Jess

@JJ4Ever (4693)

United States

Joined myLot 17 years ago

"You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." ~Dr. Seuss

www.busybutblessed.com

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What smaill business you would like to own if you get the chance?

jricky1 @jricky1 (6800) • China 17 May 12

I would say to open an ice cream shop.For i would focus on the tastes and also the atmosphere that bring to people.What do you think and i would like to hear you guys thinking? And probably this would not cost too...

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Jess An ice cream shop sounds like a lot of fun! I love going to Cold Stone for a cup or cone of ice cream. There's is the best! I would come to your ice cream shop if you had one. That just sounds like a really fun place to work! I actually have my...

29 Nov 12

Do a dog need a tail ?

Shan93 @Shan93 (39) • Sri Lanka 17 May 12

My mom said she is going to cut the tail of our cocker spaniel puppy.I don't like that but i cann't argue with my mom.She tells "I can't see the quality of the puppy with his tail." In many countries in the world cut tails of the...

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Jess Hi there, I'm not sure the way it's viewed in other countries and cultures, but here in America it probably depends on the breed of dog. I don't think many dogs have their tails cut. Just this summer I heard of certain types of dogs having their ears clipped....

29 Nov 12

Age difference of a married couple.

shibham @shibham (16977) • India 17 May 12

Hi everyone... Hope all of you are fine. All of us are well known about the age gaps of a married couple. Some couple give importance to it and some just ignore it. I am not so interested to think a lot about the age gap. In...

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Jess I think marriage depends on the two people involved, of course. So if there's a large age gap, but the marriage still works, then good for them! I think when a couple is younger, then the age gap more affects the relationship. In middle age, the age gap...

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What are haunted dolls?

scheng1 @scheng1 (24649) • Singapore 1 Jul 12

I read from a forum that a local gal has brought a haunted doll from a site in United States. Many people are warning her about it. Mainly due to the concern that a haunted doll is not easy to get rid of, and it might contained...

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Jess Hi Scheng, I live in the United States and hadn't heard of Haunted Dolls before now. However, it made me think of voodoo dolls, which are satanic in nature. I've heard never to have one in your possession because if someone makes a voodoo doll of you or for...

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what's the best way to contact you?

youless @youless (112481) • Guangzhou, China 1 Jul 12

I prefer people to contact me by SMS at first. Since I often keep the cellphone with me. It will not bother me even if I am busy. I can still read the SMS instantly and deal with it later. It is better than calling me.

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Jess I agree with you! I don't know what I would do without SMS / text messaging. I love it because I know who is trying to reach me, and their text is right there on the screen. It is so much faster than calling! All my friends and family know to text me because I...

29 Nov 12

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If you eat this , you will never lose weight. (a rant)

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 23 Aug 12

I heard this as I flipped From Dr. Oz to another channel. I believe he was talking about pizza. I thought wow! If a doctor told me this , I would say ok then I won't lose weight! What is so sad that many will not eat this certain...

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Jess I don't think you should stop eating what you love! When my allergist told me five years ago that I was allergic to chocolate, I laughed at him! Thankfully, I don't have a deadly reaction to the stuff, so I keep eating it...a little bit here and there, within...

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Getting a person to watch a film you love.

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 28 Aug 12

Have you ever tried to get a person to watch a film you love?I have. The best example of this was the time I got my mom to See Rear Window. It was re issued in a theater and I Needed to go see it. At the time I didn't travel to...

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Jess My husband and I haven't been to see a movie since we got married, so (I can't believe it) it's been over three years already! I don't twist people's arms to go see a movie with me unless I know without a doubt they'll love it. I've seen enough movies to...

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Hoping for the best?

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 28 Aug 12

Not me. I have always expect the worst and I am surprised when the best happens. And that is why I don't get nervous when others do. I just assume the worst. So I guess for me I reverse that old saying "hoping for the best but...

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Jess So how would your saying go then? I don't think it's wrong to expect the worst case scenario and then be surprised when something better happens. That means a lot of times, you will be pleasantly surprised! Other times - when it doesn't work out so well -...

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As Kosher as a Matzo Ball wrapped in bacon!

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 28 Aug 12

That's me! I try my best to follow my Jewish faith but.... there are few things I believe a traditional Jew Does not. And for staying Kosher? I am only Kosher 9 days out of the year. But I still am Jewish, right? Do you believe...

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Jess I think you're Jewish no matter what you do because that's the way you were born, right? So that does not change. However, I think your participation in a religion determines whether you are of that religion or not. That's the reason I don't like religion....

2 Sep 12

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Togetherness?

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 31 Aug 12

Do you believe that when you are a couple that you Have to spend every minute together? I don't. I love my guy but I know he needs time with his friends. And I need time apart sometimes.What do you think? Do you think you Must...

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Jess Couples absolutely do nothave to spend every moment with one another. I think there's a good balance between being together and hanging out with other friends. I love my hubby, but I'd get tired of seeing him all the time if we were together that much...

