Shr416

@Shr416 (27)

India • Age 46

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Are you still stuck in the past?

snowstormz @snowstormz (220) • Australia 20 Dec 09

Have you ever experienced something really bad that you decide to lock it up deep inside, hoping that through time, it will gradually disappear?Well, i have been doing that for most of my life whenever i encounter something bad....

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Shr416 The best thing to do is to let those experiences out, rather than lock it up!! The best way to do that is to talk to a good friend, who is a good listener and who you can trust and count upon for support and advice. Locking things up wouldn't make it go away,...

20 Dec 09

Can you easily accept your mistakes?

daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 3 Oct 09

It is not easy for many people to accept their mistakes. My team leader has done many errors in her work and as a result I am working hard to resolve it. His mistakes added some extra work for me. By the way, she is not ready to...

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Shr416 You are right - most people find it hard to accept their mistakes, even if its obvious to they themselves!! But, personally speaking, I don't have hangups accepting my mistakes. I think its better to face up to your mistakes, even if you have to accept them in...

3 Oct 09

Can you say that you know all there is to know about your partner?

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 2 Oct 09

I do not think we will ever know all there is about anyone, as lately i have learnt more than i wanted about my partner and what i found out i was not and am still not happy about,what do you think?

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Shr416 I don't think anyone can know all there is to know about their partner. Basically, unless your partner is completely honest with you, you will never know, will you? And most people have secrets to hide, which they don't want to divulge, so there might be nasty...

3 Oct 09

Too little or too much?

worldwise1 @worldwise1 (14885) • United States 29 Sep 09

I was taught as a child that it is always better to do too much rather than too little. I have found that this attitude has served me well in everything I do. But lately I've been thinking about those who seem to always do too...

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Shr416 I really think you should address this situation right off, rather than wait. I mean if indeed she has not been doing her part for, say, a couple of weeks or so, I don't think she is going to start doing it all of a sudden (on her own). Perhaps, you can drop a...

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Do you check the expirty date always before having a medicine?

daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 30 Sep 09

Once I had vitamin tablets after expiry date. My Mom got the tablets for me and was keep on reminding me about having those tablets, but I didn't listen to her. After many days, I saw the tablets and I had it on a sudden without...

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Shr416 I've never had any medicine after the expiry date. I've been always careful to check on the expiry date before consuming any medicines. Its important that you do check on it, as there's a reason why they have that date. There is a shelf life for everything,...

30 Sep 09

Are you scared of darkness?

anweshadas @anweshadas (372) • India 30 Sep 09

I just realizeed yesterday that somewhere deep in me there is a fear of darkness. When it becomes dark at night, that is, there's a power cut at night I get all kind of stupid thoughts. I keep wondering how the same thoughts that...

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Shr416 I think the fear of darkness is inherent in human beings. Personally, I get scared too when it goes all dark. I am especially scared if there are those strange noises of insects and other animals outside and if I am totally alone in the house. I also start...

30 Sep 09

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Brush your teeth or chew gum?

gitfiddleplayer @gitfiddleplayer (10362) • United States 29 Sep 09

September 29, 2009 This is a dilemma I face; sometimes I'd rather just chew some gum then brush my teeth. Now I do brush my pearly whites twice a day (morning and evening) but after lunch I'll just smack on some gum call it good....

brushing

oral hygene

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Shr416 Well, I brush twice a day. In the mornings I brush after I've had my breakfast. That way, my teeth stay clean until I have some snacks in the office or until I have lunch. At night, I brush after my dinner and do not eat anything after doing so. As far as...

30 Sep 09

using headphones can cause damage to ears

umamahe @umamahe (99) • India 3 May 09

i heard from a magazine that if we are using headphone for more than 4hours daily it could lead to damage of ear drums or your earring capacity weakens!!! So please kindly refrain from sticking to headphone for longer time.

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Shr416 Hmm, I've heard that too, but I've given up on following that advice. So, I do the next best thing - I keep the volume as low as possible to minimize any potential damage to my hearing. I do think though that it is just not headphones that can do damage to...

30 Sep 09

It can't be time to get up..

Shar19 @Shar19 (8231) • United States 29 Sep 09

I went to bed late last night because I was up trying to find more ways to make money online. So by the time I went to bed it was 12:00. This is late for me since usually I'm in bed between 10 - 10:30pm. So anyway the alarm went...

bed

wake

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Shr416 We all have experienced that - haven't we? I've stayed up way beyond 12. Sometimes I've been up till 3 a.m. Thing is when you do stay up that late, the next day ain't funny at all. You never get adequate sleep and wake up grumpy or with a headache or feeling...

30 Sep 09

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Watch television (TV) everyday ?? Is it a need ?

shia88 @shia88 (4571) • Malaysia 29 Sep 09

Dear all MyLotters, I am wondering do all of you watching television everyday ?? Yes... I have to watch Television everyday,No Television a day, I can't stand it at all. I like to watch Singapore dramas everynight.Since I...

