ayvanee

@ayvanee (149)

Philippines • Age 35

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Do you think Valentine Day gifts are essential in a relationship?

viju0410 @viju0410 (2286) • India 9 Feb 12

hi friends, With the Valentine day around, I came across to some friends who are wondering and surfing a lot to find a perfect gift to impress their partners. Many of us would like to get and give gifts to our loved ones on...

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ayvanee Personally, gifts are surprising but I do not think it's necessary. There are a lot of ways to make your partner happy, not only by giving gifts. Little surprises like some NOT fancy dinner, something that could get an A for effort. Hehe. I personally think...

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people affecting you

telmesh @telmesh (1793) 28 Jan 12

Just wondering what persons or events have had the greatest effect on you and or your life. Does it last. My parents but mainly my mother has had the greatest effect on me and probably that would be the case for most people but...

changes

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ayvanee My grandparents had the greatest effect on me. They honed me into what I am now. They have taught me everything and thanks to them, I believe I am a good person. hehehe.

28 Jan 12

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did showtime philippines just end?

mavil85 @mavil85 (348) • Philippines 27 Jan 12

hello guys! although i dont watch showtime a lot, whenever i do i really enjoy. i just watched what seemed to be their last episode. I am not sure whether they ended or not but it seemed to me that they did. but why? the show...

showtime

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ayvanee Hello mavil85. That episode of Showtime was their ThankYou episode. It will be having its new format, and titled "It's Showtime". They will have the same hosts plus some other additionals. I am not really a fan but I love the hosts. I guess you can also feel...

28 Jan 12

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Are you able to love someone the same way as you loved before?

Princelierocks @Princelierocks (817) • India 24 Jan 12

Hey guys, I have some discussion to share with you. My thought is, when you love someone for the first time, everything seems so bright and good, you are even ready to forgive your partner for any mistakes they have done, the...

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ayvanee I have been through some relationships before already and I have to say, I have never loved anybody this way before. I am currently in a relationship. I've been in bad relationships, thinking that HE would be the one but I was wrong. I found someone better. Am...

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I am sweating..

champoy186 @champoy186 (1638) • Philippines 16 Jan 12

Hello everyone! This is one of my problems and I want to resolve this. I am always sweating after 5 or 10 minutes of taking a bath. I don't fee fresh going to the office every morning. I really hate this. What should I do?

perspiration

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ayvanee Hello champoy186, good day to you. I think you have to choose the right soap, or better yet, consult your dermatologist. You may have some hormonal problems. Good luck!

18 Jan 12

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no longer interested to love...

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 18 Jan 12

greetings to all mylot users and my friends,have you ever feel this way being not interested or no longer interested to love?why?what is your reason if it happens to you?i mean no shrink when someone offer their self to be your...

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ayvanee Yes, I have felt that way only because I decided to focus on something else-- making myself happier without a partner, and living life to the fullest without restrictions. Now, I have a boyfriend and I have to say I've never been happier. Of course you have to...

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i decide to trim my waist for this year....

Hazel Funcion @Zelmarq (12585) • Cebu City, Philippines 17 Jan 12

i started the year feeling fat and now i can see traces of that holiday eating eating and eating, now i have decided in my heart to trim my waist for a healthier life and a slimmer feeling with all the exercise that could help me....

waist trimming

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ayvanee Good day Zelmarq! Let me start off by saying... we have the same problem. hahaha. This has been my problem for quite some time now and for someone in her early adulthood, this is kind of a pressure. Yes, maybe others would say that we should love our body...

18 Jan 12

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Do you wish your first love as a wife or husband?

lovedude @lovedude (4447) • India 15 Jan 12

Mostly people tell that your first love is your best love.. everyone wishes that he/she never has to face break up and his or her first love will be converted to life partner.. do you believe the same?

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ayvanee Yes, I think everyone wishes that their first love be their last love but that isn't the case all the time. There are many first loves that don't flourish. So, first love doesn't really matter, what matters most is the last love. ;)

15 Jan 12

Don't know what to do about my mother

greenowl @greenowl (71) • Sweden 15 Jan 12

Or rather, there is nothing to do. She has Alzheimers and is sometimes behaving really strange. Today she was at church, I wasn't there, but my son was there. Suddenly she felt that God told her to go up in front of the church...

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ayvanee My Grandmother also has Alzheimers and I would have to say that this condition is very hard to handle. She has tantrums and crying spells everyday. She throws things, and calls everyone she sees on the streets. She keeps on shouting for help even if there are...

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Silicone Implants After Mastectomy

Graceekwenx @Graceekwenx (3160) • Philippines 5 Jan 12

Friends. My sister would be undergoing radical mastectomy next week in order to control her tumor cells. The doctor has offered to do reconstructive surgery and put on silicone implants. I told her, "dont grab it because such is...

