FayeSLongo

@FayeSLongo (306)

United States • Age 41

Joined myLot 16 years ago

Always be willing to share your smile; you never know who may need it.

FayeSLongo's Discussions

Mommy Milestones

FayeSLongo @FayeSLongo (306) • United States 16 Dec 09

This morning my best friend and I were discussing those moments in our lives when it struck us hard that we were definitely moms now. You know those moments that make you stop for a moment and really see the mother that you are....

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Are You Flexible?

FayeSLongo @FayeSLongo (306) • United States 14 Apr 09

My girlfriend and I were just talking about this and I'm still a little curious... When it comes to choosing friends and Your expectations of those friends, are you flexible or demanding? I'm pretty flexible. I expect my...

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Would date someone extremely less intelligent than you?

FayeSLongo @FayeSLongo (306) • United States 30 Mar 09

I have always found guys that are extremely less intelligent than me to be very unattractive. When I met my close friend Nick for the first time I thought he was very cute, but then he started talking and he was just SO ignorant,...

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Would you put her down?

FayeSLongo @FayeSLongo (306) • United States 30 Mar 09

I have a nine year old Rotty and Husky mix, she's a big fat licky thing and I love her so much. The problem is that she's had arthritis for the past four years and it's just getting worse and worse. Some days she can barely get up...

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New movie "Knowing" - What Do You Think About It?

FayeSLongo @FayeSLongo (306) • United States 30 Mar 09

I just saw this movie, it's the new one with Nicholas Cage and I loved it until the end. The whole alien thing was just too much for me. But overall it was a good film. It got me thinking and that is what art is supposed to do.

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What would you do if you had the power of invisibility for a day?

FayeSLongo @FayeSLongo (306) • United States 7 Feb 09

If I could be invisible for one day I would visit my closest friends and family to see what they say about me when I'm not around. I know that is SO childish but it's the first thing I thought of. After I got bored with that I'd...

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Does being in a relationship validate who you are?

FayeSLongo @FayeSLongo (306) • United States 30 Jan 09

My mother has always been with someone. After my step-dad was murdered she had a new boyfriend within two months and that is the longest she has been single since I was born. Does having a prtner really validate us as...

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You have one chance to better nutrition for everyone around the world...

How do you communicate with someone who is hurting you or hurtiing others?

FayeSLongo @FayeSLongo (306) • United States 30 Jan 09

I was reading this book by Pema Chodron and she asked this question. How would you communicate with a personj like that? Careful now, the question isn't what would you do or how would you REACT, it's asking how you would...

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Crappy, Cruddy, Friendships

FayeSLongo @FayeSLongo (306) • United States 11 Jan 09

I like to think that I am a good person. I'm compassionate and I always try to be helpful. However it seems that the friends I keep finding are always people of a different nature; they use me, they only come around when they need...

firends

friendships

not so good friends

people pretending to be friends

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I'm Only Human

FayeSLongo @FayeSLongo (306) • United States 9 Jan 09

As human beings can we ever achieve perfection or are we destined to always be flawed in some manner; not just as people but in our art, music, society, etc? Personally I think perfect is boring, normal is boring, it is our...

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I meant what I said and I said what a meant...!

FayeSLongo @FayeSLongo (306) • United States 9 Jan 09

This is one of my favorite quotes, it is simple and to the point and I really try to live by it. But how many others do? I don't know very many people who actually do what they say, they're always bailing out at the last moment,...

Free movie sites...?

FayeSLongo @FayeSLongo (306) • United States 8 Jan 09

I just discovered the great joy of watching movies online. I don't have to download them, most of them come in fairly well, and duh they're FREEEEE. I'm wondering however if the sites I'm visiting are legal? I'm not paying...

watch movies online free

watching movies online

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Which encourages better learning, understanding and relationships?

FayeSLongo @FayeSLongo (306) • United States 7 Jan 09

I was talking about this with my mother last night and I can't stop wondering about it. I'm wondering if you believe that children learn better through strict discipline and routine or creative play? Do they learn more from using...

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Have you ever given blood?

FayeSLongo @FayeSLongo (306) • United States 7 Jan 09

I've never given blood. They make it such a pain if you have any tattoos which I have, so I don't even bother anymore but they are always doing blood drives in my area. Have you ever given blood? Did you have any trouble? Tell...

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The age old question; How old is too old?

FayeSLongo @FayeSLongo (306) • United States 6 Jan 09

I have a five year old son and we are very close. His Dad has been in and out of his life since he was born so I kind of take on the roles of dad as well as mom, nurse, playmate, provider, and many others. My son started...

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Do you have a preference?

FayeSLongo @FayeSLongo (306) • United States 6 Jan 09

I've noticed that I tend to NOT respond to the "top" discussions - honestly I just don't like reading through all those replies. I stick to discussions with 12 replies or less and I like checking out the ones from my interests, my...

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Have you ever done this...?

FayeSLongo @FayeSLongo (306) • United States 6 Jan 09

I just spent so much time looking for the right category to start my discussion in that by the time I found it, I had totally forgotten what I was going to write! AUGHHHHHHHHH - what a pain in the a**!

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Have you ever put out a personal ad?

FayeSLongo @FayeSLongo (306) • United States 26 Dec 08

I have, just recently too. it's a very strange experience and I'm not sure if I like it yet. Have any of you put out personal ads, if so what was your experience like? If you haven't have you ever answered one or thought about...

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How important is it to 'tag' discussions, responses, or comments?

FayeSLongo @FayeSLongo (306) • United States 23 Dec 08

I know that it's important to tag new discussions but what about comments and responses? I always try to tag regardless of whether I'm responding or commenting and sometimes if I read through a discussion I'll just add tags to it...