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Happy Lefthander's Day!

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 13 Aug 12

Do you know anyone who is lefthanded besides President Obama, Bruce Willis, Oprah , or President Clinton , or the senior President Bush? If so wish them a Happy Lefthander's Day! I'm lefthanded and so is my sister. Back in the day...

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Jess Sarah, now I know why we are such great friends! I'm lefthanded too! (I love that - we're the only ones in our "right minds." lol) I'm the only leftie of six kids, and so is my dad. We always shared that "joke" with each other, if you'd call it that. It was...

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Should Americans need Photo I.D. to vote?

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 20 Aug 12

It sounds simple enough but many see this as a way to discourage the poor and the brown and black Not to vote. When I heard Pennsylvania upheld this new law I didn't think of the poor or the non white. I thought about some Tea...

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Jess Hi Sarah, I guess I don't really look into this issue that deep. Requiring a photo ID to vote seems like a pretty typical requirement to me. It doesn't seem like the government is trying to control the votes, but that's not to say there aren't ulterior motives...

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Drama in TV and Real Life

ladyhemingway @ladyhemingway (965) • Philippines 16 May 12

I noticed that there are a lot of drama series showing on TV everywhere. Soap operas to be specific. While I watched some of these dramas especially those who are written by my scriptwriter friends, sometimes I find it tiring to...

drama

soap opera

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Jess I don't watch a lot of soap operas. I more prefer reality shows because they seem to be more realistic, (although who really knows lol). Like you said, soap operas can be really tiring and redundant. They would get really old really fast for me! However, I do...

26 Jul 12

Controlling People are Actually Pretty Dumb

NailTech @NailTech (6874) • United States 16 May 12

Ever notice how controlling people try to act "smart" when they are trying to control you and then are dumb with everything else? Is it just my own observations with a few people around me or is it other people like this too with...

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Jess When people act this way, I just ignore them. I don't like to associate with people like that. I think the main reason they try to control others is because they're insecure about themselves. There's probably something about themselves that they're not happy...

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My house got rented for a horro film, lol!

obe212003 @obe212003 (2299) • Philippines 16 May 12

Well, today my house was rented by one of the local movie productions here in our country, and my family is really excited. The movie making would take three days here in our house, and they would be renting it for a reasonable...

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Jess How exciting! What is the name of the movie? I haven't really heard of movie producers doing this too much, but that's pretty neat that your house was chosen. Does it bother you that your home was chosen for some of the set for a horror movie? LOL! I'm sure...

26 Jul 12

Coffee Shop Millionaire

whatrow @whatrow (792) • United States 18 Feb 12

Has anyone here ever heard of a program called "Coffee Shop Millionaire"? If you get any mail from them, delete it. The idea is that you earn money simply by taking your laptop computer to a coffee shop with WiFi. I am interested,...

coffee shop

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Jess I've never heard of this program before, but I would've done the same thing as SpikeTheLobster and looked it up on Google! Since the research has already been done, no Google search needed! Of course, my first reaction is always to check it out, and see what...

8 Jul 12

Your Personal Relationship with G-d.

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 19 May 12

I was just thinking that the relationship you have with G-d All depends on what Image and Message you expect from Him. Not that , like someone said to me, that you are making a G-d up, but that G-d is ready to come down in the...

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Jess Your first statement is most definitely true. If you view God as a Father figure, for instance, then you will have a father/daughter relationship with Him. Like you said, I don't think it means you "made up" God if you have your own image of Him. Everyone has...

2 Jul 12

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Thanks For Sharing! ( a mini rant)

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 18 May 12

I am watching t.v. when an ad about shingles comes on. They say " if you had chicken pox , then the shingles virus is in your blood." I think so I should open a vein and let it out! Then it says " the older you get the more likely...

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Jess I don't like finding out stuff like this either. It makes me depressed, especially in regards to our health! I've definitely already had chicken pox, so I'm a shingles carrier, apparently. Yes, I've heard things that I wished I never had. This is a silly...

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Jealousy, is it healthy?

DenverLC @DenverLC (1143) • Philippines 28 Jun 12

Is jealousy a twin of every relationship? Will a relationship survive longer with jealousy or even without it? When is it abnormal in a relationship?

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Jess I don't think jealousy is present in every relationship, but it's not uncommon. I think sometimes it can signify a lack of trust. However, other times it can be a good incentive for the two in the relationship to be faithful to one another and to treat the...

1 Jul 12

What do you have when watching a movie ?

valerious @valerious (222) • Indonesia 28 Jun 12

The average duration of the movies is about 2 hours. In 2 hours, we enjoyed the movie, especially if it is our passion movie. During the movie there will be time for us to munch snacks. so, what are the foods / drinks that you...

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Jess My passion is definitely movies! That's my way to relax in the evenings after work each day. My husband and I usually watch movies together at home, and we'll eat dinner at the same time. (It's very rare we eat a meal at the kitchen table lol!) I love to snack...

1 Jul 12

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