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ayvanee Good day Graceekwenx! Yes, I guess having silicone implants is just for vanity but it would help her cope up with her situation. Waking up with one chest isn't easy I guess and silicone implants could help boost her self confidence again.

5 Jan 12

Spicing up the relationship

moakamsg @moakamsg (114) 5 Jan 12

Hello, Me & my husband have been married for 2yrs. and have been together for 6 yrs, we now have two small children. We have very busy schedules and try to make as much time for each other as possible but that rarely happens...

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ayvanee Good day moakamsg! Truly, that is a difficult task, balancing time with the husband, children and work. To make your husband happy, I guess you have to cook him meals and have play time together with your children. You could also schedule some alone time...

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one of my dreams ...

abhi285 @abhi285 (159) • India 5 Jan 12

I really want to make a difference. I think this is a field that will never dry out ever. Considering the overall scenario of humanity in today's world we have a lot of things that really need attention and someone or something to...

life

making a difference

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ayvanee Well one of my dreams is to make CHANGE in every aspect. Not only for myself but also for my country and the world. Well that may be too big of a dream but that is what I want and I am still waiting for the day when that could be made possible.

5 Jan 12

No Love life = Lonely Christmas?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 22 Dec 11

Why do people say this often, that when you are single, your christmas is not happy? I think there is no truth in this. Christmas is a celebration of Christ's birthday and not for people to have partners, etc. We have our family...

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ayvanee Partners shouldn't be the only reason to celebrate Christmas. There are a lot of things to be happy for on Christmas. Maybe those people depend on their partners too much, and that's just wrong. Christmas is celebrated because it is the birthday of Jesus...

23 Dec 11

Eye Sty

stuckonu @stuckonu (726) • Philippines 21 Dec 11

Waahhh! I have an eye sty (or commonly known as kuliti in Tagalog). I cannot remember the last time that I have had this eye disease. But it was painful. I thought my eye was just swollen but I realize now that it was a sty. Do...

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ayvanee A sty, medically termed hordeolum is caused by an infection of the eyelids. This usually happens when the glands of the eyelids are clogged. To treat the sty, you just have to apply warm compress to the area for 10 to 15 minutes. You can also have yourself...

21 Dec 11

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Tell us about little kind deeds done by you and others that mean a lot ...

whiteheron @whiteheron (4222) • United States 20 Dec 11

What kind things have you done that look small but that you know make a difference? What seemingly small kind deeds have others done that made a difference in your life? What little kind deeds do you encourage others to...

kind things others do

kind things you do

little kind deeds

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ayvanee I have already done that clicking for grains. I was inspired and I have to say, I clicked all day! Hello whiteheron! I am a registered nurse and I know that there are a lot of things that we do that makes a difference. Just by the simple tapping of...

21 Dec 11

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You will get sick if no water supply in your body!

befrindwithme26 @befrindwithme26 (5805) • Philippines 21 Dec 11

Water is the most need in the body,if no proper drinking of water, the body don't have proper cleansing. We will get sick if there is no water supply, and even in times of calamity like floods it is hard to find water in your...

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ayvanee Yes you will get sick because of dehydration. Water is a very essential component of our body. With this, yes, water is badly needed in Cagayan de Oro right now. I hope we can all help. You can send your donations through LBC for FREE. I hope we can all help...

21 Dec 11

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I saw --- I added--- and went crazy about her

rahularya @rahularya (65) • India 17 Dec 11

few days back I saw a girl in one Social networking site.She was so beautiful that i cannot stop myself from adding her and now she is everything to me...but dont know how to tell her

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ayvanee You should not take this thing too seriously. Most relationships that start online do not end up well, so think if it is worth it. Good luck!

18 Dec 11

I want to spend my life alone.

boyuancy @boyuancy (1708) • India 15 Dec 11

I have heard people say that they want to have a family, lots of friends, children, grandchildren and what not. I want to have friends but I cannot have a family. By the end of my life, I want to be alone, not with anybody,...

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ayvanee I have never imagined myself living alone. I want a family and lots of kids to be with me when I am old. My grandmother has Alzheimer's, when I think about myself getting old, Alzheimer's always comes to mind. What if I would have it? What if no one would...

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turning off the lights of the house when carlors are near by :)

davaome @davaome (1826) • Philippines 15 Dec 11

I have seen this happen in our subdivision back when I was young. we Usually have this issue of having the carolers repeatedly come back to our house maybe twice or thrice a day, and this was the only way for us to to not...

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ayvanee I am so guilty. It's not because I do not want to give the needy... Personally, I think it is irritating because most carolers go back again and again on the same night.

15 Dec 11

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