RebeccaLynn

@RebeccaLynn (2256)

United States • Age 51

Joined myLot 18 years ago

The beauty seen is partly in he who sees it ~Bovee

RebeccaLynn's Responses

Is it enjoying life to marry many times?

Oldsix691418 @Oldsix691418 (3872) • China 27 Mar 11

As we can see,many people get married more than once in China nowadays. Among my neighbours there's a man,who sells fish,after divorcing he has married more than 5 wives,but he's not rich.and there's another 80-year-old man,he...

family

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RebeccaLynn I don't think a lot of people respect marriage anymore. If their' spouse offends them, they just throw them away and get a new spouse. I think that this man just doesn't have what it takes to work on problems that arise in a marriage. Five times is a lot.

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I live in Japan. Terrible Earthquake, it was scarring.

katie0 @katie0 (5203) • Japan 11 Mar 11

Wow, can't believe this happened right here. At news we see the number of missing people raising all the time. I was so sad last night, so many people must have lost their beloved ones... There is fire that never ends and I saw...

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RebeccaLynn I am SO VERY SORRY for what is happening in Japan. It breaks my heart to see it on TV. What can I do to help? Are you and your loved ones safe?

13 Mar 11

Empty days

Suggar @Suggar (3606) • Bulgaria 4 Aug 10

Hello guys :) This day ended and i feel it was so empty, i even can't describe it :D Some cleaning, cooking 2 dishes, coffee two times today, washing clothes, sleep near the afternoon, fast shopping, movies, but i feel like...

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RebeccaLynn I think we all have those days when it feels like we're just going through the motions. When that happens to me I usually try to get outside for a few minutes to clear my head. Don't worry about the discussion you posted. It just means that someone else was...

4 Aug 10

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how to get your kids learn effectively?

Ifamous @ifa225 (14461) • Indonesia 17 Jan 10

i teach my kids every night to get a better score in his school, He is eight years old. But it seems, the lesson does not stay in his mind. His score still bad. What do i have to do to get the lesson learn effectively and he get...

learn

lesson

study effective

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RebeccaLynn I turned learning into a game for my children. They are tired after school - just like we are after a long day of work - so having fun is a nice break. With math, we added and subtracted things like jelly beans or M&Ms. When they got the answer right, they...

17 Jan 10

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The Deer

dreamertink @dfollin (25351) • United States 3 Sep 09

In Washington DC there is a very large wooded park that is overgrown with deer.Therefore the park authority said they see no way but to go in there with guns and kill the deer. I am sorry the wildlife was here long...

deer

progress

wildlife

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RebeccaLynn I'm sorry that you feel that way but I agree with the park rangers. When deer over populate an area - 81 an acre you say? - they soon run out of forage and become sick. Sicknesses spread through the whole population and that is why there is a need to keep the...

2 Oct 09

How do you handle criticisms or corrections?how do you react?

ezekiel71 @ezekiel71 (132) • United States 11 Jun 09

Me and my husband always have a discussion on how i handle his correction . Its not that i dont like to be corrected but its how you corrected me. I know its my pride that kicks in everytime i react when somebody criticise me or...

life

people

relationship

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RebeccaLynn Sometimes - as with my husband - it isn't what he says....it's how he says it. The quickest way to start a fight is to speak to someone like they are a little child and you are better than they are. That attitude has caused many fights between my husband and...

2 Oct 09

Why do people say that criticism is an act of gross and insulting ?

advokatku @advokatku (4033) • Indonesia 2 Oct 09

Have you ever been reprimanded for criticizing someone else ? I have experienced it and I was considered rude and insulting other people ... how about ?

criticism

friend

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RebeccaLynn Well, I'd say that criticism comes in two forms. The helpful kind that shows someone how to improve in an area and is delivered in a loving and gentle manner. Then you have the kind that is rude and meant more to hurt someones' feelings rather than be...

2 Oct 09

I am a major idiot

Breelyn @spicysweetie21 (2573) • United States 28 Sep 09

I knew I shouldn't have started anything so soon after my breakup, but it all was going so well, he gave me every single indication that he was into me. He complimented me on my looks and my personality, he called and texted all...

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RebeccaLynn Are you putting off a 'needy' vibe? My husband said that is the single biggest thing that turns men off. Could that be it?