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Shr416 Well, I have to watch television all day. No television would be a tragedy for me - I would get withdrawal symptoms for sure!! There was a time when I didn't miss television as much, but now I just can't think of a day being complete without watching some!!...

30 Sep 09

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when your eyes feel tired and sleepy, what do you do?

arunmails @arunmails (3011) • India 29 Sep 09

[b]Hi buddies, what will you do, when reading a book or working with computer, if your eyes feel tired and sleepy what would you do? Myself, it depends upon the situation. If I have a work that to be completed fast then I...

sleepy

tired

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Shr416 Personally, I have tried a few things when I've encountered this problem, especially when I've had something important to complete. Walking or taking a stroll, for example, has worked for me. When I feel I going to doze off, I just get up and take a walk for...

30 Sep 09

Pls. tell me if you can call this cheating and why?

manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 29 Sep 09

A male co-worker of mine told be about his dream that he was in bed with our beautiful office secretary. He said it was real fun. The following day as he look at the secretary he remembers the dream and everything goes back to his...

cheating

dream

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Shr416 Well, personally I don't think its cheating! Its a fantasy, which I guess many people have and which normally doesn't harm anybody, unless of course you feel obsessed with making that fantasy a reality.

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are you a morning or a night person?

Swadey @Swadey (220) • Canada 29 Sep 09

i think that everyone in the world is either one or the other. i know that i am not a morning person me in the morning is just bad, if i am up in the morning i just want to be left along and do my buisness. i function alot better...

morning

night

people

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Shr416 Hmm, I guess I am a night person. I like the relative peace and tranquility of the night as opposed to the relative noise and chaos of the day. In terms of work productivity, I function a lot better in the mornings though. I tend to slow down in the afternoons...

30 Sep 09

if you were offered 20 million dollars or immortal life on earth what would u do

pudgles @pudgles (414) • United States 29 Sep 09

If You had the choice between 20 million dollars right now to strings attaced to do with what you will and live for as long as your life expectancy OR become immmortal what would you chose? Would you want the money to buy...

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Shr416 I'd probably take the 20 million dollars and live my life the way I always wished to live. Immortality is tempting, however, I am sure I'd be pretty much fed up and bored to death living on and on - especially if I have a hard time with my life. So, why not...

30 Sep 09

Do you believe that First Impressions are Lasting impressions of a person?

kiran8 @kiran8 (15348) • Mangalore, India 30 Sep 09

When we meet people for the first time we feel some vibes, either positive or negative or no vibes at all with some. The first impression, does make an impact and might in some cases pave a way for the future relationship between...

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Shr416 Well, it depends!! For example, if the first impression wasn't good, it might hamper future prospects of that relationship - if there have been no followup meetings of consequence to change that negative first impression sufficiently. However, if there have...

30 Sep 09

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Are You Hard To Please?

patofgold23 @patofgold23 (5069) • Philippines 29 Sep 09

No matter how I try to set my standards high, i could easily settle for less... I must say i am not a difficult person at all...and that's what my friends tell me too.. The simplest things in life could give me the...

hard to please

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Shr416 I am easy to please, as I consciously set my expectations low. Reason being I don't like getting disappointed! I also don't have unrealistic expectations from life. I am happy with what comes my way and don't brood over what doesn't! However, I am a...

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How you measured your success?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 29 Sep 09

There's a lot of people said that success can be measured depends on the persons measurement of success. For me I measured success through the quantity of the person that loves me. How about you, how you measure your own success?

measurement

success

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Shr416 From your own point of view, success can only be measured by how you feel about success and what your criteria is for success. Personally, for me, I would feel I am successful if I have reached most of the goals I had set for myself. If I am relatively happy,...

29 Sep 09

Do you believe that animals and human have soul?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 29 Sep 09

Whether you believe on God or not. Do you think you have souls as well as animals and why?

human

soul

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Shr416 I believe in God. There is no way all that we see today, the incredible complexity and diversity came into being on its own. Yes, I do believe in science too, but how did the origin of life come about? What was the process by which the first life forms come...

29 Sep 09

When you plan something in your life, do you prepare the plan B?

ibuemma @ibuemma (2953) • United States 29 Sep 09

People always call this alternative plan as the Plan B. And it refer to replace the plan A that doesn't work. So in your life do you always prepare the plan B for the worst scenario, or plan B just suddenly come up after your...

the plan b

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Shr416 I always do that - I always have a plan B in case plan A doesn't work out for me. I prepare a plan B always because I don't like getting caught off guard. Also, I don't like the feeling of being lost and having to think of a plan right then and there if my...

29 Sep 09

Should we fear of death?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 28 Sep 09

Most people are afraid of dying. Since it means the end of our life here on earth. We fear of losing our family and friends. But other said we should not afraid of death since it's not the end rather it's a beginning of a new life...

death

fear

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Shr416 Fear of death is normal and natural. However, death is also inevitable and therefore there is no point being in constant dread of death. It will happen one day and not necessarily depending on your age. Since fearing death will not change anything, I guess we...

29 Sep 09