bharbee1126

@bharbee1126 (85)

Philippines • Age 45

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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marriage without a child..

estremms @estremms (324) • Philippines 20 Oct 12

what would you do? would you adopt or just accept that only the two of you together till death do you part?

relationships

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bharbee1126 People involved in a marriage like this should consult each other. It must be a decision that will make both of them happy. Some couples do adopt, thinking that it's a way of saving a marriage. But some couples decided to be living just with each other,...

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how to obtain real happiness?

gentox @gentox (38) • Philippines 18 Oct 12

How to obtain real happiness? me my self did not know how to obtain the real happiness, i always go outside in order to gain happiness is that okay or is it a kind of wasting a time of doing nonsense?

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bharbee1126 Going out with friends could bring happiness but it's temporary. To obtain a real happiness in life, a person should know how to appreciate thing they have. And also being a positive person can make you real happy. So stay positive with your outlook in life...

20 Oct 12

Trust

Swertville88 @Swertville88 (8) 20 Oct 12

Can you fully trust someone again who has broken that trust? Is it worth to trust someone again after what he has lied and done something to break that trust?

lie

relationship

trust

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bharbee1126 I cannot easily trust again a person who broke that trust. It will always be hard to fully trust again someone who has broken it. You may trust him again, but on certain things only. Trust is earned. Ones you had it, and broke it, it could take a lifetime to...

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Cartoons and animated series... how they have changed over time!

blimb @grkelly (1206) • Malta 20 Oct 12

When I was a young kid I used to watch cartoons just as kids do nowadays. But i feel there is a key difference. Cartoons twenty years back used to be drawn so much more beautifully and were more aesthetically pleasing than those...

cartoons

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bharbee1126 I also noticed the difference. Actually I just did when one morning I watched a cartoon with my daughter. And I realized that there was really a big difference, I even told her. I even said to my daughter, that cartoons before are more fun and kids can learn...

20 Oct 12

What will u do if a person whom u love cheats u?

rahularya @rahularya (65) • India 14 Jan 12

If a person whom u love more than anything else cheats u and breaks ur heart what will u do?will u take revenge or simply live with broken heart

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bharbee1126 If a person whom I love more than anything else will break my heart, never will I take a revenge. Because I believe in karma, a good one for a good did and a worse karma for a bad did. At first, I know that I will surely live with a broken heart, but that...

20 Oct 12

I dönt know why, but i dont love my life

rahularya @rahularya (65) • India 29 Jan 12

I have heard people saying that life is exciting,they have started loving their life.but in mine there is not like that. I dont have anything that can make me happy.dont knw where leads to me

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bharbee1126 There are some people find themselves unhappy with their lives. For some reason, they don't seem to realize how beautiful life has to offer. My friend, not all the people that you sees to be happy or excited with their lives have everything they wanted. If...

20 Oct 12

Which sites is most worthful for u apart from mylot in terms of earning money?

rahularya @rahularya (65) • India 14 Oct 12

From which site u r earning maximum without investment.is there any site where u r earning more than 10$ per month

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bharbee1126 Hi I've been away from mylot for quite a long time, because aside from this, the most legit site that I am working online is at odesk. You may try to register on the site, and search for jobs which is suitable to your capability.

20 Oct 12

How to improve leadership qualities

rahularya @rahularya (65) • India 20 Oct 12

What are the thing that are required to improve leadership qualities.apart from knowledge and confidence what are the most required things that can improve your leadership

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bharbee1126 To improve leadership requires improving oneself. Just like a good leader should also be a good follower. If a person is not a good follower, he should improve himself to be a good follower first to be a good leader. From there, improving leadership follows as...

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Giving in to a partner

sammy14 @sammy14 (834) • Philippines 18 Nov 10

In your relationship, who between you gives in in times of quarrel or misunderstanding.. Do you easily give in even if you think that you are correct or did not start the fight.. For you guys do you give in easily so that the...

giving in

partner

symbiosis

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bharbee1126 Hi. Before, my hubby most of the time gives in everytime we argue. But, he made me realized that it is not always the man who should always gives in during arguements, but woman should also learn to give in, especially when it is really her fault. And I agreed...

18 Nov 10

i dont understand her!!

maebelle @maebelle (190) • Philippines 1 Nov 10

its really so weird that i was the one being betrayed and now im still the one suffering of her doings... i thought she's the one who must reached for me but its vice versa and i always texted her and she didnt reply... i felt so...

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bharbee1126 With what you have shared... it seems that you've done your part already and don't feel stupid about it. Don't push yourself too much in trying to make her talk to you, it might turn things worst between you. Give yourself a break, time may not be right for...

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bestfriend...a friend forever? or could be a lover?

