole knew that this child was not only being left home alone all the hours...

2 Dec 08

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Do you share your computer with other members of your household?

apples99 @apples99 (6556) • United States 1 Dec 08

Hi I was wondering if you share your computer with other members of your family or maybe a roommate thankfully I dont have to share my computer with anyone besides I'm the only one other then my sister who knows how to use a...

sharing a computer

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ButterflyBear There are four people living in my household and each one of us has our own laptop so I do not have to share mine. We do though let each other use the others laptop if one wants or needs to.

2 Dec 08

Cheap, Used, Gifts

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45940) • United States 25 Nov 08

I often visit the local Goodwill store and Salvation Army in search of great bargains. I have actually purchased some items that will be given as gifts for Christmas this year. Yea, yea, I know....cheap! There will also be gifts...

frugal living

gifts

shopping

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ButterflyBear I have never bought anything that was used to give as a gift but I have bought something that was pre-owned. I make a lot of the gifts that I give as I find it to be less expensive. I have received some gifts that were used and I have never felt offended or...

1 Dec 08

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My happy ending

Denise_Tung @Denise_Tung (647) • China 30 Nov 08

Hey, dear mylot friends. Today I am reviewing my previous discussions and I feel so greatful to the frieds who gave me so much advice. I looked back and find things are exact tuning to the dangerous side if I hadn't backed...

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ButterflyBear The road you traveled might have been a difficult and confusing one at times but it led you to a path of honesty and that honesty brought you to a happy filled with happiness. An ending with happiness is always so heart warming. I wish you and your boyfriend...

1 Dec 08

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Do you logout after mylotting?

srganesh @srganesh (6340) • India 1 Dec 08

For days,I was not logging out after mylotting,because it is my own computer and nobody is supposed to use except me.Today,out of curiosity I typed my user name in Google search engine and went for a search.I saw srganesh-mylot as...

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ButterflyBear I do know that one can go to Google and type in a persons name and if that person has not asked to be removed from the Google search any and all information available on that person will show up. I did not know that the same could be done for user names so...

1 Dec 08