29 Sep 09

To kill or not to kill the Raccoon...That is the question

stacysmomstl @stacysmomstl (397) • United States 21 Sep 09

For the past 5 years since I've lived in my present house, I have had a terrible time with critters. Mainly cats, but in the fall months into the winter months, I've had a terrible time with Raccoons. I have called every agency...

raccoons

wildlife

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RebeccaLynn Drown it? Wow! That just seems like a cruel way to kill an animal. I'd shoot it anyway. Or maybe you can lay out poison laced food in the places that they like to hang out. I know poison is mean too but atleast they would go off and die somewhere else.

21 Sep 09

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I Can't Believe They Did This to Her.......

Shar19 @Shar19 (8231) • United States 17 Sep 09

This is very disturbing to me. My cousin's mother passed away last week from a very long battle with cancer. The funeral was Wednesday. My cousin went back to work on Monday. While in work she was told that she no longer has a...

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RebeccaLynn I'm sorry to hear (read) about this but I know how she feeels to a certain extent. My husband was laid off without any notice. Not just him. It was around 20 men. We took our life in a new direction so he won't ever have to break his back to make another...

21 Sep 09

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Do you rent videos anymore? Redbox? BlockBuster? Netflix?

3SnuggleBunnies @3SnuggleBunnies (16374) • United States 21 Sep 09

We had not rented them for a long time as it seemed a waste of money. Plus, the Library was free, til you loose one of course then you could of bought the same one 2-3x for the price you paid the library @ Wal-Mart. So to me it's...

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RebeccaLynn I use Redbox all the time. It's only a 1.10 a night. That's cheaper than any other form of entertainment. I am considering netflix but I haven't made up my mind yet.

21 Sep 09

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Are you scared to buy expensive things online?

daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 18 Sep 09

I am new to online shopping. I have only bought two things till now and both of them were less than 10 dollar purchases. I am scared to buy expensive things because I wonder if the website deliver on time. If they don't deliver on...

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RebeccaLynn I buy online all of the time. Recently I bought some diamond and saphire jewelry online. I look for two things before I buy. 1. There has to be a contact number on the website and on my receipt (the one you print off after ordering) 2. It has to be on a...

18 Sep 09

How often do you sit around in your PJ's?

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 17 Sep 09

I don't leave the house a whole lot, so I spend more time in my pajama's than most people do. I don't immediatly get dressed in the morning. Most days I won't get dressed until I do plan to go somewhere. On days that I'm not going...

get dressed

pajamas

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RebeccaLynn Most days of the week I have to get dressed because I work but on the weekends, if I don't have to get out, you'll find me in my jammies. I love jammies!

18 Sep 09

America the Paranoid

youdontsay @youdontsay (3497) • United States 9 Sep 09

Have you noticed how fearful the American people seem to be these days? We don't seem to trust anyone and suspect everyone. It really has gotten out of hand in the politics of the time - Health Care debate and reaction to the...

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RebeccaLynn I have noticed. I also noticed that it was rubbing off on my children. They were becoming afraid of the silliest things. What did I do? I didn't bother to switch when the digital conversion happened. We no longer watch television unless it's a movie that I...

14 Sep 09

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Time Travel

hmkoct5 @hmkoct5 (2065) • United States 14 Sep 09

If you could go back in time and change one thing about your life, what would you change? I would change the fact that I dated the same person for eleven years, from the age of 13. I was so involved with this one person, that I...

change

life

mistakes

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RebeccaLynn Nothing. If I changed the tiniest thing then I wouldn't be where I am today or have what I have today.

14 Sep 09

Would you condemn someone you are not even acquainted with?

hwoarangpoy @hwoarangpoy (196) • Philippines 14 Sep 09

the father of my kids has this obnoxious ex girlfriend who until now tries to get even with us through his family. She has been harassing us since she learned that I bore him a child last year. She claims that we betrayed her for...

discrimination

rejection

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RebeccaLynn Um NO. What happened between you and the Father of your' child should stay between you and him. You don't owe her anything. If he chooses to share with her, then fine but she has no right to demand anything of you. I would approach the grandparents without...

14 Sep 09

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Indians want to eat non nutritious expensive western diets ,

sudheervm @sudheervm (210) • India 14 Sep 09

Indians want to eat non nutritious expensive western diets , Western love to eat nutritious indian foods . Am i correct ? Give me explanations .

indians westerns foods diets expensive nutritious

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RebeccaLynn I hope Indians change their' minds about eating a western diet or they'll end up a bunch of fatties just like it is here!

14 Sep 09

How do you respond when...

rg0205 @rg0205 (2636) • Hong Kong 14 Sep 09

someone leaves you a response that you don't understand or one that you think is dumb?

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RebeccaLynn I usually just say "Thank you very much", rate them positive and go about my business. It's really no big deal.

14 Sep 09

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