Lannie0909 @Lannie0909 (11) • Philippines 31 Oct 10

Hello guys... I have a friend who happens to be my bestfriend. We shared laughters and tears. We helped each other to solve even our personal problems. He always listen to me and give me advices. I am also there for him when he...

bestfriend

friend

lover

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bharbee1126 It's always good to know that you have the best friend you can always lean on. You said it's like you're going to a higher level of friendship... as for me yeah good friends can be lovers, and good if it worked out until the end... what about lovers? i dont...

1 Nov 10

Do you like raisins when it is being cooked?

pinkhawk7 @pinkhawk7 (229) • Philippines 1 Nov 10

Raisin or dried grape can be eaten raw or used in cooking and baking but I prefer to eat it raw rather than when it's being mixed in a dish. I just end up, separating them on my plate (...and I have to avoid my mother's glare when...

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bharbee1126 I prefer it raw also... i really dont like the taste when it's cooked or mixed with other dishes like salad.

1 Nov 10

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LOVE??how it affects your work

blackcloud @blackcloud (97) • Philippines 30 Oct 10

Does really love makes your work great or sometimes bad???or even worse???so for your experience that happened have you encounter such things in work that love affects it.

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bharbee1126 I think this is true. But it has different affects depending on how you feel. When love gives me a great feeling, my performance at work are even greater. When it gives a bad feeling, my work is my tool to keep me busy and forget about the bad feeling. On both...

30 Oct 10

I have moved out :( Hugs?

GemmaR @GemmaR (8517) 30 Oct 10

So, I don't know if many of you will have read my discussions in the past, but around four months ago I moved in with my boyfriend. Basically, I just started getting incredibly homesick, so I plucked up the courage yesterday to...

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bharbee1126 Here's a hug for you my friend! It's good that you were strong enough to move-out... and I think you really are so young for it. Atleast, you be will careful the next time you do it.

30 Oct 10

Stubborn Kid???

babyEj @babyEj (1522) • Philippines 22 Oct 10

My son is just two years old but he is so stubborn most of the time. he likes to do what he wants. Whenever , I discipline him it seems that I am ignored. He doesn't listen to me and think everything was just a play. Yes, he's too...

adjustment

playful

stubborn

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bharbee1126 I think kids at that age are quiet stubborn. It's the stage of being curious in everything around them. But keep reminding them the good values.

30 Oct 10

Will You Hate the One Who Broke Your Heart Indefinitely

Toni @toniganzon (72281) • Philippines 20 Oct 10

I had my heart broken two years before I got married. At that time I was thinking that the only way to forget him is to hate him and blame him for everything. I knew at that time that I had feelings for him but he was the one who...

broken heart

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bharbee1126 Hatred is really the best tool to forget the person who broke your heart and to easily move on. But i don't see it to last forever for me also. Because happiness lies with what's inside your heart. And if i get the chance to see the person who broke my heart,...

30 Oct 10

male or female boss

cyrri_ako @cyrri_ako (461) • Philippines 29 Oct 10

i have already experienced working with a male or gay boss, and i could say that it's better if they would be your boss. i'm a woman too , and i have nothing against women being the boss. but as per experience, men/gays are easy...

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bharbee1126 Same with you friend. I am a woman, but i prefer a male/gay for my boss. Based on my experienced working for almost 10 years in different firms and having different bosses, most of my boss were male and they really like my performance. My experience having a...

30 Oct 10

Can Success be equated with Money?

amit066 @amit066 (41) • India 30 Oct 10

Friends,We know,money is important in life.Is it personal perspective or is it universal? how far a success can be related to money? Is money is the only measure of Success? Well,what is your opinion? Is there any room for...

money

success

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bharbee1126 On my opinion, money will never be a measure of success. A lot of rich people around the world, but who are those who commits suicide? Isn't more are coming from the higher society. They may have lots of money but not all of them are successful. Success can...

30 Oct 10

What type of a boss do you hate/don't prefer?

daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 29 Oct 10

When I started this job 3 weeks ago, I was a little nervous about the type of supervisor I will have (she was not present when I was inteviewed). My only prayer was not to get an over doninating boss. I am very happy when I found...

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bharbee1126 I hate boss who would show you so much appreciation in front of other departments/officemates, where as in-fact, hates you in reality. Especially when it's only the two of you were left alone in a workplace. In short, hypocrite boss!

30 Oct 10

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Loving oneself before "LOVING"others

raven66 @raven66 (335) • Canada 29 Oct 10

I was just thinking about what others really mean by these words.

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bharbee1126 Loving oneself for me is very important. You should love yourself first, because loving others may cause you pain and might break your heart into pieces. This happens when loving even family, friends and anyone else. If you love yourself, this will help you...

29 Oct 10